Hobbit - have you ever used Seeking?
And as others have said if you are just looking for sex and won't meet without it, you will only get ladies happy to provide that (Escorts really). But there are many other types of ladies on their too. Its probably true to say that for most ladies, the prospect of getting a financial helping hand (money) was the attraction to make them join in the first place but it is so so wrong to say that ALL the ladies on seeking are ONLY interested in money. Just as it is wrong to say that all guys are ONLY interested in sex.
Two of my previous SB's have moved abroad with their jobs and one comes and stays with me for a few days when she returns to the UK to see her parents and no money is involved, plus i have been on holiday with her (she from her location and me from the UK) and she paid for herself (ok i probably paid for more things than she when we were together but it wasn't all on me). I am shortly going on holiday with the other - she is spending a few months travelling and i am going to join her for a few weeks - we undoubtedly will have sex and no money will change hands. And I am certainly not unique.
It a shame that seeking is becoming much more like you describe it because of guys (some of whom are are here) that just want sex and more and more ladies are coming on to just provide sex for money - but its not there yet. I think the ladies that i seek are now in a minority and i guess that guys like me who don't just want sex are becoming a minority too.
Asking me if I have used Seeking is like asking if water is wet. The answer is always going to be a natural yes!
I never said ALL girls on seeking, I said most or the majority.
The examples that you are giving are possibly true and people do build chemistry and friendship. I certainly have built a few friends from seeking however, even though we do communicate occasionally, there is always a financial incentive involved.
And with the examples that you mentioned, they may be staying over for free but there must have been money involved in the beginning or some kind of incentive for them to see you initially. How they wish to drain you afterward is subjective on their part and certainly, their prerogative being a Sugarbabe.
What I will say though, is nothing in life is free and sometimes as we get older we sometimes start deluding ourselves into thinking that people actually like us for us i.e. personality but the truth is that women especially modern women that are self-entitled and also deluded to some degree, always want an incentive to be with us. It may be accommodation for free, a holiday, gifts, having their nails done, or plain old cash!
If you don't believe me, wait till you and I are 90+ years old and in a care home, I can guarantee you that those girls will not be visiting us for an old-fashioned chat.
