Tipping and presents.

[Rotherham]

Does anybody leave a tip after a visit or before? Anyone take presents?

[marcello]

Pretty sure delusional people do.
tips are for waitresses, presents are for gfs
Call me a romantic

[CheeseBoard]

Does anybody leave a tip after a visit or before? Anyone take presents?

Do you?

[Waterhouse]

"INCOMING...!"   

[hullad]

Never taken a present why would I,  never take a present to my barber

 But I always leave a tip as I leave a punt

' Don' t buy Duracell batteries for your vibrator they may last six times as long as ordinary batteries, but they cost seven tomes the price '

[Tecova]

Nope but I have had made for me a great cup of coffee from one WG and been given a box of Roses from another.  The best I have done for a WG is to drop them off in the next town as the last train of the day had already gone.  I am averse to paying extra for what is already a premium anyway.

[DaVINCI]

Does anybody leave a tip after a visit or before? Anyone take presents?

The only tip (compulsory £2) l have ever given was to the maid at the Soho walk ups and l grudged that     

[tynetunnel]

I never tip, nor will I ever

[lewisjones23]

fucking hell silly season in full swing 

[FLYING BLUE]

Does anybody leave a tip after a visit or before? Anyone take presents?

No

[Stevensmiles]

Nope but I have had made for me a great cup of coffee from one WG and been given a box of Roses from another.  The best I have done for a WG is to drop them off in the next town as the last train of the day had already gone.  I am averse to paying extra for what is already a premium anyway.

That’s so coincidental. Cos it happened to me donkeys years ago. I’d seen the girl half a dozen times or so and it just happened I was heading up North from London straight after the punt.
Don’t ask why I was punting immediately before a long drive. I can’t remember that’s why.

But I ended up offering her a lift to Northampton after she told me that’s where she was heading.

Hey.... I’m a nice guy 

[WARSZAWA16]

No. Slippery slope. Sorry, I don't like the whole culture of "compulsory" tipping. I only tip where and when I feel it is merited. This is not America where even the most basic service provider feels they are entitled to a 20% tip. By the way, there's quite a similar themed thread currently on the go entitled "Flowers" where the answers would pretty much cover this too:

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=226509.0

[Itsnotshy]

Have done it now and then, sometimes with HE girls who go a little above and beyond the call of duty, sometimes if I'm in a very good mood.
Trying to stop now though, bad habit, shouldn't have started in the first place.
The extra cost is always in the back of your mind when considering which girls to see and which you have tipped previously and who might expect a tip.
Don't start would be my advice, just save the money and see your favs. more often.

[mikexxlong]

fucking hell

this topic has been done to death

well here we go,----------if your some kind of fucking idiot or think you have a "special relationship" with the whore
then by all means be a chump waste your money and bring your silly little gifts or tip the over priced bint ...,sure she might smile and say awww you shouldn't have or are you sure?

all the while thinking what a cunt we have a right sucker here and pocket the extra cash
and toss the gift in the drawer or bin with all the others from the other fluffy half wits who have done the same

general consensus from most punters is don't tip or bring gifts as it encourages price increases and inflates their egos causing shit service   

[threechilliman]

fucking hell

this topic has been done to death

well here we go,----------if your some kind of fucking idiot or think you have a "special relationship" with the whore
then by all means be a chump waste your money and bring your silly little gifts or tip the over priced bint ...,sure she might smile and say awww you shouldn't have or are you sure?

all the while thinking what a cunt we have a right sucker here and pocket the extra cash
and toss the gift in the drawer or bin with all the others from the other fluffy half wits who have done the same

general consensus from most punters is don't tip or bring gifts as it encourages price increases and inflates their egos causing shit service 

+1

[Ali Katt]

I don't give a tip, I use the whole length.

[RogerBoner]

I've recently been a bit cheeky with the weekly turnaround Chinese tourers. It is £100 per hour. Extras would be £20 per additional service such as OWO and kissing. Some even want £20 for reverse oral.

I give the hour fee and, after they give it to the fat middle aged Maid cooking cabbage, put £20 on the dressing table and mumble that it's her tip with a smile like I've presented her with a gold laden attaché. Start off a bit of FK, maybe that's what it was for?  Move to RO then to uncovered 69. Even climaxed with CIM all for the solitary £20.. Not really a tip....

But I confess that I have bought choccies for the maid and received free Anal that day. I just said that I'd always wondered what it would look like in there and she duly obliged.

[Sonny Crockett]

I'd never do that. Once I am done, I normally just want to clean up and leave.

[lewisjones23]

TREAT HER WELL!!!!!

[Ali Katt]

Does anybody leave a tip after a visit or before? Anyone take presents?

Someone called Rotherham, talking about tipping. You're giving a bad reputation to Yorkies everywhere.

[Jayf]

Your already paying £50-£100. Fuck tipping them.

[Ali Katt]

Call me old fashioned, but isn't picking a girl out of literally thousands a gift in itself? What could be a bigger compliment?

[Metalgear2018]

My tip is to treat her with respect.

[Rotherham]

It's common to tip waiters, barbers, taxi drivers so why not an SP? I haven't done it mainly because I haven't visited the same SP twice yet.  My thinking is the reverse psychology that if you tip or bring a present beforehand they maybe more inclined to put in some extra effort.

[WARSZAWA16]

It's common to tip waiters, barbers, taxi drivers so why not an SP? I haven't done it mainly because I haven't visited the same SP twice yet.  My thinking is the reverse psychology that if you tip or bring a present beforehand they maybe more inclined to put in some extra effort.

I don't think an SP really expects a tip and/or a present. Perhaps an SP can give their view on this here though? Would a tip and/or a present make you "more inclined to put in some extra effort"?   

[lewisjones23]

It's common to tip waiters, barbers, taxi drivers so why not an SP? I haven't done it mainly because I haven't visited the same SP twice yet.  My thinking is the reverse psychology that if you tip or bring a present beforehand they maybe more inclined to put in some extra effort.

do everyone a favour and fuck off you soft twat

not one person has said it is a good idea yet you have your mind set on it

you tip service providers who earn little, a brass is likely earning far in excess of you - don’t believe the shit about seeing one person a day or it is a hobby or any other bollocks that they put on their profiles

they also dont lose any of their income to HMRC

[nigel4498]

A SP shouldn't need the incentive of a present or a tip to give a good service. You're paying top whack as it is.

[globewindsailor]

I suppose it can put the girl in a better mood, but for most you are an atm so it does not matter. Instead of a present you could just adjust how you interact with them instead. Had a great punt with one girl because I just humoured the rubbish she was talking. No present would have helped there.

[Landscape]

They're getting more per hour than most people do in their jobs and the last thing you want do to is tip them; this to them is a sign that you're a soft touch. The next punt you do with her will be worse as she knows she doesn't have to try so hard to get the same result.

As for flowers, chocolates and the rest of it, the stuff that can't be given away goes straight into the bin.

[Herts_Outcaller]

I tip sometimes if I think I've received exceptional service. Quite often if they swallow, but not if they already charge  £££.

I don't think you'd receive worse service next time if you tip, more likely they'd be more keen to see you and impress you to earn another tip.

Obviously you don't tip them out of sympathy for poor earnings, but at your own discretion to show appreciation. I'm glad it's not expected and you've not got a situation like you have in America, where if you don't give the right tip they think you're a scumbag. Much rather how it is, where tipping is the exception.

[NigelF]

It's common to tip waiters, barbers, taxi drivers so why not an SP? I haven't done it mainly because I haven't visited the same SP twice yet.  My thinking is the reverse psychology that if you tip or bring a present beforehand they maybe more inclined to put in some extra effort.

According to the psychological literature on the subject of giving gifts, tips or doing favours, the evidence shows that if anything, it has the reverse effect to what you suggest. Obviously none of the studies were done on escorts though but I imagine the psychology of it is similar. The only real exception is in professions where tipping is expected (e.g. waiters), as if you keep going without tipping you might find your meal gets some extra "liquid" added to it.

Anyway, the reason you don't tip SP's is because of their pay, particularly per hour which is significantly higher than those jobs you mention. A much more accurate comparison would be do you tip your solicitor, accountant, dentist and doctor?

But bringing down a level do you even tip nurses or the care assistants who do a good job looking after your elderly parents. If you wouldn't tip those people, you have no business tipping a prostitute.

[madeinwales56]

I don't tip my accountant or my solicitor's clerk both of whom charge themselves out at much the same as your average prossie. I reckon around £120 an hour is a decent whack without needing to offer a tip.

[mr.bluesky]

I gave a girl a tip once. It was running in the 2:30 at Warwick 

[Rochelle]

Love how some people generalize and always assume escorts lie about absolutely everything.

Some people lie a lot, some people try to tell the truth most of the time. Some will earn loads, some won't earn that much. Some will see 10 a day, some will see 1 a day. I would think this is pretty obvious.

Anyway, regarding tipping, it's happened on very few occasions and yes, it's great and I appreciate it. I don't think, "Oh what a mug", I just think, "Wow, that's really kind."
Honestly though, it doesn't encourage me to put in more effort, and that shouldn't be why they should be tipping anyway. If they're going to do it, they should just do it just because they feel like it, not because they have an agenda. In any case, of course I don't expect a tip, it's totally unnecessary, but of course it's appreciated.

I had a booking recently and I gave the guy a tenner off. I've seen him a few times over the last year and a half, and in that moment I just thought to do it, just to be nice. I didn't do it to encourage another booking, because I already know he's going to see me again at some point, I just felt like it.

[Midori]

I also think some people are over estimating how much some of us earn and also how many presents we actually get. Maybe certain service providers who portray a certain image get loads, but some of us don't. I am actually really grateful for any little sign of appreciation, sometimes it is just nice to be thought of. And that could be a present or someone bringing you a cold can of pop on a warm day for example.

I certainly have never thrown anything I've been bought in the bin.

[Kingy28]

I gave a girl a tip once. It was running in the 2:30 at Warwick 

Did it win?

[Rochelle]

I would put flowers in the bin.

[James999]

I would put flowers in the bin.

Says a lot about the type of person you are 

[Rochelle]

Says a lot about the type of person you are 

If you say so.

I think flowers are rubbish and pointless. I would thank them for the thought but tell them I don't do flowers. So what if I would put them in the bin? Oh no, that makes me such a horrible person.
 

[seeker]

The only tip ive ever given is on the end of my shaft .
The only present is the wad of lizzies agreed ,
before i leave

[kingmg]

The only tip (compulsory £2) l have ever given was to the maid at the Soho walk ups and l grudged that     

I take all the change out of my wallet and give the maid nothing

[Ali Katt]

Love how some people generalize and always assume escorts lie about absolutely everything.

Some people lie a lot, some people try to tell the truth most of the time. Some will earn loads, some won't earn that much. Some will see 10 a day, some will see 1 a day. I would think this is pretty obvious.

Anyway, regarding tipping, it's happened on very few occasions and yes, it's great and I appreciate it. I don't think, "Oh what a mug", I just think, "Wow, that's really kind."
Honestly though, it doesn't encourage me to put in more effort, and that shouldn't be why they should be tipping anyway. If they're going to do it, they should just do it just because they feel like it, not because they have an agenda. In any case, of course I don't expect a tip, it's totally unnecessary, but of course it's appreciated.

I had a booking recently and I gave the guy a tenner off. I've seen him a few times over the last year and a half, and in that moment I just thought to do it, just to be nice. I didn't do it to encourage another booking, because I already know he's going to see me again at some point, I just felt like it.

Rotherham the OP, has already said he would tip for disingenuous reasons. Nothing to do with being nice, that's why people jumped on him so to speak.

My thinking is the reverse psychology that if you tip or bring a present beforehand they maybe more inclined to put in some extra effort.

[Ali Katt]

I also think some people are over estimating how much some of us earn and also how many presents we actually get. Maybe certain service providers who portray a certain image get loads, but some of us don't. I am actually really grateful for any little sign of appreciation, sometimes it is just nice to be thought of. And that could be a present or someone bringing you a cold can of pop on a warm day for example.

I certainly have never thrown anything I've been bought in the bin.

I'm maybe a bit more old school, but I think the best gift and compliment is a return booking.

[Rochelle]

Rotherham the OP, has already said he would tip for disingenuous reasons. Nothing to do with being nice, that's why people jumped on him so to speak.

I was responding to a few different posts, that's why I didn't quote anyone.

[Ali Katt]

I was responding to a few different posts, that's why I didn't quote anyone.

I know that, but I wanted to point it out in case anyone thinks Rotherham has good intentions.

[mr.bluesky]

Did it win?

Nope it's still running 

[Itsnotshy]

I think flowers are rubbish and pointless.

Something I think we can all agree on. Can't eat 'em , can't wear 'em, can't spend 'em.

[mikexxlong]

what's this we have the pro$$i£'s version of fluffy's here (is there a name for that? liars perhaps?)

of course anything extra will of course be gratefully received or is that greedily taken (especially cash or expensive gifts)

next they'll be referring to whoring out their bodies as fucking dates not a cash for sex arrangement 

[Fuzzyduck]

Yawn yawn yawn. FFS OP - that's just lazy, or trolling. May I suggest you search for the word "gift" or "gifts". Read all the threads. Come back with a more interesting question or angle that hasn't been explored before.

[lewisjones23]

what's this we have the pro$$i£'s version of fluffy's here (is there a name for that? liars perhaps?)

of course anything extra will of course be gratefully received or is that greedily taken (especially cash or expensive gifts)

next they'll be referring to whoring out their bodies as fucking dates not a cash for sex arrangement 

some do - they also use such phrases as donation for the cash