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Online bediscrete

Ok gang - so here's the problem.
I have recently had 2 punts.
First one was a definite negative and posted accordingly. However during the punt itself had problem getting an erection. Thought it was cos the wg was so disengaged.
But second punt last week. The wg is a stunner ('Natalie_' now back in Bristol)and sucked away on my penis. I came but was still soft.
Any suggestions?

Offline AnthG

Speak to the Asda pharmacist and get some of the blue pill.

Or try eating watermelon and pomegranate (both are natures own viagras)

Offline Jedi Apprentice

Some questions...
(1) How much watermelon / pomegranate do I eat for a 30 mins punt
(2) How long before the punt do I eat for it take effect
(3) With reference to points 1 and 2, do I need to be careful eating them round the in-laws

 :D

Offline AnthG

Some questions...
(1) How much watermelon / pomegranate do I eat for a 30 mins punt
(2) How long before the punt do I eat for it take effect
(3) With reference to points 1 and 2, do I need to be careful eating them round the in-laws

 :D
I am not sure if you are serious or not, but its a case of adding them to your diet as opposed to taking them before a punt.

Watermelon tastes very nice so its worth chucking it in your packed lunch for example.

Online bediscrete

Speak to the Asda pharmacist and get some of the blue pill.

Or try eating watermelon and pomegranate (both are natures own viagras)

Thanks.
Watermelon's not in season - so looks like pomegranate. Anyone tried it.

Re the blue pill - why Asda particularly? Thought it was prescription only?

Offline cornbeefinspector

Thanks.
Watermelon's not in season - so looks like pomegranate. Anyone tried it.

Re the blue pill - why Asda particularly? Thought it was prescription only?


 they are cheap in asda, and they will do the prescription for you

Wiltsboy01


 they are cheap in asda, and they will do the prescription for you

How's it work? Can you keep it between you and them?

Ok gang - so here's the problem.
I have recently had 2 punts.
First one was a definite negative and posted accordingly. However during the punt itself had problem getting an erection. Thought it was cos the wg was so disengaged.
But second punt last week. The wg is a stunner ('Natalie_' now back in Bristol)and sucked away on my penis. I came but was still soft.
Any suggestions?

I've never had any erection problems but I have had issues with being able to actually cum. My dick remains rock hard and I can feel everything but i just can't cum quickly, hence why i prefer a few hour bookings (which i tend to only be able to afford every 6 months or so!).

My tip, though i'm not sure it applies in this situation given the differences, is to relax and not think about the moment. The fact that it happened twice doesn't mean anything and the more you think about it the more it will affect you. I've been able to cum quicker (though not quicker than 45-60mins) now because I relaxed more. If it helps try booking a longer time and spend some of it on foreplay, chat to the WG and ask her to casually stroke you or vice versa and don't even think about sex or getting an erection.

That's all I have. Hope it helps :)

just relax, exercise regularly and enjoy :)

Offline Tailpipe

Ok gang - so here's the problem.
I have recently had 2 punts.
First one was a definite negative and posted accordingly. However during the punt itself had problem getting an erection. Thought it was cos the wg was so disengaged.
But second punt last week. The wg is a stunner ('Natalie_' now back in Bristol)and sucked away on my penis. I came but was still soft.
Any suggestions?

Having not punted for 4 months and having had sex with the same girl all my problems have gone away however it did take time 70 % of those problems are in your head . I thought it was because I was pissed all the time
And I am sure that did not help , condoms are a pain in the ass and do not help.
The lack of connection in apunt I think plays a big part.

I am sure pills work for many but I am not into that .

Get you head straight and all will be good again.

Offline vorian

The question is can you maintain a hard on and cum through wanking if no then you might have a physical problem and maybe should go see your GP. If you can then as other members have said probably need to relax more and nature should take it's course.
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I've never had any erection problems but I have had issues with being able to actually cum. My dick remains rock hard and I can feel everything but i just can't cum quickly, hence why i prefer a few hour bookings (which i tend to only be able to afford every 6 months or so!).

There's a medical term for that: "retarded ejaculation", I have it too.  I very rarely ejaculate at all.  It happens sometimes,  and it doesn't seem to matter how much I fancy the girl, it seems to be entirely random.

It's tedious having to explain it to every WG who "can't make me come", but otherwise I don't treat it as a problem.   Basically there are guys who train themselves to prolong their pleasure by going to the brink of orgasm and staying there, and that happens naturally for me... so why complain?  I still very much enjoy the experience,  and it means that I can last longer and recover more quickly than a normal man:  half a dozen "semi-orgasms" in an hour is quite possible.

Offline smiths

Ok gang - so here's the problem.
I have recently had 2 punts.
First one was a definite negative and posted accordingly. However during the punt itself had problem getting an erection. Thought it was cos the wg was so disengaged.
But second punt last week. The wg is a stunner ('Natalie_' now back in Bristol)and sucked away on my penis. I came but was still soft.
Any suggestions?

My advice is to go see your GP to get a check up, if they are like mine you wont be in with them long, mine wants me out asap but if i have a specific problem he is ok. I wouldnt advise taking Viagra or similar without getting the once over from someone medically trained.

Offline Jason

Identical thread question to this: https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=19848.msg302486#msg302486

Viagra can only help you if you have a physiological problem. Also not being able to cum or having “retarded ejaculation” is VERY different from lasting as long as you want and cuming whenever you want. The former is a problem the latter is a skill.

If you are at a young age and you suffer either with from erectile dysfunction or retarded ejaculation it is most likely due to:
(i) watching too much porn: http://yourbrainonporn.com/porn-induced-ed-start-here
and/or
(ii) prone masturbation (Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome (TMS)): http://www.healthystrokes.com/
« Last Edit: February 25, 2014, 02:38:01 PM by Jason »

Offline SirFrank

The question is can you maintain a hard on and cum through wanking if no then you might have a physical problem and maybe should go see your GP. If you can then as other members have said probably need to relax more and nature should take it's course.

Sensible advice and was what I was going to ask. I you can get an erection on your own as it were then the problem is perhaps not the old fella but may be psychological. Problem is once you are aware of it it becomes a catch 22. I couldn't get it up years ago because of booze. First time it had ever happened to me but it fucked with my head and I was paranoid aBout getting back on the horse.

If you have erection problems all the time go see the GP. Erection problems are sometimes related to other underlying medical problems (eg diabetes or heart disease). It's not always about Viagra so gt it checked out
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Offline mt86

If your problem is not psychological I would recommend:

1) Avoid porn and masturbation for a few days.
2) Try drinking Green Tea and do cardio exercise to increase your blood flow.

There's a medical term for that: "retarded ejaculation", I have it too.  I very rarely ejaculate at all.  It happens sometimes,  and it doesn't seem to matter how much I fancy the girl, it seems to be entirely random.

It's tedious having to explain it to every WG who "can't make me come", but otherwise I don't treat it as a problem.   Basically there are guys who train themselves to prolong their pleasure by going to the brink of orgasm and staying there, and that happens naturally for me... so why complain?  I still very much enjoy the experience,  and it means that I can last longer and recover more quickly than a normal man:  half a dozen "semi-orgasms" in an hour is quite possible.

Yup, as much as I want to cum quickly and then move on to round 2 or at least appear to really appreciate a girl i just can't! I saw the most amazing girl in portsmouth once and I'm sure i am in love with not just her personality but also her mouth and tongue yet that didn't do anything to help me cum quickly!

But you're right why complain? :P

Offline vorian

Yup, as much as I want to cum quickly and then move on to round 2 or at least appear to really appreciate a girl i just can't! I saw the most amazing girl in portsmouth once and I'm sure i am in love with not just her personality but also her mouth and tongue yet that didn't do anything to help me cum quickly!

But you're right why complain? :P

I think I know who you mean ;) in Portsmouth.
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The former is a problem the latter is a skill.

Not necessarily. When I have sex it takes a long time, sometimes hours, for me to cum. This means it's not always fun as I want to cum after the girl has had a few. Nor does the girl want to keep fucking, sucking or tugging to try and make me cum! It's a skill if you can control it but for me it's different because I can't control it, I naturally find it difficult to cum, which is why I think it's a problem and not a skill.

Not saying that it's in the same league as erectile dsyfunction because i can at least have sex but it's frustrating when you have a beautiful girl who is skillful with her hands, mouth and tongue, she's tight as hell and you did anal and yet you still can't cum quickly enough. In the end I managed to cum on her face in the shower after 2 hours with her.


Offline vorian

Not necessarily. When I have sex it takes a long time, sometimes hours, for me to cum. This means it's not always fun as I want to cum after the girl has had a few. Nor does the girl want to keep fucking, sucking or tugging to try and make me cum! It's a skill if you can control it but for me it's different because I can't control it, I naturally find it difficult to cum, which is why I think it's a problem and not a skill.

Not saying that it's in the same league as erectile dsyfunction because i can at least have sex but it's frustrating when you have a beautiful girl who is skillful with her hands, mouth and tongue, she's tight as hell and you did anal and yet you still can't cum quickly enough. In the end I managed to cum on her face in the shower after 2 hours with her.

Yep I definitely  know who you mean now  :drinks:
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Offline vorian

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Offline Jason

Not necessarily. When I have sex it takes a long time, sometimes hours, for me to cum. This means it's not always fun as I want to cum after the girl has had a few. Nor does the girl want to keep fucking, sucking or tugging to try and make me cum! It's a skill if you can control it but for me it's different because I can't control it, I naturally find it difficult to cum, which is why I think it's a problem and not a skill.

Read again what I said:
not being able to cum or having “retarded ejaculation” is VERY different from lasting as long as you want and cuming whenever you want. The former is a problem the latter is a skill.

You agree with me. The word “former” was referring to the first thing I mentioned (i.e. someone not being able to cum). The word "latter" was referring to the second thing that I mentioned (i.e someone to have self-control and be able to cum at will).   And I said the first is a problem whereas the second is a skill.

jcdmj12

Not necessarily. When I have sex it takes a long time, sometimes hours, for me to cum. This means it's not always fun as I want to cum after the girl has had a few. Nor does the girl want to keep fucking, sucking or tugging to try and make me cum! It's a skill if you can control it but for me it's different because I can't control it, I naturally find it difficult to cum, which is why I think it's a problem and not a skill.

Not saying that it's in the same league as erectile dsyfunction because i can at least have sex but it's frustrating when you have a beautiful girl who is skillful with her hands, mouth and tongue, she's tight as hell and you did anal and yet you still can't cum quickly enough. In the end I managed to cum on her face in the shower after 2 hours with her.

I have a similar problem sometimes, but thankfully not too often.  Sometimes it's related to me using porn too much/masturbating too much. If I lay off, I get more sensitive.  Could that be a cause for you?

Offline santiago2



     I was having a massage with the twins in Bournemouth just before Christmas, although they
      dont do any extras, they do a nice tantric type massage, which always gets me excited, i
      popped a Kamagara before i went, thinking its nearly Christmas and maybe a surprise pressie
     may happen, lovely massage of my back, then on turning over i gets a cramp in my big toe, and
     i says the wrong bits gone stiff, so one of them starts to rub it, i said you dont do that when the
     other bits stiff do you, they both laughed, frustrating but good fun,  :blush:


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