The other thing to consider is reverse bookings. A lot go up to 35 and the majority go up to 40 with a few willing to go up to 60, but not many. You are automatically ruled out when you pass the big 40. Mind you, this is the same for not being blonde in a lot of cases too. I met a guy last week who told me that he usually went for blondes and it transpired he originally phoned my friend first who is in her late 40's and 3 sizes bigger than me due to her being blonde. I have considered dying my hair, or wearing a wig, but I like my hair and it is part of who I am, so it stays! Besides, he chose me in the end anyway
Please also consider, that some ladies are trying to protect their identity and it doesn't do to giveaway too much information, especially if you live in a small community. I had some guys recognise me by my boobies alone on a swinging site, which is when I self taught myself how to make freckles disappear. It's not always about deceiving the client.
Reference fannytastico's friend. Where is she blatantly lying? She may show up in the under 40s search, but as soon as they read her profile they find out she is 42. They are then able to decide if they want to move on or not fully armed with the truth. Quite honestly with so many women smoking these days, there are a few of us older ladies that look younger than our girlfriends in their early 30s. I thought Fannytastico looked around 33 when I met her and my friend thought she was in her late 20s. I'm still wondering if she has memory loss and forgotten when her birthday is lol. I love it when guys think I am younger than my advertised age, I always think when they look at me in that disbelieving way they are going to say that I look older, but so far it has always been a lot younger and they can't believe I have a 17 year old, mind you, neither can I.