Seeking.com (Scotland)

[onetwentyfour]

Also if someone just comes out and gives you prices etc, dont reply. Ignore the conversation, and move on.

[JamesScott]

Some Seeking Red flags

Pros
They call you babe
They want to meetup straight away, like in a few hours
They have been on the site for many years, 5 or more
You recognise their photos from AW
 
Time wasters and content sellers
They give you their contact details but they haven’t viewed your profile
They have just joined today or yesterday

Some of them seem to think you’ll pay them big money without having sex, should just be blocked
Seeking can be hard work but there are some little gems on there

[paul_tall_]

They have been on the site for many years, 5 or more

How long have you been on seeking ?
Its entirely possible some genuine ones have dipped in dipped out and not created a new account but have an old account also others that just like the lifestyle.
There are others that have been on for say a few weeks that have had many profiles over the years

[JamesScott]

How long have you been on seeking ?
Its entirely possible some genuine ones have dipped in dipped out and not created a new account but have an old account also others that just like the lifestyle.
There are others that have been on for say a few weeks that have had many profiles over the years

I dip in and out of seeking myself and I usually see the same old photos which must be years old.
My most successful meetings are with those who have just joined a few weeks ago.
Some are career seekers which is fine but not what I'm looking for
Everybody on Seeking men and women looking for different types of arrangements

[Bru1901]

Some Seeking Red flags

Pros
They call you babe
They want to meetup straight away, like in a few hours
They have been on the site for many years, 5 or more
You recognise their photos from AW
 
Time wasters and content sellers
They give you their contact details but they haven’t viewed your profile
They have just joined today or yesterday

Some of them seem to think you’ll pay them big money without having sex, should just be blocked
Seeking can be hard work but there are some little gems on there

Telegram only is  scammer
Infact most scammers are those who dont share whatsapp

Online oy to get to know you is scammer

Too dangerous etc unless we go online for a few weeks is scammer

Coffee date only but paid is scammer

Need money for nails etc a scam

Also anyone who provides their number and once you initiate contact on whatsapp bit blocks you on seeking is a scammer

Money fot rent etc is scammer and a hustler

For any first meet i would suggest a day use hotel and dont confirm and pay until last min. You van fske name and telephone number it

[JamesScott]

Telegram only is  scammer
Infact most scammers are those who dont share whatsapp

Online oy to get to know you is scammer

Too dangerous etc unless we go online for a few weeks is scammer

Coffee date only but paid is scammer

Need money for nails etc a scam

Also anyone who provides their number and once you initiate contact on whatsapp bit blocks you on seeking is a scammer

Money fot rent etc is scammer and a hustler

For any first meet i would suggest a day use hotel and dont confirm and pay until last min. You van fske name and telephone number it

Thanks, good info

It would be good to see our Scotland seeking page come back to life
Other regions, like London have good Seeking pages

[paulmarshall1]

Hi guys,

So I had an account on seeking but got banned for setting up meets, can’t seem to get back on any tips ? Or is there any other sites people can recommend?

Thanks

[Problem Child]

This may seem like a stupid question, I have zero experience of these things, but I thought the whole point was to make “arrangements”?
That’s like aw banning you for booking an escort Shirley?

[DoctorSalchicha]

This may seem like a stupid question, I have zero experience of these things, but I thought the whole point was to make “arrangements”?
That’s like aw banning you for booking an escort Shirley?

Seeking is trying to get rid of their "sugar daddy" reputation that made them famous. Now they seem to have shifted to be a "Luxurious dating site".
Everyone knows how things works under the hood, and that's why many members insist on moving conversation as soon as possible to WhatsApp or other communication means.

From Seeking T&C:
 

The Website may be used only for lawful purposes by individuals seeking relationships.

And they can ban you for this.

Using the Website as an escort, prostitute, or for compensated companionship, or using the Service to promote, solicit, or engage clients for an escort or prostitution service, compensated companionship

And finally, they make it very clear what is the website about:

This Website is only a venue—it acts as a venue for individuals to post personal and contact information for purposes of dating

I highly doubt that it's going to work in their favour. Their brand is tainted with the sugar daddy stuff.
Although, you will find in this thread people commenting how delusional some girls are, as they think that they can get money by just being pretty, and sometimes not even meeting.

[Problem Child]

Cheers doc.
What a waste of fucking time. Like u say, they’re never going to change their reputation, so why not just go for it.
Afaik there’s nothing illegal about it.

[paulmarshall1]

Question is how do you get back on the site after being banded and if you can’t any other sites to try. I tryed my sugar daddy seems shit and sugar daddy meet is ok but didn’t get a meet from it. Any recommends ?

[danny1985]

I’ve had one really good experience off Seeking but she seems to have vanished off there.

Student from Edinburgh, gorgeous redhead, beautifully curvy and very open minded.

Went by the name of ‘Hello’ which was a bit odd but had a lunch date with some pretty outrageous misbehaving in the car on the way back and another day date.

Seemed to be flirting with the idea of relationships without the hassle of a real one and never asked for any money, just the experience I suppose although she certainly was being offered quite a lot of money through seeking for dates from the sound of it.

Absolutely one to look out for- outstanding.

[ik8133]

Question is how do you get back on the site after being banded and if you can’t any other sites to try. I tryed my sugar daddy seems shit and sugar daddy meet is ok but didn’t get a meet from it. Any recommends ?

Secret Benefits can be a bit of a hit and miss for some, but saying that I've been quite successful from it.

[oldgeezer]

Regarding secret benefits you will find they send you a message then after about back and forth 3 times they ignore you . I would say 99 % are fake profiles . I have been on the site a number of years to find out its a waste of time .You would be cheaper going on aw .

[ik8133]

Regarding secret benefits you will find they send you a message then after about back and forth 3 times they ignore you . I would say 99 % are fake profiles . I have been on the site a number of years to find out its a waste of time .You would be cheaper going on aw .

Yes I agree, there do appear to be some false profiles on there, I may just have been very lucky.  A couple of years ago met a girl from Brazil, who was over here doing voluntary work, she was a gem, mid twenties, petite and slim.  At the moment I'm seeing a local girl who hosts, is 26 so forty years my junior, gym bunny, again slim and petite.     

[tbig_man]

Telegram only is  scammer
Infact most scammers are those who dont share whatsapp

Online oy to get to know you is scammer

Too dangerous etc unless we go online for a few weeks is scammer

Coffee date only but paid is
Need money for nails etc a scam

Also anyone who provides their number and once you initiate contact on whatsapp bit blocks you on seeking is a scammer

Money fot rent etc is scammer and a hustler

For any first meet i would suggest a day use hotel and dont confirm and pay until last min. You van fske name and telephone number it

Do day use hotels ask for any identification when checking in? Can you usually pay them with cash?

[JamesScott]

Do day use hotels ask for any identification when checking in? Can you usually pay them with cash?

Use the App "Dayuse", that shows the hotel rooms available.

You don't need ID when checking in but you can't use cash because you pay online.

I contacted Double Tree once and they told me to use the App

[ik8133]

Do day use hotels ask for any identification when checking in? Can you usually pay them with cash?

I've never been asked for any ID.  Regarding paying in cash, depends on the hotel, some ask for a small deposit, usually about £5, then you pay the balance on arrival at the hotel, either by cash of card.  It usually specifies on the hotel's profile page whether it's card only or cash can be accepted.   

[tbig_man]

I've never been asked for any ID.  Regarding paying in cash, depends on the hotel, some ask for a small deposit, usually about £5, then you pay the balance on arrival at the hotel, either by cash of card.  It usually specifies on the hotel's profile page whether it's card only or cash can be accepted.

That’s guys. Always thought about booking a hotel for girls that are outcalls only. Just don’t fancy about hotel transactions in my account.

[Problem Child]

I have used day use on a number of occasions and never been able to pay in cash.
I’ve mostly booked Leonardo s of some description, but. Also from memory village, double tree, Hilton garden, yo, indigo and Marriott. All have required card payment and some card deposits.
Might need to get a whoring card dude.

[deenblack2014]

That’s guys. Always thought about booking a hotel for girls that are outcalls only. Just don’t fancy about hotel transactions in my account.

You could get a Revolut account and pay using a virtual card. I use it for any transactions that i dont want to appear on my main bank accounts.

[tbig_man]

You could get a Revolut account and pay using a virtual card. I use it for any transactions that i dont want to appear on my main bank accounts.

Thanks for the suggestion. I’ll have a look into it!

[paulmarshall1]

Hi,

anyone got a recommend for any other sites that are good, got kicked from seeking and cant get back on.

[Bubbling]

Hi,
You could try External Link/Members Only
But need to buy credits to chat and view messages. Some off the verifcations videos are an eye opener 😂

[Bru1901]

Hi,

anyone got a recommend for any other sites that are good, got kicked from seeking and cant get back on.

Change phone
Dont use same phone number or email or whatsapp
Just use 4g data, no wifi
Dont ever send same photo or upload it

Seeking caches photos and also the data you send ie phone number or telegram nicks on banned accounts and triggers when you pay

[Asurmen]

Been talking to a few girls in Glasgow but the Seeking scene seems dead? Even a average looking girls wanting £500 which I've no intention of giving. Tempted to give the 40 year old PI a go but she must have fucked half of Glasgow by now and has been on for years.

Is it better to give GEA a go instead?

[Problem Child]

I’m not on seeking, but on sb’s
Yet to find a woman in Glasgow that fucks as well as any of the 4 available today at the agency..

Who’s the PI? 🤷‍♂️

[Bru1901]

40 year old on GEA or Seeking,?

[Asurmen]

40 year old on GEA or Seeking,?

Seeking, Nat the PI. Says 36 but I reckon add a few years onto that.

[Problem Child]

Seeking, Nat the PI. Says 36 but I reckon add a few years onto that.

To me age isn’t that important.
If you find her attractive and you’ve got the money then do it.

If she has fucked 1/2 of Glasgow then she should be good at it, practise makes perfect 

[Lesdoit]

40 year old on GEA or Seeking,?

Nat the personal trainer. Been on a few years and definitely been with most of Glasgow by now. Well worth a visitit though, she always wants to keep you happy and decent chat. Used to be reasonably priced for few hours but wanted too much last time I asked start of 25.

[Glesgaboy]

Aha
So is PI code for personal trainer ( which most folk call PT)?.
I guess that keeps it on the down low…
Smart move

[Asurmen]

Aha
So is PI code for personal trainer ( which most folk call PT)?.
I guess that keeps it on the down low…
Smart move

Sorry I meant PT not PI.

I see Bambi the Dancer is still on, might give her a whirl.

[danny1985]

Has anyone had any dealings with Ella. Exchanging messages with her and she seems nice and somewhat promising but she’s a bit hot and cold, she wants to be a naughty little tease but she’s not quite there yet.

Wants to meet up but I feel like it’s not going to happen, just a gut feeling.

External Link/Members Only

Not asking for money just now but has noted she will do anything for suitable compensation so there’s maybe more negotiating to be done.

[CaptainHoratio]

Has anyone had any dealings with Ella. Exchanging messages with her and she seems nice and somewhat promising but she’s a bit hot and cold, she wants to be a naughty little tease but she’s not quite there yet.

Wants to meet up but I feel like it’s not going to happen, just a gut feeling.

External Link/Members Only

Not asking for money just now but has noted she will do anything for suitable compensation so there’s maybe more negotiating to be done.

Not coming up for me which suggests we've had dealings and now she's blocked. Can you describe her?

[styussr]

Not coming up for me which suggests we've had dealings and now she's blocked. Can you describe her?

She looks like a man bro

[danny1985]

Tall and slim, brunette, I get maybe strong ish featured but from the video Ella sent, there’s certainly no cock there, wee tits with pierced nipples. 

Seems keen to meet last week but couldn’t quite make timing match up, mainly from my end. Pretty reasonable expectations too.

Profile picture is in a bar toilets by the looks of things in a very short skirt and little top.

Now you have said that, I can’t help but see it 😂

[Bmwlover]

Did you manage to meet this one in the end? We’ve now Chatted a bit and she seems up for meeting.

I never did meet her, did you?

[Fookmefooku]

Is seeking worth it anymore? Having a quick look around and it looks like a shit ton of profiles haven't been online in months. Even searching by recently active

[ik8133]

Is seeking worth it anymore? Having a quick look around and it looks like a shit ton of profiles haven't been online in months. Even searching by recently active

Haven't been on Seeking in a while,  I've found Secret Benefits has more choice and you can pace yourself as the credits don't expire, unlike Seeking where you one get a month for your fee.

[danny1985]

Seeking seems to have plateaued in Scotland at the moment. Few new girls appearing and most come with a pretty steep price list.

I have got a bit unlucky with two, ‘Vanessa’ and ‘Ella’ in Edinburgh - both seemed keen and sent some pretty encouraging pictures with a realistic arrangement proposal but have both had a wobble and seem to be on a break. Has anyone had any experience with either?

J

[CaptainHoratio]

Kelly - 22 - Aberdeen

External Link/Members Only

Has anyone had any experience with this lady?