Ok, I'm finally starting to understand the pit falls that you guys go through in order to have a good time and I thought it might be useful if you come up with a lists of do's and don'ts before seeing someone new. Here are a few suggestions from me, although you may disagree, as let's face it, I've never actually been in your position. Feel welcome to disagree.
1. Always do your research first.
such as, check out pictures are real, talk to them on the phone if you can, check FR's, maybe do a google search on them etc.
2. Never go to a new wg really randy, as it might stop you walking.
3. Keep the booking to her shortest time, that way you have not spent a fortune if it is only mediocre.