External Link/Members OnlyExcellent comms, quite a lot of to-and-fro around location/transport logistics. We agreed on two confirmations on the day itself. Her place is on the outskirts of Northampton, takes about an hour to get to by bus from the town centre. Nice flat, shower/loo right there in the living room! Building works in progress.
She herself, pretty much as per her AW profile. I had made a fairly detailed and specific list of BDSM services I wanted. Bondage, sounding, electrics, prostate mass, anal play, etc. The usual, in other words, and pretty vanilla within bdsm boundaries.
We got going with an on-the-couch discussion which seemed to become an advice-pushing counselling session and threatened to go on for ever.
Eventually i called a halt to this rubbish and insisted we got to the main act. It did feel like a time-wasting tactic on her part.
Well; services delivered but without the bondage. That kind of negates the point of the whole thing, which is (sort of) enforced submission. Time over, shower, desultory chat and i left. My formal thanks txted an hour later but no reply.
I regret now not having really let go with my real opinion at the time. That makes me partly responsible for the breakdown in relationship. Hopefully lesson learned.
