I didn't fuck off, haha. I'm here.
Thanks all for the replies, been a bit busy. I wrote my initial post in a rush and I'm surprised at how sharp some of you are without much context. Then again, it is a forum, my post wasn't exactly detailed, and so forth...
I'm in full respect of all your opinions, I actually believe in sexual compatibility before marriage also (exception to every rule, IMO, so I wouldn't make that concrete), I should have mentioned I'm also contemplating leaving her, and as such I don't mind a quick ''punt'' as you guys call it; whether I'm still with or without her. Regardless we aren't here to discuss my plans with women or my moral code or anything of that nature. Purely my questions. I assure you I wasn't taking the piss, nor am I american. Lmao.
Thankyou for your advice, especially to those who were patient and assumed I was telling the truth. Have a great week everyone!