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Offline FootieMadJonny

This could not be more true,  fuckin emotions getting in the way of dicks plans,  all it needs is to release the beast and be freeeee  :crazy  :cool:
This thread is almost two years old mate?
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Offline Marmalade

This a helluva old thread. I can't remember if I've contributed to it before.

1. It's a common newbie or fluffy or whiteknight fantasy, 300% misguided.
2. The rare times it has happened has not been with some regular that I then formed a 'relationship' with: it has been with women who escorted for a period and with whom I would not want punt. On one occasion it was for about two years with a woman of high intelligence who not only accompanied me to international meetings but accounted herself brilliantly in all situations, talking with my friends, colleagues and even including professors, and was always admired. She paid her own way on everything we did. She didn't live off me and I didn't live off her. She escorted through an agency, accepting two or three bookings a week to pay for books, artworks and other sophisticated tastes. It was mutually advantageous, as should be any relationship. I learnt from her (particularly Arts) and she learnt from different aspects of my life. Our working hours meant we both could spend time enjoying fabulous but fairly normal nightlife together. We separated amicably when conflicting interests meant she had to live abroad. On another occasion I had dated a lifelong friend who much later escorted for a few months so I wasn't actually dating a WG. I mention it as she invited me along one time to demonstrate the 'escorting experience' which she basically treated as a roleplay within which she worked. It was quite hilarious, especially when she switched back and forth in and out if character! I've also had one or two short, amicable relationships with women who happened to escort (no money ever changing hands and no 'in kind' payments) and with whom I would not have punted. Punting and dating are radically different things.
3. My conclusion of all this, and many years of punting, is that there is no such thing as 'dating a WG'. She is one character or the other. You can't do both. If you think you can then you are fooling yourself. If you entertain it as a hope while punting with her you are the biggest type of idiot.

Offline Midlane

This a helluva old thread. I can't remember if I've contributed to it before.


3. My conclusion of all this, and many years of punting, is that there is no such thing as 'dating a WG'. She is one character or the other. You can't do both. If you think you can then you are fooling yourself. If you entertain it as a hope while punting with her you are the biggest type of idiot.

Agree with this, with qualification.

- it is perfectly possible to have a relationship with a WG is that relationship is platonic. Having a drink or a meal now and again, and keeping the two types of meet quite distinct. It actually works quite well.

-it is perfectly possible to enjoy a "normal" relationship with a former WG, even if the two of you met as SP/customer.

- it is NOT possible to have a "normal" relationship with a WG who is still working.

Opinions of this sort are always going to be subjective, based on one's own experience and whether someone has been punting for a few months or a few decades has little bearing.

Offline Marmalade

I can think of two WGs i have in the past enjoyed meeting for a coffee or a night out, no shagging or flirting, and only if they were realistic when the subject of punting/prossying came up. If a WG knows you're most definitely not in the market as a potential customer (mark) she's likely to be more honest. She's also more likely to dress like shit and wear no make-up. Not a problem unless she's an embarrassment. Most women with any experience of men have two faces: 'on the pull' (potentially, including charging for it) and 'just hanging out.'

Most prostitutes are really not interesting enough people to want to spend much time with (at least once the rose-tinted spectacles have been recycled into partyglitter). One reason why I mainly do 30minute punts.

The reason we punt is mostly to shag women who would not want to shag us for free. Verb.sap.
« Last Edit: January 08, 2016, 09:28:31 AM by Marmalade »

Agree with this, with qualification.

- it is perfectly possible to have a relationship with a WG is that relationship is platonic. Having a drink or a meal now and again, and keeping the two types of meet quite distinct. It actually works quite well.

-it is perfectly possible to enjoy a "normal" relationship with a former WG, even if the two of you met as SP/customer.

- it is NOT possible to have a "normal" relationship with a WG who is still working.

Opinions of this sort are always going to be subjective, based on one's own experience and whether someone has been punting for a few months or a few decades has little bearing.

Thanks for sharing the insight much appreciated  :thumbsup:

This thread is almost two years old mate?

I was on the new to punting link which lead me to EAS which lead me to this old thread. Got some good information here.

Offline Topgun

I've done it with an ex girlfriend who escorted. It doesn't bother me in the slightest her shagging other men.

So define a normal relationship, as even swingers can be considered not a normal relationship. Personally I love seeing/hearing my girl getting banged.

A normal relationship doesn't make me happy.
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Offline mattylondon

If a WG knows (edit: 'thinks') you're most definitely not in the market as a potential customer (mark) she's likely to be more honest. She's also more likely to dress like shit and wear no make-up. Not a problem unless she's an embarrassment. Most women with any experience of men have two faces: 'on the pull' (potentially, including charging for it) and 'just hanging out.'

Most prostitutes are really not interesting enough people to want to spend much time with (at least once the rose-tinted spectacles have been recycled into partyglitter). One reason why I mainly do 30minute punts.

These parts of what you've said I find 100% true, in my experience. It's amazing to actually witness the transformation. No make up, very little effort put in to what is worn. Whilst most punters with their head screwed on know it's all an act, to see a prossie in 'unvarnished form' for yourself, puts it's beyond doubt.

I've enjoyed quite a bit of social time and had a lot of fun with a couple of select prossies I got on with, who all paid their own way. What I also noticed was that the women I shagged off the clock were a lot less raunchy in real life and did not like some of the services they were happy to offer for cash. For example, anal. So for those who somehow fantasise that they would be able to do all sorts for nothing, I'm afraid that they could find themselves extremely disappointed. The ones that I saw hadn't been in the game for that long and were to a woman, only doing it due to being in debt. And every one of them got out ultimately, whilst I was shagging them, although a few did go back into it.

Like most of your experiences, bar one, I didn't really find any of them interesting enough to hang about with for too long. That's not to say that some wouldn't be. Just my experience. And I prefer either 15 or 30 minute punts.

The one thing I did notice was that not one of them would've been happy for me to see other prossies... which of course I did.  :D
« Last Edit: January 08, 2016, 07:10:05 PM by mattylondon »

Offline tazz

I've done it with an ex girlfriend who escorted. It doesn't bother me in the slightest her shagging other men.

So define a normal relationship, as even swingers can be considered not a normal relationship. Personally I love seeing/hearing my girl getting banged.

A normal relationship doesn't make me happy.

Im sure there plenty of guys in the midlands on here who would be more than happy to screw her. Is she available to see other UKIP members?

Offline Topgun

Im sure there plenty of guys in the midlands on here who would be more than happy to screw her. Is she available to see other UKIP members?
That's ok, I've already seen and filmed her fuck 50 other men over 3 gangbangs at the Copthorne hotel near Merry Hill.
https://www.adultwork.com/552752
she no longer escorting lately.
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Offline Nagilum

I get it, I really do. Some men feel lonely and the GFE provides them with comfort for the duration they book. They have sex, feel emotionally attached, she looks at them with glistening eyes, pays them compliments and requires no effort to seduce.

One problem - you paid for that.

Just remember it's her job and some are better than others at it.

Offline Topgun

I get it, I really do. Some men feel lonely and the GFE provides them with comfort for the duration they book. They have sex, feel emotionally attached, she looks at them with glistening eyes, pays them compliments and requires no effort to seduce.

One problem - you paid for that.

Just remember it's her job and some are better than others at it.
Umm well, that sounds like all women in general, in a round-about way at least.

I don't feel lonely much, I've been pretty much single all my life - I am so used to it it literally does not bother me. From my point of view I couldn't give a shit about it. At the end of the day I'm fucking attractive girls as much as to my wallets content, and I need no discretion at all to the volume of girls visiting my home - life is good to be a single guy when no one knows if they are normal girls, sluts or whores  :dance:

 Thanks mum and dad for pushing me to get to college so I can afford to fuck these sluts, and maybe settle down with one - as any old normal relationship simply doesn't cut it for me.

But I guess many men, as per related to the context of this topic, for the most part do not reflect my lifestyle.
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I get it, I really do. Some men feel lonely and the GFE provides them with comfort for the duration they book. They have sex, feel emotionally attached, she looks at them with glistening eyes, pays them compliments and requires no effort to seduce.

One problem - you paid for that.

Just remember it's her job and some are better than others at it.

+1, it helps to have a few girls on the go and space out visits to reduce the likelihood.

Offline Sparquin


- it is perfectly possible to have a relationship with a WG is that relationship is platonic. Having a drink or a meal now and again, and keeping the two types of meet quite distinct. It actually works quite well.

-it is perfectly possible to enjoy a "normal" relationship with a former WG, even if the two of you met as SP/customer.

- it is NOT possible to have a "normal" relationship with a WG who is still working.


From my experiences this is totally correct. Trying to have a normal relationship with an active WG involves considerable pain and is best avoided.

I haven't tried it, but I don't think I'd have a problem with it.  You get free sex with a hot woman that others have to pay for - what's not to like?

It depends on the guy's attitude.  You shouldn't be asking "do I want my girlfriend shagging other blokes" - she's a WG, that's what she does, it's none of your damn business.  You should be asking "do I want companionship and free sex from this escort?"

Always accept that she'll be meeting plenty of other guys who want her too, and she could trade you in for a better model at any time - then enjoy the ride for as long as it lasts.  When it ends, count the money you've saved by not having to pay, and go punting with it.

Would you really be ok with your whore girlfriend fucking dozens of men a week, of all ages, from those in their 20's all the way to their 60's or 70's, kissing them, sucking their dicks, taking their cum in her mouth or all over her body, and those same guys fucking her in the pussy, maybe even up the arse, pounding and slamming her cunt, day after day after day....

And then maybe one of those guys then gives a critical review either praising her or slating every aspect of their booking,  resulting in either her bookings dropping or soaring,  resulting in your whore getting fucked and cummed on by even more men?

Sounds absolutely perfect to me - and just like my wife  :thumbsup:

Offline Sparquin

I haven't tried it, but I don't think I'd have a problem with it.  You get free sex with a hot woman that others have to pay for - what's not to like?

Hmm, I think you are being optimistic on that score. At some point in the relationship she is likely to ask herself why she is doing it for free with you when there are guys queuing to pay her for it.  Pretty soon you will find her less interested in sex with you and/or it is a watered down version of what others pay for.

Offline willmo1

Not for me. One way or another it would become a tool to beat each other with. Stick to shagging wgs and buy a dog.
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Offline Marmalade

Look if you are in a genuine relationship with a civilised civvie woman, you don't "get sex for free": she decides if she wants sex, as do you, and you have sex when you both want it at the same time.

Offline steventft

I sometimes get the fluffies for girls if I find them attractive and the service has been good and friendly. I guess that is the hormones running around my head after the session. Also, quite a lot of the girls I have seen are really nice, whether that is just good customer service or genuine character. It all mixes up and my thoughts often wander to dating them etc. Then I look in the mirror and it is always disappointing to find that it is not Richard Gere looking back. Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for!

Dating a WG? Never been there so no particular evidential insight to offer. Still, good for you if it works out. Plenty of people meet their partners at their place of work - why not a WG and a client?

Offline Nagilum

Dating a WG? Never been there so no particular evidential insight to offer. Still, good for you if it works out. Plenty of people meet their partners at their place of work - why not a WG and a client?

Because you are opening yourself up to a world of hurt.  No man, no matter how much they try to rationalise it will accept their partner being ploughed by 5 different blokes daily.  If you do, then I suggest you try swinging as that will be more up your street. 

Keep in mind, you are paying for this service.  Their job is to make you feel this way and if they do, then perfect enjoy yourself.  If you find it too much, move on to the next girl.  You will be surprised how much a new girl will take your mind of it.

Offline dave_59

Would have aproblem.
If I'm going to shag others, as I do.
Why not Mrs, who won't by the way.

But I'd not be oppossed to being with a WG and/or swinging.
I'm a lying twat but not two faced with double standards.

Been with my wife now for 16years. We started swinging 7 years ago - not to improve our sex life (as we were and still are having great sex), but to enhance it and to learn new things. The pleasure we get from watching each other having fun with others (of the same and opposite sex), knowing how strong our relationship is together, excites us. Whether we get to see the fun first hand, or just hear about it in detail later, it only adds to the excitement.

Move on a while and she is made redundant, coupled with a location move and the opportunity to be paid well for enjoying what we have shared together, and we are in a win win situation. The love and passion between us is as strong as its ever been and we both get to have fun with others - alone and together. I get to see other working girls, she gets to see clients, and we compare notes.

It's not for everyone I'm sure, but by god it works so well for us. So many people are so jealous of what we have.

Offline AnthG

Could you date a WG knowing full well what she does? Would it turn you on? or are you the jealous type and a big fuck no?

Interested to hear your points.

I think the issue is with this, summed up in its most general terms. The type of punters who would be happy to date a WG. Are not the sort of guys a WG would ever want to date.

This is why it rarely happens that WGs date punters.

Offline TallPaul

Could probably get away with it as no longer with either of my main 3 life exes.
Realistically anyone middle aged and separated is either going to stay single or meet someone in civvy street and at that age you both get together for mutual convenience and it's not like the bond or love you had in your twenties.

Bit like swinging. Could do it with a gf or date but couldn't with anyone I loved.
As love has gone. Anthing goes as long as both happy


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