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Offline crazy8

its embarrassing but i only last about 2 mins intercourse, my mates say they last for about 30 mins, id really like to hear some ladies views on this also. am i weird?

Offline smiths

its embarrassing but i only last about 2 mins intercourse, my mates say they last for about 30 mins, id really like to hear some ladies views on this also. am i weird?

It depends in my case, sometimes its a few minutes, other times maybe 10 minutes, i have no interest in lasting longer on a punt. I then go for rounds two and three which might include shagging or might not, indeed round one might not include any shagging.

Its not a case of being weird though, if your concerned enough go and see a Doctor is my advice.

Offline wristjob

ha, depends on so many things. I find if I just dive in there with a new attractive girl it can be over embarrassingly quickly. 10 mins or so of OWO tends to make it so I can pretty much last as long a I want, just varying the pace. Obviously I need to make it so she doesn't get too fast and furious with the oral.

Offline wristjob

Yeah or do as Smiths says. In my early days it didn't last long but I could get it up again pretty much immediately so book a girl who lets you cum more than once or a longer booking.

Offline Dani

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I would say the majority of men I have seen the past five years last between 1 minute and ten.  The odd one goes longer oh and the older men who have popped a Viagra.  I wouldn't be embarrassed though as your mates are probably lying and mean 30 minutes from start of foreplay to finish sex. 
As long as you are getting pleasure and can climax at the end don't worry about it.  The majority of women prefer foreplay to sex anyway so as long as in civvie life you are giving her pleasure she is not going to care if you last 10 seconds.

If you are really worried though try going slower and when you feel you are close pull out until you have calmed down and then keep on doing this until you can last a little longer

Offline Jimmyredcab

its embarrassing but i only last about 2 mins intercourse, my mates say they last for about 30 mins, id really like to hear some ladies views on this also. am i weird?

You are normal, find some new mates because they are full of shit.   :hi:

Offline crazy8

thanks guys, ive been really stressing out about it, one of the reasons i see wgs in the first place as i dont want to embarrass myself with regular girls

Offline hollysbeenabadgirl

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Yup they are full of shit as JRC says. 3 minutes is apparently the average and I's say that was about right :)

Offline GlasgowTanya

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Tell the girl you like to be held quite firmly round the base of your ....
I do this with some of my regulars and it helps delay the process. Not sure how the technicalities work but probably to do with restricting blood flow when too excited? Go figure. Tried and tested anyway :)

Offline Festisio

Have you tried knocking one out the morning before a punt?  It certainly won't do any harm and might help with the longevity.  Also if you pound away like a jack-hammer, slow it down.  Could also ask her to use lube to reduce friction.

I do like reading the prossies here saying that the average is only a few minutes, makes me feel a bit of a stallion

Offline ManInBlack

For me it varies.  With a WG for some reason penetration is often over really quick, initially it was quite embarrassing, but now as long as there's plenty foreplay etc I'm not bothered if penetration is quick.  I think it's just the thrill of someone hot and new!!  With the wife it can be anything from 5 to 20mins. 

I did some research and pelvic floor exercises can help give you more control.  Some positions give you more control.  Also I've found that discussing it with the girl at the start helps, she can then help keep things slow.  Or if you feel yourself going pull out and have a break then go again.

If you find it's causing you a problem though you should seek help.

Offline dilettante

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I do like reading the prossies here saying that the average is only a few minutes, makes me feel a bit of a stallion
Nah, it probably only SEEMS like a few minutes - time goes quickly when you're enjoying yourself etc ;)

Most I've lasted is 20 mins from start to finish, half of that is probably RO.  You can get books on techniques for ejaculation control, eg see https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=19181.msg295340#msg295340 .  Always take it very slowly and carefully myself to last more than a minute though.

I can last as long as I want. It's all about self control and stopping or slowing down the action a bit when it gets intense. I'e done anywhere from 5 minutes to a couple of hours whatever the mood suits. Usually I'm 30-60 minutes with the missus but much less in a punt because of time constraints.

Offline Jason

Personally I can control myself and effectively cum at will. The minimum it takes me is 5-7 mins. My longest ever single session was 100mins from which about 50mins was vaginal penetration, 20mins BJ, 10 mins RO and fingering, 10 mins 69, 10mins handjob. Of course it was not 50mins of continuous penetration and BJ was covered. But I was for continuous 100 mins fully hard and active. In round 2, I chose to cum just after 20 mins as the entire meeting was 2.5 hours. The WG said that she had never experienced such a thing in her entire life and told me that I can become a pornstar!

The trick is relatively simple: Know your limits and be able to control yourself accordingly. Basically think about a scale of arousal from 1-10 where at 6 you are hard, 7 you are fully hard, 8 you are on the edge, 9 is a point of no return and 10 is when you cum. During the session you should keep yourself oscillating between arousal levels 6.5-8, being at level 7-7.5 most of the time, never dropping your arousal level below 6 and slowing down when you are closing level 8 and even stopping when you reach 8.5. It takes some time until you tailor this scheme to your own limits but as soon as you master it you will be a “commander in chief”.

Usually I keep a session around 30-40 mins from which 15-20 mins is penetration, 10-15 mins BJ/HJ, 10 mins RO/fingering. Longer than this becomes a bit unpleasant. The funny thing is that when the WG applies a “cum once” principle she doesn't know with who she is dealing with! In any case I always ask whether cum times are unlimited so that I plan accordingly my actions. Still I have been conned many times by timewasting tactics such as bloody massage.

Offline CBPaul

I really wouldn't get stressed about it.

I usually last anywhere between 2 and 5 minutes for round 1, longer for round 2, perhaps 10-15 minutes. A new girl who I find particularly attractive will have me coming quicker, especially if she's on the tighter side.

So much good advice so far I don't think I can add much new. I would opt for a 60 min booking and try for round 2, see if that helps. And yes, get new mates, they are probably spouting bollocks and winding you up.

Offline Gordo987

Foreplay can be for more or less as long or as short as I need it to be, but once I stick it in (with condom of course) it takes between seven and ten minutes. OWO - unless she stops part way through - takes between 2 and 5 minutes :hi:
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Offline portable

You are normal, find some new mates because they are full of shit.   :hi:

Definitely.

Just watch porn. Most "scenes" last about 30 mins or so? And that's when it's edited, so at one point the guy might need to cool off for a little while, or they're using lube that numbs sensation, or the guy is circumcised, which would most likely reduce sensitivity. etc, etc.

And giving a woman an orgasm requires more than just banging away for an hour non-stop.

thanks guys, ive been really stressing out about it, one of the reasons i see wgs in the first place as i dont want to embarrass myself with regular girls

I've never understood this attitude (by men and women) that sex is over when the guy shoots his load. I mean if you're really into each other then you'll just keep going and get hard in no time afterwards. And there's always oral sex and mutual masturbation.



Offline smiths

Personally I can control myself and effectively cum at will. The minimum it takes me is 5-7 mins. My longest ever single session was 100mins from which about 50mins was vaginal penetration, 20mins BJ, 10 mins RO and fingering, 10 mins 69, 10mins handjob. Of course it was not 50mins of continuous penetration and BJ was covered. But I was for continuous 100 mins fully hard and active. In round 2, I chose to cum just after 20 mins as the entire meeting was 2.5 hours. The WG said that she had never experienced such a thing in her entire life and told me that I can become a pornstar!

The trick is relatively simple: Know your limits and be able to control yourself accordingly. Basically think about a scale of arousal from 1-10 where at 6 you are hard, 7 you are fully hard, 8 you are on the edge, 9 is a point of no return and 10 is when you cum. During the session you should keep yourself oscillating between arousal levels 6.5-8, being at level 7-7.5 most of the time, never dropping your arousal level below 6 and slowing down when you are closing level 8 and even stopping when you reach 8.5. It takes some time until you tailor this scheme to your own limits but as soon as you master it you will be a “commander in chief”.

Usually I keep a session around 30-40 mins from which 15-20 mins is penetration, 10-15 mins BJ/HJ, 10 mins RO/fingering. Longer than this becomes a bit unpleasant. The funny thing is that when the WG applies a “cum once” principle she doesn't know with who she is dealing with! In any case I always ask whether cum times are unlimited so that I plan accordingly my actions. Still I have been conned many times by timewasting tactics such as bloody massage.

Yes same here, all this the WG made me cum makes me chuckle, i control that not the WG. An hours punt is split into three sections as that suits me the best.

Offline mightymunce

Personally I can control myself and effectively cum at will. The minimum it takes me is 5-7 mins. My longest ever single session was 100mins from which about 50mins was vaginal penetration, 20mins BJ, 10 mins RO and fingering, 10 mins 69, 10mins handjob. Of course it was not 50mins of continuous penetration and BJ was covered. But I was for continuous 100 mins fully hard and active. In round 2, I chose to cum just after 20 mins as the entire meeting was 2.5 hours. The WG said that she had never experienced such a thing in her entire life and told me that I can become a pornstar!

The trick is relatively simple: Know your limits and be able to control yourself accordingly. Basically think about a scale of arousal from 1-10 where at 6 you are hard, 7 you are fully hard, 8 you are on the edge, 9 is a point of no return and 10 is when you cum. During the session you should keep yourself oscillating between arousal levels 6.5-8, being at level 7-7.5 most of the time, never dropping your arousal level below 6 and slowing down when you are closing level 8 and even stopping when you reach 8.5. It takes some time until you tailor this scheme to your own limits but as soon as you master it you will be a “commander in chief”.

Usually I keep a session around 30-40 mins from which 15-20 mins is penetration, 10-15 mins BJ/HJ, 10 mins RO/fingering. Longer than this becomes a bit unpleasant. The funny thing is that when the WG applies a “cum once” principle she doesn't know with who she is dealing with! In any case I always ask whether cum times are unlimited so that I plan accordingly my actions. Still I have been conned many times by timewasting tactics such as bloody massage.
Goodness. A lot to be thinking aboit whilst on a punt. Most men cant multi-task

I will last 3-4 min's on a good day, on a bad day I would say around 2 min's

But I try to make the 1 hr incall last the hour, so no real touching of penis, very sensitive, infact you might make me come, which has happened

15 mins foreplay, kissing, oral, then sex, relax, talk, massage, and slowly my erection comes back,

round 2 I can last for at least 5 min's or more

cjkanye02

Interesting numbers from the guys and girls!
I vary too sometimes 5 and sometimes at will!
A few tips:
- Have more sex
- Slow down
- Long slow OWO helps surprisingly
- Go for a round 2

As you get older it improves too!


Since using Silagra (not as unforgiving as Viagra), combined with some self control, I can average 45 mins penetration before a pop. I used to book 30 mins, now it fits well into an hour booking.

As I'm a 1 pop guy, I usually go away fully satisfied.


Same here 2-5 minutes usually, maybe 10 on a good day. Like others have said the foreplay is often more 'fun' ~(a mate of mine used to say that once you go for penetration your just getting rid of dirty water).

I did pop into a Soho walk-up a few months back and after undressing, handjob, bj, penetration and cum was out in 8 minutes  :lol: as I came after about the 23rd second the wg was clearly trying not too laugh - that wasn't nice but it was £20 - my first (and last!) walk up experience.

Offline overhead

its embarrassing but i only last about 2 mins intercourse, my mates say they last for about 30 mins, id really like to hear some ladies views on this also. am i weird?

I just don't believe some of the guys who claim incredibly long times. There must be something wrong with them. I think two to four mins is quite normal, and I would admit to being nearer the two than the four, and a fair bit quicker at times. Some people seem to think they have to hold it back, but I'd rather let it happen and enjoy the feelings. It's one of the great things about doing it with a prossie. You don't have to feel guilty. In fact the chances are that the quicker you finish the more they like it. I did read somewhere, in an archaeologists notes, that the natural time for a human male in the wild is around 12 to 15 seconds from penetration (it was a chart of many different species). So most of us take a lot longer than that already.

On a similar subject, i went to see a girl who specialised in oral several times a couple of years ago. She always timed how long it took from starting to the finish, and for me it always took the same length of time to within about five seconds. So there is probably a natural length of time it takes for each individual person.

Whatever it is, girls will usually tell you the truth about it if you ask them nicely.
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Offline Gordo987

I just don't believe some of the guys who claim incredibly long times. There must be something wrong with them. I think two to four mins is quite normal, and I would admit to being nearer the two than the four, and a fair bit quicker at times. Some people seem to think they have to hold it back, but I'd rather let it happen and enjoy the feelings. It's one of the great things about doing it with a prossie. You don't have to feel guilty. In fact the chances are that the quicker you finish the more they like it. I did read somewhere, in an archaeologists notes, that the natural time for a human male in the wild is around 12 to 15 seconds from penetration (it was a chart of many different species). So most of us take a lot longer than that already.

On a similar subject, i went to see a girl who specialised in oral several times a couple of years ago. She always timed how long it took from starting to the finish, and for me it always took the same length of time to within about five seconds. So there is probably a natural length of time it takes for each individual person.

Whatever it is, girls will usually tell you the truth about it if you ask them nicely.

Agreed. However, I can remember one punt I had with a very sexy little blonde. When I started to cum after a few seconds, I decided it was too soon and I pulled out just in time. It took quite a long time after that, and the orgasm when it came was not all that great. I remember wishing I had just let it happen.  :unknown:
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