You may think that the world revolves around you but that's seldom the way.
I went to a scheduled hospital appointment last week - and sat waiting 45 minutes til I got to see somebody.
Plenty of business contacts promise to call/mail me back - and don't, or not promptly.
I went to the super market and bloody hell, the queue was down the aisles.
I could have stormed out the hospical, bin every business contact who doesn't reply immediately and dump my shoping and storm out the shop - but this is how life is sometimes and I'm a grown up.
So Cara is pretty crap on the admin side of things and half the time she can't be bothered to go trough with appointments. That's why she can only get away with charging £100/hour when she might have been able to charge £120-150 if she was a bit more pro about it. Her loss. If I drove to Sheffield to meet her and got stood up I'd be royally pissed, but if she cancelled before, or didn't pick the phone up what effort have I even put in.
I enjoy the discourse, but at least try to be credible. You whine about having to wait a massive 45 minutes in a hospital, for fucks sake! And then complain because there are queues in supermarkets?! Oh the hardship! How are you bearing up?! Do you want a cuddle from Matty?
What planet do you live on? I'll bet you're the type of person who would moan about pollution in London, whilst driving around in your SUV and then complain that parking spaces are too small!
I've waited hours in A&E, for somebody to see me, whilst still bleeding and having to apply pressure. And I consider myself lucky. In my case, late at night and largely due to Eastern Europeans bringing in their kids to A&E for no more than coughs, but children get priority. That's life. Yes, I whinged but sucked it up!
I act in a very reasonable fashion, when requesting a booking. Did you actually read what I posted? I think not. I've been doing this for a very long time. And my approach has evolved. I'm a very understanding person but I can also sniff out when people are bullshitting me. I do not need to go beyond what I consider acceptable. I have plenty of choice in London and the surrounding counties. I don't get hung up on individuals any more. I realized long ago that it's pretty sad behavior.
I wasn't trying to suggest that prostitutes must pander to me personally. That would be delusional and patently absurd. However, the customer is king. Were that not so, you'd still be getting your cock sucked off in this country, through a rubber, with no French kissing and at double the rate you pay now!
Therefore, most prostitutes recognize and understand that they need to tailor their approach towards what the customer wants. That is a fact. British prostitutes only offer those services so widely now because of their introduction and widespread use, in whoring terms, by EE girls. And that is a fact too.
I'm wasn't talking about you with this particular prossie. I am talking about those punters who I believe adopt an obsessive, almost stalker like mentality, towards a particular prossie. For example, a prossie is busy or ill, so she goes offline for a couple of days. All fucking hell breaks loose on UKP. Threads are created by 'concerned punters', asking whether the woman is 'ok'? I find such behavior extremely distasteful and disingenuous. The truth is they don't give a fuck about her, as an indvidual. Their only concern is that they may never get the chance to use her again for a fuck! Pests and boundary pushers, the lot of them. I get the distinct impression that a great many of them lavish more attention on that prostitute than they do their own partner. Perhaps it's them, who are the problem? They're exactly the same type of people who get hung up on individuals. And yes, in my opinion.