Author Topic: Can there be something in our AdultWork profile that we can't see  (Read 2057 times)

Offline Dannydeaf

I have been trying to see Naughty_Cum_Slut External Link/Members Only for a while. Yes I know she is not liked on here due to the BB but I was only looking for a BJ

Anyway after a couple of exchanged messages where nothing out of the ordinary was said she started ignoring me.
I asked if I had said or done something wrong to which she said she doesn't see anyone over 50.

Fair enough that's her choice. I hadn't seen it before and I clicked her profile and sure enough there it is. It was there about 10 minutes and gone again. She claims she is 47 so I don't think it's that, but it may be.
I have excellent feedback on AW and can't understand why, of course it is her right and I accept that.

But I'm wondering if there has been something added to my profile that is putting people off from seeing me. If so is there a way of seeing it.

Had similar problems with another girl who all of a sudden stopped answering me.

Please don't rubbish this as it's a genuine concern.



Offline Happyjose

I have been trying to see Naughty_Cum_Slut External Link/Members Only for a while. Yes I know she is not liked on here due to the BB but I was only looking for a BJ

Anyway after a couple of exchanged messages where nothing out of the ordinary was said she started ignoring me.
I asked if I had said or done something wrong to which she said she doesn't see anyone over 50.

Fair enough that's her choice. I hadn't seen it before and I clicked her profile and sure enough there it is. It was there about 10 minutes and gone again. She claims she is 47 so I don't think it's that, but it may be.
I have excellent feedback on AW and can't understand why, of course it is her right and I accept that.

But I'm wondering if there has been something added to my profile that is putting people off from seeing me. If so is there a way of seeing it.

Had similar problems with another girl who all of a sudden stopped answering me.

Please don't rubbish this as it's a genuine concern.

Could be that your profile is flagged up as having an alias. You could be on some shit list somewhere

It could be that you're considered a timewaster if you're sending too many emails

If the feedback you have is from barebackers then it could be that

Find a friendly prossie and ask her to take a look

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« Last Edit: October 26, 2018, 04:05:15 pm by Happyjose »

Offline waynekerr600

There used to be some sort of notes system for SPs but that has been stopped. If you have more than one aw login they can see that which might put them off.

As has already been suggested of you have sent lots of messages they may have thought that you were a TW.

Offline Dannydeaf

Thanks for the reply Happyjose.

I don't have an alias but wonder if someone may have suspected me of that and caused a problem for me.
I don't know why as I have been a member there for about 12 years. I don't get to see too many due to finances
but when I do I always treat every girl I have met with respect. I have about 15 reviews and it's 100% positive.

I messaged her yesterday afternoon and she was fully booked. Messaged again this morning and she said possibly for today then just never got back to me. Messaged her this afternoon about it and I got told she doesn't see anyone over 50



Offline Dannydeaf

Thanks Waynekerr.

There wasn't lots. One yesterday where she said she was fully booked one this morning which she replied to and a couple this afternoon.
I was waiting in ready to accept anytime she had available.

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There's nothing that I know of that they can add to your profile, they see what you post on your profile, this will include your age if you have it listed. If you're over this particular one's age limit then that might be why she won't see you, unless she doesn't like how you word your messages.

The thing that will put most WGs off is the fact you seek out barebacking skanks, there's an awful lot who, quite rightly, want nothing to do with punters like you. That's the price you pay for punting irresponsibly.   :wacko: 

Offline waynekerr600

Fair comment Davie I missed that. If you go with BB girls expect others to avoid you.

Offline Dannydeaf

I wasn't looking for sex with this person. I'm always into the owo and to be honest I don't think there is any more risk from catching something from her as any other working girl that performs owo. Her reviews for that were really good, that's what I wanted from her.

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I wasn't looking for sex with this person. I'm always into the owo and to be honest I don't think there is any more risk from catching something from her as any other working girl that performs owo. Her reviews for that were really good, that's what I wanted from her.

The way I look at it is if you do anything sexual with a person who has any kind of STI then you have a high chance of catching it. If a person engages in unsafe sex ie barebacks, then they have a far higher chance of being infected than someone who only partakes in safe sex.

You obviously think differently, that's your choice, but expect to be treated with distain by me and shunned by a great many SPs for having such a careless attitude.

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Offline NigelF

I wasn't looking for sex with this person. I'm always into the owo and to be honest I don't think there is any more risk from catching something from her as any other working girl that performs owo. Her reviews for that were really good, that's what I wanted from her.

She doesn't have any reviews for that or anything else, not on here at least and that's where it matters. AW feedback is unreliable garbage and when the positives are actually accurate there's almost no way of being able to tell (unless you come to trust the feedback from a specific punter because his experiences have always matched yours but even that's unreliable). The only thing you can repeatedly rely on is negative and neutral feedback, that's almost always accurate.

Anyway, other escorts won't know why you've seen barabackers or what you did with them, they will just presume the worst. If you try to "explain" they'll just presume you're lying and they'd also be very right to, because you don't need to see a barebacker to get a good blowjob.

As for your question, I've experienced almost the exact same too. It was just age I had listed on my profile. For some reason the daft bint thought I was actually being accurate with it. To change the age listed on your profile, obviously login to AW then in the drop down menu for "My Details" (next to "Search"), select "edit profile" then "profile details". It'll take you to your profile but it's automatically on the "General" tab, you need to select the "Personal Details" tab, then at top you'll see your date of birth. Change it to whatever you want (although I'd recommend not lying too much because you'll probably not get good service from someone who thinks you're too old but only finds out when you arrive). Note that escorts can't see your date of birth, to them it just shows your age.

Of course you can always just not show your age by deleting what you put in the date of birth box and clicking save. Click onto something else and then go back to your profile (specifically the personal details tab) to check your date of birth is still blank just to make sure.

« Last Edit: October 26, 2018, 05:03:22 pm by NigelF »

Offline Disco dave

I have been trying to see Naughty_Cum_Slut External Link/Members Only for a while. Yes I know she is not liked on here due to the BB but I was only looking for a BJ

Anyway after a couple of exchanged messages where nothing out of the ordinary was said she started ignoring me.
I asked if I had said or done something wrong to which she said she doesn't see anyone over 50.

Fair enough that's her choice. I hadn't seen it before and I clicked her profile and sure enough there it is. It was there about 10 minutes and gone again. She claims she is 47 so I don't think it's that, but it may be.
I have excellent feedback on AW and can't understand why, of course it is her right and I accept that.

But I'm wondering if there has been something added to my profile that is putting people off from seeing me. If so is there a way of seeing it.

Had similar problems with another girl who all of a sudden stopped answering me.

Please don't rubbish this as it's a genuine concern.

Mate if she is known for BB then a BJ is a no go for me. If she will let any skanky cock in her victoria sponge then it goes in her mouth as well.

She could drink 10ltrs of dettol and i still wouldnt.


Offline Dannydeaf

Thanks for the reply NigelF. I won't change my age in my profile though.

Just need to put this one down as a bad experience. Really don't like it though when people are not honest and I get the feeling she isn't honest.Working girls hate timewasters and rightly so. However they don't hesitate to be timewasters to us.

To have people waiting all day not knowing if they were going to get back to you to arrange an appointment then to just ignore emails is pretty low in my opinion.

Offline NigelF

Thanks for the reply NigelF. I won't change my age in my profile though.

Just need to put this one down as a bad experience. Really don't like it though when people are not honest and I get the feeling she isn't honest.Working girls hate timewasters and rightly so. However they don't hesitate to be timewasters to us.

To have people waiting all day not knowing if they were going to get back to you to arrange an appointment then to just ignore emails is pretty low in my opinion.

I totally agree. Although when people say timewasters, they usually mean people who agree to meet but then don't turn up/go radio silent so you can't get to see them. However, what you've described is a minor form of timewasting but unfortunately you will experience this VERY frequently if you start punting more often. I don't mean being refused on the grounds of age (that's rare) but I mean general shit comms, reading your messages but not replying etc.

I'm experienced and I obviously have lots of good feedback (none from barebackers) but the amount of time I experience terrible comms from many escorts is nothing short of staggering. It's like some of them don't want my money!

It's just something you have to get used to. I'd also recommend just using the phone when possible, particularly calling. You can also send out messages to various girls you want to see and just go ahead with whoever replies first. That is slightly rude/timewasterish on your part if you end up not following through with some girls but you probably won't get replies from all of them anyway and they will be used to people enquiring and then not going ahead. As long as you don't agree to see them/put in a booking request etc, it's fine and not proper timewasting.

Offline Shutty238

To be honest I've found this across the whole service industry recently. I've been doing loads of home improvements and plumbers, tilers, painter decorators all seem really hesitant to take my money. I just suspect they're not desperate for the business to go to the trouble of replying. Pretty poor but the ease & immediacy of communication these days has bred a complacency.



Offline Moresomes

I've e-mailed a local SP twice with regard to making a booking.
On both occasions the e-mail has remained unread over a number of days until I deleted them, but the SP had logged in almost every day during this time.
This has never happened to me in the past with any other SP, so I can't decide if she's blacklisted me, (never had any dealing at all with her in the past), or if she's simply not receiving my mails for some reason.   :unknown:

Offline Sar-Major

To be honest I've found this across the whole service industry recently. I've been doing loads of home improvements and plumbers, tilers, painter decorators all seem really hesitant to take my money. I just suspect they're not desperate for the business to go to the trouble of replying. Pretty poor but the ease & immediacy of communication these days has bred a complacency.

Well that's some fekin kink you've got there Shutty, it's bad enough with young Waynekerr and all those smelly feet........... :P  :D :D :D

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Offline NigelF

I've e-mailed a local SP twice with regard to making a booking.
On both occasions the e-mail has remained unread over a number of days until I deleted them, but the SP had logged in almost every day during this time.
This has never happened to me in the past with any other SP, so I can't decide if she's blacklisted me, (never had any dealing at all with her in the past), or if she's simply not receiving my mails for some reason.   :unknown:

You can tell if she's blocked you by checking if the email was deleted by her. If she deleted it without reading it, that makes it likely she's blocked/blacklisted you. However, to truly confirm it's best to send her a message and then quickly check if it's been deleted, if it has then it almost certainly has been automatically deleted (because it was deleted as soon as it was sent/received), which is proof you're blocked.

To check if it's been deleted, on the drop down menu for "Emails & Bookings", select "Emails", then on the left hand side select "Sent Items" and then jump to the most recent page/where it shows your messages to her. In the date read column, if it's blank, it hasn't been read but hasn't been deleted (so you're not blocked).
« Last Edit: October 26, 2018, 07:23:35 pm by NigelF »

Offline Moresomes

You can tell if she's blocked you by checking if the email was deleted by her. If she deleted it without reading it, that makes it likely she's blocked/blacklisted you. However, to truly confirm it's best to send her a message and then quickly check if it's been deleted, if it has then it almost certainly has been automatically deleted (because it was deleted as soon as it was sent/received), which is proof you're blocked.

To check if it's been deleted, on the drop down menu for "Emails & Bookings", select "Emails", then on the left hand side select "Sent Items" and then jump to the most recent page/where it shows your messages to her. In the date read column, if it's blank, it hasn't been read but hasn't been deleted (so you're not blocked).

Thanks for that.
Both times it's just remained unread and undeleted. There's plenty of others available, so it's no big problem, but I just wondered why she just seemed to totally ignore it .   :unknown:

Offline Shutty238

Well that's some fekin kink you've got there Shutty, it's bad enough with young Waynekerr and all those smelly feet........... :P  :D :D :D

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is the phone number listed on your AW profile findable through a google search - does it link to a farcebook account or similar?

or has any girl given you a negative on AW? All it would take is a review saying "fuggly fatty 55 year old, with a tiny cock" or similar.........

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is the phone number listed on your AW profile findable through a google search - does it link to a farcebook account or similar?

or has any girl given you a negative on AW? All it would take is a review saying "fuggly fatty 55 year old, with a tiny cock" or similar.........

 :scare: you did a search on me  :crazy:

Offline Sar-Major


 :scare: you did a search on me  :crazy:

Fuck Off Alf, your NOT that fekin young.............  :scare:   :sarcastic: :sarcastic: :sarcastic:

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Offline Shitehawk

is the phone number listed on your AW profile findable through a google search - does it link to a farcebook account or similar?

or has any girl given you a negative on AW? All it would take is a review saying "fuggly fatty 55 year old, with a tiny cock" or similar.........

Well, that's not accurate.....im only 50!

Offline waynekerr600

Has the OP been mentioned in a closed wattscrap group?

Offline Sar-Major

Well, that's not accurate.....im only 50!

Fuck Off, your just like Alf, your NOT that fekin young............. Not with that many "Wrinkles on ya Prune".............  :P :lol: :lol: :lol:

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Offline bushman

Has the OP been mentioned in a closed wattscrap group?
Don't think the group included barebackers. But he could be on uglymugs.  :crazy: