"Day Jobs" of Sex Workers

[hockogrockle]

I don't know whether this is "on topic", "off topic" or (sort of) "tangental to topic", buut I'll start the thread anyway.
I am one of those people who likes post-coital chat, as a sort of non-smoker's substitute for the post-coital cigarette. During this, all sorts of interesting pieces of information come up. Among the most interesting are the jobs that girls either still do or used to do.
I am astonished by the number who say they either worked, or still work, in care homes. I suppose it's a non-skilled, rather depressing job, and earning money from sex must come as a bit of light relief. I remember seeing a car parked on one occasion with a security badge dangling from the mirror. I glanced at it. It was from an NHS Trust, with a name, a photograph and the designation "Care Assistant". It turned out to be the lady I was seeing.  i was far too diplomatic to tell her I knew her real name and the place she worked. But I asked her what else she did, and got an honest answer.
I have also encountered three (I think) nurses. Two were probably genuine, one more probably pushed the meal trolley.
I have also met a couple of hairdressers, a welder (yes really), a former manageress of a Little Chef, and somebody who had just been made redundant from the accounts department of a water company. That one had settled into her new line of work in a way that displayed exceptional talent.
Three call for a little more comment.
In Glasgow about twenty years ago, I was in a massage parlour where the girl was highly articulate and clearly very bright. I commented on this and got the reply "You don't know the half of it! I've got a first-class honours degree in law from Edinburgh University. I work for the Procurator Fiscal's office. The pay's crap, and my husband buggered off five years ago. I do this because I'm damned if I'm going to take my daughter out of private school."
Another (local) lady claimed to be a solicitor who had been made redundant by a local council, and to have the degrees of LlB and LlM from Bristol University. However, when i mentioned a very eminent Bristol law professor, whose book on a core area she would certainly have used, she had never heard of him (or by implication the book). Nor did she have any knowledge of Bristol halls of residence.
Finally, a woman (attractive and intelligent, with a public-school accent) who claimed to be a doctor. Frankly, I think she was a fantasist, not least because her sexual skills were pathetic . A genuine doctor would have known the way things work.
Well, that's enough for now, and I didn't mention the (female!) navy rating. Anybody else got any interesting experiences in this area?

[Roland D Hay]

Very little experience from me because I don't generally ask but I have been told by at least three I can think of that they work in care homes so maybe there's a running theme here? I guess wiping pensioners shitty arses for minimum wage doesn't quite have the glamour that comes with prossing.
I have experienced a few high powered business women who of course were complete fantasists. One or two do take the opportunity to embellish their otherwise dull lives.

[DaveMugabe]

A doctor is not necessarily good at fucking

[vorian]

A doctor is not necessarily good at fucking

You would hope that they could give you a top class prostate massage though

[Tjkooker]

Personally I think your verging on stalker territory. Don't see why you would need to know anything about the girls private/other life.  If a girl wishes to share even then I take no more than a cursory interest.

[MidlandsEscortxo]

My job before whoring my arse was as a Healthcare assistant (old arse wiper), its a really common thing in this industury ... probably because it's a more well paid job that I could get at the time as opposed to £6.10 at Tescos being fresh out of sixth form .. but then I found the wonders of doing this and realised I could get up at 9 am instead of 6am and instead of earning £60 a day I could earn £400 a day for a third of the work ... oh the joys of being a prossie!!

[carlisle78]

Personally I think your verging on stalker territory. Don't see why you would need to know anything about the girls private/other life.  If a girl wishes to share even then I take no more than a cursory interest.

+1 - Afterall you wouldn't want them finding out your real identity would you?

[Tjkooker]

+1 - Afterall you wouldn't want them finding out your real identity would you?

There is one who knows a bit about me, we talk a lot but I never pry into her private life. I don't have anything to loose or gain by this. Probably shouldn't have but pretty safe with her. Won't be doing it with anyone else as the doubts are there.

So rule is don't ask and don't tell.

[hockogrockle]

I think it's a little unfair to suggest I'm in "stalker territory". I  don't pump these ladies for information. However, if quite often emerges from a casual chat, as, for that matter, does things like how many children they've got. My post was simply recalling some of the things I've been told over the years. Some of which were obviously true, some of which were (to be charitable) rather suspect.
Oh, and I forgot to mention the (presumably unsuccessful) cabaret singer, whose home was adorned with photos of her holding a microphone while dressed in a series of improbable outfits. Sadly, I think this lady got cancer a couple of years later.

[Daffodil]

Personally I think your verging on stalker territory. Don't see why you would need to know anything about the girls private/other life.  If a girl wishes to share even then I take no more than a cursory interest.

Indeed. I absolutely couldn't care less. I presume most are telling porkies anyway.

[mattylondon]

Personally I think your verging on stalker territory. Don't see why you would need to know anything about the girls private/other life.  If a girl wishes to share even then I take no more than a cursory interest.

Not sure about a stalker but certainly a boundary pusher. A lot of us have had many post punt chats, but prefer not to break a confidence. Besides, I always take what I'm told with a large pinch of salt.

[overhead]

A doctor is not necessarily good at fucking

That is very true. One lady told me that she had a young doctor as a regular who was very naiive and inexperienced. She had no idea he was a doctor until she met him at a hospital appointment.

[Mr Farkyhars]

Not sure about a stalker but certainly a boundary pusher. A lot of us have had many post punt chats, but prefer not to break a confidence

How has he broken a confidence, really? He's mentioned no names.

[Stealthshagger]

Given their rates and hours, I imagine sleeping, tanning and depending on the girl, either funding KFC or gyming (one or the other, never both I reckon) are the overwhelming majority of their day jobs.

The hours seem to exclude the possibility of day jobs for most, since they're either up all night or working all afternoon.

[CatBBW]

I  don't pump these ladies for information.

Oooh! How Freudian! 

[Stealthshagger]

^ elite courtesan stuff

[myothernameis]

I have met a escort who stays locally to me, who started working as a beauty beautician and a proper masseur, in one of the salons, now she had the odd male customer, who turned up for a proper massage, they weren't looking for HR

One day she decided, with out asking the guy, gave him HR, and he left a £20 tip, and this was in the mid 80's, the guy came back a few times, but the most he got was a blow job, she was very selective to whom she would give the HR, not everyone would get this extra treatment

A few years later, she realized she could make more money escorting, so began her career in escorting, she started working in Dundee, as no one there would know her, and it only in the last 5 yrs she returned to work from Glasgow

To prove how trust worthy she was, once back in Glasgow, she let her 2 kids know what she does, and both kids at the time were 18, and 22 yr old, they never complained, as through out the years, they always got what they asked for xmas, and always had holidays abroad, curtsy of the mother working as an escort

Now she has retired as an escort, but gone back to her original job as a beautician, but instead of working from a salon, she has her own place now

[mattylondon]

How has he broken a confidence, really? He's mentioned no names.

He's been told 'real world stuff', or to be more accurate where many prossies are concerned, tall tales of what they've previously done. He clearly enjoys digging for it, so in my eyes is a boundary pusher. I stand by that.

Yes, no names were revealed .... so far. I'll clarify and simply state that I don't personally approve of revealing any real world info, even if I think most of what he's been told is likely to be fabricated anyway.

[willie loman]

A lot of wgs are ex care workers, or leave the sex industry to be care workers, neither job requires too many paper qualifications, I like having a chat with the girls after or before, don't listen to people who accuse you of being a stalker, you are merely a normal human being, I am open about my life with the girls. One of my last punts, was a girl who worked in a petrol station. I would like to meet one who was ex or even serving in the police, and a nurse would be more than welcome. The girls in the parlours, usually refer to the customers by the job they do, its normal.

[the pussy man]

Like said, a lot of care workers, some class room assistants, and a nurse

In Chester a lot of the girls I see are students from one of the Universities in the North West (ones a law student).

I have also noticed a lot of the girls love horse riding...  expensive hobby that one so explains their need for the cash

[vorian]

Like said, a lot of care workers, some class room assistants, and a nurse

In Chester a lot of the girls I see are students from one of the Universities in the North West (ones a law student).

I have also noticed a lot of the girls love horse riding...  expensive hobby that one so explains their need for the cash

Always found WG who ride horses tend to be fantastic fucks or at least they are in cowgirl 

[the pussy man]

Always found WG who ride horses tend to be fantastic fucks or at least they are in cowgirl 

tend to have awesome asses too 

[overhead]

Like said, a lot of care workers, some class room assistants, and a nurse

In Chester a lot of the girls I see are students from one of the Universities in the North West (ones a law student).

I have also noticed a lot of the girls love horse riding...  expensive hobby that one so explains their need for the cash

A lot of horsey girls do it. Also I know two lawyers, both of whom are well endowed with brains (one has an IQ in the high hundred), and neither have I actually had sex with, sadly. There is a huge spread of occupations, but I'd say the highest percentage are nurses.

[vorian]

tend to have awesome asses too 

Oh yes spot on forgot about that and they do tend to have crops to hand as well

[CoolTiger]

I have also noticed a lot of the girls love horse riding...  expensive hobby that one so explains their need for the cash

Indeed. Worse still is when they decide to buy a horse and end up making daily trips for feeding it, etc. Met one of the girls from Louise1990's group who bought a horse. It didn't help when she also had an expensive convertible car to pay for as well.

[the pussy man]

Indeed. Worse still is when they decide to buy a horse and end up making daily trips for feeding it, etc. Met one of the girls from Louise1990's group who bought a horse. It didn't help when she also had an expensive convertible car to pay for as well.

that's terrible isn;t it.  gues she'll be selling her young pussy for years 

[Daffodil]

The 'day job' of the vast majority of prossies is picking up the benefits cheque 

That's not what they might tell you though. Some might say they're students, nurses, care assistants, lawyers (), astronauts...all adds to the fantasy and there are too many of us willing to lap it up.

[overhead]

The 'day job' of the vast majority of prossies is picking up the benefits cheque 

That's not what they might tell you though. Some might say they're students, nurses, care assistants, lawyers (), astronauts...all adds to the fantasy and there are too many of us willing to lap it up.

You soon find out if they talk about a particular occupation and then don't know much about it. I never ask them what they do, that's too invasive, but they often tell you anyway if you get on well. Both the lawyers I know through other routes than prostitution, but I know for a fact they both do it - and seen the evidence. I also know enough about nursing to smell bullshit from a long way off.

Haven't met an astronaut doing it yet, although it sounds like a stroke of genius for those long trips to Mars and back. They wouldn't need to upload computer games to keep them sane.
 

[potato]

Most of the girls I have seen have been part timers with "proper jobs". I like part timers as the ones I have met seem to be in it for the fun and money.  Their jobs have varied between : warehouse worker, care worker (definite pattern there!), stable girl ( that's working with horses not her mental attitude), trainee lawyer, specialist model  (lingerie and fetish stuff), dance teacher, chef (hope she washed her hands afterwards!) and a couple of office workers. The worst experiences I have had were those that were full time pro$$ies which I try to avoid..   I find the part timers generally give a better service, seem to be more into having a good time and don't clock watch and are fresher as they see less people.  I like to find out a bit more about the girl in general chat during the refreshment / rest breaks. I have a rather good memory and as I tend to see girls more than once its always interesting to compare what they said each time!

[The President]

Most of the girls I have seen have been part timers with "proper jobs". I like part timers as the ones I have met seem to be in it for the fun and money.  Their jobs have varied between : warehouse worker, care worker (definite pattern there!), stable girl ( that's working with horses not her mental attitude), trainee lawyer, specialist model  (lingerie and fetish stuff), dance teacher, chef (hope she washed her hands afterwards!) and a couple of office workers. The worst experiences I have had were those that were full time pro$$ies which I try to avoid..   I find the part timers generally give a better service, seem to be more into having a good time and don't clock watch and are fresher as they see less people.  I like to find out a bit more about the girl in general chat during the refreshment / rest breaks. I have a rather good memory and as I tend to see girls more than once its always interesting to compare what they said each time!

agreed I have found WGs that have a 'day job' seem to be doing for fun as well as money and tend to be better

[vorian]

Part timers do seem to get less jaded but doesn't mean they can't be profesional, guess it is just getting the balance right.

[daz6966]

There was a girl at TJs in Walkden, Manchester about ten years ago who was a schoolteacher. She only worked as a prossie on Saturdays and the summer holidays. If only the pupils knew...

[vorian]

There was a girl at TJs in Walkden, Manchester about ten years ago who was a schoolteacher. She only worked as a prossie on Saturdays and the summer holidays. If only the pupils knew...

 Bet she was good at teacher/student roleplay

[kropotkin]

Antiquarian book seller

[willie loman]

Its true about the horse owners, they are used to unpleasant sights and smells, so sex work isn't too big a step, also the fiendish cost of the hobby, means they need extra cash. Doesn't make them great shags in my experience.,though one was.

[davidgood]

I love meeting indie part timers at both parties and on 1 to 1s.

Over the years I have found that a lot of the Brazilians and EEs are doing things like waitressing, cleaning, working in kitchens etc.

But the Brit girls and ladies have been-care workers, nurses, genuine students (one studying lingerie design) teacher (swinger at party) PAs, local government worker, bakery shop girl, credit control manager,  matron at a boarding school and house keeping manager for a well know hotel chain.

A rich variety of ladies who like to have fun and earn a bit on the side.

Regards,

davidgood

[MidlandsEscortxo]

You soon find out if they talk about a particular occupation and then don't know much about it. I never ask them what they do, that's too invasive, but they often tell you anyway if you get on well. Both the lawyers I know through other routes than prostitution, but I know for a fact they both do it - and seen the evidence. I also know enough about nursing to smell bullshit from a long way off.

Haven't met an astronaut doing it yet, although it sounds like a stroke of genius for those long trips to Mars and back. They wouldn't need to upload computer games to keep them sane.

so you havent met a whore astronaut yet .. well let me introduce myself, between sucking cock and being fucked i'm always taking one giant leap for mankind and going to the moon in back .... in my dreams tehe

[hockogrockle]

I forgot to mention two lap dancers and one stripper in my original post. I don't actually think they count, as they are (were) working in the sex industry anyway.

[nottoofast]

A doctor is not necessarily good at fucking

But lawyers are.....especially in the ass region

[Robster199]

Most of the girls I have seen have been part timers with "proper jobs". I like part timers as the ones I have met seem to be in it for the fun and money.  Their jobs have varied between : warehouse worker, care worker (definite pattern there!), stable girl ( that's working with horses not her mental attitude), trainee lawyer, specialist model  (lingerie and fetish stuff), dance teacher, chef (hope she washed her hands afterwards!) and a couple of office workers. The worst experiences I have had were those that were full time pro$$ies which I try to avoid..   I find the part timers generally give a better service, seem to be more into having a good time and don't clock watch and are fresher as they see less people.  I like to find out a bit more about the girl in general chat during the refreshment / rest breaks. I have a rather good memory and as I tend to see girls more than once its always interesting to compare what they said each time!

How do you find these ones on aw? Do they tend to mention it? This post makes sense to me, and appeals!

[badsin]

If the conversation leads onto it then I dont mind chatting with the girls about their other occupations - likewise I dont mind talking about myself either (if asked). I never give to much information, and never request to much.
Some occupations I can recall:
Occupational / sports therapist
Student (genuine i saw the NUS card!!)
Hair dresser
Amateur show jumper and student (Megan Coxxx!)
Porn star
Photographer
Model
Single mum(s)

[tomato sauce and waffles]

Most of the girls I have seen have been part timers with "proper jobs". I like part timers as the ones I have met seem to be in it for the fun and money.  Their jobs have varied between : warehouse worker, care worker (definite pattern there!), stable girl ( that's working with horses not her mental attitude), trainee lawyer, specialist model  (lingerie and fetish stuff), dance teacher, chef (hope she washed her hands afterwards!) and a couple of office workers. The worst experiences I have had were those that were full time pro$$ies which I try to avoid..   I find the part timers generally give a better service, seem to be more into having a good time and don't clock watch and are fresher as they see less people.  I like to find out a bit more about the girl in general chat during the refreshment / rest breaks. I have a rather good memory and as I tend to see girls more than once its always interesting to compare what they said each time!

Yep, agreed, from my experience.

[davidgood]

Yep, agreed, from my experience.

I too agree based on my experience.

Regards,

davidgood

[Horizontal pleasures]

A lot of horsey girls do it.

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This is one lady who has been mentioned here in Essex who has photos of her horse in the room and on her profile discusses the horse

[Horizontal pleasures]

I agree with the general and specific points made by the OP. I have met ladies with a similar range of occupations - or none - from students through nurses to professionals. I enjoy such conversations and they do not break confidences as they are made generally and not specifically. Also local hospitals and universities are huge institutions. It is in as much the lady's interests as ours to retain confidentiality.

[mattylondon]

The 'day job' of the vast majority of prossies is picking up the benefits cheque 

That's not what they might tell you though. Some might say they're students, nurses, care assistants, lawyers (), astronauts...all adds to the fantasy and there are too many of us willing to lap it up.

I have punted a couple who genuinely had day jobs, but not many. And that has tended to be in the suburbs, rather than in London.

Most of the prostitutes I've punted have been on the benefits swindle, which is of course easier to do if one has no job. Of course, they aren't the only group of people who abuse the benefits system. In London, many of the younger ones are 'students', yet curiously work during college hours? I sometimes enjoy asking them what they're studying, just to hear the porkies! 

[hockogrockle]

I can think of one genuine (mature) student. For some God-forsaken reason  (and quite out of character), I said something to her like "Come, let me clutch thee, as Macbeth said". Instead of giving me a funny look and muttering something like "I've got a right one here", she reached into a large bag and produced a copy of the play itself, with a request to find the quotation, which I duly did. This sparked off a lively discussion, from which it emerged that she was studying Journalism and English at a local University of the erstwhile teachers' training college variety. Good luck to her! If wonder if she ever managed to get a proper job?

[DJ Fruit Polo]

In London, many of the younger ones are 'students', yet curiously work during college hours? I sometimes enjoy asking them what they're studying, just to hear the porkies! 

I've sometimes wondered about that, although I suppose they could be Open University or other distance learning students.

[Strawberry]

I've sometimes wondered about that, although I suppose they could be Open University or other distance learning students.

Many courses have lectures spread out over the week, and the students don't need to be in 9-4 or whatever you class as teaching hours. Degree courses can vary between 8 to 25 contact hours a week, with entire days left for reading, and studying outside of class. Many post graduate courses are just one full day a week, or several evenings instead - so it is entirely possible to have daytime availability and be a 'student'.

[mattylondon]

I've sometimes wondered about that, although I suppose they could be Open University or other distance learning students.

A lot of these girls in London tend to be available at any hour of the day, any day of the week, hence my doubt about their advertised student credentials. Wow, they must study real hard!

I think that a lot of people understand a 'student' to mean young and a university or college, in a near full time capacity. If other people wish to split hairs by citing studying hours outside of the traditional 9 - 5, then whilst technically they are correct, we may as well say that anybody who's studying anything, at whatever age, is covered by the term 'student', which is true.

A young prossie who advertises as a student does so because she knows that it has an appeal to many punters on a fantasy basis. I doubt very much if it would be so attractive for a punter, to read a 30+ year old prossie advertising as a student!