Now, Dani and Vorian, I think it's very nice that you are trying to come up with some kind of explanations for bilbobaggins deranged behaviour, because he certainly ain't normal, but I think you also have to consider the possibility that there is nothing wrong with him whatsoever and simply accept that he is a fuckin' loon.
As for Panda Power, however, he is far worse in my eyes than old bilbobaggins.
Because he is a filthy, slimy creep and a cretin.
While bilbobaggins is bit of a stalker and an obsessive, Panda Power is one of those guys who does anything a girl asks in the hopes that she will eventually end up seeing what a nice guy he is and eventually end up falling in love with him.
He drives her to and from bookings at all hours of the day? And only charges her a fiver? So what the hell does he do in between the hours she is getting her cunt fucked? Sit in his car doing a fucking crossword, or go to the local cafe and have a cup of tea with a prawn sandwich? No one is 'just a nice guy and being a good friend' especially since he said Delilah is younger than his sons (which, I presume, makes Panda Power somewhere in his late 40's or 50's hanging out with a 20 year old). He lets her get fucked at his place? And then he takes her to the fucking theatre?
He is the worst kind of fluffy. He is a suck-up and a creep who obeys every single one of Delilah's commands, including writing silly messages on Facebook to wind up stupid bilbobaggins, because he is hoping she might, eventually, end up being his girlfriend one day. Pathetic.