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Offline GrumpyoldGit

I have been stupid enough to give some of my personal details to a WG who, until very recently, was my only and regular wg.
She has turned very nasty and has just outed me to the wife. The bitch also owes me money.
If she re-appears on AW her name is ZoeLou aged about 24. She works in Stoke-on-Trent.
Be very careful with her.

Offline cornbeefinspector

ouchie, never lend cash to a prossie, it will always end in tears

Offline NIK

It seems it's become fashionable.

I blame Lou4Fun.  :wackogirl: :D

Offline Strawberry

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Why on Earth did you lend her money?(and why did she accept?), not professional behaviour.

I found this posted by you in September;

I finally had to make the break from my regular yesterday.

As SWMBO comes home tomorrow and I have gotten myself in too deep with Zoe I realised that the good times must come to an end.

I went to see her for a 1 hour final business meet and ended up spending four hours with her.

We had already discussed what would happen when my other half came home, but we both crossed the boundaries yesterday by admitting our feelings for each other.

I have gone way too far and allowed myself to become too attached to her, though I have helped her sort her life out.

She admitted that our previous few meets had meant too much for her and felt a very strong bond forming as well.

The sex has been the best for me in years, actually for as long as I can remember.

Anyway we have agreed to keep in touch by text with the odd meet in a pub for a chat and catch up.
I have been very fluffy and have been hurting today, hence the delay in this update.

At least I have made a friend whilst I was left alone and feeling very down.

I just hope that we will remain friends for a long while to come.

Yes you can get emotionally attached to a WG, but with a lot of work and understanding I think you both can overcome the situation.

Alas this is the end of my punting for a while whilst I try to rebuild my life with her indoors.

What on earth happened after this?A few months later you post that you are seeing her again. Sounds to me this became quite messy.
« Last Edit: February 21, 2014, 10:28:03 AM by Strawberry »

Offline GrumpyoldGit

I became very fluffy with her.
If you read the EAS thread you may just understand why.
She said she was trying to better her life and I believed her.
She dropped her profile and was very hard up for cash.
Her boyfriend is a lazy cunt and depends on her for money to keep his place going.

Yes I was VERY stupid and allowed myself to be led up the garden path.

It will not happen again.

Yes Strawberry, I had started seeing her again and it got very messy in the last couple of weeks.
« Last Edit: February 21, 2014, 10:31:10 AM by GrumpyoldGit »

Offline Hellraiser

I became very fluffy with her.
If you read the EAS thread you may just understand why.
She said she was trying to better her life and I believed her.
She dropped her profile and was very hard up for cash.
Her boyfriend is a lazy cunt and depends on her for money to keep his place going.

Yes I was VERY stupid and allowed myself to be led up the garden path.

It will not happen again.

Yes Strawberry, I had started seeing her again and it got very messy in the last couple of weeks.

Yes but why did she suddenly become so nasty with you, to the extent of telling your wife?

Offline Hellraiser

It seems it's become fashionable.

I blame Lou4Fun.  :wackogirl: :D

I do not know about Lou4Fun and I am sure other, newer punters don't either. She also outed Punters to their friends and family?

I googled her name and found this website. Is this the same whore?

http://www.lou4fun.co.uk/web/index.php?/pages/gallery.html

Offline GrumpyoldGit

Because of my stupidity.
I became too involved with her.
When the wife ended up in hospital  very sick I turned to Zoe for comfort.
Apparently I started to show mood swings. She told me to fuck off so I asked her to pay me the money she owed me.
It got all bitchy and ended up with slanging matches over texts, though I tried not to be nasty or angry.

What a daft cunt I have been. :dash:

Offline GrumpyoldGit

I do not know about Lou4Fun and I am sure other, newer punters don't either. She also outed Punters to their friends and family?

I googled her name and found this website. Is this the same whore?

http://www.lou4fun.co.uk/web/index.php?/pages/gallery.html

No, completely wrong one.

Her name used to be ZoeLou and works from Stoke-on-Trent.

Offline mattylondon

ouchie, never lend cash to a prossie, it will always end in tears
I've done that twice before and even though I was paid back in full, with a few perks thrown in, it is something which I've never done again.

Offline mattylondon

If she re-appears on AW her name is ZoeLou aged about 24. She works in Stoke-on-Trent.
Be very careful with her.
Are you talking about the prossie in this link, at the bottom right hand corner of the page? Her Adultwork account is now inactive.  :hi:

https://www.bestcorts.com/uk/index.php?page=search&pn=320
« Last Edit: February 21, 2014, 10:52:02 AM by mattylondon »

Offline Strawberry

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Because of my stupidity.
I became too involved with her.
When the wife ended up in hospital  very sick I turned to Zoe for comfort.
Apparently I started to show mood swings. She told me to fuck off so I asked her to pay me the money she owed me.
It got all bitchy and ended up with slanging matches over texts, though I tried not to be nasty or angry.

What a daft cunt I have been. :dash:

Yes seems like you formed a relationship away from the paid for bit and she got fed up.

Easy to say with hindsight but a warning to anyone trying to form any sort of WG-client relationship. I keep firm boundaries in place, which have resulted in some punters going away miffed, feeling rejected, can't understand why I won't see them outside of bookings or let them into my life.

When you mix business with personal it's incredibly dangerous for all concerned, at any time one could take advantage and it gets really messy and when things get messy things are done which have lasting effects. Some clients seem to relish trying it on, others are just daft. It's the nature of humans which is why it's important to keep the boundaries in place.


Offline NIK

I do not know about Lou4Fun and I am sure other, newer punters don't either. She also outed Punters to their friends and family?

I googled her name and found this website. Is this the same whore?

http://www.lou4fun.co.uk/web/index.php?/pages/gallery.html

Indeed she did and gloated about it. She is a vindictive. pathological liar and is all over the internet (Twitter etc) telling lies about UKPunting.
I actually was stupid enough to allow her to persuade me to have an appointment with her. She was actually okay service wise, but I didn't realise at the time she was seeking information about me.  :scare:

Offline akauya

I'm really sorry to hear that GoG... hope you manage to sort this one out somehow.

However this just confirms my view that having regulars is a no-no for me; way too much at stake. Gentlemen, if at all possible keep punting strictly a business transaction.


Offline mattylondon

Indeed she did and gloated about it. She is a vindictive. pathological liar and is all over the internet (Twitter etc) telling lies about UKPunting.
I actually was stupid enough to allow her to persuade me to have an appointment with her. She was actually okay service wise, but I didn't realise at the time she was seeking information about me.  :scare:
Fuck me. You of all people!  :scare:

Offline GrumpyoldGit

Are you talking about the prossie in this link, at the bottom right hand corner of the page? Her Adultwork account is now inactive.  :hi:

https://www.bestcorts.com/uk/index.php?page=search&pn=320

Yep, I think that is her. I can't be too sure though as I can't see it properly.
Her phone number has changed though.

I'm in a somewhat similar position: gave a loan to a regular who needed help, had a falling-out, never saw her or my money again.  Fortunately she can't "out" me, I didn't give her enough info for that.

Because she was paying me back with bookings rather than cash, I think she began resenting being obliged to see me,  so she kept putting me off.

Never lend money to a prossie, even if you both get along: it just causes resentment. That lesson cost me £900.

Offline GrumpyoldGit

I'm in a somewhat similar position: gave a loan to a regular who needed help, had a falling-out, never saw her or my money again.  Fortunately she can't "out" me, I didn't give her enough info for that.

Because she was paying me back with bookings rather than cash, I think she began resenting being obliged to see me,  so she kept putting me off.

Never lend money to a prossie, even if you both get along: it just causes resentment. That lesson cost me £900.

That is nearly the same as what has happened to me.
"Luckily" it's only £200 now.
« Last Edit: February 21, 2014, 11:09:46 AM by GrumpyoldGit »

Offline finn5555

Sorry the bitch outed you but it was a pretty dumb thing to get yourself into  :dash:
Keep an eye out for her on AW as they always pop up again

Offline GrumpyoldGit

Yes it was very dumb and stupid : :bomb:

Offline Daffodil

This is a pretty messy situation.

Nothing excuses a prossie's decision to out a punter (except in a few exceptional circumstances) and she should be rightly condemned.

However, you clearly got too close and lending money to a prossie? :wacko: There's one I know who keeps asking me, not even a regular. She can go fuck herself.

Lending money to anybody can create problems (friends, family, etc.), but nobody should be lending money to prostitutes. If you do, you must not expect to see it again and just think of it as a nice bonus if you do.

Offline CBPaul

Bloody hell.

I'm not going to rub salt in your wounds GoG, I do have a lot of sympathy though and hope you manage to clear some of this shit up.

I've never seen the same wg more than 3 times, because I have an inbuilt necessity to see someone new. On the one occasion I felt a fluffy sort of bond with one of them, which I am sure was entirely one way, I moved on.

cjkanye02

I feel sorry for OP but I can see how it happens.

I have seen 250+ WGs and never felt anything, but recently fell hard for one recently and it makes you do stupid shit.

I never in 100 years thought it could happen but it creeps up on you.

I've drawn a line under it now but can see how it makes you think with the wrong head.

Good luck to OP.

Offline smiths

I have been stupid enough to give some of my personal details to a WG who, until very recently, was my only and regular wg.
She has turned very nasty and has just outed me to the wife. The bitch also owes me money.
If she re-appears on AW her name is ZoeLou aged about 24. She works in Stoke-on-Trent.
Be very careful with her.

Sorry to read about this and lets hope punters thinking of doing the same as you think again after reading this. Keep punting strictly business and never lend a WG money or give them your real name or other personal details.

Offline smiths

I feel sorry for OP but I can see how it happens.

I have seen 250+ WGs and never felt anything, but recently fell hard for one recently and it makes you do stupid shit.

I never in 100 years thought it could happen but it creeps up on you.

I've drawn a line under it now but can see how it makes you think with the wrong head.

Good luck to OP.

Yes, good post. It can happen as i know too, unless a person is a robot sometimes emotions can come into play, i got into a potentially sticky situation myself a few years back.


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