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[HomerC]

Had messaged me when I had an active profile on SA. Not 100% if a girl from the pictures ...

Anyone that tall might as well be a man

[HomerC]

i’ve also mentioned this before. why do you lot keep linking pros on this thread? just go on AW for that. maybe someone should do a sticky on how to distinguish pros vs civvies

In many cases people think they are amateurs... until someone else finds their AW profile or recognises them.

[Flush]

Anyone seen these two ladies:

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This one is quoting 700:

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[Lyosha]

This girl contacted me asking to meet, ppm leading to an allowance, she didn't say how much but I suggested 200/300 depending on the length and she seems fine with it.

Keeping my eyes open for the minute, anyone recognise her?

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[massagepuntingfan]

PPM rates seem all over the shop at the moment. Agreed £300 with a lady a few days ago who then decided two days later she wanted £500 - I cancelled. Did a video call with a very naughty looking lady(first time on seeking), great chemistry in the chat, agreed to meet and then began PPM negotiations and she wanted £1000 PPM! Its a bit of a shit show at the moment.

[Flush]

PPM rates seem all over the shop at the moment. Agreed £300 with a lady a few days ago who then decided two days later she wanted £500 - I cancelled. Did a video call with a very naughty looking lady(first time on seeking), great chemistry in the chat, agreed to meet and then began PPM negotiations and she wanted £1000 PPM! Its a bit of a shit show at the moment.

There are less men meeting up at the moment. It looks like they are factoring that into their decision. I have had the same issue, there is a busty hottie that quoted me 300 quid, then switched up to 500. After I mentioned that we had already agreed 300, she said times have changed  And alot of legit girls have de-activated their accounts as well. I am not sure that Valentines discount was even worth, it right now it's a complete shitshow.

[massagepuntingfan]

There are less men meeting up at the moment. It looks like they are factoring that into their decision. I have had the same issue, there is a busty hottie that quoted me 300 quid, then switched up to 500. After I mentioned that we had already agreed 300, she said times have changed  And alot of legit girls have de-activated their accounts as well. I am not sure that Valentines discount was even worth, it right now it's a complete shitshow.

Exactly the same as me. Spoke on the phone on Monday, said £250 was my going rate, she confirmed she wanted £300, everything agreed - then left a voice note saying that she felt £500 was fair as she was travelling to me. I said no, she then wanted £400, then came down to £300 plus uber home(just out of London). The negotiations left a bad taste so I politely cancelled. My concern is she's greedy and wouldn't be into our meeting as she feels she's worth more than our initial agreement. She was also curvy/busty - was your lady Blonde/Irish by chance?

[Ron89]

Smashed a 7/10 Canadian bird from seeking for free the other night, there’s definitely a percentage of girls on there just curious looking for fun amongst the lockdown boredom. Got a couple more who seem similarly unbothered by the money aspect.

[Bobbins1973]

Smashed a 7/10 Canadian bird from seeking for free the other night, there’s definitely a percentage of girls on there just curious looking for fun amongst the lockdown boredom. Got a couple more who seem similarly unbothered by the money aspect.

I find the students who are over here are easier and more realistic - I spent 2 nights with a Canadian in Manchester for free - just food and drink
Shame she has gone but had same experiences with other nationalities

[Wowgeek]

This girl contacted me asking to meet, ppm leading to an allowance, she didn't say how much but I suggested 200/300 depending on the length and she seems fine with it.

Keeping my eyes open for the minute, anyone recognise her?

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We chatted in the New Year. She suggested £300-£500 per meet in an hotel near her in North London. I said that was too rich, sad she just said ok. No renegotiation, just went quiet.

[NightKid]

Had messaged me when I had an active profile on SA. Not 100% if a girl from the pictures ...

She's a girl, I've met her a few years back so I mainly engaged to see if she's matured as she already had a massive attitude problem back then ... guess some things just never change 

We chatted in the New Year. She suggested £300-£500 per meet in an hotel near her in North London. I said that was too rich, sad she just said ok. No renegotiation, just went quiet.

You need to come up with a counter offer after she opens dude - usually that's where you halve whatever she quotes and negotiate from there.

[Cunning Punt]

Exactly the same as me. Spoke on the phone on Monday, said £250 was my going rate, she confirmed she wanted £300, everything agreed - then left a voice note saying that she felt £500 was fair as she was travelling to me. I said no, she then wanted £400, then came down to £300 plus uber home(just out of London). The negotiations left a bad taste so I politely cancelled. My concern is she's greedy and wouldn't be into our meeting as she feels she's worth more than our initial agreement

This is exactly it.

Sooo many reasons for not going ahead.

It's too much money alone, and the fact she's agreed, then reneged and demanded more leaves a sour taste and it's a matter of principle.

She won't be 'into' the sex or meet. She's money orientated and not doing it fun, and, as you say, thinks she's 'worth' more. So she'll probably flake on you if she gets a better offer.

And yes you've probably been speaking to the same girl or 2 girls that swap notes.

[massagepuntingfan]

This is exactly it.

Sooo many reasons for not going ahead.

It's too much money alone, and the fact she's agreed, then reneged and demanded more leaves a sour taste and it's a matter of principle.

She won't be 'into' the sex or meet. She's money orientated and not doing it fun, and, as you say, thinks she's 'worth' more. So she'll probably flake on you if she gets a better offer.

And yes you've probably been speaking to the same girl or 2 girls that swap notes.

Indeed. No way would she be into the meeting if she wasn't getting what she asked for in her renegotiation attempt. It was poor form and not a difficult decision to cancel the meet. TBH she's on the classier scale of things, hot as fuck but not in a slutty way, early 30's and clearly has a high opinion of herself - I was initially surprised when she came up with £300 to counter my £250, thought she'd come in much higher. She's probably a bit rusty!

[Lone-punter]

This one is quoting 700:

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I chatted with her on AW, perhaps lives in East London area, appeared as a pro and agreed to 250 ppm. I however decided to give her a pass.

[DeanoDeano]

HomerC - I’m not really sure what you’re after here?

Not trying to be rude I just don’t get it.

[dpicardsalvage]

Just wanted to thank this thread just arranged my first meet with a student (not in london but area I am in is a lot quieter so really took some patience and the thread is dead so hope you don't mind)

Read the whole thread three times the tips were great especially the clear guidelines a few posters have kindly mentioned.

Think it is a catch 22 there are very few girls in or near my area but from the conservations I have had they are not inundated with messages like it sounds like they are in London.

good luck all

[massagepuntingfan]

Yes I agree - it’s a bit much, give the girl some privacy.

[anotherwoody69]

Anyone seen these two ladies:

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Romanian.....what could possibly go wrong 

[HomerC]

HomerC - I’m not really sure what you’re after here?

Not trying to be rude I just don’t get it.

Okay, fair enough - moderators please delete all photos

Deano - I thought she might be the girl that robbed/extorted you?

Update - Ive reported my posts above to a moderator so they will hopefully be deleted.

[Kev40ish]

Okay, fair enough - moderators please delete all photos

Deano - I thought she might be the girl that robbed/extorted you?

Update - Ive reported my posts above to a moderator so they will hopefully be deleted.

You cannot just post any pictures and links and also say “ I found more pics of this bird (or someone who looks just like her)”

Use your common sense

[HomerC]

@ Kev40ish - I worded it like that in case she has an identical twin or something. 

As Deano Deano doesn't want to pursue it then of course I'll let it lie. But let's not forget she extorted him for money. She no doubt has problems. I don't want her to traumatise anyone else on, but I do agree she deserves privacy.

Worst night of my SA life so far.

Fucking hell.

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Hiya126 London / Morden / Wimbledon

DO NOT ENGAGE.

I met her for a drink this evening, all seemed to be going ok so after a bottle of wine we agreed to go back to my place.

Then she suddenly went bonkers, maybe drugs, was happy to get naked, then stopped me touching her, at which point I said it was time for her to leave and got her an uber. While we were waiting for the cab to arrive, she started getting aggressive, demanded the full allowance payment of £200, i said I;d give her £100 just to get her to leave, then when the cab arrived she insisted on another £20 otherwise she'd tell the driver I'd forced myself on her and would make a scene.

It's a sobering reminder that people may have mental issues or just be malicious. In her case it looks like it might be the former?

So yeah, let's give her privacy, but let's also warn other punters to stay well clear of her.

Blokes kill themselves over false accusations like this. She contacted me directly so I feel like I ought to warn others to be careful.

[massagepuntingfan]

From what I’ve seen your intentions are decent but at times on this thread you come close to crossing the line. I remember it wasn’t long ago that you were asking for advice on meeting your first SD. But now you act as some sugaring sleuth who spends too much time reading between the lines. The real experience lies in the arrangement themselves. Every girl is different, that’s why no arrangement is the same. Maybe take a break from the detective work and find yourself an easy, fun and rewarding arrangement that puts a smile on your face.

[DeanoDeano]

Plus this is an open thread which anyone can access.

I’m fairly sure my warning was only posted in the closed one.

As for “wanting to take things further” this happened a long time ago, and I very much treated it as a case of caveat emptor, as you have to with all things on SA.

No need to go over this endlessly, someone asked for feedback, it was provided, let’s not bang on about it any more.

[Link7]

Anyone seen these two ladies:

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This one is quoting 700:

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The Rom is a guaranteed waste of time (if she's even in the uk) - but come on, you already know that 

The other one is off her rocker. Will not get 700 in a month of Sundays. Maybe let her realise this in her own time and go back with 200 later*

*EDIT (having read her profile): or just bin her off. She sounds pretty charmless and there's better looking out there.

[londonroad]

PPM rates seem all over the shop at the moment. Agreed £300 with a lady a few days ago who then decided two days later she wanted £500 - I cancelled. Did a video call with a very naughty looking lady(first time on seeking), great chemistry in the chat, agreed to meet and then began PPM negotiations and she wanted £1000 PPM! Its a bit of a shit show at the moment.

In my experience the genuine new SBs have no idea what ppm to ask for. Many start off asking for £400 or more but with some negotiation can usually get agreement at £200/£250. Is a buyers market at the moment and expect it will remain that way for sometime - especially in London with income levels having dropped so much.

[martini2429]

In my experience the genuine new SBs have no idea what ppm to ask for. Many start off asking for £400 or more but with some negotiation can usually get agreement at £200/£250. Is a buyers market at the moment and expect it will remain that way for sometime - especially in London with income levels having dropped so much.

You are right, they haven't a clue what to ask, it's all down to these so called influencers on You Tube telling them what to ask for, they will soon work out that asking for a ppm of £1000 isn't going to work, so their price will start to drop just as fast as their knickers 

 

[The888]

Smashed a 7/10 Canadian bird from seeking for free the other night, there’s definitely a percentage of girls on there just curious looking for fun amongst the lockdown boredom. Got a couple more who seem similarly unbothered by the money aspect.

Fully echo this.

If say 6 out of the 10 or so I've met si.ply didn't want cash at all. Dinner, drinks and a decent hotel for the night was all it took.

On all occasions the sex was good too.

Think a fair share was just an uncomplicated fuck and access to a night out they couldn't afford ordinarily.

I'm.happy to oblige!

[Lyosha]

Fully echo this.

If say 6 out of the 10 or so I've met si.ply didn't want cash at all. Dinner, drinks and a decent hotel for the night was all it took.

On all occasions the sex was good too.

Think a fair share was just an uncomplicated fuck and access to a night out they couldn't afford ordinarily.

I'm.happy to oblige!

Sorry if this is covered elsewhere in this thread but I've read a few pages back and don't fancy trawling all 57 pages!

What's your approach to finding these girls - by profiles, or how you run the conversations?

[finn5555]

Fully echo this.

If say 6 out of the 10 or so I've met si.ply didn't want cash at all. Dinner, drinks and a decent hotel for the night was all it took.

On all occasions the sex was good too.

Think a fair share was just an uncomplicated fuck and access to a night out they couldn't afford ordinarily.

I'm.happy to oblige!

Your either lucky or in fantasy land 

[NightKid]

Your either lucky or in fantasy land 

Or a drug dealer 

[Cunning Punt]

Fully echo this.

If say 6 out of the 10 or so I've met si.ply didn't want cash at all. Dinner, drinks and a decent hotel for the night was all it took.

On all occasions the sex was good too.

Think a fair share was just an uncomplicated fuck and access to a night out they couldn't afford ordinarily.

I'm.happy to oblige!

Your either lucky or in fantasy land 

Or a drug dealer 

Or Richard Gere when he was 30.

One may get the odd 'freebie' but more like 1 out of 15 or 20 occasions - and even then one would be lucky if she's 6 out of 10 looks-wise!

[massagepuntingfan]

I've had just 2 in 3-4 years.

[Cunning Punt]

I've had just 2 in 3-4 years.

Ditto. Exactly.

[HomerC]

Fully echo this.

If say 6 out of the 10 or so I've met si.ply didn't want cash at all. Dinner, drinks and a decent hotel for the night was all it took.

On all occasions the sex was good too.

Think a fair share was just an uncomplicated fuck and access to a night out they couldn't afford ordinarily.

I'm.happy to oblige!

Lucky you! You probably get a lot of lays from Tinder and Bumble.
You are probably a 6'9" Chad
Some SBs on Plebbit were complaining that more people are treating Seeking like a dating site.

[HomerC]

I've seen profiles where the SB states that she is looking for a "man who knows how to please a woman".

Should I be honest and say :
1. I'm barely a man and
2. not very good at sex.


I don't see the point in lying.

Or should I feign confidence and wear a suit? I'd rather just be myself.

[finn5555]

Or a drug dealer 

Shouldn’t sample his own products makes him hallucinate 

[Cunning Punt]

I've seen profiles where the SB states that she is looking for a "man who knows how to please a woman".

Should I be honest and say :
1. I'm barely a man and
2. not very good at sex.

Most girls on SA who say that are usually referring to a man giving them what they want in material terms and outings etc, rather than sex.

[Link7]

Fully echo this.

If say 6 out of the 10 or so I've met si.ply didn't want cash at all. Dinner, drinks and a decent hotel for the night was all it took.

On all occasions the sex was good too.

Think a fair share was just an uncomplicated fuck and access to a night out they couldn't afford ordinarily.

I'm.happy to oblige!

As others have said - no, you haven't had 60% freebies. You may look like Chris Hemsworth, but that would simply give you access to the best looking women.

Ultimately, guys go on the site knowing that they have to pay. And the girls go on there knowing it too. So they'll ask for money much, much more often than not, no matter how amazing you are. Just common sense - why turn down cash when it's already assumed (on both sides) to be on the agenda?

[stevee]

Fully echo this.

If say 6 out of the 10 or so I've met si.ply didn't want cash at all. Dinner, drinks and a decent hotel for the night was all it took.

On all occasions the sex was good too.

Think a fair share was just an uncomplicated fuck and access to a night out they couldn't afford ordinarily.

I'm.happy to oblige!

Dream on mate !!

[Hantsolo]

Fully echo this.

If say 6 out of the 10 or so I've met si.ply didn't want cash at all. Dinner, drinks and a decent hotel for the night was all it took.

On all occasions the sex was good too.

Think a fair share was just an uncomplicated fuck and access to a night out they couldn't afford ordinarily.

I'm.happy to oblige!

There are freebies to be had, but as others have said they are few and far between.

What you haven't said is how much your budget is for the dinner, drinks and hotel. If you are shelling £500 for a night out and the hotel thats hardly a free fuck!

If they come to yours or they accommodate and all you're doing is having a takeaway and bottle of wine, then I'd class that as a freebie

[Lone-punter]

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Any intel on her?

[HomerC]

I would be interested to know if it's worth taking to her:

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[HomerC]

Has anyone interacted?

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[Steve2]

I worry about you Homer, I really do 

[massagepuntingfan]

I've seen profiles where the SB states that she is looking for a "man who knows how to please a woman".

Should I be honest and say :
1. I'm barely a man and
2. not very good at sex.


I don't see the point in lying.

Or should I feign confidence and wear a suit? I'd rather just be myself.

Homer is this a serious remark? Why are you barely a man? Are you struggling with confidence around women?  I echo the sentiment above, I worry about your excessive search for info on here.

[Link7]

I think he's just a bit bored tbh lads. Note the below:

I'm not neurotypical - possibly on "the spectrum'.

But equally, Homer, chill out a bit. It's not forbidden to be weird but you do have some self-awareness. My advice is just follow basic protocol ie. don't post any more image searches, and don't spam the thread with links to all your search results. Maybe ask about one girl at a time when you're particularly interested.

I think if you make those two adjustments you'll be fine.

[kutch]

Honeydream1122
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Any intel on her?

She wants £300 and can’t accommodate

[Strikar]

Or Richard Gere when he was 30.

One may get the odd 'freebie' but more like 1 out of 15 or 20 occasions - and even then one would be lucky if she's 6 out of 10 looks-wise!

Had a 6/10 say she didn't put a price on her pussy which I took to mean she was just after sex. After we shagged round at hers she asked for £150 and got pissed/crazy when I had no cash on me.

Paid her after as I don't want angry girls out there seeking vengeance but girls doing freebies are few and far between i'd say

[NightKid]

Homer is this a serious remark? Why are you barely a man? Are you struggling with confidence around women?  I echo the sentiment above, I worry about your excessive search for info on here.

Though I agree with the sentiment that this dude is a bit of a weirdo who needs to chill ... I read that particular as him being sarcastic, to be fair.

I would be interested to know if it's worth taking to her:

Sophia_x01
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Edit: She does meet and has been mentioned in the closed thread with mixed reviews, that's all I'm saying.

[Link7]

Had a 6/10 say she didn't put a price on her pussy which I took to mean she was just after sex. After we shagged round at hers she asked for £150 and got pissed/crazy when I had no cash on me.

Paid her after as I don't want angry girls out there seeking vengeance but girls doing freebies are few and far between i'd say

You were completely misled tbf

Got to remember how easy it is for girls to get sex though. They could find a random shag anywhere. The point of SA is the additional "benefits". I would have probably interpreted her statement to mean she is very expensive, not free