Most girls are ok with seeing older punters, and clearly state this in their profiles. Its the young mob with the bad attitude and swagger that they often state they wont see.
As for linking AW profiles, at the base of the profile there is two links both on one line. One is the number, the other contains the profile name. Right click and drag over/highlight, then rightclick, copy, paste into your message content (this box) which you are typing in. I was a bif with the computer but some helpful individuals on here pointed me in the right direction.
Give the members some idea of what services and type of WG you are looking for, incall outcall etc? Read the reviews and pick some who you are interested in.