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[Cheshuk]

Hey everyone, i've never done this before so apologies for the basic questions.

I would like to give seeking a go soon and just wanted to know how do you guys message them to expect intimacy and do you bring up the finances or wait till they do?

I've also been reading through the threads and know that you should move them over to a whatsapp/telegram so you don't get banned on seeking. I've also got a burner phone so they can't spam my main number.

I'm considering  booking a hotel like the Edwardian radisson collection in manchester city center which I think has the peter street kitchen restaurant in the same building and invite the girl within the first few messages of messaging them to join me for dinner, which I'll try to bring them up to the hotel afterwards if they seem interested. if not no problem i'm also using seeking for the social experience as well.

if she brings up finances i'm okay with paying up to £300 for the girl and I guess the hotel and food will cost around £250.  Is there anything else I should be considering/do?

Thanks

I'd say consider if it's worth paying to have dinner with them, sounds as though there is vfm to you in paying for meet and greets without sex. However if you pay for that, theres a good chance they'll go home with that fee and a free dinner, without putting out. If you're new & want sex, i'd stick to dinner is on me and direct cash after only for sex

have a plan b (escort), due to flakiness no show/cancellation risk. Personally would agree that you're going to fuck after dinner via messaging before meeting.

I go back to mine, however if I was using hotels wouldn't bother booking hotels before meeting, unless sex is 100% agreed.. maybe better to meet at a normal restaurant, then arrange a hotel last minute from there or do that date platonic and see them again at a hotel. I think theres a good chance you'll be booking hotel rooms and not always using them otherwise

[AxFate]

I'd say consider if it's worth paying to have dinner with them, sounds as though there is vfm to you in paying for meet and greets without sex. However if you pay for that, theres a good chance they'll go home with that fee and a free dinner, without putting out. If you're new & want sex, i'd stick to dinner is on me and direct cash after only for sex

have a plan b (escort), due to flakiness no show/cancellation risk. Personally would agree that you're going to fuck after dinner via messaging before meeting.

I go back to mine, however if I was using hotels wouldn't bother booking hotels before meeting, unless sex is 100% agreed.. maybe better to meet at a normal restaurant, then arrange a hotel last minute from there or do that date platonic and see them again at a hotel. I think theres a good chance you'll be booking hotel rooms and not always using them otherwise

My bad that's what I meant, I don't mind mind paying for dinner but I'll make it clear to her that the fee will be for sex

Thanks for the advice I'll be sure to book the hotel only if sex is agreed.

[Cheshuk]

My bad that's what I meant, I don't mind mind paying for dinner but I'll make it clear to her that the fee will be for sex

Thanks for the advice I'll be sure to book the hotel only if sex is agreed.

do consider a short notice plan b even then & don't give the money in the restaurant even if she promises to come up to the room after

good luck

[Asurmen]

do consider a short notice plan b even then & don't give the money in the restaurant even if she promises to come up to the room after

good luck

I second that, give the money at the end of the meet.

[inurfase]

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Leeyah, Bolton

Despite the few negative comments above I decided to persevere and see where things go. After lots of random gaps and pauses in the chat conversation we ended up meeting for just a brief chat (no money exchanged) a couple of weeks ago. Attractive girl, a bit shy. Ok-ish conversation and vibes. She agreed to meet again for £120 for a couple of hours so decided to take the plunge.

She lives alone but won't have anyone at hers. Bolton is a bit rubbish for last minute hotel options as even basic chains were expensive. Agreed I'd pick her up and drive towards Manchester and we'd have an hour or so together as she had to rush back for other family commitments, and agreed for £80. Booked a basic hotel, picked her up. Once we're in the room it ended up being like one of those really disappointing Rom experiences.

Everything is a no. She is attractive, has a nice pair on her but doesn't like taking her top off as she's shy and awkward about this. Doesn't kiss properly (lips only no tongue), doesn't like receiving or giving oral. At this point it was a very basic P&D. She could take a pounding, and between rounds when I got to work with my fingers she did get very wet. But the action itself was just no engagement, no enthusiasm. We did a couple of pops and then time was up. I said I'm gonna drop it down to £60 (I'd asked her several times before if she had any particular likes and dislikes, she wouldn't discuss it since she was shy but had said she'd let me know if she didn't like anything). We settled at £70.

All in all, didn't break the bank and got off a couple of times but didn't enjoy it much. Attractive girl with MANY hangups. It was more of a challenge to see if I could make it happen with her, but I'm definitely not going to be seeing her again.

[updownandaround]

Hey everyone, i've never done this before so apologies for the basic questions.

I would like to give seeking a go soon and just wanted to know how do you guys message them to expect intimacy and do you bring up the finances or wait till they do?

I've also been reading through the threads and know that you should move them over to a whatsapp/telegram so you don't get banned on seeking. I've also got a burner phone so they can't spam my main number.

I'm considering  booking a hotel like the Edwardian radisson collection in manchester city center which I think has the peter street kitchen restaurant in the same building and invite the girl within the first few messages of messaging them to join me for dinner, which I'll try to bring them up to the hotel afterwards if they seem interested. if not no problem i'm also using seeking for the social experience as well.

if she brings up finances i'm okay with paying up to £300 for the girl and I guess the hotel and food will cost around £250.  Is there anything else I should be considering/do?

Thanks

Unless you like eating with random girls, I would skip the dining part (and expense) as the vast majority of them do not need to be wined and dined. Just get them onto Whatsapp and ask them what their ppm is. Often they will give you some flannel about wanting something longer term and regular with just one guy but most of them will meet to bang for money. Take everything they tell you with a pinch of salt too, give them a chance and they'll bring you into their often crazy worlds of drama and nonsense. Stick to the sex part unless you like participating in Gen Z drama and nonsense 😂

The great thing about Seeking is you can dispense with the normal dating formalities and get straight down to business, not a lot of charm or finesse is needed.

Good luck!

[Funboy101]

Doing some research ahead of a trip to Manchester anyone spoken to or seen either of these two

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[ukmale]

have you guys done a selfie check on the site when registering? I'm being asked for this and not really comfortable considering data breaches are no longer uncommon

[Dannyrose3]

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[charlie637]

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Anyone got any intel on her? Profile seems to have potential.

[blackburnian]

I’m thinking of resubbing ,bored or not tempted with the AW offerings & hoping a change of scenery will help , I’ve been there before so know how it works and Many of the pitfalls ,my question is simple - is it busy and worth resubbing at the moment ?? I’m not attached and can accommodate so less limited than some

Bb

[Hornylad]

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Anyone got any intel on her? Profile seems to have potential.

wants £500 per meet. shit attitude. thinks shes gods gift with her filtered pics.. dont waste your time with this one. she wont meet and even if she did. i guess you would feel short changed. Anyone with a bad attitude regardless of the rate, is worth staying away from full stop. plenty of fish in the sea.

[HistoryRepeats]

Currently speaking to this one:

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Happy with 250/300, I’m planning to make the trip up soon. Anyone sampled yet? She looks right up my street!

[Bedasha]

Currently speaking to this one:

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Happy with 250/300, I’m planning to make the trip up soon. Anyone sampled yet? She looks right up my street!

I had a good conversation with her, wanted 400, I countered 200 then she blanked me. If she came back 250 I would have met for sure. Good luck!

[charlie637]

wants £500 per meet. shit attitude. thinks shes gods gift with her filtered pics.. dont waste your time with this one. she wont meet and even if she did. i guess you would feel short changed. Anyone with a bad attitude regardless of the rate, is worth staying away from full stop. plenty of fish in the sea.

Thanks mate. You’re obviously one step ahead because I can only see her profile picture and won’t let me see the private ones. The irony being she’s the one saying “don’t message if you don’t intend to meet”

[Hornylad]

sometimes you cant tell from a profile or a pic, what they are gonna be like, but yeah this one is defo one to avoid and even if she did meet, she probably wont be great because of the stinking attitude and escort vibes she was giving. onwards and upwards..

[Dannyrose3]

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[finn5555]

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[Dannyrose3]

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[daviemac]

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Just a gentle reminder mate, we know you aren't a prolific user of the site but we still expect members to contribute reviews and you are a bit lacking.

[Link7]

Has anyone ever got a tune out of this one? External Link/Members Only

Her profile's been posted in this thread before but there was no real intel. I think she wants paying for platonic dates and is just dangling the carrot of intimacy later, but thought I'd check with youse. Cheers.

[Engl1shmuff1ns]

Try discount code vwo33pb which worked for me last time

Thank you Al and apologies for asking stupid questions as I'm a rookie on that site. Based on this thread of some possibly decent profiles on Seeking, I'm tempted to upgrade my basic account but I can't find a page or field to enter a discount code. Any links or tips appreciated before I make my mind up, please?

To everyone that posts feedback on this thread, you're doing sterling work and providing alternative views to the AW reviews. Much obliged.  EM

[Cheshuk]

Thank you Al and apologies for asking stupid questions as I'm a rookie on that site. Based on this thread of some possibly decent profiles on Seeking, I'm tempted to upgrade my basic account but I can't find a page or field to enter a discount code. Any links or tips appreciated before I make my mind up, please?

To everyone that posts feedback on this thread, you're doing sterling work and providing alternative views to the AW reviews. Much obliged.  EM

they removed the discount box, my workaround is quoted below and see the London seeking thread comments near my post, as others shared workarounds

I just resubbed and noticed this. I logged out/in and deactivated/reactivated a couple of times, got two in site discounts pop up, first 15% then 20%. Didn't offer on laptop for some reason, but did twice on iPhone.

Not sure what prompts it, whilst not 33%.. feel worth a mention as can still avoid paying full fee.

[inurfase]

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Stacey, Liverpool

Not going to go into details here. This girl is dangerous, and will rob you at the threat of physical violence from a posse of hoodies. Managed to get away unscathed but significantly lighter in the wallet. Please stay away.

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Stacey, Liverpool

Not going to go into details here. This girl is dangerous, and will rob you at the threat of physical violence from a posse of hoodies. Managed to get away unscathed but significantly lighter in the wallet. Please stay away.

Oh my!! HAve you reported this to seeking and why still her profile is active mate glad that you are ok. did you visit her place ?

[NightKid]

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Stacey, Liverpool

Not going to go into details here. This girl is dangerous, and will rob you at the threat of physical violence from a posse of hoodies. Managed to get away unscathed but significantly lighter in the wallet. Please stay away.

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[Asurmen]

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Stacey, Liverpool

Not going to go into details here. This girl is dangerous, and will rob you at the threat of physical violence from a posse of hoodies. Managed to get away unscathed but significantly lighter in the wallet. Please stay away.

Sorry to hear this Inurfase,  I'm sure I spoke to her a year or so ago.

Was insistent on taking my number and messaging me first, I think she told me that works in the NHS but could be wrong.

[inurfase]

Don't want to go into further detail, still a bit shaken. Just glad it was only money in the end. I blocked her profile as soon as I'd copied the link, didn't even think to report and now I can't bring her up. If one of you can report her then please do.

[finn5555]

Don't want to go into further detail, still a bit shaken. Just glad it was only money in the end. I blocked her profile as soon as I'd copied the link, didn't even think to report and now I can't bring her up. If one of you can report her then please do.

Would report to the police as well mate

[Heph]

Would report to the police as well mate

Seconded

We can't have this sort of argey-bargey happening to fellow members

There was a thread on the London boards a few years back - I can't recall if it was in connection with an AW or Seeking report, where a chap was mugged at knifepoint en-route to an assignation, and afterwards he correctly suspected the girl's collusion with the muggers (she'd checked his whereabouts on the last 100 yards to her door and he was intercepted on the stairs). From memory, he reported it and the Police did follow through and apprehended the lot of them - and I think, in the following months, they secured convictions.

[styussr]

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Stacey, Liverpool

Not going to go into details here. This girl is dangerous, and will rob you at the threat of physical violence from a posse of hoodies. Managed to get away unscathed but significantly lighter in the wallet. Please stay away.

I actually met her 10 days ago, looks like I dodged a bullet as had no issues with what OP had to go through.

[inurfase]

I actually met her 10 days ago, looks like I dodged a bullet as had no issues with what OP had to go through.

How was your experience overall and what did you end up paying her? I had actually met her once before too with all being fine. I wonder if her MO is to get you to trust her before trying something, coz in our first meet we'd had a pretty long chat and I guess I let my guard down and told her plenty about myself! Anyway, hopefully you won't get targeted by her if you see her again. Due to my personal circumstances I can't get involved with reporting her to the authorities 😕

[styussr]

How was your experience overall and what did you end up paying her? I had actually met her once before too with all being fine. I wonder if her MO is to get you to trust her before trying something, coz in our first meet we'd had a pretty long chat and I guess I let my guard down and told her plenty about myself! Anyway, hopefully you won't get targeted by her if you see her again. Due to my personal circumstances I can't get involved with reporting her to the authorities 😕

She was a little needy but loved it rough in the sack. In the end I just got her Ubers to and from me. Was going to see her again but will swerve now I’ve read what you went through.

[tightfoot69]

Any info on this one?


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Been speaking briefly. Has shown me a better photo and is quite and has a big ass. Up for most things and said she would do overnight for £150

[Engl1shmuff1ns]

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Been speaking briefly. Has shown me a better photo and is quite and has a big ass. Up for most things and said she would do overnight for £150

Well, I managed to snag the 20% off discount and I'm seeing how it goes. Aaliyah, the girl in this post, has contacted me and after a few messages is keen to to swap to WhatsApp. Was it WhatsApp that she shared the extra pictures, or Seeking?

In general, any pros and cons of messaging through Seeking or WhatsApp? She's not the only one that wants to leave Seeking to continue talking. Thanks everyone. EM

[tightfoot69]

Well, I managed to snag the 20% off discount and I'm seeing how it goes. Aaliyah, the girl in this post, has contacted me and after a few messages is keen to to swap to WhatsApp. Was it WhatsApp that she shared the extra pictures, or Seeking?

In general, any pros and cons of messaging through Seeking or WhatsApp? She's not the only one that wants to leave Seeking to continue talking. Thanks everyone. EM

Most do because seeking doesn’t like you discussing the intimate stuff. Like sex for money.

Yes she shared them on WhatsApp. Let me know how it goes.

Oh and it meant she is quite pretty on my other post.

[Jindybandy]

Decided to sign back up for one month to see situation; does just seem to be all the same faces. I do tend to look around Leeds but seem to be slim pickings so extended search a bit further and did start chatting with this one;

Jnaya;

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Looks exotic; initially she said she was looking for something long term but when I said I was looking more short term the convo has continued. Anyone had any dealings?

[inurfase]

Decided to sign back up for one month to see situation; does just seem to be all the same faces. I do tend to look around Leeds but seem to be slim pickings so extended search a bit further and did start chatting with this one;

Jnaya;

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Looks exotic; initially she said she was looking for something long term but when I said I was looking more short term the convo has continued. Anyone had any dealings?

Have met her a few times... She's a bit less attractive in person but still cute... Young, 20-21... Ok-ish experience, there are a few negatives and a few positives which sorta balance out...

[Jindybandy]

Have met her a few times... She's a bit less attractive in person but still cute... Young, 20-21... Ok-ish experience, there are a few negatives and a few positives which sorta balance out...

Cool, thanks for the info. She does look really cute in her pics to be fair. Did you find accommodation in MCR or did he have her own place if you don’t mind me asking?

[inurfase]

She can't host... I'd suggest a shorter meet in the first instance rather than an overnight...

[stanr]

Well, I managed to snag the 20% off discount and I'm seeing how it goes. Aaliyah, the girl in this post, has contacted me and after a few messages is keen to to swap to WhatsApp. Was it WhatsApp that she shared the extra pictures, or Seeking?

In general, any pros and cons of messaging through Seeking or WhatsApp? She's not the only one that wants to leave Seeking to continue talking. Thanks everyone. EM

i have also just come back on the site and taken advantage of the 20% discount on offer.

One thing I have found is that there are quite a few profiles now that are misleading in terms of location. I am only interested in meeting someone in the Manchester area, and it's a disappointment after chatting to someone suitable you then find out they don't live in the area.

Here are a couple of examples:

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There were also four other girls I talked to who all said they were in Manchester but, one was in Chorley, one in Huddersfield, one in Liverpool, and one in Crewe - I deleted all their profiles instantly once I found out otherwise, I would have posted their profiles for you all.

[stanr]

Have met her a few times... She's a bit less attractive in person but still cute... Young, 20-21... Ok-ish experience, there are a few negatives and a few positives which sorta balance out...

I was talking to her, and she quoted me £350 to meet so i declined and told her my price, which was alot less... she rejected me but then later on came back and said 'what's your availability like, if i was to agree yr ppm?'

[YoungBrum]

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Been speaking briefly. Has shown me a better photo and is quite and has a big ass. Up for most things and said she would do overnight for £150

She still showing for you guys? I messaged her, she replied but before I read it her profile disappeared

[tightfoot69]

She still showing for you guys? I messaged her, she replied but before I read it her profile disappeared

Disappeared for me too.

[inurfase]

I was talking to her, and she quoted me £350 to meet so i declined and told her my price, which was alot less... she rejected me but then later on came back and said 'what's your availability like, if i was to agree yr ppm?'

She's flaky and also will give you the 'this is what I get' schtick but equally will ping you incessantly when she needs cash and meet for much less... First time I met her was 300 overnight and at another time I've also met her at 80 for a few hours... But I've literally just deleted her number since not interested in seeing her again... Like I said strictly ok, and after my recent experiences I'm planning on cutting down this activity to very occasional and very select...

[jacobs1]

She's flaky and also will give you the 'this is what I get' schtick but equally will ping you incessantly when she needs cash and meet for much less... First time I met her was 300 overnight and at another time I've also met her at 80 for a few hours... But I've literally just deleted her number since not interested in seeing her again... Like I said strictly ok, and after my recent experiences I'm planning on cutting down this activity to very occasional and very select...

i nearly met her a few times but never came to fruition. felt the pics looked pretty heavily filtered

[Iloveoral]

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Where did the photos come from ?
You’ve been here long enough to know the rules, have a re-read please, link at the bottom of every page

[Shah95]

Hi all I recently subscribed to seeking. When i message girls the message does not show in my inbox is that the case for everyone. Thank you for any replies in advance

[Jindybandy]

Hi all I recently subscribed to seeking. When i message girls the message does not show in my inbox is that the case for everyone. Thank you for any replies in advance

Don’t think it shows in your inbox unless they respond. You have to switch to your sent folder to see it, then look for a tick marker against it see if it’s been read. If the icon still the ‘forwarding arrow’ means it’s not been read.

[Heph]

i have also just come back on the site and taken advantage of the 20% discount on offer.

One thing I have found is that there are quite a few profiles now that are misleading in terms of location. I am only interested in meeting someone in the Manchester area, and it's a disappointment after chatting to someone suitable you then find out they don't live in the area.

Here are a couple of examples:

External Link/Members Only Ella - says Manchester but lives in Preston

External Link/Members Only Penny - says Manchester but lives in Lancaster

There were also four other girls I talked to who all said they were in Manchester but, one was in Chorley, one in Huddersfield, one in Liverpool, and one in Crewe - I deleted all their profiles instantly once I found out otherwise, I would have posted their profiles for you all.

I think the reason for this is fairly easy to understand: they want to reduce the likelihood of their relatives, neighbours, colleagues and acquaintances stumbling across them by location.