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Author Topic: Revisiting a Prossie who has mucked you about in the past?  (Read 9127 times)

Offline Cactus

Once a Prossie wastes your time or mucks you about is that it?  Or would you consider seeing them again?

I've recently got back in touch with a girl who I have seen a good few of times in the past and she's an excellent punt, offering the services that I look for.  However she's flakey as hell and the last couple of times I've tried to see her she's messed me about cancelling at the last minute and really pissing me off in the process.  I vowed about 3 months ago never to go back, but given the lack of quality locally, I recently contacted her about setting up a punt and had it booked for yesterday afternoon.  Last minute, cancelled, which was a pain in the arse, but I half expected it and largely offset by the fact I spent Saturday night indulging is some rather good civvy sex.  We have re-scheduled for Tuesday, I figure if it happens great, if not then I'm not too fussed either as the incall location is only about a 15 minute walk from my new Office.

Am I being a mug?  Or should I percivere in order to guarantee what I know will be a good punt (at a very reasonable rate)?

password02

I would have not wasted any more time with her - cancelled once, twice off my list for good.

There are plenty more girls to FCK just move on - However for the benefit of the forum members do you want to name the WG and provide a link so we all know who she is?

Offline SirFrank

I work on the principle that things can and often do crop up that results in punts having to be cancelled. I've had to cancel myself in the past because something has cropped up at the last minute, but I always let the girl know and apologise. However, if I feel I'm being dicked around that's it for me. so 2 no shows is generally enough for me to say bye. she sounds very unreliable to me and I'd have been gone a long time ago. If Tuesday is a no show, I'd tell her to go and fuck her own face  :hi:  let us know how you get on mate
Banning reason: Shitstirring against admin on behalf of banned member


My first reaction was similar to SirFrank's.  I guess the only thing that might lead me to be a bit more patient with the WG is the OP's comment about the lack of quality in his area.

Offline Joe Blob

No you're not a mug. There are a lot of girls like that, good when you see them, but flaky with reliability, and you have to decide for yourself whether she's worth the effort. A 200 mile round trip, unlikely, but 15 minutes away and cheap, then why not.

I'll persist with the unanswered calls ,non replied texts and the double booking until I finally get to meet her  :yahoo:

If my Spider-sense start tingling in the room  :scare: I just walk without any or little drama as there are plenty of "decent" "honest" woman around .

If the Punt is terrible then I certainly wouldn't returned but if she's enthusiastic and it just didnt live up to expectation then I'll return hoping to improve on our last encounter .

As the saying goes "
Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me"



Online Jimmyredcab

I would suffer being messed about by a five star pro$$ie because they are so hard to find.    :hi:

Offline smiths

Once a Prossie wastes your time or mucks you about is that it?  Or would you consider seeing them again?

I've recently got back in touch with a girl who I have seen a good few of times in the past and she's an excellent punt, offering the services that I look for.  However she's flakey as hell and the last couple of times I've tried to see her she's messed me about cancelling at the last minute and really pissing me off in the process.  I vowed about 3 months ago never to go back, but given the lack of quality locally, I recently contacted her about setting up a punt and had it booked for yesterday afternoon.  Last minute, cancelled, which was a pain in the arse, but I half expected it and largely offset by the fact I spent Saturday night indulging is some rather good civvy sex.  We have re-scheduled for Tuesday, I figure if it happens great, if not then I'm not too fussed either as the incall location is only about a 15 minute walk from my new Office.

Am I being a mug?  Or should I percivere in order to guarantee what I know will be a good punt (at a very reasonable rate)?

If like in this circumstance you know she is a good WG when you actually punt with her i might give such a WG another go IF she was that good. I certainly wouldnt do this if a WG was a newbie to me though. Anyway Cactus i hope it goes well tomorrow. :drinks:

Offline MissSparkle

I messed around quite a few punters before. Poor guys! I'd take a booking which seemed like a good idea at the time and come the time usually 5 mins before I realised 'oh my god, my hair is a mess and the room looks like a bomb site! Usually I was drunk or stoned. But I was always great once the guys arrived though.

Now that I have largely put that Amy Winehouse-esque behaviour behind me, I would love to be given a second chance by some of these guys, but I fear that the damage has been done! I'm very lucky that none of that found its way on my profile in the form of bad feedback!

Offline CBPaul

The key point is that you have seen her before and know that if you do get a punt it will be a good one, since you are aware of the pitfalls of wasted time, massive journey or lost punting opportunity then no, you are not being a mug.

If I have seen a WG before, and she's good, I will put up with more hassle in getting a repeat performance. If I haven't seen her before then it's zero tolerance from me - a few spring to mind and I wouldn't leave myself open to being pissed about again.

Offline Daffodil

I messed around quite a few punters before. Poor guys! I'd take a booking which seemed like a good idea at the time and come the time usually 5 mins before I realised 'oh my god, my hair is a mess and the room looks like a bomb site! Usually I was drunk or stoned. But I was always great once the guys arrived though.

Now that I have largely put that Amy Winehouse-esque behaviour behind me, I would love to be given a second chance by some of these guys, but I fear that the damage has been done! I'm very lucky that none of that found its way on my profile in the form of bad feedback!

Yet more evidence why the adultwork feedback system is crap  :hi:

Offline Daffodil

If the prossie is good then I'll take a little messing about, but I won't go out of my way to see her.

Offline MissSparkle

Yet more evidence why the adultwork feedback system is crap  :hi:

Oh come on Daffodil? I'm a good working girl! Had those punters been so unkind, I would still be tarnished by my old antics now long after I have modified my behaviour! People grow and change!

Offline Daffodil

Oh come on Daffodil? I'm a good working girl! Had those punters been so unkind, I would still be tarnished by my old antics now long after I have modified my behaviour! People grow and change!

It's not 'unkind' to leave negative feedback for a negative service.

If you provided a bad service and didn't get the negative feedback that it deserved then it is further evidence that the adultwork feedback system is not to be trusted.

You may have changed, but that's not relevant to the point.

Offline a10

I would suffer being messed about by a five star pro$$ie because they are so hard to find.    :hi:

As the man says, if she's a good SP (when you can get hold of her!) it can be worth the effort to get the booking. I've done it plenty of times for WGs that I know are worth the chasing. If it's a first time and I get the runaround, then they're on the blacklist. That said now you know she's a bit flaky, you can have a backup punt lined up in case she messes you around again.
If you've seen her enough and she remembers you, who knows you may even get a little something extra to keep you sweet, if you mention how much she's messed you about!  :D

Offline MissSparkle

You are certainly right Daffodil. Wasting the precious time of those poor guys was not on! And I deserved to be punished for that.

What I now thank my lucky stars for is that I don't have this feedback which no longer reflects the kind of service that I offer. Prospective punters would have read it and thought that I was unreliable which is no longer the case. I have been extremely reliable of late.

You'll be pleased to know that I managed to lure some of those guys back with discounts and promises of extra good blow jobs.  :) But some guys, understandably did not have the time of day for me anymore.  :(

Online James999

All depends on the sex, if she was good then perhaps you have to remember that if she was organised and reliable then she'd probably not need to suck cock for a living  :hi:

Offline MissSparkle

All depends on the sex, if she was good then perhaps you have to remember that if she was organised and reliable then she'd probably not need to suck cock for a living  :hi:

This is such a good point James. I am so pretty and suck cock like noones business but have been sacked from numerous jobs in the past precisely for being so disorganized and unreliable.

Offline Cactus

Cheers chaps.  A little surprised by the responses thus far, which seem to be to percivere if I know she's good, which in this case I do.  I'll see what happens tomorrow and will update as to whether I finally get to see her again.  I thought personally I was being a bit of a mug and that I should move on to the next girl, but wanted to get an opinion of the procession.

I usually have to travel around a 60 mile round trip in order to punt, but this particular WG is a 15 minute walk, although she does usually work in Edinburgh, where I have seen her in the past.  If I was having to drive 60 plus miles to get let down (but with a back up plan) rather than a 15 minute walk then I would likely not be so forgiving and willing to persist with flakiness for a good punt.

Offline Cactus

This is such a good point James. I am so pretty and suck cock like noones business but have been sacked from numerous jobs in the past precisely for being so disorganized and unreliable.

Are you for real? Like a walking/talkiing stereotype of what UKP deems to be a typical Prossie  :dancegirl: or maybe a troll?

I know you're not allowed to tout, but for interests sake, please post a link to your AW profile so that we can verify your lack of negative feedback ourselves and to indeed verify that you are real.

Offline MissSparkle

Are you for real? Like a walking/talkiing stereotype of what UKP deems to be a typical Prossie  :dancegirl: or maybe a troll?

I know you're not allowed to tout, but for interests sake, please post a link to your AW profile so that we can verify your lack of negative feedback ourselves and to indeed verify that you are real.

Why would I give you a link to my profile? I have come on here to share my experiences of working and have been nothing but brutally honest! Because I am writing anonymously I can afford to be truthful  without risking damage to my reputation.

I have admitted to substance abuse and previously testing positive for oral gonorrhea although thankfully now all is good.

There are all kinds of women in this industry. Ranging from wholesome girl next door types whom butter wouldn't melt in their mouths and 'wild child' Amy Winehousey types like myself who came from a troubled background and couldn't fit into the normal world!

Like any other industry,there are saints, women who would be anything to help others and bitches who would stab anyone in the back in order to move forward and everything in between.


Offline a10

So you're not the Miss Sparkle profile on AW then? I thought they didn't match in style or substance, bit confusing though.

Offline vorian

It's not 'unkind' to leave negative feedback for a negative service.

If you provided a bad service and didn't get the negative feedback that it deserved then it is further evidence that the adultwork feedback system is not to be trusted.

You may have changed, but that's not relevant to the point.

Agreed the AW feedback system and how unreliable it is was the point being made not a judgement on the individual.
Banning reason: Two faced - Slagging off UKP and it's membership using fake account

Offline MissSparkle

So you're not the Miss Sparkle profile on AW then? I thought they didn't match in style or substance, bit confusing though.
'Miss Sparkle is quite far removed from my profile name but I am quite sparkly!


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