When they say - "Have you come yet"?

[Hobbit]

I don't know about you guys but when a girl says "Have you come yet" during a session, I just find it a real mood killer. Kind of makes you think they are not enjoying the sex.  How often do you get that during a hot sexual encounter or is it just me? 

[Stalinator]

It is mostly lazy Roms that say that.

[Hobbit]

It is mostly lazy Roms that say that.

Not entirely true. I've had girls from various nationalities that have said that.

[Stalinator]

It means they are disinterested in your enjoyment of the session and want to end it now. Best avoid those sorts of WG's

[Derrick101]

It means they are disinterested in your enjoyment of the session and want to end it now. Best avoid those sorts of WG's

Either that or their fanny is so slack they can't tell 

[Ali Katt]

I don't know about you guys but when a girl says "Have you come yet" during a session, I just find it a real mood killer. Kind of makes you think they are not enjoying the sex.  How often do you get that during a hot sexual encounter or is it just me? 

They don't ask me anymore as I'm either painting their face or I'm really vocal about it.

[Hobbit]

It means they are disinterested in your enjoyment of the session and want to end it now. Best avoid those sorts of WG's

Maybe they don't like having a big cock inside their pussy.

[Hobbit]

They don't ask me anymore as I'm either painting their face or I'm really vocal about it.

Vocal in what sense? Do you just tell them to shut up and keep going?

[cotton]

Worse is "are you close"

[Littlefoot]

Once I was going at it hell for leather in doggy. She just turned around and calmly asked "how we doing?" 

[Hobbit]

Once I was going at it hell for leather in doggy. She just turned around and calmly asked "how we doing?" 

  It could be worse, she could have been saying "are we there yet?" "are we there yet?"  "are we there yet?"  "are we there yet?" "are we there yet?"

[Ali Katt]

Vocal in what sense? Do you just tell them to shut up and keep going?

If you need to ask ...

[Blackpool Rock]

Look on the bright side, what about if you'd been fucking her for 5 minutes and she asked when you were going to put it in 

[Thecunninglinguist]

Look on the bright side, what about if you'd been fucking her for 5 minutes and she asked when you were going to put it in 

Or when she asks you to remove your ring because it's uncomfortable when it's your watch!

[scutty brown]

Just tell her that if she was any good as a whore she'd know.......

[Ali Katt]

Just tell her that if she was any good as a whore she'd know.......

I said that to a girl when she was sucking my cock. She said "tell me when you are going to cum" I said if you were any good you would know when I am about to. She went ballistic, I said after a while you get used to the taste which probably triggered her.

[scutty brown]

I said that to a girl when she was sucking my cock. She said "tell me when you are going to cum" I said if you were any good you would know when I am about to. She went ballistic, I said after a while you get used to the taste which probably triggered her.

They really don't like the truth, do they?

[winkywanky]

Once I was going at it hell for leather in doggy. She just turned around and calmly asked "how we doing?" 

Tell her you're going to bring it in on-time, and on-budget, and tell her to shut the fuck up while you fulfil the contract  .

[Littlefoot]

Tell her you're going to bring it in on-time, and on-budget, and tell her to shut the fuck up while you fulfil the contract  .

I slapped her arse and said "I'm doing alright, how you doing?" 

[winkywanky]

 

[PUNTY43]

Tell her you're going to bring it in on-time, and on-budget, and tell her to shut the fuck up while you fulfil the contract  .

Exactly this.

[mr.bluesky]

Once I was going at it hell for leather in doggy. She just turned around and calmly asked "how we doing?" 

Or pounding away in doggy and she reaches under the pillow for her phone and starts texting someone which has happened to me once 

[jaszyj87]

"are you going to cum" as well when they are trying to rush you and youre not having any of it

[brandonpete]

Or when she asks you to remove your ring because it's uncomfortable when it's your watch!

Many Many tears ago a well known Coventry W/g.well woman...and I was about late 20's ish...said "for fuck's sake darlin',are fuckin' well in yet,I haven't got all night"  and I was all 7" of rock hard pork(oh those were the days,little Mr gristle now) right up to me balls!

[Dipper]

File next to “cum for me!”   

[Ali Katt]

File next to “cum for me!”   

Depends on the context it can be a turn on if you want the same thing and are reaching the vinegar strokes stage. It is annoying if it is after two thrusts which I've had.

[Hobbit]

Depends on the context it can be a turn on if you want the same thing and are reaching the vinegar strokes stage. It is annoying if it is after two thrusts which I've had.

You need to observe your breathing and try to control it. Otherwise, you'll give these girls what they really want, which is "Money for nothing". 

[Grenadier36]

It means they are disinterested in your enjoyment of the session and want to end it now. Best avoid those sorts of WG's

Indeed. Such types would probably prefer you just to post the fee through their letterbox and then fuck off

[Ali Katt]

You need to observe your breathing and try to control it. Otherwise, you'll give these girls what they really want, which is "Money for nothing". 

I usually have good control. The only reason I sometimes don't is if I haven't had sex in a while.

[Fuzzyduck]

"I'm waiting for you to come first, babe".

Total mood killer. It's one thing if they aren't enjoying it but why ruin it for me? It's generally clear when you've popped so it's just something to pressure you into finishing, ruining your enjoyment even further. Tended to happen during random pump and dump type punts or walkups, which I don't do a lot of these days.

[Hobbit]

"I'm waiting for you to come first, babe".

Total mood killer. It's one thing if they aren't enjoying it but why ruin it for me? It's generally clear when you've popped so it's just something to pressure you into finishing, ruining your enjoyment even further. Tended to happen during random pump and dump type punts or walkups, which I don't do a lot of these days.

I don't think all girls do realise when punters have cum, especially if you are a quiet one. I think most can and just use that excuse to rush you but I think there is a minority, probably less experienced that can't tell.

[webpunter]

I've been wasted abroad & punting in the early hours
No chance of shootin rubbered up
I've made sounds & body movements suggesting that i'm nearly there
The burd has really gone for it to get the deed done
DFK, pulling me in, legs round my back, dirty talk .... the works
After a minute or two i say sumfink like sorry - it ain't gonna happen
Then back to default shoot when wasted position, nodder off straddle the burd oily HJ tit-wank 
Nice to have the couple of minutes of 'passionate'  shagging along the way

[Fuzzyduck]

I don't think all girls do realise when punters have cum, especially if you are a quiet one. I think most can and just use that excuse to rush you but I think there is a minority, probably less experienced that can't tell.

You're probably right, though a good sign is when the guy stops fucking. I think you can also tell from the tone of the voice whether it's a genuine question. It happened to me once when I paused in doggy (ironically trying not to come) and she turned her head, looking quizzical and wondering what was happening.

Also reminds me of another time when a SP got on me in CG and started riding like she was in a rodeo. I spunked in seconds and grabbed her hips to slow her down. She did indeed say "Have you come?" The look of disappointment/disdain on her face was ego crushing.

I think the key word to look out for is "yet"

[winkywanky]

...still, I suppose it's not as bad as the immortal line: is it in yet? 

[Ali Katt]

I don't think all girls do realise when punters have cum, especially if you are a quiet one. I think most can and just use that excuse to rush you but I think there is a minority, probably less experienced that can't tell.

I've had this a few times. I can't understand the theatrical grunts some men make like a bad Bavarian porn film from the 80s set in a health spa. I grew up fucking upstairs when the girl's parents were downstairs in my teens, so I wonder if that is why I am quieter than most; like I said now I dirty talk all the way through so it's not really been questioned since.

[Ali Katt]

...still, I suppose it's not as bad as the immortal line: is it in yet? 

Or the classic is that it? Yes, I've had that one.

[winkywanky]

I have to own up here, and say that I'm a noisy cummer 

As I've got older and my prostate has got as big as a tennis ball, the sensations are extremely intense. Which partly makes up for the crap waterworks these days  .

[winkywanky]

Or the classic is that it? Yes, I've had that one.

I'd just like to categorically state that no-one has ever said to me: is it in yet?

Just thought I'd clear that one up 

But yes, I have had the is that it one  .

Very seldom these days though, thankfully.

[webpunter]

Particularly when you think you've delivered a mighty fine performance
Obviously not   

Or the classic is that it? Yes, I've had that one.

Years ago I was banging a civvy on my travels
Round at her apartment which she shared with the burd she was travelling with
My mate was giving the friend one
Were due to be going out for drinks & my mate, who had finished up, knocked on the door & asked how long we'd be
I responded with sumfink like 'bout 5 mins mate' to which she immediately added [i recall] 'bollox to 5 mins, make it half an hour'
I then got it in the neck bout not being interested in making her orgasm 

[Hobbit]

You're probably right, though a good sign is when the guy stops fucking. I think you can also tell from the tone of the voice whether it's a genuine question. It happened to me once when I paused in doggy (ironically trying not to come) and she turned her head, looking quizzical and wondering what was happening.

Also reminds me of another time when a SP got on me in CG and started riding like she was in a rodeo. I spunked in seconds and grabbed her hips to slow her down. She did indeed say "Have you come?" The look of disappointment/disdain on her face was ego crushing.

I think the key word to look out for is "yet"

Sometimes it is a genuine question and a few months back I was seeing this SA girl and she was riding me cowgirl and after a couple of minutes said to me "have you come yet"? I think she was quite inexperienced so possibly could have been a genuine question.

[Hobbit]

I'd just like to categorically state that no-one has ever said to me: is it in yet?

Just thought I'd clear that one up 

But yes, I have had the is that it one  .

Very seldom these days though, thankfully.

I've had "is that it"? once from a girl and so I told her that "if her pussy wasn't as tight as a clamp then I probably last longer." 

[webpunter]

+1
Civvy burds i've nailed have said that with nodders it can be much more difficult to tell if the bloke has cum or not

Sometimes it is a genuine question and a few months back I was seeing this SA girl and she was riding me cowgirl and after a couple of minutes said to me "have you come yet"? I think she was quite inexperienced so possibly could have been a genuine question.

[Hobbit]

+1
Civvy burds i've nailed have said that with nodders it can be much more difficult to tell if the bloke has cum or not

What do you mean by nodders?

[webpunter]

Rubbers
Hat
Sack
Bag

What do you mean by nodders?

[Hobbit]

Rubbers
Hat
Sack
Bag

Ah, I see what you mean. Sorry I'm not very up-to-date with my slang.  Yes, I can imagine a condom making it difficult to realise when someone has cum.

[Ali Katt]

I've had "is that it"? once from a girl and so I told her that "if her pussy wasn't as tight as a clamp then I probably last longer." 

I had it with a student civvy who I did in doggy with me stood up when I was a much younger man in my early 20s. I said "Well, I wouldn't want you to miss Hollyoaks".

[winkywanky]

I had it with a student civvy who I did in doggy with me stood up when I was a much younger man in my early 20s. I said "Well, I wouldn't want you to miss Hollyoaks".

 

[GreyDave]

I have to own up here, and say that I'm a noisy cummer 

As I've got older and my prostate has got as big as a tennis ball, the sensations are extremely intense. Which partly makes up for the crap waterworks these days  .

Plus one mate I am now finding them very intennse and convolsing last WG that asked to see cock in bag after I d done some kergal exercise strokes

I told her dont worry lv you`ll know when I cum When I did I shudderd pulled faces and then collapsed juddering  excellent but I think it spooked her   side point any journey away from Loo of more than 2hrs is worry now

[Hobbit]

Plus one mate I am now finding them very intennse and convolsing last WG that asked to see cock in bag after I d done some kergal exercise strokes

I told her dont worry lv you`ll know when I cum When I did I shudderd pulled faces and then collapsed juddering  excellent but I think it spooked her   side point any journey away from Loo of more than 2hrs is worry now

For me, it's quite dependent. Sometimes I'm very quiet which is usual for me but occasionally I can be quite loud. For me depends on the sex and how good it is and how long we been going at it. I used to have a regular who I never felt embarrassed around about making noises and did fully let go vocally a few times, which was quite liberating, to say the least.

[winkywanky]

Plus one mate I am now finding them very intennse and convolsing last WG that asked to see cock in bag after I d done some kergal exercise strokes

I told her dont worry lv you`ll know when I cum When I did I shudderd pulled faces and then collapsed juddering  excellent but I think it spooked her   side point any journey away from Loo of more than 2hrs is worry now

Sometimes there's a worried response, as if you're in pain. Couldn't be further from the truth!