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Author Topic: ParisB on Mumsnet helping wives catch their husbands  (Read 163107 times)

Offline Hellraiser

It seems a fair comment to me, why be so agressive to a new member ?

Because the truth hurts LotM  :(

Offline Dani

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It didn't really need a link to my profle page because as soon as AW update it will be on the home page scroller

I cant put it on Saafe and auto-censored wont be putting it up but I will as she made a fool of me as well as everyone else.  We were emailing yesterday and she was telling me it really wasn't her so it must have been her sister and I sort of believed her. I think I wanted to believe her as I didn't want to believe that someone I respected and looked up to for the way she worked would do something like this.  Yes I am a trusting TWAT!!.

At least this way an awful lot of punters will pop on here to find out who it is and will be warned to be very careful of her

Roland D Hay

I do like the idea of a dangerous prossie thread but I think you would have to give the word 'dangerous' some definition. I can think of two I'd class as dangerous because their behaviour has been extremely threatening and abusive.

This cunt... https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=20426.0

And another prossie who I made the mistake of seeing for 4 weeks before realising she was a fucking loon. She was going to 'sue me for breach of contract' cos in her fantasy world we were getting married despite the fact that I'd seen her around 10 times.  The upshot of all this was that she emailed damaging material to my work and my home and had to be arrested before she stopped harassing me. Now perhaps we can exempt this one because I made the fucking stupid mistake of overstepping boundaries, something I will never do again but I tend to agree with Matty, most of them are seriously fucked up in the head and I never divulge any personal information whatsoever because my default position now is always that I'm dealing with an individual who is potentially very dangerous

Offline Dani

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my default position now is always that I'm dealing with an individual who is potentially very dangerous

Now this is the right way to think of it when it comes to disclosing details.  Some escorts are sane and not vindictive, some are very sane and  very vindictive and some are just plain loopy and don't think anything of causing trouble for someone else.

I have trusted a coupe of clients with all my details as well as my bank details as they prefer to pay that way but I also know everything about them as have been seeing them from week one.  However only two of them know anything about me and I try to not know anything about anyone else.  Its the idle chat that causes problems so I try to never have idle chat.  If you want to talk between rounds talk about politics, economy, religion, books or movies just not idle banter

Offline vorian

I do like the idea of a dangerous prossie thread but I think you would have to give the word 'dangerous' some definition. I can think of two I'd class as dangerous because their behaviour has been extremely threatening and abusive.

This cunt... https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=20426.0

And another prossie who I made the mistake of seeing for 4 weeks before realising she was a fucking loon. She was going to 'sue me for breach of contract' cos in her fantasy world we were getting married despite the fact that I'd seen her around 10 times.  The upshot of all this was that she emailed damaging material to my work and my home and had to be arrested before she stopped harassing me. Now perhaps we can exempt this one because I made the fucking stupid mistake of overstepping boundaries, something I will never do again but I tend to agree with Matty, most of them are seriously fucked up in the head and I never divulge any personal information whatsoever because my default position now is always that I'm dealing with an individual who is potentially very dangerous

Agreed which is why the earlier suggestion to have Nik or Adam decide seems to be a popular choice but just means more work for them of course. It does seem the whole outing by a prossie appears to be the number one sin. On both sides of the fence, so if someone was trying to out you by sending emails to your work then yes I personally would class that as dangerous. A prossy not giving a service or messing a punter around could be dealt with with the normal warnings on reviews and regional sections.
Banning reason: Two faced - Slagging off UKP and it's membership using fake account

Offline vorian

Now this is the right way to think of it when it comes to disclosing details.  Some escorts are sane and not vindictive, some are very sane and  very vindictive and some are just plain loopy and don't think anything of causing trouble for someone else.

I have trusted a coupe of clients with all my details as well as my bank details as they prefer to pay that way but I also know everything about them as have been seeing them from week one.  However only two of them know anything about me and I try to not know anything about anyone else.  Its the idle chat that causes problems so I try to never have idle chat.  If you want to talk between rounds talk about politics, economy, religion, books or movies just not idle banter

"Loose Talk Can Cost Lives" an important point to remember for both punters and prossies.
Banning reason: Two faced - Slagging off UKP and it's membership using fake account

Offline ladyofthemansion

Because the truth hurts LotM  :(

No. I don't mind being insulted by most of you on here. But a new girl on her first post! No way! She needs to learn her place!

Offline cornbeefinspector

No. I don't mind being insulted by most of you on here. But a new girl on her first post! No way! She needs to learn her place!


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Roland D Hay

But a new girl on her first post! No way! She needs to learn her place!

'Learn her place'? It's an internet chat forum, perhaps you need to get some perspective.

Offline Daffodil

Are you trying to pick a fight?

You were talking shit and she's called you on it. As have others, including myself.

It was obvious right from the start what had happened, before Paris responded, but you couldn't help but post shit. I said at the time you'd be made to look a fool.

I notice you haven't subsequently apologised or castigated ParisB  :rolleyes:

Offline Daffodil

You did a very good thing Dani. My opinion of you has completely changed. Well done.

I agree. Well done Dani!  :drinks:

Offline Daffodil

No. I don't mind being insulted by most of you on here. But a new girl on her first post! No way! She needs to learn her place!

I suggest it's you who needs to learn your place  :hi:

Jumping straight to the defence of a prossie who actively try's to out punters?  :thumbsdown:

My first post.

I've been lurking on here for nearly 6 months and finally to the plunge about 2 months ago, i've seen a few escorts in the Bristol area since then and one of them is the lady in question.

Has anyone actually been confronted by wife/gf yet? Any advice would be welcome. I'm happily married with a family.

To say i'm $hitting myself is a massive understatement.

Offline vorian

My first post.

I've been lurking on here for nearly 6 months and finally to the plunge about 2 months ago, i've seen a few escorts in the Bristol area since then and one of them is the lady in question.

Has anyone actually been confronted by wife/gf yet? Any advice would be welcome. I'm happily married with a family.

To say i'm $hitting myself is a massive understatement.

I would not worry too much the whole point is not ParisB was outing her own clients but she was offering help to Mumsnet to use her knowledge of AW to help them expose their own husbands. There is no direct suggestion that ParisB was doing this to her own clients. There are lots of threads on this site regarding how to protect yourself from being found out by family etc. Most are just basic common sense but have a look around and ask questions if you feel you need to.
Banning reason: Two faced - Slagging off UKP and it's membership using fake account

Offline James999

To say i'm $hitting myself is a massive understatement.

Snap your Sim card and throw it away and delete your AW profile (if you have one)  :hi:

Offline af1231

This is probably the most interesting topic I have ever read on a punting forum. I find it stupid that this woman would ruin her reputation by outing the very same people who pay her

Offline ladyofthemansion

I suggest it's you who needs to learn your place  :hi:

Jumping straight to the defence of a prossie who actively try's to out punters?  :thumbsdown:

Even murderers get a defence. Was just trying to figure out what else could have caused it as I could not believe Paris would do that.

Offline Daffodil

Even murderers get a defence. Was just trying to figure out what else could have caused it as I could not believe Paris would do that.

You came up with totally stupid excuses that made you look foolish and still haven't condemned what Paris did.

You've been talking shit and have been called on it  :hi:

Offline James999

Even murderers get a defence.

But they are normally allowed to make a statement before other murderers start to say how and why they are innocent, despite them having no idea  what happened :dash:
« Last Edit: February 21, 2014, 08:24:15 PM by James999 »

Offline Hellraiser

It didn't really need a link to my profle page because as soon as AW update it will be on the home page scroller

I cant put it on Saafe and auto-censored wont be putting it up but I will as she made a fool of me as well as everyone else.  We were emailing yesterday and she was telling me it really wasn't her so it must have been her sister and I sort of believed her. I think I wanted to believe her as I didn't want to believe that someone I respected and looked up to for the way she worked would do something like this.  Yes I am a trusting TWAT!!.

At least this way an awful lot of punters will pop on here to find out who it is and will be warned to be very careful of her


No need to be so hard on yourself Dani. You were obviously close and got got caught up in her web of lies and deceit. Everyone makes mistakes.

I think that you may have felt because she is also a prostitute, that she may be more honest with you, have a little bit more integrity as you do the same thing. Obviously not, as you have seen. For all you know, she may be sweetness and light with you, but talking behind your back and bitching about you to the punters that she sees so that they never book you.

A prostitute who lies and destroys clients lives will happily destroy a fellow prostitutes life too.

Offline Dani

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Even murderers get a defence. Was just trying to figure out what else could have caused it as I could not believe Paris would do that.

You and me both and after re reading the posts on MN I feel really foolish, I had not seen those posts before but had seen her other posts about her dogs etc as I used to be a member until I got banned. I saw her other posts about dogs, as a bull breed owner I often read those threads.  As soon as it was made public with the other posts placed on here I realised that the dogs and family posts were indeed Paris as I knew what the other posts about dogs contained even though she has deleted them.  the replies are still there and make it quite clear who it is.  A quick search on MN gave her real name, all about her extended family (no mention of a sister at all)her dogs breedswhich she talks about on saafe a lot , the same car she has mentioned on saafe  as well as boob implants and lipo and the locations she was going to were the same she had worked and the spelling mistakes were the same as Paris.  as I said in my blog, siblings can be very alike but not so alike they write the same way with exactly the same spelling mistakes

Offline Daffodil

Even murderers get a defence. Was just trying to figure out what else could have caused it as I could not believe Paris would do that.

Your 'defence' for ParisB was that somebody had studied her posts and then created a fake mumsnet account and posted similar information to ParisB. This person then waited patiently for almost two years for the thread and post to be spotted, presumably checking UKP daily. As soon it was spotted the imposter then had all the posts deleted (so that ParisB would look more guilty  :wackogirl:) and hoped somebody would link the two.

And then you take offence because people say you're posting shit?  :wackogirl:

Offline Dani

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Well someone has complained and had my blog deleted. I guess I shall have to just write it again

Offline Daffodil

Well someone has complained and had my blog deleted. I guess I shall have to just write it again

On what grounds could they complain?

Offline ladyofthemansion

Your 'defence' for ParisB was that somebody had studied her posts and then created a fake mumsnet account and posted similar information to ParisB. This person then waited patiently for almost two years for the thread and post to be spotted, presumably checking UKP daily. As soon it was spotted the imposter then had all the posts deleted (so that ParisB would look more guilty  :wackogirl:) and hoped somebody would link the two.

And then you take offence because people say you're posting shit?  :wackogirl:

I never said I was offended. I take on board what a lot of you have said but certainly not taking it from an anonymous prossie's first post.




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