I think if you can get the girl to understand your wishes and explain edging to her. The way you want it performed etc. You might be able to get the experience your after from a lot of massage establishments.
Unfortunately in my humble experience this is not true at all. I've explained this to dozens of masseuses/providers, and most of them will turn out to be either one of the following:
- annoyed that you're giving instructions "I know how to do baby"
- speeding up again litterally 30 seconds after you've shown her the slow edging pace you'd like
- slow but without "the right touch"
- thinking that the right technique is strangling your penis at the base while furiously wanking you (ladies, dont do that...)
Edging is a very precise art. Only once in a while, you meet a provider who has the right state of mind for some edging: playful, patient and wanting you to have a good time. When you meet a Sensual Brigit, a Linda or a Lola Bell, you know what I mean...