Dating a WG

[narrowhanger]

Take on this from a slightly different angle - I don't punt but a previous gf of mine (from a few years ago now) has recently started as a WG. We're still good friends and talk about pretty much everything. Sometimes I think about whether I'd have been able to stay in a relationship with her if she'd started working back then and on balance I think probably not.
It's not about the jealousy - I don't really believe in monogamous relationships - but more practical. Really good sex was an important part of what we had and I suspect a busy WG would simply get too tired/jaded to maintain the same level of enthusiasm as if not working.

[Riot Doll]

Eat my fucking dick if you think I am 'bitter'.

Hahaha! HR, you're so mean it beggars belief, but otherwise I can't see anything wrong with your posts  

A message to all punters out there: please do not get attached! Please do not think you're special! Please just see it for what it is!

[Panda Power]

Once a whore, always a whore. That's my philosophy.

I was once a dry stone waller, it was 29 years ago I enjoyed it as a job most of the time, however I don't think I'd do it again. The lady I know who has gone into business, set it up herself and expanded it, why should she fuck for money, she's an attractive, intelligent woman with a great sense of humour, why should she fuck someone she doesn't fancy for a few extra quid, she can pull good looking guys whenever she wants?

[Hellraiser]

I was once a dry stone waller, it was 29 years ago I enjoyed it as a job most of the time, however I don't think I'd do it again. The lady I know who has gone into business, set it up herself and expanded it, why should she fuck for money, she's an attractive, intelligent woman with a great sense of humour, why should she fuck someone she doesn't fancy for a few extra quid, she can pull good looking guys whenever she wants?

Because, my friend, some women like being paid for sex. Not every whore is some poor girl desperate to make ends meet. Some like the slutty sensation of being paid to get fucked. It's a fantasy and some like the thrill of it. To be used and abused by sleazy men like me and be paid for it. Some who have husbands/boyfriends they love but are shit at sex, so they get knobbed by blokes like me.

In some womens mind, why have one night stands and get your cunt slammed for free when you can make £150+ an hour from it?

Which makes perfect sense of course. If I was born a woman, then the moment I turned 18 I'd definitely be a whore, right up until the day I die. I'd be the world's oldest prossie. I'd tell all my punters bullshit like how they are the best sex I've ever had and how they really know how to please me, but secretly I'd be thinking 'Get the fuck out my flat, twat. I need a fag and I wanna buy a bag from Harrods before they shut' 

Doesn't matter how much money she is making, whoring will still pay well. Say, on average, she sees 1 guy a night for an hour, every day of the week at £150 a fuck. That's £4650 a month. That's good business (btw, how do you think she expanded her business??)

If she's still a fantastic business woman, as you say, then she'll still be renting out that fanny of hers from time to time instead of giving it away for free :

[cjkany2015]

I couldn't hande this. As I just posted, I went a bit soft on a WG and about went crazy every time she had a new AW feedback.

Your mind plays tricks even if you aren't the jealous type in the slightest.

[Panda Power]

Because, my friend, some women like being paid for sex. Not every whore is some poor girl desperate to make ends meet. Some like the slutty sensation of being paid to get fucked. It's a fantasy and some like the thrill of it. To be used and abused by sleazy men like me and be paid for it. Some who have husbands/boyfriends they love but are shit at sex, so they get knobbed by blokes like me.

In some womens mind, why have one night stands and get your cunt slammed for free when you can make £150+ an hour from it?

Which makes perfect sense of course. If I was born a woman, then the moment I turned 18 I'd definitely be a whore, right up until the day I die. I'd be the world's oldest prossie. I'd tell all my punters bullshit like how they are the best sex I've ever had and how they really know how to please me, but secretly I'd be thinking 'Get the fuck out my flat, twat. I need a fag and I wanna buy a bag from Harrods before they shut' 

Doesn't matter how much money she is making, whoring will still pay well. Say, on average, she sees 1 guy a night for an hour, every day of the week at £150 a fuck. That's £4650 a month. That's good business (btw, how do you think she expanded her business??)

If she's still a fantastic business woman, as you say, then she'll still be renting out that fanny of hers from time to time instead of giving it away for free :

All human beings are different and have individual reasons for doing what they do, she doesn't need that £150 for a fuck, she can pick and choose. She doesn't need to fuck someone who's overweight, smelly and unpleasant, she can pick and choose, she generally enjoyed her working years, but as with my dry stone walling it's something both of us have moved on from. I'm not defending her because I'm in a relationship with her or hope to be, she's just an example of someone. In life using the word 'they' is very loaded at times, it puts people into groups rather than realising they are individual human beings. It is part of the line of thinking that allows people to gas millions of Jews, murder their next door neighbours in Rwanda, murder prostitutes etc. Basically it allows individuals to de-humanise other individuals and treat them in the most awful way, school teachers, shop keepers and wagon drivers feel okay about putting people into cattle wagons, gas chambers and eventually mass graves. We are all different individuals with different motives, needs and personal requirements at differing times in our lives. Sometimes we may feel good about fucking strangers for money, either as prostitutes or custiomers, some time we don't, it's because we're all individuals. 

[Topgun]

It doesnt bother me in the slightest, if anything it turns me on. My ex gf was/is an escort, i was her driver on a few occasions she had outcalls when i wasnt at work.

The only thing i didnt like about it was when she had a busy day, or like rarely she had seen some bloke who was well endowered and/or was very rampant with her, she didnt want sex with me for a day or two. It didnt bother me much because i found it a turn on.

I organised 3 gangbang parties for her back in 2009, 5 guys turned up for the first one, 15 or 20 guys fir the 2nd, and about 25 for the 3rd gangbang. I filmed it all, we sold copies on DVD sent by post. I deleted it all from my computer when we split up just in case she might flip out and try do me for copyright or something. Was loads of fun while it lasted though, we both liked the adventures so to speak.

[Trenlover]

I couldn't hande this. As I just posted, I went a bit soft on a WG and about went crazy every time she had a new AW feedback.

Your mind plays tricks even if you aren't the jealous type in the slightest.

Agree completely, punting is all fun and games, until one day you meet someone you really click with and fancy.

[vorian]

Agree completely, punting is all fun and games, until one day you meet someone you really click with and fancy.

And who might this prossy be Trenlover. Who stops punting being fun for a punter.

[Hellraiser]

Agree completely, punting is all fun and games, until one day you meet someone you really click with and fancy.

I believe you meant to write:

"Agree completely, punting is all fun and games, until one day you forget that a whore is a fucking whore who doesn't give a fucking shit about you and wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire unless you paid her £30 extra for watersports, and end up becoming a lovestruck, sycophantic, stalker fucking twat dickhead who can't take 'fuckoff you arsehole punter' for an answer."

[Trenlover]

I believe you meant to write:

"Agree completely, punting is all fun and games, until one day you forget that a whore is a fucking whore who doesn't give a fucking shit about you and wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire unless you paid her £30 extra for watersports, and end up becoming a lovestruck, sycophantic, stalker fucking twat dickhead who can't take 'fuckoff you arsehole punter' for an answer."

Aye your right.

and I care not for your insults.  mate.

[vorian]

And who might this prossy be Trenlover. Who stops punting being fun for a punter.

So Trenlover I believe I answered your question as you requested and have left it a couple of days, will you now please share the link to the prossie who treated you so badly so other punters can avoid and benefit from your experience. This seems to me to be the best way of putting the punter first 

Could you please share the AW link so other punters are able to avoid the problems you have had with this girl. Thank you 

[Trenlover]

Could you please share the AW link so other punters are able to avoid the problems you have had with this girl. Thank you 

I would if I no longer liked ( loved ) her.

But I really dont want anymore pain from this. Aslong as shes letting my bb her and finish inside her. Thats all I need 

[Hellraiser]

Aye your right.

and I care not for your insults.  mate.

They are not insults. It is a harsh reality that you, and other lovestruck lurker punters who no doubt read this forum but don't post, need to accept.

Because you are a fuck up.

Being in love with a whore, realising she doesn't give a fuck about you, and then making whinging, shitty posts about how she has an ego because she refuses to give you extra free time and how it's all 'gone to her head' is utterly fucking pathetic.

This is UK Punting. A forum for punters about fucking whores. Not livejournal or Tumblr, where you can piss and moan about girls who don't love you back. Let me make this clear to you one more time.

This is a forum for sharing links and information about whores.

So post her profile link or FUCKOFF you pathetic cunt.

[vorian]

I would if I no longer liked ( loved ) her.

But I really dont want anymore pain from this. Aslong as shes letting my bb her and finish inside her. Thats all I need 

I like a lot of prossies I see but always review or share a AW link about them, if they give a good service it is important for other punters to know so they can choose her if they wish.

Also it is equally important to share an AW if you get a bad service from a WG that way other punters can avoid the girl and hopefully a bad punt.

Either way not sharing does not help any punters and puts the prossy ahead of them, I cannot see why you won't share the link, if you are really in love with her then I think a short sharp shock of having other punter critique her would help you out a lot. It would certainly help you see her as a prossy and not a girlfriend which you have hinted at in your posts. If you really want help in this matter from people I really do think sharing the link is a good start for you. Call it step one if you wish.

OK one last question does she advertise as doing BB if not then the right thing to do would be to tell people as punters should know if a prossie BB without telling punters. That would be putting the punter first.

[Dani]

That is if this prossie even exists and is not just a fantasy in his own head. Hence no link.  After all he can hardly post a link to someone who he has never met as I am sure she would respond quite quickly to his bollocks

If true then he needs to get to the GUM. Clinic quickly as you can bet your arse he is not the only one she does BB with bit again he won't believe that either as even though she made it clear he is not special to her he still believes he is

[SirFrank]

My ex father in law (he's now divorced from my wife's mother - he had a fucking lucky escape from the crazy bitch) is a builder. Their house was always in a piss poor state mainly because he grafted all day so had no fucking interest building shit when he got home from work. I imagine its similar with a WG. If she's getting fucked all day the novelty has perhaps worn off by the time she gets home.

I already get less action than a French soldier. I couldn't handle having even less especially if my lass was fucking other blokes all day

[vorian]

I like a lot of prossies I see but always review or share a AW link about them, if they give a good service it is important for other punters to know so they can choose her if they wish.

Also it is equally important to share an AW if you get a bad service from a WG that way other punters can avoid the girl and hopefully a bad punt.

Either way not sharing does not help any punters and puts the prossy ahead of them, I cannot see why you won't share the link, if you are really in love with her then I think a short sharp shock of having other punter critique her would help you out a lot. It would certainly help you see her as a prossy and not a girlfriend which you have hinted at in your posts. If you really want help in this matter from people I really do think sharing the link is a good start for you. Call it step one if you wish.

OK one last question does she advertise as doing BB if not then the right thing to do would be to tell people as punters should know if a prossie BB without telling punters. That would be putting the punter first.

I see you have just posted on another thread Trenlover, may I assume that either this prossie you have been talking about does not really exist, or you refuse to help other punters by sharing information (Including BB) about who she is. If you do not wish to help other punter in this matter please just say so everyone can be clear about your loyalties and where you stand. Thanks

[Trenlover]

I see you have just posted on another thread Trenlover, may I assume that either this prossie you have been talking about does not really exist, or you refuse to help other punters by sharing information (Including BB) about who she is. If you do not wish to help other punter in this matter please just say so everyone can be clear about your loyalties and where you stand. Thanks

off-topic mate.


pm me if you want an answer.

[vorian]

off-topic mate.


pm me if you want an answer.

Thanks for your offer, but I do not want to see the link for my own voyeuristic benefit. It would seem to be in the benefit of punters as a whole to share it for the reasons I have already mentioned.

 I also think it would help you move on from this girl which does seem to be a big issue for you. If i did get the link off you by PM then I would not share it publicly as I respect the privacy of PM. Then I would be in a position where I could not benefit punters as a whole with the information I had. So thank you for the offer but no thank you.

If you did share the link then yes you would take some abuse and ridicule but at least then the matter would be put to bed and you could move on and other punters could make their own mind up whether to see the WG or not.

[Persie]

I'm not surprised he left you!? Clearly wasn't 'fine with it', was he!? 

It may be fun for a while, but no man worth their salt respects or loves any woman of theirs whose a whore. And most honest prossies recognise that fact. Only cuckolds and pussy whipped men tolerate that sort of shit. 

However 'liberal' you pretend to be, I'll bet if the shoe was on the other foot and he was getting all the fucking and you were receiving very little in the way of it, you'd be jealous as hell and sing a different tune. I read this a lot from women like you but I've spoken with several personally. When pressed how they'd react the other way, to a woman, they've said it would never be tolerated! 

That also goes for every prossie I've spoken with who said they'd never date an active punter.

Totally agree with this.

In fact every whore I know who has had a b/f seem to attract men of a certain ilk. they tend not to be able to earn their own money, are a little bit weak and dweebie and have serious self-esteem issues

A normal bloke would not never let his girl be a whore and would take steps to make sure she aint

[jcdmj12]

I believe you meant to write:

"Agree completely, punting is all fun and games, until one day you forget that a whore is a fucking whore who doesn't give a fucking shit about you and wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire unless you paid her £30 extra for watersports, and end up becoming a lovestruck, sycophantic, stalker fucking twat dickhead who can't take 'fuckoff you arsehole punter' for an answer."

I enjoy your posts, Hellraiser, but I wish you'd stop being so wishy-washy.

Why don't you tell us what you really feel?   

[SirFrank]

I enjoy your posts, Hellraiser, but I wish you'd stop being so wishy-washy.

Why don't you tell us what you really feel?   

Quite. He's too much of a fence sitter for my liking!

[tazz]

See this documentary about hookers. This guy is perfectly happy dating a whore External Link/Members Only

[texasjapan]

Agree completely, punting is all fun and games, until one day you meet someone you really click with and fancy.

This could not be more true,  fuckin emotions getting in the way of dicks plans,  all it needs is to release the beast and be freeeee  :crazy 

[FootieMadJonny]

This could not be more true,  fuckin emotions getting in the way of dicks plans,  all it needs is to release the beast and be freeeee  :crazy 

This thread is almost two years old mate?

[Marmalade]

This a helluva old thread. I can't remember if I've contributed to it before.

1. It's a common newbie or fluffy or whiteknight fantasy, 300% misguided.
2. The rare times it has happened has not been with some regular that I then formed a 'relationship' with: it has been with women who escorted for a period and with whom I would not want punt. On one occasion it was for about two years with a woman of high intelligence who not only accompanied me to international meetings but accounted herself brilliantly in all situations, talking with my friends, colleagues and even including professors, and was always admired. She paid her own way on everything we did. She didn't live off me and I didn't live off her. She escorted through an agency, accepting two or three bookings a week to pay for books, artworks and other sophisticated tastes. It was mutually advantageous, as should be any relationship. I learnt from her (particularly Arts) and she learnt from different aspects of my life. Our working hours meant we both could spend time enjoying fabulous but fairly normal nightlife together. We separated amicably when conflicting interests meant she had to live abroad. On another occasion I had dated a lifelong friend who much later escorted for a few months so I wasn't actually dating a WG. I mention it as she invited me along one time to demonstrate the 'escorting experience' which she basically treated as a roleplay within which she worked. It was quite hilarious, especially when she switched back and forth in and out if character! I've also had one or two short, amicable relationships with women who happened to escort (no money ever changing hands and no 'in kind' payments) and with whom I would not have punted. Punting and dating are radically different things.
3. My conclusion of all this, and many years of punting, is that there is no such thing as 'dating a WG'. She is one character or the other. You can't do both. If you think you can then you are fooling yourself. If you entertain it as a hope while punting with her you are the biggest type of idiot.

[Midlane]

This a helluva old thread. I can't remember if I've contributed to it before.


3. My conclusion of all this, and many years of punting, is that there is no such thing as 'dating a WG'. She is one character or the other. You can't do both. If you think you can then you are fooling yourself. If you entertain it as a hope while punting with her you are the biggest type of idiot.

Agree with this, with qualification.

- it is perfectly possible to have a relationship with a WG is that relationship is platonic. Having a drink or a meal now and again, and keeping the two types of meet quite distinct. It actually works quite well.

-it is perfectly possible to enjoy a "normal" relationship with a former WG, even if the two of you met as SP/customer.

- it is NOT possible to have a "normal" relationship with a WG who is still working.

Opinions of this sort are always going to be subjective, based on one's own experience and whether someone has been punting for a few months or a few decades has little bearing.

[Marmalade]

I can think of two WGs i have in the past enjoyed meeting for a coffee or a night out, no shagging or flirting, and only if they were realistic when the subject of punting/prossying came up. If a WG knows you're most definitely not in the market as a potential customer (mark) she's likely to be more honest. She's also more likely to dress like shit and wear no make-up. Not a problem unless she's an embarrassment. Most women with any experience of men have two faces: 'on the pull' (potentially, including charging for it) and 'just hanging out.'

Most prostitutes are really not interesting enough people to want to spend much time with (at least once the rose-tinted spectacles have been recycled into partyglitter). One reason why I mainly do 30minute punts.

The reason we punt is mostly to shag women who would not want to shag us for free. Verb.sap.

[texasjapan]

Agree with this, with qualification.

- it is perfectly possible to have a relationship with a WG is that relationship is platonic. Having a drink or a meal now and again, and keeping the two types of meet quite distinct. It actually works quite well.

-it is perfectly possible to enjoy a "normal" relationship with a former WG, even if the two of you met as SP/customer.

- it is NOT possible to have a "normal" relationship with a WG who is still working.

Opinions of this sort are always going to be subjective, based on one's own experience and whether someone has been punting for a few months or a few decades has little bearing.

Thanks for sharing the insight much appreciated 

[texasjapan]

This thread is almost two years old mate?

I was on the new to punting link which lead me to EAS which lead me to this old thread. Got some good information here.

[Topgun]

I've done it with an ex girlfriend who escorted. It doesn't bother me in the slightest her shagging other men.

So define a normal relationship, as even swingers can be considered not a normal relationship. Personally I love seeing/hearing my girl getting banged.

A normal relationship doesn't make me happy.

[mattylondon]

If a WG knows (edit: 'thinks') you're most definitely not in the market as a potential customer (mark) she's likely to be more honest. She's also more likely to dress like shit and wear no make-up. Not a problem unless she's an embarrassment. Most women with any experience of men have two faces: 'on the pull' (potentially, including charging for it) and 'just hanging out.'

Most prostitutes are really not interesting enough people to want to spend much time with (at least once the rose-tinted spectacles have been recycled into partyglitter). One reason why I mainly do 30minute punts.

These parts of what you've said I find 100% true, in my experience. It's amazing to actually witness the transformation. No make up, very little effort put in to what is worn. Whilst most punters with their head screwed on know it's all an act, to see a prossie in 'unvarnished form' for yourself, puts it's beyond doubt.

I've enjoyed quite a bit of social time and had a lot of fun with a couple of select prossies I got on with, who all paid their own way. What I also noticed was that the women I shagged off the clock were a lot less raunchy in real life and did not like some of the services they were happy to offer for cash. For example, anal. So for those who somehow fantasise that they would be able to do all sorts for nothing, I'm afraid that they could find themselves extremely disappointed. The ones that I saw hadn't been in the game for that long and were to a woman, only doing it due to being in debt. And every one of them got out ultimately, whilst I was shagging them, although a few did go back into it.

Like most of your experiences, bar one, I didn't really find any of them interesting enough to hang about with for too long. That's not to say that some wouldn't be. Just my experience. And I prefer either 15 or 30 minute punts.

The one thing I did notice was that not one of them would've been happy for me to see other prossies... which of course I did. 

[tazz]

I've done it with an ex girlfriend who escorted. It doesn't bother me in the slightest her shagging other men.

So define a normal relationship, as even swingers can be considered not a normal relationship. Personally I love seeing/hearing my girl getting banged.

A normal relationship doesn't make me happy.

Im sure there plenty of guys in the midlands on here who would be more than happy to screw her. Is she available to see other UKIP members?

[Topgun]

Im sure there plenty of guys in the midlands on here who would be more than happy to screw her. Is she available to see other UKIP members?

That's ok, I've already seen and filmed her fuck 50 other men over 3 gangbangs at the Copthorne hotel near Merry Hill.
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she no longer escorting lately.

[Nagilum]

I get it, I really do. Some men feel lonely and the GFE provides them with comfort for the duration they book. They have sex, feel emotionally attached, she looks at them with glistening eyes, pays them compliments and requires no effort to seduce.

One problem - you paid for that.

Just remember it's her job and some are better than others at it.

[Topgun]

I get it, I really do. Some men feel lonely and the GFE provides them with comfort for the duration they book. They have sex, feel emotionally attached, she looks at them with glistening eyes, pays them compliments and requires no effort to seduce.

One problem - you paid for that.

Just remember it's her job and some are better than others at it.

Umm well, that sounds like all women in general, in a round-about way at least.

I don't feel lonely much, I've been pretty much single all my life - I am so used to it it literally does not bother me. From my point of view I couldn't give a shit about it. At the end of the day I'm fucking attractive girls as much as to my wallets content, and I need no discretion at all to the volume of girls visiting my home - life is good to be a single guy when no one knows if they are normal girls, sluts or whores 

 Thanks mum and dad for pushing me to get to college so I can afford to fuck these sluts, and maybe settle down with one - as any old normal relationship simply doesn't cut it for me.

But I guess many men, as per related to the context of this topic, for the most part do not reflect my lifestyle.

[Magicalstory]

I get it, I really do. Some men feel lonely and the GFE provides them with comfort for the duration they book. They have sex, feel emotionally attached, she looks at them with glistening eyes, pays them compliments and requires no effort to seduce.

One problem - you paid for that.

Just remember it's her job and some are better than others at it.

+1, it helps to have a few girls on the go and space out visits to reduce the likelihood.

[Sparquin]

- it is perfectly possible to have a relationship with a WG is that relationship is platonic. Having a drink or a meal now and again, and keeping the two types of meet quite distinct. It actually works quite well.

-it is perfectly possible to enjoy a "normal" relationship with a former WG, even if the two of you met as SP/customer.

- it is NOT possible to have a "normal" relationship with a WG who is still working.

From my experiences this is totally correct. Trying to have a normal relationship with an active WG involves considerable pain and is best avoided.

[Sir Lance-a-lot]

I haven't tried it, but I don't think I'd have a problem with it.  You get free sex with a hot woman that others have to pay for - what's not to like?

It depends on the guy's attitude.  You shouldn't be asking "do I want my girlfriend shagging other blokes" - she's a WG, that's what she does, it's none of your damn business.  You should be asking "do I want companionship and free sex from this escort?"

Always accept that she'll be meeting plenty of other guys who want her too, and she could trade you in for a better model at any time - then enjoy the ride for as long as it lasts.  When it ends, count the money you've saved by not having to pay, and go punting with it.

[happyhappy]

Would you really be ok with your whore girlfriend fucking dozens of men a week, of all ages, from those in their 20's all the way to their 60's or 70's, kissing them, sucking their dicks, taking their cum in her mouth or all over her body, and those same guys fucking her in the pussy, maybe even up the arse, pounding and slamming her cunt, day after day after day....

And then maybe one of those guys then gives a critical review either praising her or slating every aspect of their booking,  resulting in either her bookings dropping or soaring,  resulting in your whore getting fucked and cummed on by even more men?

Sounds absolutely perfect to me - and just like my wife 

[Sparquin]

I haven't tried it, but I don't think I'd have a problem with it.  You get free sex with a hot woman that others have to pay for - what's not to like?

Hmm, I think you are being optimistic on that score. At some point in the relationship she is likely to ask herself why she is doing it for free with you when there are guys queuing to pay her for it.  Pretty soon you will find her less interested in sex with you and/or it is a watered down version of what others pay for.

[willmo1]

Not for me. One way or another it would become a tool to beat each other with. Stick to shagging wgs and buy a dog.

[Marmalade]

Look if you are in a genuine relationship with a civilised civvie woman, you don't "get sex for free": she decides if she wants sex, as do you, and you have sex when you both want it at the same time.

[steventft]

I sometimes get the fluffies for girls if I find them attractive and the service has been good and friendly. I guess that is the hormones running around my head after the session. Also, quite a lot of the girls I have seen are really nice, whether that is just good customer service or genuine character. It all mixes up and my thoughts often wander to dating them etc. Then I look in the mirror and it is always disappointing to find that it is not Richard Gere looking back. Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for!

Dating a WG? Never been there so no particular evidential insight to offer. Still, good for you if it works out. Plenty of people meet their partners at their place of work - why not a WG and a client?

[Nagilum]

Dating a WG? Never been there so no particular evidential insight to offer. Still, good for you if it works out. Plenty of people meet their partners at their place of work - why not a WG and a client?

Because you are opening yourself up to a world of hurt.  No man, no matter how much they try to rationalise it will accept their partner being ploughed by 5 different blokes daily.  If you do, then I suggest you try swinging as that will be more up your street. 

Keep in mind, you are paying for this service.  Their job is to make you feel this way and if they do, then perfect enjoy yourself.  If you find it too much, move on to the next girl.  You will be surprised how much a new girl will take your mind of it.

[dave_59]

Would have aproblem.
If I'm going to shag others, as I do.
Why not Mrs, who won't by the way.

But I'd not be oppossed to being with a WG and/or swinging.
I'm a lying twat but not two faced with double standards.

[happyhappy]

Been with my wife now for 16years. We started swinging 7 years ago - not to improve our sex life (as we were and still are having great sex), but to enhance it and to learn new things. The pleasure we get from watching each other having fun with others (of the same and opposite sex), knowing how strong our relationship is together, excites us. Whether we get to see the fun first hand, or just hear about it in detail later, it only adds to the excitement.

Move on a while and she is made redundant, coupled with a location move and the opportunity to be paid well for enjoying what we have shared together, and we are in a win win situation. The love and passion between us is as strong as its ever been and we both get to have fun with others - alone and together. I get to see other working girls, she gets to see clients, and we compare notes.

It's not for everyone I'm sure, but by god it works so well for us. So many people are so jealous of what we have.

[AnthG]

Could you date a WG knowing full well what she does? Would it turn you on? or are you the jealous type and a big fuck no?

Interested to hear your points.

I think the issue is with this, summed up in its most general terms. The type of punters who would be happy to date a WG. Are not the sort of guys a WG would ever want to date.

This is why it rarely happens that WGs date punters.

[TallPaul]

Could probably get away with it as no longer with either of my main 3 life exes.
Realistically anyone middle aged and separated is either going to stay single or meet someone in civvy street and at that age you both get together for mutual convenience and it's not like the bond or love you had in your twenties.

Bit like swinging. Could do it with a gf or date but couldn't with anyone I loved.
As love has gone. Anthing goes as long as both happy