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Author Topic: can't get it up  (Read 5404 times)

Offline DannyJames


Or try eating watermelon and pomegranate (both are natures own viagras)

Although for me they act as nature's own laxative.

Offline vorian


     I was having a massage with the twins in Bournemouth just before Christmas, although they
      dont do any extras, they do a nice tantric type massage, which always gets me excited, i
      popped a Kamagara before i went, thinking its nearly Christmas and maybe a surprise pressie
     may happen, lovely massage of my back, then on turning over i gets a cramp in my big toe, and
     i says the wrong bits gone stiff, so one of them starts to rub it, i said you dont do that when the
     other bits stiff do you, they both laughed, frustrating but good fun,  :blush:

Twins? in Bournemouth do you have an AW link for these twins please
Banning reason: Two faced - Slagging off UKP and it's membership using fake account

Offline Panda Power

I had this problem a couple of years ago, it came as a bit of a shock, even the blu pills didn't seem to do to much good. Eventually I did what others have suggested and went to see my GP, he had an idea and blood tests proved him right, my testosterone levels were low. Evidently it's quite common in men in their 50's, he prescribed testosterone gel which I put on my body everyday after showering, they warn you not to put it on your penis or testicles as it can burn. It seems to work for me, so I would recommend visiting your GP.

ignore the guys who say  take pills or eat this or whatever.

firstly have a think about what is happening.  it sounds like from your description that you had a bad punt, and that this has caused a little psychological switch in your thinking.  so you had a bad day, and then this probably raised doubts in your mind when you next went for a punt.  now as the 2nd punt went on you proabbly thought something like...  what is happening to me, what is wriong with me, why cant i get an errection...  etc etc  this anxiety and worry then will have exacerbated the problem.

i have had similar experiences myself on 2 periods of my life.  once when i was early twenties with girlfriends.  it lasted until i got a steady girlfriend and then i was relaxed enough to just work through it.  it just took 1 session for me when i was relaxed and there was no time limit, and then i got hard again.  after that i didnt have any more trouble for over a decade.

recently i saw an EE girl and had a shit punt.  she was one of those who the situation wasnt ideal when i got there (2 girls in hotel room, not girls in photos, i felt ill at ease  etc etc) then she wanted to give me a shit 1 min blow job, put a jonny on and ride me.  i felt under pressure and tho i managed to get hard enough to put on a jonny and shag her, it was pretty pathetic and i thought i would go soft all the way thru it.

next punt again an EE and the worry was there again, this girl was really hot (cheryl cole lookalike), really friendly, but a bit rushed.  i couldnt get anything going thru the BJ, so i asked her to stop and i went down on her until i was hard.  this took the pressure off me, and its somethign that turns me on anyday of the week.  i got hard enough to put on a jonny and once i was fucking her it was back to normal.  again no problems since then.

so with me it is more of something in my mind.  if i have a bad punt, or i get doubts about my ability, then the stress has in the past caused me troubles.  however, once i;m over the bump, its back to normal for me.

i would recommend that if you have a girl who you've seen before and feel relaxed with, and ideally can have a laugh with...  go to her for a 1 hr or 2 hr session and just get up to rudeness with her.  don;t put loads of pressure on yourself to come, you could just aim to give her a great time with oral or whatever takes your fancy.  get her to give you a sexy massage or bath/shower, whatever.  have it in your head that its OK to have sex, but it's OK not to have sex too.  this will take the pressure off and in time your mind will switch back.

if you start taking med or whatever you could start to think you need them and this can just complicate your thinking.

obviously for some guys of a certain age or whatever, drugs are a great fix for them.  but certainly it sounds a bit soon to be diagnosing yourself as having ED problems

jcdmj12

Ok gang - so here's the problem.
I have recently had 2 punts.
First one was a definite negative and posted accordingly. However during the punt itself had problem getting an erection. Thought it was cos the wg was so disengaged.
But second punt last week. The wg is a stunner ('Natalie_' now back in Bristol)and sucked away on my penis. I came but was still soft.
Any suggestions?

Do you get erections in the morning? (morning glory).

If no, you have a physical problem.
If yes, it's something else.

Can you get erections ok when you're masturbating?
How much porn do you watch?


Offline GeeWiz

IMO you should speak to a doctor and not even consider taking pills.  I know guys that can only perform with these things now.  They're best left until you have no option and even then if safe to take.

jcdmj12

IMO you should speak to a doctor and not even consider taking pills.  I know guys that can only perform with these things now.  They're best left until you have no option and even then if safe to take.

Yep, agree 100%.  Viagra is a powerful drug, and needs to be treated with respect. FFS, even headache pills can leave you with constant  headaches if you take them too often.

Offline santiago2

Twins? in Bournemouth do you have an AW link for these twins please

       Gumtree Bournemouth Massage, Valindas, phone 07919074170

Offline LL

Most likely the problem is psychological like mine.  I don't have any problems getting erections when I'm on my own or with my regular partner.  Even when going for a massage I don't have any problems getting hard.  With a WG it's different in that I can't perform unless I take something.  Perhaps I'm nervous / feeling guilty / whatever.  My point is that once you've started taking Viagra or another ED drug to get hard on a punt (when you have no problems getting hard at other times) then you may become dependent upon it for punts as I am.  I guess that's not such a bad thing unless you're punting frequently.  As others have said it would be best to seek professional advice.

Offline bediscrete

All
Thanks for all the advice.
In answer to some of the queries -
I do sometimes get a morning 'hard-on'.
I am struggling currently to get hard when masturbating.
For general info, I'm in my early fifties & reasonably fit (though not as much aerobic exercise as I would like).
Seeing my GP - out of the question - my other half would wonder why (by the way we don't have sex these days which is one of the (many) reasons for punting).
So - decisions.
I will probably look into the blue pill option - I don't get opportunity to punt much so no issues of frequent use.
I will try to get more general exercise.
I will cut back on visiting porn sites and masturbation for a while.
Which brings me to my next query.
What sort of wg to visit next?
should I go for someone more assertive rather than reactive?
Or maybe a 'tantric' option?
I am London based (north and central/sw) are the areas I would potentially access.



Offline vorian

You should really see your GP anyway to be sure it will be confidential and they will not care about sexual issues.
Banning reason: Two faced - Slagging off UKP and it's membership using fake account

ignore the guys who say  take pills or eat this or whatever.

firstly have a think about what is happening.  it sounds like from your description that you had a bad punt, and that this has caused a little psychological switch in your thinking.  so you had a bad day, and then this probably raised doubts in your mind when you next went for a punt.  now as the 2nd punt went on you proabbly thought something like...  what is happening to me, what is wriong with me, why cant i get an errection...  etc etc  this anxiety and worry then will have exacerbated the problem.

i have had similar experiences myself on 2 periods of my life.  once when i was early twenties with girlfriends.  it lasted until i got a steady girlfriend and then i was relaxed enough to just work through it.  it just took 1 session for me when i was relaxed and there was no time limit, and then i got hard again.  after that i didnt have any more trouble for over a decade.

recently i saw an EE girl and had a shit punt.  she was one of those who the situation wasnt ideal when i got there (2 girls in hotel room, not girls in photos, i felt ill at ease  etc etc) then she wanted to give me a shit 1 min blow job, put a jonny on and ride me.  i felt under pressure and tho i managed to get hard enough to put on a jonny and shag her, it was pretty pathetic and i thought i would go soft all the way thru it.

next punt again an EE and the worry was there again, this girl was really hot (cheryl cole lookalike), really friendly, but a bit rushed.  i couldnt get anything going thru the BJ, so i asked her to stop and i went down on her until i was hard.  this took the pressure off me, and its somethign that turns me on anyday of the week.  i got hard enough to put on a jonny and once i was fucking her it was back to normal.  again no problems since then.

so with me it is more of something in my mind.  if i have a bad punt, or i get doubts about my ability, then the stress has in the past caused me troubles.  however, once i;m over the bump, its back to normal for me.

i would recommend that if you have a girl who you've seen before and feel relaxed with, and ideally can have a laugh with...  go to her for a 1 hr or 2 hr session and just get up to rudeness with her.  don;t put loads of pressure on yourself to come, you could just aim to give her a great time with oral or whatever takes your fancy.  get her to give you a sexy massage or bath/shower, whatever.  have it in your head that its OK to have sex, but it's OK not to have sex too.  this will take the pressure off and in time your mind will switch back.

if you start taking med or whatever you could start to think you need them and this can just complicate your thinking.

obviously for some guys of a certain age or whatever, drugs are a great fix for them.  but certainly it sounds a bit soon to be diagnosing yourself as having ED problems

What a really nice, caring post.  I take my hat off to you for going the extra mile to try and help a fellow UKP'r :drinks: :thumbsup:

Offline GeeWiz

OP can visit escorts behind his wife's back but not a doctor.  Is this for real?

If she has to know just tell her you want a medical before you start your exercising.


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