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Author Topic: How does escorting/working as a prossie mentally affect WG's?  (Read 10356 times)

Offline ALyons

I've never discussed this with a WG but how does working as a escort/prossie mentally affect their life?

Like how do they handle personal relationships, intimacy with partners, finances, people/friends, family (extended) etc? I have no idea how they would behave towards a guy for example at a club who was trying to hit on them thinking she's a normal girl.  :unknown:

Just curious so I ask.
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Offline vorian

Can't see how it couldn't affect them as to what degree that would entirety depend on the individual. Some can't handle it at all and quit, some try to hide their work and separate it from personal life and some stick their chin up and get on with it.
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Offline Tjkooker

Banning reason: Outing and trolling a punter because he posted a negative about his favourite prossie. White-knight fluffy that pretends otherwise.

Offline Hellraiser

I have gotten to know one prostitute quite well and she has confessed to me that, when it comes to her family, she is nothing short of a compulsive liar. Has been with her husband for 8 years and throughout that period he has known nothing about her whoring. Has had a child with him, whored while pregnant, kept the prostituting side of her life completely hidden. Is bit of fruitcake as well. I feel nothing but pity for her husband. I have no idea how any woman can live with that level of deceit. No shame.

I think quite a lot of serious research has been done on this and similar issues by social scientists in the UK and elsewhere. No doubt most of it is mouldering in dusty files in University libraries. But it is there if you want to look at it. At a guess, it is as wordy, ponderously-written and tedious as any other academic research.

Offline MidlandsEscortxo

Sometimes it can be the most mentally draining thing I've ever experienced. Having to listen to men spout shit all day, the eejits who can't understand simple directions such as getting out of their car and knocking on a door, men who don't listen to a simple thing (5 times of telling someone I don't want a finger shoved up my arse yesterday). Sometimes I go home exhausted and wonder what I do this for. But then I realise that unlike most people my age I don't have to survive on pot noodles, can go and blow £600 a week in selfridges and can go on holiday whenever I feel like it ... once you sell your soul (and vagina) their ain't no going back

Offline mattylondon

I've never discussed this with a WG but how does working as a escort/prossie mentally affect their life?

Who cares? What you're trying to find out sounds pretty close to boundary pushing. It's just as well you haven't asked any of them that question or they may tell you to mind your own business.  :hi:.

If you're that concerned about a prostitute's mind set, then perhaps punting isn't for you. Perhaps you have your own self doubts?
« Last Edit: February 11, 2014, 11:08:02 PM by mattylondon »

Offline Tjkooker

I think quite a lot of serious research has been done on this and similar issues by social scientists in the UK and elsewhere. No doubt most of it is mouldering in dusty files in University libraries. But it is there if you want to look at it. At a guess, it is as wordy, ponderously-written and tedious as any other academic research.
For once we agree.
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Offline overhead

Ask on SAAFE

LOL - there was an interesting thread on there a while back when one girl complained about the reactions she got when she spouted out her price list in bars and clubs. She had got into such a mindset that she thought it was incomprehensible that any guy could possibly imagine it was possible to have sex without paying for it.

Admittedly not all the women on there shared her view, but it just shows how strange their thinking can become. Whenever I strike up a conversation with a WG about their job I'm always struck by how warped their thinking is. They are on a different planet, with very few exceptions.


Offline RandyF

Ask on SAAFE  :hi:

No need to ask on SAAFE, just READ a few threads. A more paranoid, self-absorbed, self loathing, victimised bunch of beauties would be hard to find.  :manhater:
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Offline xsw21

I reckon once they get into the life style, they will always find it difficult to connect in relationships. Every day they are disconnecting themselves from sex and emotions and eventually it becomes normal for them. They will also develop a serious dislike for men in general… Sure they make loads of money, but there is a price to be paid. There is an unseen damage that they do to themselves which they probably don’t notice until they’ve done it for some years…

I would never advise any of my close female friends to go into escorting…

I’m just guessing here :)

Offline Sailormack

Like most difficult jobs, the compensation levels reflect the "mental strain" otherwise no one would do them  :dancegirl:

Offline mattylondon

once you sell your soul (and vagina) their ain't no going back
No. That is isn't it.

As with any high income job, once you become accustomed to a certain standard of living, the natural desire is to maintain it. However, as with other low skilled workers, your average prostitute wouldn't be able to compete in the market place and maintain their current standard of living. If you could, you wouldn't have decided to suck cock for a living. And yes, I do not underestimate that it is a decision that a great many women take lightly. I strongly suspect that it's primarily a decision based on need, rather than a totally free choice. That's certainly my perception from talking with a great many prossies, post punt. :hi:

Less you forget, the same 'idiot' who cannot follow your simple directions, is the customer, whether you like it or not. To put it bluntly, no idiots, no £600 spending spree in Selfridges for you and you'd probably be on minimum wage, if you're lucky.  :hi:

Nobody said that prostitution was easy, but nobody forces you to do it and you always retain the right to turn away an undesirable punter. Compared to a nurse, who undergoes years of training, is skilled and also puts up with abuse, both verbal and physical, in addition to cleaning up patient's piss and shit, on occasion at £18k a year, you have it easy, so I have little sympathy for you.
« Last Edit: February 12, 2014, 12:00:55 AM by mattylondon »

Offline overhead

I reckon once they get into the life style, they will always find it difficult to connect in relationships. Every day they are disconnecting themselves from sex and emotions and eventually it becomes normal for them. They will also develop a serious dislike for men in general… Sure they make loads of money, but there is a price to be paid. There is an unseen damage that they do to themselves which they probably don’t notice until they’ve done it for some years…

I would never advise any of my close female friends to go into escorting…

I’m just guessing here.

I think your guessing is close to spot on.

I got to know a WG quite well. I've never seen her as a client and in fact she doesn't know I've ever done it. I think the fact that I have been able to conceal that without difficulty is very telling. I got to know her by chance in another arena, but of course when she revealed to me what she does I was more than interested. Her entire thinking on relationships is very warped indeed. I found I can't have any sort of a conversation with her about the subject because she always reverts to - I know this through my job, you don't know anything. We can talk about any other subject and she is intelligent enough to be very stimulating indeed on most things. She runs rings around me on things like math - and that's something I use every day for my work - she is more or less genius level academically and she occasionally writes articles on her specialist other subject with stunning content. But human interaction is another thing altogether, and she's also gone down the road of buying expensive clothes - literally hundreds of pairs of shoes, and expensive dresses she never wears. It's rather sad to be honest. She over rates herself as a person sadly, and I think anyone who judges their attractiveness to the opposite sex by their interaction with men they are about to fuck are bound to. She's had thousands of clients and of course they all think she's wonderful in every respect, and she now believes it herself. The arrogance that results is incredible and rather sad to see in someone who is otherwise a very good person with so much unrealised potential. This is a rather extreme example, but I suppose they are all like that to some extent.

Offline Bellabella

When I'm in a club and get approached I just say I'm on a man ban, I don't see the point in starting something with a man when I work in this industry. It's mentally draining but I can't say my views on men have changed much at all. It's changed my sex life dramatically though, I learnt things I didn't even know we're possible.

OP answer - some self analysis required!

Does your wife, partner, family, pals, work colleagues, next door neighbour etc know that you punt?

What makes you think most WG's can't then live out life with the same lies we all do?

Sure they may take many more risks, get more cock than most civvy lassies could manage even get called all sort of names by us punters.

But we are the pricks that create the demand and the less self-righteous of us who do understand know it takes a mentally affected lifelong  lie to pay and play away from home looking and buying fresh pussy.

So don't worry for them I'm sure many realise it does pay well and let's them lead a fairly good life if they are sensible enough.

Given the choice I wonder how many of us pricks would rather have been born with a cunt?

Offline vorian

No. That is isn't it.

As with any high income job, once you become accustomed to a certain standard of living, the natural desire is to maintain it. However, as with other low skilled workers, your average prostitute wouldn't be able to compete in the market place and maintain their current standard of living. If you could, you wouldn't have decided to suck cock for a living. And yes, I do not underestimate that it is a decision that a great many women take lightly. I strongly suspect that it's primarily a decision based on need, rather than a totally free choice. That's certainly my perception from talking with a great many prossies, post punt. :hi:

Less you forget, the same 'idiot' who cannot follow your simple directions, is the customer, whether you like it or not. To put it bluntly, no idiots, no £600 spending spree in Selfridges for you and you'd probably be in a minimum wage job, if you're lucky.

Nobody said that prostitution was easy, but nobody forces you to do it and you always retain the right to turn away an undesirable punter. Compared to a nurse, who undergoes years of training, is skilled and also puts up with abuse, both verbal and physical, in addition to cleaning up patient's piss and shit, on occasion at £18k a year, you have it easy, so I have little sympathy for you.

I have to agree,  very little sympathy the rewards vs the risks are great and yes I do appreciate that on occasion terrible evil things can happen and a wg can get seriously hurt or even killed but the same risk could apply to the police or fire service and I'm not making light of the dangers but they can to a degree be managed to reduce the risk if the prossy is professional in her approach. As to the day to day issues such as lying to people that again is a choice and an extra stress created by the individual they can be as honest as they like partners and friends are there again through choice perhaps family are the only people you would have to lie to protect them.
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Offline overhead

Given the choice I wonder how many of us pricks would rather have been born with a cunt?

LOL - that's a good one, but so true.

I've come to the conclusion over the years that it is far better to be born female, but the irony is that most women don't realise it. They consider themselves very hard done by with all the sexism etc there is in the world. But the truth is they are still better off than we are. I think the very existence of prostitution proves that.


Offline overhead

When I'm in a club and get approached I just say I'm on a man ban, I don't see the point in starting something with a man when I work in this industry. It's mentally draining but I can't say my views on men have changed much at all. It's changed my sex life dramatically though, I learnt things I didn't even know we're possible.

Why do you bother going to clubs then?

Offline mattylondon

Why do you bother going to clubs then?
Err, perhaps she actually enjoys the music, a drink and not just being fucked by men? Just a thought!  :D
« Last Edit: February 12, 2014, 12:23:57 AM by mattylondon »


Offline overhead

For the craic.

A spot of prick teasing to boost the ego then.

Sorry, I've been around too long not to be cynical.

And I know I'm right about it too.

Offline mattylondon

A spot of prick teasing to boost the ego then.
Ah yes, I hadn't considered that!  :D

Offline Bellabella

In all honesty my friends don't even go out to pull either, I don't think many people do these days. It's more about having a good night with mates. Just because we don't all go out looking to take a fuck home doesn't mean we don't have a good night.


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