Well put Matty, when I have discussed this with other good prossies they are all horrified at her actions and they know it affects them as much as punters. I'm not saying forgive and forget at all, but I do want an apology and an admission from her, more so for the likes of Danish Pia and conversely for decent prossies like Dani who have taken a shot load of abuse because of ParisB and her lies. I know this will not happen but I will not being to even think about backing off in the slightest until she does.
There will be no genuine apology. If a younger girl had done this, I may have cut her some slack after a genuine apology. However, we're not talking about a young woman. Despite her ever changing profile age, this woman is in her mid 40s. She has been around the block. She made a calculating decision and then had the sheer nerve to come onto this forum, of all forums and try to blame this 'sister'. If this sister does exist, I wonder how she must feel?
There will be no genuine debate on auto-censored. Danish Pia spends her time amending people's sentences, removing posts and even deleting whole threads. Everybody knows it. And she has acted that way towards punters and prossies, including Chloe Kisses posts too, despite them pretended to be big forum pals. Danish Pia plays off one poster against the other privately. I had her bang to rights from day one but held my counsel. She has far exceeded her moderating authority. And I know that several auto-censored prossies agree with me on that, but I won't reveal their names. Putnernet would be a better forum if she alone was removed as a moderator, but that won't happen either.
It's farcical because every one of their main posters reads UKP anyway, whether they like the forum or not. So they all know what is going on?!