I wouldn't leave the house to drive to a punt without confirmation it was happening, so contact an hour (or more) in advance on the day is routine. It's bad enough having time wasted without the inconvenience of a wasted journey too.
A sex worker is responsible for managing and organising her time. If she had a prior booking as you assume, then she should've either confirmed beforehand or given the OP a specific contact time.
If the booking was mutually agreed then she's at fault in this case.
Agreed. All SP have their own way of taking bookings and confirming them. Some are far more organised and professional than others.
If I book in advance the SP typically want me to confirm on the morning of the booking and there’s a deadline time for that so they can offer it to another if need be. Then a text from me to say I’m on the way nearer the appointment. If a punter fails to do this, the SP is well within her right to offer it to another, but from these comments, I don’t think that’s what’s happening here.
Most SP I meet do this now and it’s far more organised.
If I book on the day, I ask for the address there and then, and call a couple mins before my apptime for the flat number. I also ask them to text me anything else I should, and some have a helpful bit of advice like, parking here is best, or there’s free parking on X street.
This is pretty basic stuff. Sounds like she needs to improve her diary management skills significantly. The language barrier has fuck all to do with poor organisation skills, although that’s been mentioned a few times as causing some communication difficulties; another thing that would put me off.