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Author Topic: How to politely refuse reverse oral?  (Read 5700 times)

Offline Carey

I like everything I do protected and not sure how to approach this subject I think I offended one girl when I told her I didn't want to once! Surely that's within my rights as a paying customer.  :unknown:

Offline MidlandsEscortxo

I like everything I do protected and not sure how to approach this subject I think I offended one girl when I told her I didn't want to once! Surely that's within my rights as a paying customer.  :unknown:

of course, you're the one paying lol

Offline wristjob

I have never done it yet - prob will down the line though. I don't think I've been asked to in a way that wasn;t easily avoided. Perhaps if it's important to the girl then she shouldn't be charging for it, then she can demand what she wants.

Offline Anadin

Bring a dental dam along with you. Sorted!

Offline mh

Nobody can force you to stick your tongue in their pussy. If a girl I don't want to do RO on makes a move to "make me" I just do a bit of kissing "nearby" and quickly choose another position. I've never had a girl demand it verbally so that I've had to refuse, but if they did I'd say no thanks, I don't enjoy it. I do enjoy it with my wife but I've avoided it with WGs more recently as I've got more paranoid!

Offline NIK

I'm the opposite. Whenever it hasn't been on offer - admittedly rarely - I'm disappointed. It helps turn me on.  :P

We are all so different!

I've never done this to a WG in my life and never will as I regard it as risky as unprotected sex.  Surely with the number of men that have been "down there" you can't know how clean she is or what she might have?  Incidentally I've never had the slightest indication from a WG that they wanted/expected this from me at all.  Even if they did, they'd get the reply that I'm paying for her to give me pleasure.


Offline darkvamp

I'm the opposite. Whenever it hasn't been on offer - admittedly rarely - I'm disappointed. It helps turn me on.  :P

We are all so different!

I'm the same, I enjoy it as long as she's fesh below. And if she's douched I'll even go for a good rim

Offline CBPaul

I've never had it demanded, the most any WG has done is lay back and offer themselves for exploration  :D In which case if I don't want to use my tongue I use my fingers instead.

As others have said, the paying customer chooses what to do.

Offline AnthG

Scenario 1:

Girl: Can you lick me out
You: I am not really into that can you give me oral insteal.
Girl: Ok

And then girl does it.

Scenario 2 (while you are doing it and you don't like the taste)

You climb up and start licking her nipples and then say can we have sex. Girl does it.

I'm not sure "Politeness" has to come into it. If I were you I'd have a look at SAAFE read some of the excuses and ploys WG's advise each other to utilise when dealing with punters and follow the guidelines on there. :D

Roland D Hay

 I recently asked a girl to assume the position for a little RO but on approach noticed her clit was pierced, I hate body piercings, put me right off, so I just said, 'actually I'm not gonna bother.' I wouldn't deliberately be offensive but neither would I engage in something I know I wouldn't enjoy. Paying or not.

Roland D Hay

Scenario 1:

Girl: Can you lick me out
You: I am not really into that can you give me oral insteal.
Girl: Ok

And then girl does it.

Scenario 2 (while you are doing it and you don't like the taste)

You climb up and start licking her nipples and then say can we have sex. Girl does it.

Proving that UKP reigns supreme in high brow sexual sophistication.  :D

Offline smiths

I like everything I do protected and not sure how to approach this subject I think I offended one girl when I told her I didn't want to once! Surely that's within my rights as a paying customer.  :unknown:

Of course it is, your the one paying so entirely up to you what you want to do at a punt within the services a WG offers. My advice is just politely say RO is just for your partner if you want to be diplomatic, i wouldnt bother myself, i just wouldnt do it and concentrate on what i want to do.

Offline k

I like everything I do protected and not sure how to approach this subject I think I offended one girl when I told her I didn't want to once! Surely that's within my rights as a paying customer.  :unknown:
Just say you are vegetarian.

Offline rogerc23

I've never done this to a WG in my life and never will as I regard it as risky as unprotected sex.  Surely with the number of men that have been "down there" you can't know how clean she is or what she might have?  Incidentally I've never had the slightest indication from a WG that they wanted/expected this from me at all.  Even if they did, they'd get the reply that I'm paying for her to give me pleasure.
its hardly as risky as bareback, you cant get the biggie from ro,that said its not something I normally go for on a punt

Offline SirFrank

Apart from having my old fella sucked (well) there's nowt I enjoy more than eating clodge. Each to their own but I'd be more offended if she a) wouldn't let me lick her axe wound or b) wanted to charge me extra for the pleasure. I do have rules tho - licking is off the menu if her twat looks like a messy kebab or smells like cheese and onion crisps. I remember one punt when her clout was clearly on the turn and it was like sticking my tongue on a 9v battery. Yuk. I'm worse than shit me
Banning reason: Shitstirring against admin on behalf of banned member

Roland D Hay

licking is off the menu if her twat looks like a messy kebab or smells like cheese and onion crisps.

Would the smell of ripe cheese be fine or is the onion part of the equation important?

Offline mr man

I've always found working girls to be fresher down there than "ordinary" girls. They clean themselves minutes before the action starts where as in real life situations she probably cleaned before she came out that night but that was probably a few hours ago. Enough time for a bit of a natural body odour to build up, of course the natural smell of a woman can be great but not always so.

Only ever had one bad experience of going down there with a WG. years ago, she was obviously a heavy smoker and her pussy smelled & tasted like a ashtray. 2 licks then it was fingers only for her.

Offline SirFrank

Would the smell of ripe cheese be fine or is the onion part of the equation important?

I'm a big fan of cheese and onion crisps but I don't like a fanny to smell like it. I guess it would be a mixture of both. Ewwww. Think I just had some sick in my mouth then At the thought
Banning reason: Shitstirring against admin on behalf of banned member

Offline vorian

I'm the opposite. Whenever it hasn't been on offer - admittedly rarely - I'm disappointed. It helps turn me on.  :P

We are all so different!

Have to agree, RO with the right prossie of course is a must for me, when I find a fresh, neat and sweet tasting one then I find it very hard to drag myself away.

However you don't need to explain yourself to anyone especially the prossie you are paying. What you do or don't do is up to you.
Banning reason: Two faced - Slagging off UKP and it's membership using fake account

Offline Toshiba

Ive licked most if not all of my punts, i cant help my self sucking and licking a nice young womans fanny, but i am a bit wary now of std's from it

In truth i want it all about me, im paying, im selfish

Offline Tjkooker

Say 'no, I'm paying you to do the work'
Banning reason: Outing and trolling a punter because he posted a negative about his favourite prossie. White-knight fluffy that pretends otherwise.

Offline Daffodil

I have little to no interest in RO and have never had a problem not doing it. I don't think I have ever been asked outright to do it, but if I did I would make it perfectly clear that I'm paying a lot of money to do what I want to do, not what she wants me to do  :hi:


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