How can I change my username if I am not allowed to message admin?

[DavidBanner]

Hello
I have seen my first escort since joining this site and would like to leave an honest review. I'm finally in a position to contribute after a couple of years lurking. The review will not be 100% positive (it will be neutral) so it's best not to review using my current UKP username because it's the same as my adultwork name. Since it's too late to change my adultwork name (ie., the escort already knows and recognises it), how can I change my UKP username?
I've read elsewhere that the solution is to message admin but I am not authorised to do this. Any other suggestions?
Thanks in advance

[OldAdmin]

Have you even tried to send me a PM?

It works fine, I got a PM from someone just 15mins ago who has zero posts for a username change.

[DavidBanner]

@Admin, When I click on your name to message you I get this message in a yellow bar at the top.... "Your account can only reply to messages recieved, you cannot send messages to other members that have not contacted you before." Your name then appears beneath the name box with a little red cross beside it.

[DavidBanner]

I tried it despite the yellow message and it worked. My apologies, I thought the yellow message meant I wasn't allowed to message you. Sorry to waste your time. I look forward to receiving my new name so i can finally post a review.

[OldAdmin]

The red box means remove that name from the recipient list, in case you're sending a message to multiple members.
I've edited that notice to avoid confusion.