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[Prifessionallondinguy]

I am being persuaded by this thread to jump on seeking too. How common is anal, swallow or more of a submissive experience available on seeking? Anyone had any experience?

Most girls I’ve met on seeking have had some degree of a submissive nature. Most have been Asian though.

I don’t do a few hours (that’s for the escorts I see) so it’s mostly dinner, drinks, theatre then back to the hotel  …. I’m guessing meeting a guy for nice evening and a good wedge might instigate more submissive tendencies?

Most like light binding, spanking … being told what positions I like, dressing up in stockings, holdups etc… secretary outfits …. usually very eager to please.  Most have been overnight even if it wasn’t originally planned … with the same submissive demeanour going for breakfast / brunch in the morning uo til saying goodbye.

You can find niche submissive SB’s advertised on seeking … I generally find all ladies I’ve  met, have been, to some extent.

It’s not my thing but I’m happy to accommodate  I prefer a more dominant / lady leading in the bedroom  … perhaps why I like Thai escorts with their set routines. 

[JasonM]

Most girls I’ve met on seeking have had some degree of a submissive nature. Most have been Asian though.

I don’t do a few hours (that’s for the escorts I see) so it’s mostly dinner, drinks, theatre then back to the hotel  …. I’m guessing meeting a guy for nice evening and a good wedge might instigate more submissive tendencies?

Most like light binding, spanking … being told what positions I like, dressing up in stockings, holdups etc… secretary outfits …. usually very eager to please.  Most have been overnight even if it wasn’t originally planned … with the same submissive demeanour going for breakfast / brunch in the morning uo til saying goodbye.

You can find niche submissive SB’s advertised on seeking … I generally find all ladies I’ve  met, have been, to some extent.

It’s not my thing but I’m happy to accommodate  I prefer a more dominant / lady leading in the bedroom  … perhaps why I like Thai escorts with their set routines.

Pardon my oblivious nature, and perhaps my lack of culture. Theater as in plays? or is this like a movie (Spider man)?
What do you mean by a good wedge? Cash?

Another thing that I've not thought too much about as I have only seen ppm, anyone that can advise on ranges and what can be expected?

With SPs I know the routine, what is the routine like with meets from seeking ?

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Pardon my oblivious nature, and perhaps my lack of culture. Theater as in plays? or is this like a movie (Spider man)?
What do you mean by a good wedge? Cash?

Another thing that I've not thought too much about as I have only seen ppm, anyone that can advise on ranges and what can be expected?

With SPs I know the routine, what is the routine like with meets from seeking ?

It’ll be different for all of us as we use seeking very differently from each other.  Some guys seem to get cheap ppm’s or free … mine are usually 300-400-500.

Yeah theatre shows … I like the lady to dress up in hosiery etc.
yes cash. 💰 I’ve done movies too though 

I’m not atypical though as mine are very niche.

I’m quite jealous of you mate. I enjoyed it more when I first started as I had some amazing experiences… when it was all new it just seemed more exciting. Less so now.

Met a slim South Korean in a pub next to my hotel, she had the shortest skirt on imaginable .. glitter around her eyes and when she sat down I could see everything.
Certainly convinced me to extend 
Saw her regularly for about 2 1/2 years 300 400 a pop. Always overnights.

Good luck 🤞

[Punting2022]

Pardon my oblivious nature, and perhaps my lack of culture. Theater as in plays? or is this like a movie (Spider man)?
What do you mean by a good wedge? Cash?

Another thing that I've not thought too much about as I have only seen ppm, anyone that can advise on ranges and what can be expected?

With SPs I know the routine, what is the routine like with meets from seeking ?

Wedge is cash.
Ppm 300 to 600 is reasonable. 300 is average looking i find. Not worth it.
400 you get better looking girls. 500 plus stunners. Avoid girls who put time limits on. You can usually spot them. They will say couple of hours, meaning 2. These are prossie types.

I like to say an evening or day together. If they agree, thesr are the non clockwatcher types.

Indians asians are mostly clockwatchers

[JasonM]

What about one offs or weekend meets, lets say in europe, Spain, Italy, other countries? Anyone tried that?

[southcoastpunter]

Jason - have you read this thread back a bit or looked in the “Europe” section? You will see that people have - whatever you might mean by your question! In fact do you mean “ taking a SB from the uk abroad for a weekend “ or “ meeting a SB who is based in Italy (or wherever)?”!
The answer to both questions is yes!

The most basic thing to understand about Seeking is that it is not an escort site listing - although that’s how some guys use it and some girls also have escort profiles on AW etc! But many do not and will get upset and just block you if you treat them as an escort! Some girls will agree to a hotel meet PPM without meeting first, some won’t! Some will agree to dinner and hotel , some want to be taken out and treated to more than just dinner! Some girls won’t do a PPM at all and want a monthly allowance! So there is huge variation in what girls will agree to and huge variation in what guys want! You need to (carefully) find out what sort of lady you are chatting to- remembering that you cannot say anything on Seeking chat that is or implies “compensation dating” as that will get you banned! Chatting on WhatsApp or similar is where you need to be!

But back to your question- yes guys have taken girls abroad ( I have taken 4 different girls abroad but for longer than just a weekend)  and I have also searched Seeking for girls based abroad and seen them when local to them ( but further away than Europe) and a number of members here have done Europe on Seeking!

[PLeisure]

What about one offs or weekend meets, lets say in europe, Spain, Italy, other countries? Anyone tried that?

Yes, but usually after we've had a couple dates in London to see if the vibe is right.

I'd recommend you pay close attention to the post above. If you treat Seeking as an opportunity to replace AW options you will be disappointed. It needs a lot more care and attention to detail. Think of it as more of a medium-term situation. Unless you find a WG on the site, which seems to be what you're looking for 

[JasonM]

Jason - have you read this thread back a bit or looked in the “Europe” section? You will see that people have - whatever you might mean by your question! In fact do you mean “ taking a SB from the uk abroad for a weekend “ or “ meeting a SB who is based in Italy (or wherever)?”!
The answer to both questions is yes!

The most basic thing to understand about Seeking is that it is not an escort site listing - although that’s how some guys use it and some girls also have escort profiles on AW etc! But many do not and will get upset and just block you if you treat them as an escort! Some girls will agree to a hotel meet PPM without meeting first, some won’t! Some will agree to dinner and hotel , some want to be taken out and treated to more than just dinner! Some girls won’t do a PPM at all and want a monthly allowance! So there is huge variation in what girls will agree to and huge variation in what guys want! You need to (carefully) find out what sort of lady you are chatting to- remembering that you cannot say anything on Seeking chat that is or implies “compensation dating” as that will get you banned! Chatting on WhatsApp or similar is where you need to be!

But back to your question- yes guys have taken girls abroad ( I have taken 4 different girls abroad but for longer than just a weekend)  and I have also searched Seeking for girls based abroad and seen them when local to them ( but further away than Europe) and a number of members here have done Europe on Seeking!

I've had a look at the thread now and again. Mostly people chatting about profiles and asking for details on them. But yeah, you have a point. I'll go through it.

[southcoastpunter]

And the seeking one in Europe ( but there are other mentions of seeking in other threads within the Europe section
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=419765.0

[cosworth]

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I think these scams have declined since the face verification came in.

[paul_tall_]

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I think these scams have declined since the face verification came in.

Doubt face verification would stop this , story doesn’t imply she was using fake photos

[paul_tall_]

Doubt face verification would stop this , story doesn’t imply she was using fake photos

Misread story thought it was the girl that was the influencer !

[Punting2022]

I've had a look at the thread now and again. Mostly people chatting about profiles and asking for details on them. But yeah, you have a point. I'll go through it.

Europe is good. I seen a few in spain. Girls are more sexy. Less money motivated. 400 euros gets you a overnight. Whereas here its like 500 fee hours. Girls i also find are more attracative. British girls dont do it for me nowadays. Spain is so cheap to go out too. What would cost 150 plus for dinner in London. Cost like 60 euros.
I have a few contacts in france that once flights are cheaper i am visiting in september.

All you have to do to get contact is say im looking to visit next month. You gey contacts. Then can plan it. Plan in advanced flights arr like 50 quid sometimes.

[Famy8989]

Might be a silly question but I’m looking into signing up for the diamond seeking subscription (using Dubai VPN to avoid tax), but when you guys say you’re booking day use hotels, are girls usually fussed about which one it is? I.e. a Premier Inn etc. Also I’ve used similar platforms in other countries and have booked hotels and meets around evening/night time to get girls to stay the night, day use hotels wouldn’t be applicable I guess so do you pay for hotels for a whole night?

[Punting2022]

Might be a silly question but I’m looking into signing up for the diamond seeking subscription (using Dubai VPN to avoid tax), but when you guys say you’re booking day use hotels, are girls usually fussed about which one it is? I.e. a Premier Inn etc. Also I’ve used similar platforms in other countries and have booked hotels and meets around evening/night time to get girls to stay the night, day use hotels wouldn’t be applicable I guess so do you pay for hotels for a whole night?

A premier inn wont go well. Remember these are ladies that want to be treated well. A premier inn is not treating them well. You also have to look at like this. You are spending time in that hotel too. Would you be happy in a premier inn.
Hotel doesnt have to be a 5 star one. But aim for ac, shower and facilities. Ok looking room. Most girls wont stay overnight first meet. they want trust etc. So a day use would be best.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

A premier inn wont go well. Remember these are ladies that want to be treated well. A premier inn is not treating them well. You also have to look at like this. You are spending time in that hotel too. Would you be happy in a premier inn.
Hotel doesnt have to be a 5 star one. But aim for ac, shower and facilities. Ok looking room. Most girls wont stay overnight first meet. they want trust etc. So a day use would be best.

I’ve booked and used 5 star hotels and still do but had a glorious night in a premier inn.

It was impromptu but the lady stayed till the morning and didn’t seem to mind one bit. I saw her regular for about 6 months after and stayed in 5 star hotels. It didn’t seem to change anything. Just more convenient as it in the theatre district. Saved an uber journey.

It does not matter if you’re just fucking them on a bed for a few hours.

Anything lower than PI then you might be right. 

My South Korean regular even asked if I could book cheaper hotels and give her the difference  cheeky cow.

I don’t think lots of ladies really believe we’re multi zillionaires, jet setting around the world and driving Lamborghinis … but a good source for 300 to 500 bucks a pop.


You don’t half talk twaddle on here. 

[finn5555]

A premier inn wont go well.

Maybe you are picking the wrong ones 

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Maybe you are picking the wrong ones 

🤣 was the SB’s last name Bucket?

[Punting2022]

Maybe you are picking the wrong ones 

Tbh, im spending time there too. Shit hotels like premier inn for sb dont do it for me. I like a nice setting. For the first meets girls can not turn up. So dayuse is best. Also book a overnight one on the day when shes there. That way you dont loose out.
 

[finn5555]

Tbh, im spending time there too. Shit hotels like premier inn for sb dont do it for me. I like a nice setting. For the first meets girls can not turn up. So dayuse is best. Also book a overnight one on the day when shes there. That way you dont loose out.

Thanks for the advise but I do perfectly ok thanks 

[Famy8989]

Great advice, thanks. I’ve had a look and it’s not at all too expensive even for a Hilton hotel so does seem worth it for the extra 80 quid on top.

[Punter910]

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400 for couple of hours. unresponsive on bed and very poor hygiene. sensitive for second time.
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350 ask. met her in person,  weired body shape so did not move ahead.
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based outside london, suddenly stopped responding on whatsapp.
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spanish, 400 ask. have not seen her yet.
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agreed for 350+ taxi now. planning to see her  next week.
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agreed 400 for couple of hours. wants to do video call before meet. yet to meet.

[Jardent6]

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400 for couple of hours. unresponsive on bed and very poor hygiene. sensitive for second time.
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350 ask. met her in person,  weired body shape so did not move ahead.
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based outside london, suddenly stopped responding on whatsapp.
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spanish, 400 ask. have not seen her yet.
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agreed for 350+ taxi now. planning to see her  next week.
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agreed 400 for couple of hours. wants to do video call before meet. yet to meet.

The first girl that doesn’t surprise me. She definitely does this to fund her lifestyle rather than for the love of sex. Also when I tried to arrange to meet her she asked me if I minded a little blood , immediate turn off and cancelled the meet

[jamiekinkxxx]

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400 for couple of hours. unresponsive on bed and very poor hygiene. sensitive for second time.
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350 ask. met her in person,  weired body shape so did not move ahead.
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based outside london, suddenly stopped responding on whatsapp.
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spanish, 400 ask. have not seen her yet.
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agreed for 350+ taxi now. planning to see her  next week.
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agreed 400 for couple of hours. wants to do video call before meet. yet to meet.

2nd One: What was weird about her body shape?
Last One: Looks sexy and certainly does look good in a bikini! 

[Prifessionallondinguy]

“What was weird about her body shape?”


Yep I was thinking that too, very good tits.
Thinking about a good CG session with those tits!!

Did message her too.

[Punting2022]

2nd One: What was weird about her body shape?
Last One: Looks sexy and certainly does look good in a bikini! 

Flori looks good.
Last 1 400 for a middle aged late 30s not worth it. Profile says 33. More likely 38

[paul_tall_]

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agreed for 350+ taxi now. planning to see her  next week.
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agreed 400 for couple of hours. wants to do video call before meet. yet to meet.

Lily was discussed last month with a poster saying she wanted 4K a month, as stated first registered on site since 2018
Flori/Flo was also asked about backend of last year but no more than that, considering she is 23 she looks much younger, also been on the site 3 years, and has not verified herself
For both its surprising unless my search hasnt found all results has no info on here really given they were both members when the site was more commented on

[anujok]

Thanks for the updates and kinks guys.   Almost All the SB look so good. Time to re-subscribe I think.

I met a few before lockdown and most hijabi women. Amazing looks and surprisingly great in bed too!

Attracted to Indian women and busy searching for them, any leads truly appreciated 🤓

[anujok]

Not kinks but links! Can’t modify it now so. Excuse the typo!

[Wtt2014]

Not kinks but links! Can’t modify it now so. Excuse the typo!

It's a good job you clarified, otherwise you'd have Punting1963 jumping in to tell you that girls on Seeking don't have kinks, actually, unless they're in Europe.

[JasonM]

Thanks for the updates and kinks guys.   Almost All the SB look so good. Time to re-subscribe I think.

I met a few before lockdown and most hijabi women. Amazing looks and surprisingly great in bed too!

Attracted to Indian women and busy searching for them, any leads truly appreciated 🤓

I tried to find some hijabi women but no luck (only used the middle eastern filter), did you find them by scrolling, or somehow else?

[Punting2022]

I tried to find some hijabi women but no luck (only used the middle eastern filter), did you find them by scrolling, or somehow else?

You have to search asian/east indian. Very rare in London. Maybe search Bradford,. Manchester. More of them up north towards Bradford.

[Punting2022]

when is the best time to renew again. This summer girls are rarely online. I guess summer holidays. For uni students is it October time etc.

[southcoastpunter]

when is the best time to renew again.

Perhaps when there are some new girls you like the look of!

But surely being in London, you have sufficient choice any time of year! If you think not, try living in the regions!!

[Punting2022]

Perhaps when there are some new girls you like the look of!

But surely being in London, you have sufficient choice any time of year! If you think not, try living in the regions!!

Nothing is interesting me at the moment. My regular has left. We planned a holiday end of September, but i need something to fill the boots and UK for now. May just try SDM for 50 quid. Same girls there usually and maybe abroad again too.

[londonhunter008]

anyone met her Dee, 39 she had different profile and back again? External Link/Members Only

[paul_tall_]

when is the best time to renew again. This summer girls are rarely online. I guess summer holidays. For uni students is it October time etc.

I think it’s been a while since Uni girls were using the site . Maybe your area is different . Summer always used to be quiet due to holidays unless you were willing to find drinks for them in Ibiza or somewhere with them promising they were back next week

[Punting2022]

I think it’s been a while since Uni girls were using the site . Maybe your area is different . Summer always used to be quiet due to holidays unless you were willing to find drinks for them in Ibiza or somewhere with them promising they were back next week

Yes, its been dead on that scene in the UK. I think they are on other platforms.
I once messaged a girl on insta and she was game for arrangements. But was crap. Snapchat etc too.

[Shevz100]

Yes, its been dead on that scene in the UK. I think they are on other platforms.
I once messaged a girl on insta and she was game for arrangements. But was crap. Snapchat etc too.

Was it one of the insta models/influencer types? A lot of them indeed do meets and arrangements

[Punting2022]

Was it one of the insta models/influencer types? A lot of them indeed do meets and arrangements

No, It was a cute asian girl, She posted her self dressed up night outs etc.

[Hantsolo]

External Link/Members Only  Drew, 29, Central London, seems genuine and keen to meet. Anyone had the pleasure?

[Famy8989]

Just started my membership, girls spamming me with messages of this sort, whether it’s online or in person:
Do they tend to be real people, I’ve heard of scams and blackmail before, was just curious if this sort of thing happens on seeking aswell. Cheers

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[Heph]

There's nothing wholly untoward about that - obvs, keep an eye open for ppv, deposits requests or suggestions of paid platonic meets

[stampjones]

Just started my membership, girls spamming me with messages of this sort, whether it’s online or in person:
Do they tend to be real people, I’ve heard of scams and blackmail before, was just curious if this sort of thing happens on seeking aswell. Cheers

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It's really a mix. I'd say that sort of message comes from the more pro based ones rather than someone trying to earn a little extra on the side or looking for a genuine sugar dynamic. Which is fine, depends what you want though personally I'd say if you want an escort seeking probably isn't the best place to find one (because it tends to be more expensive). As for scams don't worry too much. They don't tend to be very sophisticated and are very easy to spot. Basically if they ask for money up front I assume it's a scam and move on. You'll get a feeling for what is and isn't a scam pretty quickly but if you just remember never to give money to people you've never met them you won't go far wrong.

[paul_tall_]

Just started my membership, girls spamming me with messages of this sort, whether it’s online or in person:
Do they tend to be real people, I’ve heard of scams and blackmail before, was just curious if this sort of thing happens on seeking aswell. Cheers

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Yes this certainly has happened on seeking.
Ask yourself the question are you just wanting to send money to a girl for content, thats basically what they are only offering
There is also a good chance that they may just scam you, if the profile is recent and has face verification then maybe less of a risk but is that why you would join seeking

[Punting2022]

Just started my membership, girls spamming me with messages of this sort, whether it’s online or in person:
Do they tend to be real people, I’ve heard of scams and blackmail before, was just curious if this sort of thing happens on seeking aswell. Cheers

I always report these profiles. Soliciting for compensation

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[Famy8989]

Gotcha, thanks. I’ve been messaging around, it seems like I’ve been attracting mostly pros/escorts with the exception of a few civvies. To be honest, I’m not sure what I’m looking for in the app, I just need to read up more I guess but there isn’t really a playbook to it. I’m not really a drinker, I hate drinking in-fact so that eliminates a lot of casual bar dates, so I guess I have to go with pay per meet girls which I’m not against.

Brooke:
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Keeps messaging me about nudes. I made the mistake of giving her my number. I think I will get a second number for these sort of meets.

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She’s quite pretty, I’m guessing she’s an escort she messaged me 300 for a meet

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She’s an escort too I think, based in Chelsea. She’s up for ppm 500 for 2-3 hours, down from 1k. Definitely won’t see her.

I’ve got one that I may meet this week, will update once everything is done hopefully.

[paul_tall_]

Brooke:
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Keeps messaging me about nudes. I made the mistake of giving her my number. I think I will get a second number for these sort of meets.

would suggest she is a content seller only, avoid

[Punter910]

Received a prompt to verify on seeking app via selfie . Profile is old one not sure if they have changed anything now and is it all new users need to verify ?

[Prifessionallondinguy]

“ Milena: External Link/Members Only
She’s quite pretty, I’m guessing she’s an escort she messaged me 300 for a meet “


Liked the look of this lady from your list.
Am in London this week. I’m guessing from your comments ehe offers just a few hours?
Will try dinner drink combo first, you never know she might be bored/quiet!!!