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Author Topic: A caring and respectful lover  (Read 1997 times)

Offline Simple

Why?  I mean why doubt it?  Why even question it?  There have been times when I have really enjoyed myself and said to the chap with me exactly that and often the response is similar, as in 'Did you really?' and I can't help but wonder what it would take them to really believe it.  One guy asked me if I needed to use some lube before we continued with our exploits and I new I didn't need it and said no.  He was one of the ones that seemed surprised when I said I enjoyed it and I reminded him of the fact that I did not need lube and asked him how he thought that was, how did I get wet?  Finally it seemed to sink in.

Unsurprisingly a majority (if not all) the prossies I've seen have seemingly enjoyed themselves during the punt despite the fact I focus almost entirely on my own sexual satisfaction therefore I am either so gifted I can effortlessly get a lady off or the prossies are simply acting, I am more inclined to believe the latter. On several accounts I have almost believed the prossie's performance, one prossie genuinely appeared to be having a good time and said it was easier to enjoy herself as I was younger guy around her age and another prossie's face actually become flushed and red, and her nipple quite erect which I can only assume are signs she was possibly enjoying herself, however, on both accounts I still remain as dubious as hell...

Although I can rather appreciate the act as it is better than the prossie simply laying back unresponsive and unmoved as it would leave the experience feeling somewhat rapey...

I know some girls pre-lube beforehand, but surely you would be able to taste this on her if you do RO, so would know if she had or not?  Assuming you do RO that is.
If I were actually "into" RO at all I certainly wouldn't do it with a prossie for the chance of tasting lube and latex from previous punters, completely offputting and disgusting...


What I do find questionable though, is that the same guys that state they must have DFK, state that it's all about them, but surely kissing is more intimate than that and that alone can get sparks going between two people?  Does it not cease to be a singular experience at that point?
DFK is one of my most favoured punting activities alongside oral without and I suppose it is one of those mutual and shared pleasures as the prossie to be a passionate and enthusiastic kisser has to seem "into" the kiss and if possible even replicate that certain "spark" between two people in civvy streets during a kiss...


You are unusual in your responsiveness, I think Poppy. Personally, I find an orgasm tiring and distracting from the job in hand. If a client insists great but my raison de etre is to draw out and  satiate the person who paid. Please do not think that I am criticising, I am not, but I would not be able to be so imaginative if I was concentrating on which angle got me off.
Yep, put it quite well Luce as if I was concerned about achieving the perplexing task of getting a prossie off it would be time consuming, tiresome and ultimately shift the focus of the punt onto the prossie instead of me, the paying punter...
« Last Edit: April 23, 2011, 07:11:35 AM by Simple »

Albert

To be honest I like men to follow my lead. In the main they do not need me to lay there and satiate my own desire, they need me for convenient serious sex. I like sex, I like men, but I do not need to come. I prefer to concentrate.

And in many cases that is the same way for men, as not all men go to see an escort to have penetrative sex, regardless of what some say.

Some go for the Sub/Dom sessions...(or D/s for those who prefer it  :D)

Others for the thrill of being with someone so much younger and trying to pleasure them.

The thrill of watching a beautifull woman strip and having her to kiss and cuddle.

To wank over her face after having a serious OWO session.

The thrill of being able to buy someone's time, and expecting them to be happy about it.

The thrill of the pre booking nerves, and the post punt after glow.

All are experiances that come to mind, and I have enjoyed all of the above, as well as penetrative sex, so despite all that we read, when guys book an escort, they usually have something they want to do, and its not always as clear cut as we think.

Offline Jimmyredcab

I am not a lover of any WG, i punt for sex, being a lover is for my relationships.

Spot on.
WG's do not see us as lovers, we are walking ATM's, nothing more nothing less.   ;) ;)

Offline Lady Poppy

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You are unusual in your responsiveness, I think Poppy. Personally, I find an orgasm tiring and distracting from the job in hand. If a client insists great but my raison de etre is to draw out and  satiate the person who paid. Please do not think that I am criticising, I am not, but I would not be able to be so imaginative if I was concentrating on which angle got me off.

Hey we are all different, which is the beauty.  No two men are the same, so why should we be?  I don't see that many guys so for me having an orgasm is part of the joy of the work I do and personally I don't find it tiring or distracting.  I don't find myself concentrating particularly either, as my body is homed in to the other person (most of the time) and part of the enjoyment for me is seeing their enjoyment. 

I know what you do works and I know the way I do things works too, but again that is the beauty of our job.  A lot of guys want variety and our difference provides that.  I think if I saw a lot of guys per day then it might need to be addressed, but the majority of the time I don't, as it fits in with my normal life and duties as a Mum. 

Lastly, I never focus on my orgasm, but I do encourage my pleasure and most guys seem to be more than willing to do that.  I've been surprised at how many seem to be deprived of the joys of giving RO, or fingering and as long as they are happy to listen to my body or the odd guide, I'm more than happy to be aroused in this way.

I'm not saying that I orgasm with every client, quite a few don't want penetration and sometimes it just doesn't go that way, but then sex is not prescribed is it, there are no guarantees, other than you and I know doubt do our best to put a smile on their face and have them leave feeling on cloud 9, de-stressed and that they have had value for money.

Offline Geetaw1

The first punt I had, the girl came whilst on top, due to right angle for clitty stimulation, I guess. But, I am not bothered about whether the girl enjoys herself at all.

Offline Daffodil

If a girl enjoys herself in my company then great (and I guess it might lead to a better punt as she may be more reciprocal if she's having genuine fun) but it most certainly isn't an objective of mine.
I'm paying so the focus should be on me. If she wants the focus I am more than willing to accept her 'hard earned'.
Having said that, I am always respectful, hygenic and punctual. That is all I think can be asked of the punter.


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