Speaking from the POV of a prossie...
Up to now, I only visit hotels on an out-call basis. I would request the same details as above because I wouldn't want to walk into a hotel unless I was sure you're in the room you claim to be in. I won't leave home until I've spoken to you through the phone in your hotel room.
I've heard of girls who don't do 'security checks' and I presume these are the same girls who go home to write a blog about how they've had their time wasted, when they've really only wasted their own time by not confirming you're there.
It's your prerogative to refuse to disclose your details and it's a prossie'sd prerogative to decide she doesn't feel comfortable visiting the hotel without confirming you're there beforehand. If you're not happy with her requests, there will be someone naive enough to visit you without confirmation you're there.
Apart from confirming you are where you claim to be, I have no interest in your personal details.
This isn't the most reliable source and I'm not sure it's applicable to the UK but it might be worth a look?: External Link/Members OnlyIf I booked a hotel room as a client and I had paid in advance by card; on check-in I think I'd ask 'is it possible to have the room under the name 'John Smith?' and let them know I would like to remain private and discreet.
*If you have excellent feedback, I think other prossie's may be less likely to worry about whether or not you'll be there. But AW feedback is often contrived (and it's not always obvious) so for this reason, I don't visit anyone without calling the hotel and asking to be put through to your room. It wouldn't be fun to turn up at a hotel and knock on someone's door, only to find out the person you thought you would be visiting is at home laughing, or sat in his car outside enjoying the view as you are forced to leave in embarrassment.
*If you have 0 feedback, IMO a prossie would be very naive, or desperate/blinded by money, if she were to visit youw without confirming you're there. If you do have 0 feedback and you're not happy with disclosing any details, you may be best starting with in-calls first to gain some credibility.
*The day I stop confirming out-call details and start visiting hotels without reliable confirmation that you're there - that's the day I become too much of a
punter, when my role is to be the prostitute.