Obviously like any decent person if I encountered an SP that was tired and unkempt with blatantly obvious issues I personally wouldn’t be hiring them for these services.
I am not engaging with these individuals for me to evaluate their lifes and psychology, it is only a simple trade of cash for some sort of sexual service, just like any other punter.
The problem for me is that I am trained to look and listen to read a person in a way that a layperson would not, it's not an ability that I can turn on and off, so it is enevitable that I pick up many of these subtle nuances that a person subconsciously surenders.
So basically at the end of the punt I have a pretty good picture of the provider, very few have escaped my lens.
I’m going to be honest and say I think your full of shit.
Any therapist worth their salt would not claim to have a good understanding of an individual after one therapy session, let alone a session that was not about therapy
Furthermore, SPs tend to tell you lies about themselves. Many will admit they have a faux back story. The trainee teacher might tell you she works in a bank etc etc.
Do you honestly think they want people who can expose them knowing their true identities and lives?
Your the most naive therapist on the planet then.
SpS are often fake. Their personas are fake, and I dont blame them with the amount of deluded numpties they must meet. Fending off nutters, fluffies and stalker types etc must be a sizeable part of the gig. They can add avoiding a quack psycho-analysis to the list now knowing your kicking about