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Offline magnetico

Has anyone suspected a prossie to have checked your bag, while you're not in the room (shower etc) ?

Am I paranoid ?

I always have things that would identify me in my bag, and more cash than what's required to pay.

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I take it all with me

Usually leave the stuff in the shower ensuite.

Always zip up incaase she decides to spit and not swallow and goes for a 10 second spit

Offline daviemac

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Enough money for the punt and car keys in one trouser pocket, punting phone in the other, never felt the need for a bag or anything they could look through.   :hi:

Offline Bunbury

Enough money for the punt and car keys in one trouser pocket, punting phone in the other, never felt the need for a bag or anything they could look through.   :hi:

That's all I take in with me too.
No need for anything else or something that might compromise my identity.

Offline MrMatrix

I take it all with me

Usually leave the stuff in the shower ensuite.

Always zip up incaase she decides to spit and not swallow and goes for a 10 second spit
Its great to know that you punt, after a year is there any chance of giving back with a review or twp please. :hi:

Offline DastardlyDick

Enough money for the punt and car keys in one trouser pocket, punting phone in the other, never felt the need for a bag or anything they could look through.   :hi:
+1

Offline MrMatrix

I never take anything with me but the essentials I need. No identification at all. Even if I undress and go to bathroom my clothes have no details or contents. The only thing in my clothes would be a single car key looped through a belt eyelet so it wont fall out, watch and perhaps a spare £10 note in case I've miscounted my money. If I have a wash bag it goes with me to the bathroom. Again it only has toiletries mouthwash, toothbrush, paste, aftershave and large dry flannel. Plus my punting phone and thats it.
So nothing is really at risk.


Offline Real John Doe

Like others have said, you only need your cash and your phone

I don't know why anybody would turn up with ID or a bank card or anything else similar in their possession

Offline trainspotter

« Last Edit: January 16, 2019, 09:43:19 am by trainspotter »

Offline Waterhouse

Like others have said, you only need your cash and your phone

I don't know why anybody would turn up with ID or a bank card or anything else similar in their possession
For the simple reason that some guys punt immediately after work. 

I arrange most (not all though) of my meets straight after leaving the workplace so will have all my ID, wallet, laptop etc. With me.  Fortunately I have no issues with the lady I see now and trust her implicitly.

Offline MrMatrix

For the simple reason that some guys punt immediately after work. 

I arrange most (not all though) of my meets straight after leaving the workplace so will have all my ID, wallet, laptop etc. With me.  Fortunately I have no issues with the lady I see now and trust her implicitly.
I wouldnt take it in with me, leave it in the car. But if you are arriving from work via train I wouldnt be happy at taking all that into a punt.Probably leave it at work and collect in the morning except my train card.

Offline Alanroy

Or if you do have to take it in with you, make sure it doesn't leave your sight.

Offline Waterhouse

I wouldnt take it in with me, leave it in the car. But if you are arriving from work via train I wouldnt be happy at taking all that into a punt.Probably leave it at work and collect in the morning except my train card.
That would work if I was commuting to the same workplace most or every day, but I only go into the main workplace (via train) once a week at most. Rest of the time I WFH but my meets are always in London (no driving) now and so are arranged to coincide when I'm at the London workplace.

Like I said though, no trust issues with the lady I see, so for me it's fine.  If however I were to see someone different, then I may employ a much more cautious approach if doing an after work visit to an unknown London based SP.... maybe secure a locker or temp luggage storage at a main train station?  I doibt I'd leave my stuff at work and then return for it... too much shag and hassle.

Online RogerBoner

I never take anything with me but the essentials I need. If I have a wash bag it goes with me to the bathroom. Again it only has toiletries mouthwash, toothbrush, paste, aftershave and large dry flannel. Plus my punting phone and thats it.
So nothing is really at risk.

Mr Matrix I'd never thought of taking a sponge bag to a punt. Quite endearing!
I often take my own condoms. After using up the Sagamis I now take Skyns but some girls ignore them and trust only their own.

Offline Plan R

I never take anything with me but the essentials I need. No identification at all. Even if I undress and go to bathroom my clothes have no details or contents. The only thing in my clothes would be a single car key looped through a belt eyelet so it wont fall out,

That's some James Bond shit right there MM - I'm stealing that idea !  :cool:

Offline Arbetare

 I only take stuff directly associated with my booking in my bag, nothing else, which I take with me into the bathroom. It stays with me at all times. Simple.

Offline SirSpank-a-Lot

Only stuff in my punting bag is plenty of rope, mouth gag, Hitachi magic wand, safety scissors, lube, condoms, flogger, paddle, wrist, leg and neck restraints, nipple clamps and extra strong mints.

I pray to god I'm never stopped by the police (or wife) and asked to open my bag.........

Offline Bangers and Gash

Its great to know that you punt, after a year is there any chance of giving back with a review or two please. :hi:

 :lol: He walked straight into that one.

Offline MrMatrix

:lol: He walked straight into that one.
Had to be done really. And so he should be making the same effort of reviews as we all do.  :hi:

Offline MrMatrix

That's some James Bond shit right there MM - I'm stealing that idea !  :cool:
Can you imagine losing your car key in the SPs bedroom and say you didnt get on with her. No the key is fixed to my trousers.

Only stuff in my punting bag is plenty of rope, mouth gag, Hitachi magic wand, safety scissors, lube, condoms, flogger, paddle, wrist, leg and neck restraints, nipple clamps and extra strong mints.

I pray to god I'm never stopped by the police (or wife) and asked to open my bag.........
I like your style SirSpank a lot. I may have to get a bigger bag now :P
« Last Edit: January 16, 2019, 03:39:06 pm by MrMatrix »

Offline stampjones

Despite all the good advice I’ve always ploughed on in with full wallet phone etc. Only time I suspected someone of looking was a few years ago and nothing was missing. Maybe Ive been lucky and I probably am stupid but I really cant be fucked with all the hassle dragging everything into the shower with me or leaving half my shit somewhere. Not recommending it as good practice but so far (30 years in) its never been a problem!

Offline stampjones

Despite all the good advice I’ve always ploughed on in with full wallet phone etc. Only time I suspected someone of looking was a few years ago and nothing was missing. Maybe Ive been lucky and I probably am stupid but I really cant be fucked with all the hassle dragging everything into the shower with me or leaving half my shit somewhere. Not recommending it as good practice but so far (30 years in) its never been a problem!
Actually I did have my wallet nicked many years ago by a couple of street whores in kings cross who must have dipped my pocket as I was distracted. Lost 30 quid or something like that and had to cancel my cards.

Offline tynetunnel

Oddly I was in a reverse situation with an SA girl a few weeks back. First meet, PPM, in a chain hotel room. At the end of the meet she says she’s going to take a shower, which is fine by me. Into the bathroom she goes, I start getting dressed.

I realised that she had left the stack of notes on the bedside table, and her handbag complete with purse, keys, and who knows what inside it, on the chair.

I’d never have run in a million years, but for a second it crossed my mind, all she knew about me was my mobile number and a pic! Hotel booked under false address (but genuine card). Could have been a costly mistake for her. Still as she’s just 19 and fit as, I naturally wanted to see her again. And again. And again.....  :dance:
« Last Edit: January 16, 2019, 07:21:03 pm by tynetunnel »

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my advice don't bring any unnecessary items or leave any belongings out of sight if at all possible
especially cash, valuables and items containing personal information

why take the risk of them being nicked or unscrupulous persons obtaining private information on you
 
so if you can't avoid bringing with you more items than is required for the punt for whatever reason
have them inside a lockable sturdy bag or case etc so less chance of prying eyes or light fingers 

Offline Gordon Bennett

I travel light. One time though I was punting en route to a short break so I had quite a big holdall with me. I didn't really think about til I was stood in front of her and she must have been wondering what the ugly brute in front of her had in that bag...... Circular saw, polythene sheeting, Semtex?? I noticed her slight discombobulation so I reassured it was just my overnight bag for staying with relatives and put it out the way in corner. Since then I've consciously avoided taking luggage or sports bags in case it freaks them out.

Offline pamplona

my advice don't bring any unnecessary items or leave any belongings out of sight if at all possible
especially cash, valuables and items containing personal information

why take the risk of them being nicked or unscrupulous persons obtaining private information on you
 
so if you can't avoid bringing with you more items than is required for the punt for whatever reason
have them inside a lockable sturdy bag or case etc so less chance of prying eyes or light fingers

This every single time, even with someone you consider a regular.

Offline Mikeh38

Many years ago I booked an outcall to my hotel, I went to the toilet to clean up after the first pop, and came back to find her looking through the draws. I kicked her out   :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
« Last Edit: January 16, 2019, 08:24:33 pm by Mikeh38 »

Offline Grenadier36

I wouldnt take it in with me, leave it in the car. But if you are arriving from work via train I wouldnt be happy at taking all that into a punt.Probably leave it at work and collect in the morning except my train card.
Exactly this. When I punt from the office I will leave wallet and ID etc locked away there and just take the correct cash (with a couple extra notes just in case I miscounted) punting brick phone which I got off ebay for pennies and myself  :thumbsup:

Offline cueball

I take no bag or any trappings

Phone, money, car key.

Having said that, all my clobber never leaves my sight.

Offline charlatan44

For the simple reason that some guys punt immediately after work. 

I arrange most (not all though) of my meets straight after leaving the workplace so will have all my ID, wallet, laptop etc. With me.  Fortunately I have no issues with the lady I see now and trust her implicitly.

same here. all my punts are after work and I have a full set of credit cards and my driving license in my wallet (some might think that is stupid but having lost my wallet twice over the years I have been returned with said wallet as a result of having my driving license in there and still had credit cards and cash left in tact). I tend to see regular girls and one in particular always goes to the toilet after the first round and I always wonder if she is going through my trousers (which are in the bathroom as i leave them there after my shower). Never had reason to believe she has looked and so far so good in that i have not had a knock on the door. If I was seeing a Rom for the first time I might be more conservative but ultimately depends on who you are seeing (regular vs TOFTT)

Offline somethingrandom

I also try and leave everything in my car, and don't take anything you  don't mind loosing if an angry  Sergei comes round the corner. although I did absent-mindedly wandere into an SPs with my work ID hanging from my belt in the past....

If it's somewhere new I will even remove my watch as one SP commented on it one day and I could see little $$ in her eyes.

Offline Drayki

Just take myself :lol: no need to take anything with you, especially if you get a whore rifleing your pockets when your in the shower  :P

Offline Deanomarco

I think many wgs couldn't give two shits about who you are and what's in your wallet, but it is best to be safe. There are times when punting when you can't avoid having your personal stuff with you, and if that's the case then never let it out of your site, if anything simply for your own peace of mind.

Online Fuzzyduck

IMO a big part of this game is to minimise risks (of bad punts, or getting caught, of catching something, of getting robbed/blackmailed etc). Even with "trusted" regulars you don't always know the ins and outs (no pun intended) of their personality, so she might have no problem having an inquisitive peek at your stuff.

The only way is to minimise what you take but, as others have pointed out, sometimes you have important stuff with you. If you're worried, you just don't punt. Personally I try to gauge the risk and make a call. It helps to have a bag with some sort of lock or secure fastening that will deter prying eyes. I've only been worried once when a SP left the room for way too long, and my wallet was still in my coat in her lounge. I expect she was on her phone or timewasting but I slapped myself for the newbie mistake.

One time in a well known block of flats in Warren St, I was having a shower after a punt (my stuff was secured in a bag in the room) and I saw another punter had left his jeans in there with his wallet on show. I could see the cash. Shook my head and left.

Offline notcalledchris

I usually punt on the way home from work so have my bag with me.   Usually take it with me into bathroom. Sometimes i use the (not untrue) excuse of having my mouthwash/tootbrush in it to justify that

Offline OakTree

Cash, phone, car keys. Thats it. 

Offline marcello

Take a badge from one of your colleagues/ ask your boss for his card to use in the tube as you forgot your oyster card home like an idiot.  :lol:

Kidding aside, real issue is using an anonymous debit card on the tube/public transport.




Offline marcello

Oddly I was in a reverse situation with an SA girl a few weeks back. First meet, PPM, in a chain hotel room. At the end of the meet she says she’s going to take a shower, which is fine by me. Into the bathroom she goes, I start getting dressed.

I realised that she had left the stack of notes on the bedside table, and her handbag complete with purse, keys, and who knows what inside it, on the chair.

I’d never have run in a million years, but for a second it crossed my mind, all she knew about me was my mobile number and a pic! Hotel booked under false address (but genuine card). Could have been a costly mistake for her. Still as she’s just 19 and fit as, I naturally wanted to see her again. And again. And again.....  :dance:
Yeah but the hotel must have have checked your ID.

Offline django0700

Enough money for the punt and car keys in one trouser pocket, punting phone in the other, never felt the need for a bag or anything they could look through.   :hi:


+1 agreed

Offline Silver Birch

I have often punted when going to and from work and have no choice but to carry wallet and main phone. Everything that can identify me is in my is in my trouser pocket, which will be tightly rolled up with all my other clothes placed on top. I always keep everything together and never out of my sight. If I am offered a peg on the door to hang my jacket/shirt I will decline because then my stuff will get separated and it's a bit more obvious when collecting it all up and taking it into the shower.

If I had to carry a bag with identifiable stuff, I wouldn't punt that day.

Had a few wgs say leave your stuff there, but I take it all anyway. Luckily never had a problem yet.

Offline nbarnes

I only take my keys and exact money for the punt.

I take sex toys and mirrorless camera if required :)

The other advantage to only carrying the right amount of cash is that you can't be tempted to spend more :)

Offline Kimchee

With reg I’m comfortable leaving in room. Otherwise I bring to bathroom with me.

Offline Malvolio

There are times when I punt straight from work, so will have ID on me, plus keys wallet & phone.  I ensure everything I need fits into my trouser pockets, and make sure my trousers are with me / within eyesight at all times.

So walk into the bathroom wearing trousers, put trousers by the side of the bed after the shower, when the punt's over take trousers back into the bathroom when I go for my clean-up shower.

Probably less than 1% of the women I punt are thieves but it doesn't cost to be careful.

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I don’t like to leave my wallet in my car, so I take it in with me. I always take my clothes and identifying possessions with me before and after my shower.

Offline User176

I have a busy schedule so I most of the time can't really pick and choose whether I want to leave identifying possessions at home. I never carry cash out of habit, so every punt I bring exactly what is required and no more.

I always carry all my possessions to and from the bathroom, but I have let my guard down with a regular WG.

I will leave expensive accessories at home if I know that I am going to visit a new WG on a certain day; that's just a matter of common sense. Don't wear an Audemars Piguet tourbillon if you're TOFTTing a Romanian...

Offline RedKettle

Like others on here it is usually not practical for me to arrive with only cash and punting phone. Especially given the risk of leaving bag with laptop etc in the car perhaps in an area that is not the best.

However I am staggered from some of the comments above that punters allow themselves to be separated from their clothes and stuff. Basic rule to be in the same room as your things at all times, for many reasons. For example when “boyfriend” storms in demanding you piss off , after you have paid off course, you need to be able to grab all your stuff quickly before you decide on fight or flight. (I went for flight when this happened, with a regular for those who think once you have shagged a girl a few times she will not rob you.)

Never be separated from your stuff, even if you end up looking a dick carrying it from bathroom to bed.

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You can be as careful as you like, but if an sp wants to fuck you over they can quite easily.
Quite a few years ago a friend of mine had a reg he had been seeing for a few months. I don’t know all the details, but something happened between them and she video taped one of their sessions and blackmailed him for cash. Threatened to send the video to his work and to his wife.
Safe to say he doesn’t punt very much anymore!!

Offline Avg_Joe

Enough money for the punt and car keys in one trouser pocket, punting phone in the other, never felt the need for a bag or anything they could look through.   :hi:

agreed, i have however found myself leaving a watch in with my basic stuff before, and thought that was careless, as well as wallet with extra cash and car keys were with it,
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Offline django0700

You can be as careful as you like, but if an sp wants to fuck you over they can quite easily.
Quite a few years ago a friend of mine had a reg he had been seeing for a few months. I don’t know all the details, but something happened between them and she video taped one of their sessions and blackmailed him for cash. Threatened to send the video to his work and to his wife.
Safe to say he doesn’t punt very much anymore!!

How did she know his name, address etc? always give a fake name if asked (rarely asked) and use a punting phone...only things i take for a punt are cash, car key, punting phone.