Author Topic: Is it really just only about the orgasm?  (Read 1908 times)

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Offline WARSZAWA16

The reason I ask is, I booked an hour session with a girl (will review later) and got her to dress up in black stockings and all the works. As soon as I had finished showering I was looking forward to a lot of touching, kissing, sucking, fucking and then a nice climatic orgasm. However, she was quickly all over me touching my cock and wanting me to come 10 minutes in. I told her at my age I couldn't come twice and managed to get her to slow down so I could get my full hour's worth. She was OK about it and gave me a good time. I still have this feeling though that she had a bit of an agenda to get me to come ASAP and then get me out of the door well before my hour was up. Perhaps from her experience that is what she thinks most men want. Is it though? Personally I have never been one for a quick in-out and wipe it but obviously each to their own.     

Offline JamesKW

No, in my case its not really about orgasm at all (I can get a better one with my hand than by sex),also I can only cum once at a party,so if it is early on I haven't got value for money.For me its all about the foreplay and buildup.Also penetration can be about pounding a hole bigger than the Dartford tunnel,its only good if its really tight.Sometimes I don't cum at all at a party and I am not disappointed.
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Offline Bogof60

On the other hand of course she may have thought you could go twice and got the first one out of the way early to give you time to recover for round 2.

Like you I tend to be a one popper these days but on occasion with the right stimulation I can surprise myself.  :P

Always worth checking how many times you are allowed to cum when arranging a meet. On principal I won't consider an SP with a one pop only rule. It doesn't matter if I actually only cum once during my time, I like the illusion for having and enjoying a really hot and sexy encounter. No need for added pressures - there is already a ticking clock the moment you walk in.

Online daviemac

The reason I ask is, I booked an hour session with a girl (will review later) and got her to dress up in black stockings and all the works. As soon as I had finished showering I was looking forward to a lot of touching, kissing, sucking, fucking and then a nice climatic orgasm. However, she was quickly all over me touching my cock and wanting me to come 10 minutes in. I told her at my age I couldn't come twice and managed to get her to slow down so I could get my full hour's worth. She was OK about it and gave me a good time. I still have this feeling though that she had a bit of an agenda to get me to come ASAP and then get me out of the door well before my hour was up. Perhaps from her experience that is what she thinks most men want. Is it though? Personally I have never been one for a quick in-out and wipe it but obviously each to their own.     

How you want the punt to go should be sorted out in initial comms, if she just wants you to cum asap then get you out the door, you're booking the wrong ones. I book 1 hour appointments but I only pop once but I enjoy the intimacy and foreplay so I make sure that is going to happen.   

Offline HarryZZ

You should remember that she'll be seeing all sorts of different men with different ideas about what they want, some women don't like to let you cum multiple times, not because they want you out but because it becomes a bit frantic trying to squeeze a second or third cum out, whilst some men view it as the more cums the better.

Offline Waterhouse

You should remember that she'll be seeing all sorts of different men with different ideas about what they want, some women don't like to let you cum multiple times, not because they want you out but because it becomes a bit frantic trying to squeeze a second or third cum out, whilst some men view it as the more cums the better.
Personally I'm at the other end of the spectrum.... quite happy to engage in foreplay, games and edging for the best part of a 90min or even 2hr meet, with one blissful climax at the end.  Will only go for two pops in a three hour meet-up.

Offline ViperKai

On the other hand of course she may have thought you could go twice and got the first one out of the way early to give you time to recover for round 2.

Like you I tend to be a one popper these days but on occasion with the right stimulation I can surprise myself.  :P

Agreed, she most likely assumed that in the hour you would want to cum more than just the once  :hi:

Personally I'm at the other end of the spectrum.... quite happy to engage in foreplay, games and edging for the best part of a 90min or even 2hr meet, with one blissful climax at the end. 

Same for me. I much prefer a 1-2 hr build up which leads to a more intense ending. I usually mention early on I'd prefer to take it slow as I only want to cum once.
On some 2hr bookings I still have girls trying for round 2 when I've said I don't want to  :unknown:


Online winkywanky

I think when you book a girl you try to have a scenario in your head about how things will pan out over the time booked. And make sure the WG is aware of your plans.

Does the girl have a wonderful body you want time to explore?

Is she a 'slutty bitch' who you just want to dump your seed in as fast as possible?

How old are you? Do you realistically have time for 2 cums in an hour? If not, can you make it last for 60mins, or are you better off booking 30mins?

But as to the original OP question: for me it's not all about the orgasm, but I guess for older guys like me a slow build-up over 30mins means I'll have a shuddering single orgasm at the end of it which will leave me in a daze and then stepping out into the street with a spring in my step. And I don't know what it is, but my orgasm seems incredibly intense and long-lasting these days, and I'm sure it has to do with my (very) enlarged prostate.
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Offline Kimchee

I think when you book a girl you try to have a scenario in your head about how things will pan out over the time booked. And make sure the WG is aware of your plans.

Does the girl have a wonderful body you want time to explore?

Is she a 'slutty bitch' who you just want to dump your seed in as fast as possible?

How old are you? Do you realistically have time for 2 cums in an hour? If not, can you make it last for 60mins, or are you better off booking 30mins?

But as to the original OP question: for me it's not all about the orgasm, but I guess for older guys like me a slow build-up over 30mins means I'll have a shuddering single orgasm at the end of it which will leave me in a daze and then stepping out into the street with a spring in my step. And I don't know what it is, but my orgasm seems incredibly intense and long-lasting these days, and I'm sure it has to do with my (very) enlarged prostate.

This

I can cum twice in an hour, but its more about the act of having sex, rather than the end result.

No it isn't. It's about the intimacy.
Hooray!


Offline peter purves

The reason I ask is, I booked an hour session with a girl (will review later) and got her to dress up in black stockings and all the works. As soon as I had finished showering I was looking forward to a lot of touching, kissing, sucking, fucking and then a nice climatic orgasm. However, she was quickly all over me touching my cock and wanting me to come 10 minutes in. I told her at my age I couldn't come twice and managed to get her to slow down so I could get my full hour's worth. She was OK about it and gave me a good time. I still have this feeling though that she had a bit of an agenda to get me to come ASAP and then get me out of the door well before my hour was up. Perhaps from her experience that is what she thinks most men want. Is it though? Personally I have never been one for a quick in-out and wipe it but obviously each to their own.     

Did this WG have a one-cum policy only ??

Offline intercourseman95

You guys are all way off base here. It's about doing nothing but cuddling for two hours and making the girl wonder if you're gay. That's what real punting is all about.
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Offline Donkey

Many escorts have actually told me that they get clients that just want to kiss and cuddle. Some punters do it for religious reasons, and some because they feel penetration/sex with an escort is cheating on their wives but kissing isn’t

Offline TailSeeker

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The reason I ask is, I booked an hour session with a girl (will review later) and got her to dress up in black stockings and all the works. As soon as I had finished showering I was looking forward to a lot of touching, kissing, sucking, fucking and then a nice climatic orgasm. However, she was quickly all over me touching my cock and wanting me to come 10 minutes in. I told her at my age I couldn't come twice and managed to get her to slow down so I could get my full hour's worth. She was OK about it and gave me a good time. I still have this feeling though that she had a bit of an agenda to get me to come ASAP and then get me out of the door well before my hour was up. Perhaps from her experience that is what she thinks most men want. Is it though? Personally I have never been one for a quick in-out and wipe it but obviously each to their own.     

It may be that she thought you were looking for 2+ shots, or it may be that she was hoping to rush you out.

It is good to advise an escort how many times you want to come in a session. If you're just looking for once a professional should work to ensure you get most of your time in the build up. If more than once, then they should pace at how many you think you can achieve in the set time.

Offline WARSZAWA16

Did this WG have a one-cum policy only ??

No, I'm sure I could have come as many times as I was able within the hour. However, I had to slow her down as I am aware that I would only have been able to come the once. As intimated in some of the above posts, she may have wanted to get the first come out of the way so that I had time to come again. Once I explained the situation (which I know with hindsight I should have done in the first place) all was fine with her and it was a good session. As previous posters have mentioned, best to set the ground rules right from the start. On reflection, and from what people have posted, I'm now inclined to give her the benefit of any doubt and think she meant well. Thanks to everybody for their comments.     
 


Offline WARSZAWA16

It may be that she thought you were looking for 2+ shots, or it may be that she was hoping to rush you out.

It is good to advise an escort how many times you want to come in a session. If you're just looking for once a professional should work to ensure you get most of your time in the build up. If more than once, then they should pace at how many you think you can achieve in the set time.

Thanks. Further to my previous post, in future sessions I'll always mention right from the start that I just want to come once. For 2+ shots I might need to stay for a week!

Offline intercourseman95

Many escorts have actually told me that they get clients that just want to kiss and cuddle. Some punters do it for religious reasons, and some because they feel penetration/sex with an escort is cheating on their wives but kissing isn’t


I've done it. Sometimes you want to release a mountain of throthy ejaculate so you can know what those unhappy villagers of Pompeii felt like. Other times you just feel like a menstruating woman and want to be held by a prostitute. No shame in it. 
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Offline WARSZAWA16


I've done it. Sometimes you want to release a mountain of throthy ejaculate so you can know what those unhappy villagers of Pompeii felt like. Other times you just feel like a menstruating woman and want to be held by a prostitute. No shame in it.

Sounds like a non-penetrative review would make interesting reading then...

Offline shyboy1

It’s all about the build up, touching and foreplay for me, the longer the better.
I tend to go for at least 2 hour meets and I’m happy to come just the once near the end of the meet.
A good SP can still get 2 or 3 pops out of me in that time but lately I seem to be mostly holding on for one big one, not sure why but that seems to be my preference at the moment and it’s usually worth waiting for!
SB

It’s all about the build up, touching and foreplay for me, the longer the better.
I tend to go for at least 2 hour meets and I’m happy to come just the once near the end of the meet.
A good SP can still get 2 or 3 pops out of me in that time but lately I seem to be mostly holding on for one big one, not sure why but that seems to be my preference at the moment and it’s usually worth waiting for!
SB
Nice dog you've got there!

Online winkywanky

You guys are all way off base here. It's about doing nothing but cuddling for two hours and making the girl wonder if you're gay. That's what real punting is all about.
 

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Offline dkn

No rights or wrongs here.  For quite a few guys, it appears to be about endless pounding and as many climaxes as they can manage.

For me, it's *all* about the journey - albeit that I enjoy the destination.

And I have a number of different journeys I enjoy taking - getting the WG dressed in a way that turns me on is a big one, giving/receiving BDSM can be, relentless use of a magic wand on the right WG can be outstanding, sometimes a sensual massage is the right way, sometimes very extended HR/OWO edging..  For me, it very rarely involves penetration - I don't avoid it, it's just generally not my favourite thing to do.

And, in the end, we're all different.  Just because you like different stuff from me doesn't make either of us wrong or right. Just make sure you work out what you want - and let the WG know, rather than take you down the wrong avenue...



Offline Waterhouse

No rights or wrongs here.  For quite a few guys, it appears to be about endless pounding and as many climaxes as they can manage.

For me, it's *all* about the journey - albeit that I enjoy the destination.

And I have a number of different journeys I enjoy taking - getting the WG dressed in a way that turns me on is a big one, giving/receiving BDSM can be, relentless use of a magic wand on the right WG can be outstanding, sometimes a sensual massage is the right way, sometimes very extended HR/OWO edging..  For me, it very rarely involves penetration - I don't avoid it, it's just generally not my favourite thing to do.

And, in the end, we're all different.  Just because you like different stuff from me doesn't make either of us wrong or right. Just make sure you work out what you want - and let the WG know, rather than take you down the wrong avenue...
Spot on!  The 'journey' is this bit you remember the most, well with me it is.... the longer the 'journey', the better it is when I reach the 'destination'.

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Offline Waterhouse

What’s a magic wand ?

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Or Doxy... UK brand of choice in most cases...


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Some people do practise Karezza method, never tried it but meant to be very enjoyable.




Offline Josler

DKN summed up my thoughts very well.
This is one of the reasons in my more advanced years that I try to stay with regulars, as they know exactly what I want.

Slow and sensual with both parties enjoying the experience along with a bit of edging for me.
Best orgamsms for me being oral and oily HR, slow CG for intercourse

Offline shyboy1

 
Nice dog you've got there!
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Have to fess up, it’s not mine!
Mine would never allow me to take a pic like that of him.
It’s a pic from the nett but as close to my actual mutt as I could find.
SB

Plenty of foreplay for me please. One pop only and I don’t want to be hitting the jackpot until the final 15 minutes in a 90 minute booking.

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  Same for me. Not that I wouldn't mind 2 pops, but think I might have already missed the boat there age wise.
 
  Slow HE and slow CG give me the most intense orgasms