Can a black guy PUNT?!

[Sunny]

Mature African lady I met in Walthamstow told me she doesn't see African men but sees Carribbean men because African men take longer to cum and it can be quite painful having hard/rough sex that long.

[holland]

Imo there is some racism behind it.
Prossies don't like to admit it publicly and they come out with the big cock excuse

[Ali Katt]

Mature African lady I met in Walthamstow told me she doesn't see African men but sees Carribbean men because African men take longer to cum and it can be quite painful having hard/rough sex that long.

Another crass sterotype, I'm sure some escorts will tell you many don't even get it out of their pants before going off. Maybe she just prefers White cock - some Black women do you know?

[Ali Katt]

Imo there is some racism behind it.
Prossies don't like to admit it publicly and they come out with the big cock excuse

At the end of the day if a woman isn't enjoying sex any excuse will come out: too big, too tired, headaches, sore knees, too tall, another punter has turned up, taking too long to cum\not coming quick enough, then we have the excuses for BJs. I've heard them.

[popmopcop]

Imo there is some racism behind it.
Prossies don't like to admit it publicly and they come out with the big cock excuse

Well, there's nothing can nor should be done about it. Everyone is entitled to their preferences when it comes to sex and dating.

Some dating apps are however are trying to prevent this.

[JonasG]

How do you find South Asian men?
Indian/Pakistani/Bangladeshi?

It's very rare I come across a profile that excludes Asian men.

[TailSeeker]

I think she was just comparing them purely for large cocks because while a vagina is initially easier to penetrate, to get full penetration from a big cock, it's easier to penetrate a girl's arse fully and without pain for her compared to a vagina where the guy will likely bump into her cervix which is painful for her and means he can't be balls deep.

Nonetheless, I'd to be scared to see the size of her shits 

In part that, but in part knowing about the muscular anatomy, the anus is easier to dilate than the vagina and is limited by the pelvic bones, while the vagina is limited by other factors. Depth is limited by the cervix in the vagina and the second sphincter in the rectum that leads into the colon, that just tends to be more.

But like you say a big limitation is the initial entrance, however if a vagina isn't warmed up and happy, that'll be tough to get into as well. The vagina can expand a lot with arousal.

Also, the size of my shits are not even remotely impressive. I'd wager your thumb is thicker than any shit I've had in the last... forever. Born without a functioning digestive system, although it has it's upsides, I'll never be obese.

You probably right.
TS is missing a crucial fact.
Anal sex is good for a man because the ass is tight. 
If her ass is loose and can take up almost a can of beer..what's the point then? 
She shouldn't stretch her asshole even thought she likes it 

You do realise the arsehole is a muscle? Like the vagina. Sticking something large in it once in a while with proper warm up won't make it scarily loose. Can actually in fact tighten it up once you let it relax back. Plus kegals! Makes everything tight. Slow steady stretching can actually tighten muscles.

The whole old gay men stick tampons up their butt due to anal fucking is a myth. The sphincter is only damaged if it's stretched too far too fast, or just too far. I know my limits, I know my warm up time, so I stick to things much smaller generally. And those that do deal with incontinence - same rates among straights, gays, lesbians, comparatively male and female, often shit just slips out when you're old. Nothing to do with buttfucking.

As for why I enjoy it, well sure, I might not have a prostate, but the nerve ends send fabulous signals when a cock is in. Something insanely large doesn't feel good, but fetishists pay handsomely to just watch a big toy go in.

[holland]

In part that, but in part knowing about the muscular anatomy, the anus is easier to dilate than the vagina and is limited by the pelvic bones, while the vagina is limited by other factors. Depth is limited by the cervix in the vagina and the second sphincter in the rectum that leads into the colon, that just tends to be more.

But like you say a big limitation is the initial entrance, however if a vagina isn't warmed up and happy, that'll be tough to get into as well. The vagina can expand a lot with arousal.

Also, the size of my shits are not even remotely impressive. I'd wager your thumb is thicker than any shit I've had in the last... forever. Born without a functioning digestive system, although it has it's upsides, I'll never be obese.

You do realise the arsehole is a muscle? Like the vagina. Sticking something large in it once in a while with proper warm up won't make it scarily loose. Can actually in fact tighten it up once you let it relax back. Plus kegals! Makes everything tight. Slow steady stretching can actually tighten muscles.

The whole old gay men stick tampons up their butt due to anal fucking is a myth. The sphincter is only damaged if it's stretched too far too fast, or just too far. I know my limits, I know my warm up time, so I stick to things much smaller generally. And those that do deal with incontinence - same rates among straights, gays, lesbians, comparatively male and female, often shit just slips out when you're old. Nothing to do with buttfucking.

As for why I enjoy it, well sure, I might not have a prostate, but the nerve ends send fabulous signals when a cock is in. Something insanely large doesn't feel good, but fetishists pay handsomely to just watch a big toy go in.

there is nothing wrong If you like to get fucked in the ass in stick toys up your arse.
Don't be deluded thought.
Your ass is not virgin anymore and it may not be as tight as you think.
The asshole doesn't get back to virginity each time after sex. It's quite the opposite.

We are going off topic as someone has noticed. I wouldn't add anything else about this subject on this thread if I was you

[TailSeeker]

there is nothing wrong If you like to get fucked in the ass in stick toys up your arse.
Don't be deluded thought.
Your ass is not virgin anymore and it may not be as tight as you think.
The asshole doesn't get back to virginity each time after sex. It's quite the opposite.

We are going off topic as someone has noticed. I wouldn't add anything else about this subject on this thread if I was you

You need to take some basic human biology and anatomy classes. All the shit you're spouting is the same myths every woman and bottom man has heard for years.

It's just not true. It's a set of muscles. Like weightlifting in the gym. You can get them used to taking a certain amount without damage, and the muscles get stronger. If you damage them, by jumping to too much then they get weaker. That's biology. Plus kegals are proven to strengthen the sphincter.

Continue derailing with misinformation if you wish.

[sparkus]

It's very rare I come across a profile that excludes Asian men.

I've seen some and asked why - reasons given were lack of hygiene and trying to avoid paying.

Ginko TCM in Fitzrovia the staff told me they try to deter Indian customers (by telling them there's no extras etc) for that reason. None of my business really, just relaying what been told.

[holland]

You need to take some basic human biology and anatomy classes. All the shit you're spouting is the same myths every woman and bottom man has heard for years.

It's just not true. It's a set of muscles. Like weightlifting in the gym. You can get them used to taking a certain amount without damage, and the muscles get stronger. If you damage them, by jumping to too much then they get weaker. That's biology. Plus kegals are proven to strengthen the sphincter.

Continue derailing with misinformation if you wish.

It's not misinformation is reality and personally confirmed by my own experience.
That's it with this. Stop going off topic as it will be reported

[Kev40ish]

It's not misinformation is reality and personally confirmed by my own experience.
That's it with this. Stop going off topic as it will be reported

Going to be reported???

Who is going to waste Admins time by reporting it.

There are no rules about going off topic, as far as I know. It only you posting that is making her reply.

[holland]

Going to be reported???

Who is going to waste Admins time by reporting it.

There are no rules about going off topic, as far as I know. It only you posting that is making her reply.

It's call trolling.
Admins is very interested in trolls and bullshitters.
She often goes off topic.
I just told her to stop as it's getting ridiculous

It’s funny how this thread was about black men struggling to punt, but now moved onto ass stretching

[Belgarion]

It's call trolling.
Admins is very interested in trolls and bullshitters.
She often goes off topic.
I just told her to stop as it's getting ridiculous

To be fair she's correct. Reporting her for beating you in a debate is not on

[Kev40ish]

It's call trolling.
Admins is very interested in trolls and bullshitters.
She often goes off topic.
I just told her to stop as it's getting ridiculous

Yes I agree it is ridiculous, but if someone is replying to you, it is not trolling.
Just because you don’t agree with something doesn’t make it bullshit..

And threats of being reported is also wrong.

But like you say I’ll leave it at that as I don’t want to be reported for going off topic. 

[JonasG]

There's nothing wrong with going off topic if it's interesting and not some guff.

That's kind of how conversations work anyway.

[Kinkykate78]

To be fair she's correct. Reporting her for beating you in a debate is not on

As someone with medical knowledge, yep, she is correct.

[Turtle1]

As a mixed race guy Iv had this to often over the years. Iv has to explain my parental origins so some WG’s.  you get used to it sooner or later. Start off by mentioning race, best way to not waste your own time.

[Ali Katt]

I've seen some and asked why - reasons given were lack of hygiene and trying to avoid paying.

Ginko TCM in Fitzrovia the staff told me they try to deter Indian customers (by telling them there's no extras etc) for that reason. None of my business really, just relaying what been told.

Haggling is another reason which I have read both on here and other sites.

[sparkus]

Haggling is another reason which I have read both on here and other sites.

I was also told by one TCM staff that a nearby Indian newsagent who the shop staff knew from using it turned up one day and asked for a "dirty massage, like the ones you give the men on the internet" Needless to say his 30 quid was handed back.

[Ali Katt]

I was also told by one TCM staff that a nearby Indian newsagent who the shop staff knew from using it turned up one day and asked for a "dirty massage, like the ones you give the men on the internet" Needless to say his 30 quid was handed back.

I wonder what his name is on here?

[sparkus]

I wonder what his name is on here?

Good point, though if he is on here he clearly doesn't read the copious posts about how NOT to broach extras.

[NightKid]

How do you find South Asian men?
Indian/Pakistani/Bangladeshi?

They're cheap narcissistic cunts with a penchant for weird sex euphemisms. 

Was that what you wanted to hear? 

[sparkymark0001]

Try this for an experience.

I saw a WG, Romanian (yes i have since learnt from that mistake) service was actually good.

I decided to return probably about 6 months later, arranged the meet bearing in mind she doesn't ask any questions so i assume she must have either saved my number or remembered me.

I turn up and know where her apartment is, well not number or floor but block. I call her to say i was outside, she then asks me to cross the road. I'm thinking this is weird what is going on, she then turns around and says why didn't you tell me you were black. I was in shock, but i said you didn't ask nor does it mention anything on your profile. She just says im sorry i dont see black guys.

i said fine but you have already seen me but thanks for wasting my time and left, which turned out to be a blessing in disguise as plan b was awesome! lol!

[BRB22]

I have a difficult time because I am black and disabled.

[peter purves]

I have a difficult time because I am black and disabled.

A double whammy 

[Hobbit]

I don't think it has anything to do with dick size. I think some girls just discriminate based on past experiences and upbringing. Again, how big is too big? Are they talking about length or thickness? At the end of the day, it's all ridiculous. There must be prossies in Africa or other Caribbean countries and I'm sure they are not complaining about dick size. 

[winkywanky]

I saw Naked Attraction last night and there was a big black gym bunny chap choosing from six girls (as an aside, the black girl of the six got rejected 2nd).

When the time came (two girls left) the guy got his kecks off to reveal he had a tiny penis. The shot of the 2 girls as he walked on set was quite funny, they sheepishly looked down at his manhood and quickly looked up to eye level again, one of them barely concealing her disappointment. She was the one he picked.

They had their date that evening, and that was it, no more.

I think the big black cock thing is largely a myth.

[_Bender_]

In a close-knit community, that's more about not wanting to meet their cousin's husband's uncle! 

Indeed. I'm very careful about punting black SPs too.

A particular age group and location would put me off.

Yep, I don’t know about others but I live in a small city and it has a very tight Afro Caribbean community so I would never punt with a local black WG, matter of fact I have reservations punting with a mixed or white WG’s as I’ve noticed over the years the majority of white WG’s I’ve seen are somewhat involved in the black community in one way or another.

[JonasG]

I don't think it has anything to do with dick size. I think some girls just discriminate based on past experiences and upbringing. Again, how big is too big? Are they talking about length or thickness? At the end of the day, it's all ridiculous. There must be prossies in Africa or other Caribbean countries and I'm sure they are not complaining about dick size. 

It's such a cop out about dick sizes tbh.

But it's mad how many profiles that say No black guys.

[Gordon Bennet]

I’ve asked a WG about this before and she said that she only wants to avoid “street ghetto types” and if she receives a well written email and / or Has a good enough conversation, then she will agree to meet black clients.

[peter purves]

I’ve asked a WG about this before and she said that she only wants to avoid “street ghetto types” and if she receives a well written email and / or Has a good enough conversation, then she will agree to meet black clients.

I have heard WGs say this as well but they focus on this and do not mention race per se.

Anybody who gets about in London will see what you describe as  the street ghetto types come in all hues. I have even seen Roma boys and girls not in their teens already adopting this new sub-culture which is understandable.

Not all who carry this street bravado are bad but obviously WGs cannot know this and will have to take into account their safety first

Git me fam!! 

[RogerBoner]

I have spoken to quite a few Thai WGs about some of these matters.
Thais in Thailand think Indians are cheap because they seem to be the only ones haggling or claiming not to have enough money on them. Also they are quite scruffy as tourists.  All men except black men are invited in for a massage and boomboom as they walk past the hundreds of massage parlours.

Thais in the UK that I know are all happy to see black guys.  They say that some black and some white men have equally large cocks.  If they are too big they will warn you that certain services are off limits. Indians and Pakistanis have medium sized cocks, Chinese smaller and Japanese tiny.  They might waggle a little finger for an indication.
The ones over here say that Black guys are clean but the Asian types mentioned can taste of curry.  They might add that Thai men eat curry but don't smell of it.

So they would do their utmost to accommodate and satisfy a black punter.  A white blond MILF told me recently that Indians and Pakistanis treated her like scum and showed a lack of respect.  She said that black customers used her in too many positions that left her tired out.  But in her case I would suggest that her tarty scrubber looks may have been a contributing factor to how she was treated.

[jamesdean1964]

I have spoken to quite a few Thai WGs about some of these matters.
Thais in Thailand think Indians are cheap because they seem to be the only ones haggling or claiming not to have enough money on them. Also they are quite scruffy as tourists.  All men except black men are invited in for a massage and boomboom as they walk past the hundreds of massage parlours.

Thais in the UK that I know are all happy to see black guys.  They say that some black and some white men have equally large cocks.  If they are too big they will warn you that certain services are off limits. Indians and Pakistanis have medium sized cocks, Chinese smaller and Japanese tiny.  They might waggle a little finger for an indication.
The ones over here say that Black guys are clean but the Asian types mentioned can taste of curry.  They might add that Thai men eat curry but don't smell of it.

So they would do their utmost to accommodate and satisfy a black punter.  A white blond MILF told me recently that Indians and Pakistanis treated her like scum and showed a lack of respect.  She said that black customers used her in too many positions that left her tired out.  But in her case I would suggest that her tarty scrubber looks may have been a contributing factor to how she was treated.

Seems you go to the WGs to chat rather than sex. What are you, researching for a book.
These stereotypes are bullshit. You can't categorise someone as white, black, Asian or Chinese etc and say they all share the same traits. Within these categories there are so many variants that have different cultures, traits, language and eticit.
For example in blacks Carribean, West African, East African etc. In Asian Indian, Pakistani, Bangladeshi, Sri Lankan etc. In whites North American, British, Scandanavian, European  etc.
All these groups have many variations in traits and then in these group have further subgroups. India alone are many different ethnicity Punjabis, Gujaratis, South Indians etc.
Even among white British there are so many different traits among the English, Scottish, Irish and Welsh. This is further divided by northerners or southerners, West coast or east coast and so on.
Bottom line is colour skin is a false stereo type and just lazy.

[peter purves]

Seems you go to the WGs to chat rather than sex. What are you, researching for a book.
These stereotypes are bullshit. You can't categorise someone as white, black, Asian or Chinese etc and say they all share the same traits. Within these categories there are so many variants that have different cultures, traits, language and eticit.
For example in blacks Carribean, West African, East African etc. In Asian Indian, Pakistani, Bangladeshi, Sri Lankan etc. In whites North American, British, Scandanavian, European  etc.
All these groups have many variations in traits and then in these group have further subgroups. India alone are many different ethnicity Punjabis, Gujaratis, South Indians etc.
Even among white British there are so many different traits among the English, Scottish, Irish and Welsh. This is further divided by northerners or southerners, West coast or east coast and so on.
Bottom line is colour skin is a false stereo type and just lazy.

 

Although what you have written is my general belief regarding stereotypes.

I have to say whether true or not I have heard the stereotypes listed by Rogerboner repeated by punters and WGs. I haven't heard all of them like Black guys are clean

[winkywanky]

I have spoken to quite a few Thai WGs about some of these matters.
Thais in Thailand think Indians are cheap because they seem to be the only ones haggling or claiming not to have enough money on them. Also they are quite scruffy as tourists.  All men except black men are invited in for a massage and boomboom as they walk past the hundreds of massage parlours.

Thais in the UK that I know are all happy to see black guys.  They say that some black and some white men have equally large cocks.  If they are too big they will warn you that certain services are off limits. Indians and Pakistanis have medium sized cocks, Chinese smaller and Japanese tiny.  They might waggle a little finger for an indication.
The ones over here say that Black guys are clean but the Asian types mentioned can taste of curry.  They might add that Thai men eat curry but don't smell of it.

So they would do their utmost to accommodate and satisfy a black punter.  A white blond MILF told me recently that Indians and Pakistanis treated her like scum and showed a lack of respect.  She said that black customers used her in too many positions that left her tired out.  But in her case I would suggest that her tarty scrubber looks may have been a contributing factor to how she was treated.

Over 1500 posts and 36 reviews...and I don't think you have 'an agenda', so I'd tend to believe you on all of the above.

The thing about 'stereotypes' is that yes, if you assume someone is going to be like a predecessor based on their ethnic origins, then you are indeed being prejudicial. But at the same time, there is an increased likelihood of someone behaving/being similarly to someone you saw previously, from the same background.

Therefore, not all black guys are going to have an enormous cock (see my earlier post re: Naked Attraction), nor get violent, nor give the WG the 'workout of her life', leaving her ruined for the rest of the day, or even the week. Not all Asians are grubby misogynists, tasting and smelling of curry and bent on getting a discount. Not all white guys are boring, bland and watch child porn.

But anecdotal evidence counts for a lot...if experienced WGs have a certain opinion on various punters, it's probably borne out of actual experience and reality.

And yes, if a WG trades on a slutty, scrubberish image then she will attract a certain type of punter. Some of these punters will just act out their fantasies based on that, some others may go way beyond what is safe and acceptable for the WG.

[thickandlongguy]

its not the dick size, i have had converstation with few WG who dont see black man, the reason i have heard is bad hygiene and mugged

[peter purves]

And yes, if a WG trades on a slutty, scrubberish image then she will attract a certain type of punter. Some of these punters will just act out their fantasies based on that

An interesting analysis!

With regard to the above is this a stereotype per se?

Cheers

[lordoflight18]

Never had a problem with my race being an issue in punting, EVEN those that state “white British guys only” “no ethnic”etc I just state I’m a mixed British guy from my opening message and 9/10 they don’t have an issue with it

[peter purves]

Never had a problem with my race being an issue in punting, EVEN those that state “white British guys only” “no ethnic”etc I just state I’m a mixed British guy from my opening message and 9/10 they don’t have an issue with it

So you have had a problem with it?

You wanna tell us about the 1/10? 

[winkywanky]

An interesting analysis!

With regard to the above is this a stereotype per se?

Cheers

Yes, someone who likes slutty, scrubberish types I guess! Perhaps another subset of a Venn Diagram, with the overlapping groups 

[Ali Katt]

Yes, someone who likes slutty, scrubberish types I guess! Perhaps another subset of a Venn Diagram, with the overlapping groups 

As I think is well known I mainly go for girl next door types, cute types and rock chicks. I have very little attraction to barbie girls and that sort of 90s porn star look; I work with a few black guys and they seem very much into the opposite of me, rather shockingly they are not into big girls either, but that is only a very small cross section of men.

[puntingpumping1920]

This happens in America too.

African Americans have given Black people a bad reputation. Which is shame because Black Americans/ Black British are culturally different from African Americans

[Ali Katt]

This happens in America too.

African Americans have given Black people a bad reputation. Which is shame because Black Americans/ Black British are culturally different from African Americans

As a POC yourself you have a different reference to me. There are crip gang members and then there's a Kanye West or a Michael Jordan. It's a bit of an asinine argument, but I could say Black British have similar heritage to Black American with many having Jamaican or Caribbean parentage. I'm also amazed at how much largely (Black) American slang has integrated into every British vocabulary, words like flossing, booty, yard, bad meaning good, feds, broke ass, shotty - I think you could fill pages of it.

[BlueRock]

All the ladies I've seen with a whites only policy either say its just their preference or have had bad experience of black men pulling some sort of wide boy shit and Asians haggle. Seems nothing to do with penis size. Seems far more a cultural issue as some WGs specify white British only to exclude Eastern Europeans

[puntingpumping1920]

I'm also amazed at how much largely (Black) American slang has integrated into every British vocabulary, words like flossing, booty, yard, bad meaning good, feds, broke ass, shotty - I think you could fill pages of it.

African American's = Descendants of enslaved black people who are from the United States
Black Americans = Black immigrants

British people are influenced from the entertainment that African Americans supply.

Most popular music has derived from a combination of both African-American and European styles of music, so it’s not surprising that certain African American Vernacular English (AAVE) words becomes common.

[Ali Katt]

African American's = Descendants of enslaved black people who are from the United States
Black Americans = Black immigrants

British people are influenced from the entertainment that African Americans supply.

Most popular music has derived from a combination of both African-American and European styles of music, so it’s not surprising that certain African American Vernacular English (AAVE) words becomes common.

Thanks I didn't know that. Has AAVE replaced the word Ebonics?

[Ali Katt]

All the ladies I've seen with a whites only policy either say its just their preference or have had bad experience of black men pulling some sort of wide boy shit and Asians haggle. Seems nothing to do with penis size. Seems far more a cultural issue as some WGs specify white British only to exclude Eastern Europeans

Becky on here would disagree.

[puntingpumping1920]

Thanks I didn't know that. Has AAVE replaced the word Ebonics?

Yes, It has

[winkywanky]

As a POC yourself you have a different reference to me. There are crip gang members and then there's a Kanye West or a Michael Jordan. It's a bit of an asinine argument, but I could say Black British have similar heritage to Black American with many having Jamaican or Caribbean parentage. I'm also amazed at how much largely (Black) American slang has integrated into every British vocabulary, words like flossing, booty, yard, bad meaning good, feds, broke ass, shotty - I think you could fill pages of it.

I think this is the worrying thing, whatever the actual 'recent heritage' of black kids here in the UK, so many of them seem to want to identify with the Gang Culture in the US.

You only have to listen to them being talking/interviewed on TV to hear them referring to the police as Feds, and all the other shit they seem to latch onto.