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Offline qadam296

this may sound stupid but do SA girls provide intimacy or is it just "social" ie the kudos of having a good girl on your arm for a few hrs?

apologies if naive question

All down to you to decide mate. Most girls on there are a mixed bag of happy to be intimate for cash, others want some meets before intimacy others lead you on for a bit and decide getting fucked for cash ain’t for them.

Reality is that there’s enough members on seeking to find plenty of girls who’ll be intimate, you’ve just got to learn to filter out the ones that will crumble and back out.

Just be careful to not discuss intimacy on seeking itself or else you’ll end up getting banned. Get to WhatsApp or Kik as quickly as you can

this may sound stupid but do SA girls provide intimacy or is it just "social" ie the kudos of having a good girl on your arm for a few hrs?

apologies if naive question

Only discuss on WhatsApp otherwise banned - isn’t it the only reason we are paying £70 per month
They know and will make you pay too $ for it

Offline leffe7

Any advice on a first meet? Managed to move a conversation to whatsapp and shes keen for a hotel meet, but I'm thinking its probably better to meet in a bar/cafe first to double check she isnt a psycho?

Any advice on a first meet? Managed to move a conversation to whatsapp and shes keen for a hotel meet, but I'm thinking its probably better to meet in a bar/cafe first to double check she isnt a psycho?

I usually book a day room at a local hotel which you don’t pay for until arrival. Then arrange to meet for a coffee nearby and if she’s ok then go check in. The https://www.dayuse.co.uk/ site is very handy.

Offline dino1990

Any advice on a first meet? Managed to move a conversation to whatsapp and shes keen for a hotel meet, but I'm thinking its probably better to meet in a bar/cafe first to double check she isnt a psycho?
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Lot's of timewasters on seeking. I have private conversations with a few people on here and we exchange good and bad experiences.
« Last Edit: August 25, 2019, 04:00:57 pm by dino1990 »

Offline leffe7

Any advice on a first meet? Managed to move a conversation to whatsapp and shes keen for a hotel meet, but I'm thinking its probably better to meet in a bar/cafe first to double check she isnt a psycho?
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Lot's of timewasters on seeking. I have private conversations with a few people on here and we exchange good and bad experiences.

Care to elaborate via PM?


Any advice on a first meet? Managed to move a conversation to whatsapp and shes keen for a hotel meet, but I'm thinking its probably better to meet in a bar/cafe first to double check she isnt a psycho?

Make sure you have a plan b on hand in case she flakes or ghosts you - usually 50% do

Offline dino1990

This girl is underage, shes 17.

Already had two profiles banned by SA

https://www.seeking.com/member/ee1fc75e-f48c-4047-9136-1065ac5aa53b

that's the girl that told me she was 16. wouldn't surprise me if she was even younger

Offline GOT2019

Banned reason: Troll
Banned by: daviemac

Offline dino1990

Actually got a meet with an older lady next week. Well a couple years older anyway. Makes a difference from meeting girls half my age. She's just after simple no strings hotel fun and is a very classy divorcee ( drives a brand new Audi TT).  Sounds horny as fuck. Very excited

Offline leffe7

Talked to a number of ladies on there, most outside the realm of reality for me I'm afraid. £700 just for dinner one quoted me.

Offline tynetunnel

Talked to a number of ladies on there, most outside the realm of reality for me I'm afraid. £700 just for dinner one quoted me.

Feel free to add username and link of the deluded female please, so we can all avoid  :hi:


Offline leffe7

Feel free to add username and link of the deluded female please, so we can all avoid  :hi:

Not too comfortable doing this publicly, incase these women are internet detectives. I'd consider sharing via PM potentially.


I met a stunning woman off there yesterday who was a porn starlet for a couple of years but stopped working about 6 years ago, going to be seeing her very regularly. Very reasonable PPM rate too. Happy chappy.

Offline datwabbit

Not too comfortable doing this publicly, incase these women are internet detectives. I'd consider sharing via PM potentially.
Not a love island reject? A few reality stars have been spotted on SA.

Offline leffe7

I met a stunning woman off there yesterday who was a porn starlet for a couple of years but stopped working about 6 years ago, going to be seeing her very regularly. Very reasonable PPM rate too. Happy chappy.

Fair play, how many time wasters did you deal with?

Offline tynetunnel

Misskinx — Newcastle — 22

Wants “1.5k for a new apartment holding fee”

Join the queue lads  :hi:

https://www.seeking.com/member/c5839cd0-7e28-1eff-f90e-c580487aff8c

Fair play, how many time wasters did you deal with?

A fair few, its the picture sellers that boil my piss. Say they are up for meets then just try and flog you nude pics and vids. I ask them why i would want to pay for pics when there's literally millions for free on the web and they go off in a huff !

But there are some very genuine girls on there who don't mess about and they're worth putting up with the dross for.

Misskinx — Newcastle — 22

Wants “1.5k for a new apartment holding fee”

Join the queue lads  :hi:

https://www.seeking.com/member/c5839cd0-7e28-1eff-f90e-c580487aff8c

Ah the elusive "Abbie" who arranges meets and doesn't turn up ! Twice !

Offline tynetunnel

Ah the elusive "Abbie" who arranges meets and doesn't turn up ! Twice !

Aye, “Abbie”  :thumbsup:

Offline tynetunnel

S-bus * 25 * Newcastle

https://www.seeking.com/member/605cce33-fb3b-4f9f-88b9-e2fc6c0ff0ce

Wants £200 ppm moving on to longer times and trips at £1500 monthly allowance

 :lol:

Offline bobdavid

Ah the elusive "Abbie" who arranges meets and doesn't turn up ! Twice !

Saggy tits, smoker, ridiculously over-tattooed (especially for me - other than 1-2 discrete, tiny tattoos, they really put me off a girl), ... so many things wrong with this one.

I'd be out even if she was willing to do overnights for £100 ;-p

Offline dino1990

Warning ..another 15 year old ..have block and reported.

Georgina Leigh was the name.. told.me her real.age quickly and her school name. Be careful with any girls from Chester le street at the moment

Offline Sar-Major

Warning ..another 15 year old ..have block and reported.

Georgina Leigh was the name.. told.me her real.age quickly and her school name. Be careful with any girls from Chester le street at the moment

Why only there?   :unknown:   Something we should know?   :unknown:

 :hi: :hi:

Offline daviemac

Why only there?   :unknown:   Something we should know?   :unknown:

 :hi: :hi:

He's referring to SA members.   :hi:

Warning ..another 15 year old ..have block and reported.

Georgina Leigh was the name.. told.me her real.age quickly and her school name. Be careful with any girls from Chester le street at the moment

This is a real concern and let's face it a fucking nightmare if your chatting to anyone under 18 for whatever reason in this hobby.

Puts me off SA slightly, as i doubt all would be so willing to confirm their real age at first given opportunity and then before you know it your chatting to underage lasses. :scare: :scare:

I know same risks apply throughout the industry but seems SA is an outlet for this shit atm

Offline datwabbit

This is a real concern and let's face it a fucking nightmare if your chatting to anyone under 18 for whatever reason in this hobby.

Puts me off SA slightly, as i doubt all would be so willing to confirm their real age at first given opportunity and then before you know it your chatting to underage lasses. :scare: :scare:

I know same risks apply throughout the industry but seems SA is an outlet for this shit atm

There is a theory that she confirmed her age quickly to give the guy an exit. If he continues to chat and meet, knowing she's underage, it might not be a girl who he ends up meeting but a vigilante group.

There is a theory that she confirmed her age quickly to give the guy an exit. If he continues to chat and meet, knowing she's underage, it might not be a girl who he ends up meeting but a vigilante group.

Aye I've seen these groups. I imagine this is there stomping ground. Still undecided on this site but punting has become a bit samey so might take the plunge for a month.

Offline tynetunnel

Aye I've seen these groups. I imagine this is there stomping ground. Still undecided on this site but punting has become a bit samey so might take the plunge for a month.

I agree. The guy then must exit, if he stays once he knows the age then it’s a different ball game. I was chatting last week to a supposed 19 yo, very pretty. She then told me that she was “15 1/2”  :scare: I said she should not be on the site. Before I could grab a link to her literally she and her conversation disappeared from my screen, so somebody must have reported her or our conversation was being read....

I figured it was one of those vigilante groups as she was quite upfront. She said something like she isn’t really 19, but younger. I asked her real age, and she came straight back with it. No attempt to hide it at all.

Definitely do due diligence. The four d’s  :hi:

Offline datwabbit

I agree. The guy then must exit, if he stays once he knows the age then it’s a different ball game. I was chatting last week to a supposed 19 yo, very pretty. She then told me that she was “15 1/2”  :scare: I said she should not be on the site. Before I could grab a link to her literally she and her conversation disappeared from my screen, so somebody must have reported her or our conversation was being read....

I figured it was one of those vigilante groups as she was quite upfront. She said something like she isn’t really 19, but younger. I asked her real age, and she came straight back with it. No attempt to hide it at all.

Definitely do due diligence. The four d’s  :hi:

If she's always returning, maybe she is legitimate age but wants to attract guys who want underage i.e. vigilante

Offline dino1990

Or she may be genuine and just likes fucking older men for cash.

Either way it'll ruin your life if caught.

She's actually very quick to tell you she is underage.

I think it's a vigilante personally. There's something not quite right about the whole thing.

SA in the north east is actually fucking shit now compared to a couple of years ago, I prefer looking for girls further afield now.

Offline dino1990

When I chatted to one of them on Kik(before I knew real age). She wouldn't give me her number for phone  call verification. Which staight away rang alarm bells with me.

Offline neweewee

Just a bit of a general question here. I’ve been on SA before, and will probably be back on it soon.

For those of you who see/have seen someone regularly, how do you keep yourself anonymous? What I mean by this is how much do you reveal about your private life, where you work etc?

I’m single, so I don’t have to think of a wife/girlfriend finding out. It’s just some people can be a bit nosey. Also, if they tell me about their life, I feel obligated to respond.

p.s. I suspect that some of you probably know really simple stuff to say in this area!

Just a bit of a general question here. I’ve been on SA before, and will probably be back on it soon.

For those of you who see/have seen someone regularly, how do you keep yourself anonymous? What I mean by this is how much do you reveal about your private life, where you work etc?

I’m single, so I don’t have to think of a wife/girlfriend finding out. It’s just some people can be a bit nosey. Also, if they tell me about their life, I feel obligated to respond.

p.s. I suspect that some of you probably know really simple stuff to say in this area!

I’ve a regular and I know everything about her, I prefer to be more discreet so she doesn’t actually know exactly where I live or workplace (knows county and my profession)
Always stay in hotels and I had to give my surname up when she goes for breakfast (leaving me to recover from the nights activities)

Offline neweewee

I’ve a regular and I know everything about her, I prefer to be more discreet so she doesn’t actually know exactly where I live or workplace (knows county and my profession)
Always stay in hotels and I had to give my surname up when she goes for breakfast (leaving me to recover from the nights activities)

OK, but how did you answer questions about yourself that avoided disclosing information about you? Obviously, she knows what you do, but answering any further questions that she had etc.

Offline datwabbit

OK, but how did you answer questions about yourself that avoided disclosing information about you? Obviously, she knows what you do, but answering any further questions that she had etc.
Is this leading somewhere? You've been on SA before so what did you do then? You have no partner so it's up to you whether you want to disclose more.

What are you wanting to do? You might get better answers if you say what you are wanting to do.

Offline neweewee

Is this leading somewhere? You've been on SA before so what did you do then? You have no partner so it's up to you whether you want to disclose more.

What are you wanting to do? You might get better answers if you say what you are wanting to do.

These are fair questions.

I’ve been on before, but the people I met were a one-time only thing. I’m potentially looking at something more regular, but I haven’t decided.

It’s more to do with the job I do. I work for a well-known local company and I don’t have a professional title, so I can’t just say I’m an accountant in Newcastle etc.

To be honest, since I posted originally, I was thinking of just being honest and saying that I want to keep this anonymous, and I don’t want to disclose that level of detail about myself (other than the basics that I disclose). If she chooses to tell me stuff about herself, then that’s fine, but she won’t get any more for me.

If you think that is OK, I’ll leave it at that. I suppose I was wondering if there was a nicer way of saying this.

Offline bobdavid

Just a bit of a general question here. I’ve been on SA before, and will probably be back on it soon.

For those of you who see/have seen someone regularly, how do you keep yourself anonymous? What I mean by this is how much do you reveal about your private life, where you work etc?

I’m single, so I don’t have to think of a wife/girlfriend finding out. It’s just some people can be a bit nosey. Also, if they tell me about their life, I feel obligated to respond.

p.s. I suspect that some of you probably know really simple stuff to say in this area!

If I was single, I probably wouldn't worry too much about it. Seeking isn't the same as seeing prossies in my eyes. Even if it ends badly and, a year later, she tells your girlfriend .. who cares? I doubt your gf would.

Even if you're a movie star, footballer, or you're on Geordie Shore with all the other chavs, who cares..? People would probably think it's quite cute - as most of those will be fucking Russian prostitutes.

OK, but how did you answer questions about yourself that avoided disclosing information about you? Obviously, she knows what you do, but answering any further questions that she had etc.

The women I meet tend to be very submissive so I’ve just told them straight what they need to know and they seem to get off on this dynamic power exchange
If they ask again I just threaten to punish them severely and this does the trick
It has totally changed my perspective of meets and do like this new dominant way of playing

Offline datwabbit

These are fair questions.

I’ve been on before, but the people I met were a one-time only thing. I’m potentially looking at something more regular, but I haven’t decided.

It’s more to do with the job I do. I work for a well-known local company and I don’t have a professional title, so I can’t just say I’m an accountant in Newcastle etc.

To be honest, since I posted originally, I was thinking of just being honest and saying that I want to keep this anonymous, and I don’t want to disclose that level of detail about myself (other than the basics that I disclose). If she chooses to tell me stuff about herself, then that’s fine, but she won’t get any more for me.

If you think that is OK, I’ll leave it at that. I suppose I was wondering if there was a nicer way of saying this.

As bobdavid says, it's not the same. She might want some connection so open up. She cannot out you. Your job title doesn't matter, you're giving her money and whether you can hold a conversation. Besides, if you just talk about her, she'll probably forget that she knows little about you.

Offline dino1990

Underage girl is back. Chester le street and age is 20 now. Quickly.reported so I didn't get any other details

Username.has daddy's and 56 in it. Last time I gave full username it got deleted
« Last Edit: October 11, 2019, 01:43:52 pm by dino1990 »

Offline leffe7

I never was able to find anything on seeking. I spoke to a number of people but in the end most flaked, wanted to sell pictures or had totally unrealistic expectations. Would have been great to have found something because the dynamic is just different. Might have to give it another go.

I never was able to find anything on seeking. I spoke to a number of people but in the end most flaked, wanted to sell pictures or had totally unrealistic expectations. Would have been great to have found something because the dynamic is just different. Might have to give it another go.

Just need to cast your net a bit wider into n age and distance - stand firm over price and keep those plates spinning. Find a regular and then you can seek the elusive freebie unicorn

Offline neweewee

As bobdavid says, it's not the same. She might want some connection so open up. She cannot out you. Your job title doesn't matter, you're giving her money and whether you can hold a conversation. Besides, if you just talk about her, she'll probably forget that she knows little about you.

Thanks for the replies everyone. I think this is more down to just anxiety, but it’s given me plenty to use in future.

https://www.seeking.com/member/59df0a90-a82f-4cbe-8143-7476802fdacc

This one was trying to push her pics and videos on me, when I said I was only after meets she tried to get me to transfer her £15 as she had no money to get the bus to come and see me.

Smells like a scam, obv told her where to go....

Offline dino1990

I've just signed up for sa again and I have no search results. Couple logged in 5 weeks ago then a few months ago.sometjing wrong with my account? I haven't paid anything yet

I've just signed up for sa again and I have no search results. Couple logged in 5 weeks ago then a few months ago.sometjing wrong with my account? I haven't paid anything yet

You may have signed up to the wrong gender - looking for a sugar mommy
It sometimes happens, did with me and I got them to correct the issue
Thought it was strange with no matches