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So I've been a regular punter for a few months now. Finding the odd hour here or there a couple of times a month to try something different.

I have a wife who I love dearly but I never really think about it until I'm on my way home, I don't necessarily regret it, I just feel quite guilty.

Just wondered what you guys who are married, or have a girlfriend I guess, feel about it before and after?


Offline vorian

So I've been a regular punter for a few months now. Finding the odd hour here or there a couple of times a month to try something different.

I have a wife who I love dearly but I never really think about it until I'm on my way home, I don't necessarily regret it, I just feel quite guilty.

Just wondered what you guys who are married, or have a girlfriend I guess, feel about it before and after?

Guilt is a negative and destructive emotion like jealousy.  No advantage to be gained so ignore it.
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Offline smiths

So I've been a regular punter for a few months now. Finding the odd hour here or there a couple of times a month to try something different.

I have a wife who I love dearly but I never really think about it until I'm on my way home, I don't necessarily regret it, I just feel quite guilty.

Just wondered what you guys who are married, or have a girlfriend I guess, feel about it before and after?

I have been cheating on partners all my adult life and am very practised at it now, being selfish i put my desire to punt first and do so without guilt as guilt would spoil it for me. I want to punt for the sex, and a relationship for sex and love, a case of wanting my cake and to eat it.

Offline Tjkooker

What no review ?? :thumbsdown:

What.... you want a review of the guys wife. Whatever floats yer boat
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Offline Sailormack

So I've been a regular punter for a few months now. Finding the odd hour here or there a couple of times a month to try something different.

I have a wife who I love dearly but I never really think about it until I'm on my way home, I don't necessarily regret it, I just feel quite guilty.

Just wondered what you guys who are married, or have a girlfriend I guess, feel about it before and after?

If your Mrs doesn't seem to bothered about what you're doing, it might be a sign she's smashing your best man  :kissgirl:

Offline seeker

He says he's been a punter for a few months sooooooooo
You following this TJ
He must have rattled a few prossies :hi:

Offline Tjkooker

Well I dont think he is looking to talk about the prossies here. More trying to get a bit of the guilt off his chest.
If you want reviews there's thousands of them in the imaginatively titled "review" section.
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Offline kyjahaha

So I've been a regular punter for a few months now. Finding the odd hour here or there a couple of times a month to try something different.

I have a wife who I love dearly but I never really think about it until I'm on my way home, I don't necessarily regret it, I just feel quite guilty.

Just wondered what you guys who are married, or have a girlfriend I guess, feel about it before and after?


The way I see it its this, men are designed to spread seeds and its our natural instinct, that is how we are programmed and born with. It's natural desire for men to seek sex withe different people. The society, women and morals are heavily against our nature and we are suffering and getting punished for it which I think it is unfair.

Women do cheat but they are rarer than men since their body is designed to keep the baby and they will be responsible for it so they can be very picky and take less risks, more likely to stick to one stable partner to raise the kid.


I feel guilty when I have had a punt where I really connect with the girl.  My last punt was a 1hr outcall, where the girl stayed for 4 hrs because we got on and the sex was amazing.  I'm still feeling guilty about it a week later!

When its just sex and there's no real connection I don't feel much guilt.  The way I see it is my alternatives are...

1. Leave my wife and child
2. Have casual sex with normals
3. Have another affair
4. See escorts
5. Stay with my wife but never have sex again

Tony Montana

I don't feel guilty, but I wonder if sometimes I should feel guilty about not feeling guilty IYKWIM.

I always think of it as going to the gym and having a good work out

Offline CBPaul

I've never felt the slightest pang of guilt.

In my younger days I didn't punt when I had a girlfriend, sex with a new girlfriend was always way better than punting sex and I didn't stick with anyone long enough for the sex to deteriorate. In the first few years of marriage I didn't punt but eventually drifted back - it's a hobby that never leaves you ! In fact my first punt was with a street girl, gorgeous - didn't belong on the streets, and afterwards the thoughts were all of getting to repeat the performance, not guilt.

Now I have sex for an hour or so and that's all it is. If I did ever feel a closer bond with a WG then that may be a different matter.

Guilt, NO but the fear of getting caught, YES. But I still punt. 

Offline Toshiba

I think if ypu have done it more than once then you are passed guilt

I have a GF and no i dont actually feel guilt, ive cheated all my life, because i like good sex regularly and ive hardly found a partner the wanted the same filth as me

In regards to punting its the ideal scenario for me but the biggest fear is STD's and the main reason ive never punted since august, it scares me as i still want my life with my partner who to be fair is a good fuck . But guilt? No not really and it doesnt stop the vast majority of blokes when push comes to shove

Online hendrix

I'm totally selfish. Works for me.

Offline potato

My male dictionary does not list the word guilt.    I can separate the two women in my life quite easily. I wouldn't swap my missus for anyone ( then again, a lottery win might tempt me...)  My regular girl is for fun and sex and that's all.  It could be argued that my regular actually keeps my marriage together and its better and less complicated than having an affair.  So long as you can separate the two in your head there isn't a problem.  I wouldn't have dreamed of straying over the first couple of years of marriage - but then again I had no need to, as i was fully catered for at home. Now its different because women seem to change over the years whereas I haven't. I like my life the way it is - a nice stable home life where we are the best of friends but no more than that and a secret life where I can fill my boots without any emotional attachment.

I don't feel guilty, but I wonder if sometimes I should feel guilty about not feeling guilty IYKWIM.

My feelings exactly.  ( except had to google IYKWIM for meaning  :D )

Offline Tailpipe

I have been cheating on partners all my adult life and am very practised at it now, being selfish i put my desire to punt first and do so without guilt as guilt would spoil it for me. I want to punt for the sex, and a relationship for sex and love, a case of wanting my cake and to eat it.


Cracking Quote . Love it . I gave up years ago trying to work out why. Love and sex have little connection.

If Sex is a need go punt,  however if her in doors finds out get your chq book at the ready , as most will see your hobby
as , lack of fulfillment on there part , this is often the reason for punting in the first place.

When I first started punting I used to feel guilty, but a couple of days later it went away. Nowadays I don't feel guilty at all. The only thing I think about after a punt now is which WG I'll be visiting next.

Been punting since I was 18. That was twenty years ago.

Offline willbred

In my 27 years' punting, I will readily confess to having had pangs of guilt in the early stages. Not enough to put me off and over time lost the feelings altogether.
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Online KentAde

When I first started punting I used to feel guilty, but a couple of days later it went away. Nowadays I don't feel guilty at all. The only thing I think about after a punt now is which WG I'll be visiting next.

Been punting since I was 18. That was twenty years ago.

+1

I know I'd have to give up punting if I were married/in a Relationship.  I'm not and my age makes it unlikely that I will be.

Simply because I'm such a rotten liar; I blush easily and it'd be a dead giveaway.  It always was with the late Mrs R L.

Offline Toshiba

My male dictionary does not list the word guilt.    I can separate the two women in my life quite easily. I wouldn't swap my missus for anyone ( then again, a lottery win might tempt me...)  My regular girl is for fun and sex and that's all.  It could be argued that my regular actually keeps my marriage together and its better and less complicated than having an affair.  So long as you can separate the two in your head there isn't a problem.  I wouldn't have dreamed of straying over the first couple of years of marriage - but then again I had no need to, as i was fully catered for at home. Now its different because women seem to change over the years whereas I haven't. I like my life the way it is - a nice stable home life where we are the best of friends but no more than that and a secret life where I can fill my boots without any emotional attachment.


Bang on with this fella

Offline Scarlet Redd

Unless you are falling in love with the escort you are seeing then there is no cheating going on.

You don't need to feel guilty if you are seeing an escort to keep your marriage a happy one.

It is a fact that many women lose the urge to have sex after giving birth, falling ill or after the menopause. The husband still loves their wives to bits, but still has his male urges.

An escort is providing a no-strings service to help with this.

Offline vorian

Unless you are falling in love with the escort you are seeing then there is no cheating going on.

You don't need to feel guilty if you are seeing an escort to keep your marriage a happy one.

It is a fact that many women lose the urge to have sex after giving birth, falling ill or after the menopause. The husband still loves their wives to bits, but still has his male urges.

An escort is providing a no-strings service to help with this.

Quite right I feel than WG's have saved far, far more marriages, than silly books on romance. That's for sure.
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