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london

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I am about 30 years old , mix brazilian,  I love punting and punting more than 3 years , I used to go to clubs  for find a girl and mostly was success before start punting.

I have tried all I wanted in sex , blond , dark, asian , sometime I met 2 girls in one day and special in last 2 month I almost seen 4 girls a week, ( thanks to UKP for help me find best girls in AW )

I have seen most popular girls in AW , traveled to all EE countries,seen girls and had great time .

But while I am fit and no problem to having sex I am feeling so tired of sex and I am not enjoying anymore ,

I really don't enjoy sex in last couple months . Do you think I should retired for punting ? I will die if I don't have sex  :angry:

ones I was talking to one the girls in AW and she was saying most escort girls won't orgasm with clients and she feeling like a sex machine after few month she started and nothing can make her happy in sex life even if she leave this job , now I am thinking a man can be same and I feel I killed my sex life now .  :dash:

have you ever anyone had same feeling as me ? sex life in part of life but now that part of my life getting so boring

thank you in advance for any comment .  :drinks:

« Last Edit: January 05, 2014, 01:01:17 am by london »

Offline Daffodil

Nobody retires from punting. Once you've crossed that line there is no return  :scare:

You might think you have, but you'll have a little look at AW some day and see something that appeals and go fuck her. That's the reality in my opinion.

london

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Nobody retires from punting. Once you've crossed that line there is no return  :scare:

You might think you have, but you'll have a little look at AW some day and see something that appeals and go fuck her. That's the reality in my opinion.

That is the main problem , when I look at UKP or AW I feel I have to fk the girl with + feedback and I do but when I am come back from her I feel nothing ,

I think that part of my life which use to talk to girls , teasing them is dead

I feel We paying for actress not sex , I lost trust in all girls even in my businesses I have , I feel girls can lie in any subject when money involve , I hope you understand my feeling ,

Offline smiths

I am about 30 years old , mix brazilian,  I love punting and punting more than 3 years , I used to go to clubs  for find a girl and mostly was success before start punting.

I have tried all I wanted in sex , blond , dark, asian , sometime I met 2 girls in one day and special in last 2 month I almost seen 4 girls a week, ( thanks to UKP for help me find best girls in AW )

I have seen most popular girls in AW , traveled to all EE countries,seen girls and had great time .

But while I am fit and no problem to having sex I am feeling so tired of sex and I am not enjoying anymore ,

I really don't enjoy sex in last couple months . Do you think I should retired for punting ? I will die if I don't have sex  :angry:

ones I was talking to one the girls in AW and she was saying most escort girls won't orgasm with clients and she feeling like a sex machine after few month she started and nothing can make her happy in sex life even if she leave this job , now I am thinking a man can be same and I feel I killed my sex life now .  :dash:

have you ever anyone had same feeling as me ? sex life in part of life but now that part of my life getting so boring

thank you in advance for any comment .  :drinks:

I did become jaded in Autumn 2010 and took 6 months off punting and posting on punting forums. I came back refreshed with a new zest for punting. Perhaps a break would have the same effect for you.

Offline Daffodil

I did become jaded in Autumn 2010 and took 6 months off punting and posting on punting forums. I came back refreshed with a new zest for punting. Perhaps a break would have the same effect for you.

Good advice.

london

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I did become jaded in Autumn 2010 and took 6 months off punting and posting on punting forums. I came back refreshed with a new zest for punting. Perhaps a break would have the same effect for you.

Thank you , can you post here the link for the post you mentioned ? that could help  :drinks:

Offline smiths

Thank you , can you post here the link for the post you mentioned ? that could help  :drinks:

What post, i didnt mention a post, i just posted i took 6 months off punting and returned refreshed.

Offline Daffodil

What post, i didnt mention a post, i just posted i took 6 months off punting and returned refreshed.

Had you decided beforehand that it would be six months? And what brought you back?

london

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Good advice.

How did you manage to stop it and do u think 6 month is enough ?

Did u become jaded since u back to punting again. ?

Thanks


Offline smiths

Had you decided beforehand that it would be six months? And what brought you back?

No, i hadnt set an exact timescale but knew i would be returning at some stage. I got my enthusiasm back, and Steve also told me about this forum that to my amazement had started not long after i started my break so i joined straight away. And off i went. :D ;)

Offline smiths

How did you manage to stop it and do u think 6 month is enough ?

Did u become jaded since u back to punting again. ?

Thanks

I assume this question is for me. I just stopped punting, i was jaded and not enjoying it anymore anyway so it wasnt difficult to make the decision to stop. 6 months was enough for me.

I havent yet become jaded again so far but i am not punting anywhere near as much as i did in the previous two years leading up to my break.

Toshiba

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Your punting too much in my opinion

Too much of something in life turns un exciting in most cases

SirFrank

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As above I got bored so stopped punting for a while. In fact I didn't think I'd ever punt again as I'd had a strong of dull punts and I thought wtf am I paying for something I don't enjoy? I did make a comeback ala sugar ray Leonard after about 2 years. It sounds to me you're punting too much. If you have steak every night of the week you get bored. Take some time out and go back she. You feel ready to scratch the itch as it were

london

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Thanks everyone  :drinks:

I think I did too much and will stop ( I hope I can ) from tomorrow ,Monday

Will see my regular girl tonight for last time , damn will too hard to stop but I have to  :dash:


vorian

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I don’t think you have to stop just slow down. I'm assuming most people punt once or twice and month maybe more maybe less. Depending on personal finances,  if you have been married for thirty years probably even less. Punting four times a week will have the effect you describe but I don't think you need to stop just cut down to once every two weeks. I'm sure you will start to enjoy it again.

Tjkooker

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If it's straight normal sex you normally seek try and branch out. I started just looking to empty my sack. Oral and sex did it for me. That got boring so girls introduced me to more exciting sex. Deepthroat, gagging, anal, rough, prostate which led to strapon. The options are endless. The chances of having these things in a relationship are very rare so punting fills a big gap in my sex life. Only thing will stop me is finances.

BristolP

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Thanks everyone  :drinks:

I think I did too much and will stop ( I hope I can ) from tomorrow ,Monday

Will see my regular girl tonight for last time , damn will too hard to stop but I have to  :dash:

You aren’t enjoying punting and you have a regular? Maybe you have the wrong regular, or shouldn’t have a regular? Having said that I do think you should take a punting break.

Ray55

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The chances of having these things in a relationship are very rare so punting fills a big gap in my sex life. Only thing will stop me is finances.

+ 100  :thumbsup:

I have managed to take a break from punting, haven't seen a WG in 7 years due to the fact that I got married to a young stunner. Guess what, the young stunner is doing nothing for me apart from robbing my bank accounts and maxing out the credit cards  :thumbsdown:

Having no or a crap sex life is killing me so will be back in the game this week, can't wait.

circusbizarre

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I have been trying to give it up but cant :( do well for a week or so and then the urge kicks in and i crumble :)

Offline wristjob


Will see my regular girl tonight for last time , damn will too hard to stop but I have to  :dash:


I'm a bit confused by all this. If you aren't enjoying it why even have a regular and why give her 1 last visit? If you just enjoy it with her then only see her.

In the past I've quit for non-punting related reasons and had years out but always seem to come back. To be fair there have been times when I had very bad runs and wondered why I bothered. A change of approach and discussing it on this forum helped and I'm enjoying it more than ever.

Offline smiths

I don’t think you have to stop just slow down. I'm assuming most people punt once or twice and month maybe more maybe less. Depending on personal finances,  if you have been married for thirty years probably even less. Punting four times a week will have the effect you describe but I don't think you need to stop just cut down to once every two weeks. I'm sure you will start to enjoy it again.

Make that a minimum of 6 parties a week plus 121s a few times a week and that was me leading up to getting jaded. A naked WG all over me wasnt even getting me going then, i might as well of thrown my money in the bin. :scare:

It does depend on the punter though of course, i know a punter on here who punts at least 4 times a week most weeks and has been for years, he doesnt get jaded. ;)

Certainly worth a try to cut down first then if still feeling jaded have a complete break. Unlike the OP i was literally sick of having sex, i really didnt wish to see a naked WG again.
« Last Edit: January 05, 2014, 04:36:09 pm by smiths »

ulander

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I am about 30 years old , mix brazilian,  I love punting and punting more than 3 years , I used to go to clubs  for find a girl and mostly was success before start punting.

I have tried all I wanted in sex , blond , dark, asian , sometime I met 2 girls in one day and special in last 2 month I almost seen 4 girls a week, ( thanks to UKP for help me find best girls in AW )

I have seen most popular girls in AW , traveled to all EE countries,seen girls and had great time .

But while I am fit and no problem to having sex I am feeling so tired of sex and I am not enjoying anymore ,

I really don't enjoy sex in last couple months . Do you think I should retired for punting ? I will die if I don't have sex  :angry:

ones I was talking to one the girls in AW and she was saying most escort girls won't orgasm with clients and she feeling like a sex machine after few month she started and nothing can make her happy in sex life even if she leave this job , now I am thinking a man can be same and I feel I killed my sex life now .  :dash:

have you ever anyone had same feeling as me ? sex life in part of life but now that part of my life getting so boring

thank you in advance for any comment .  :drinks:
Poor you.

Toshiba

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If you want to stop.never go on the internet or own a phone

That'll kinda help a bit

potato

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Take a break as punting can become a habit like smoking - theres only a few smokes you "enjoy" in a day.  You will have withdrawal symptoms ( no pun intended... :) ) but save your punting money and target something nice you want to buy yourself instead.  When you have achieved your purchase go fuck someone hot  :)

Bugger who dragged this old thread up !

SirFrank

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When I still lived at home I made the fatal mistake of telling my old budge that I liked Haggen Daaz pralines and cream ice cream. Consequently, it was dessert after Sunday lunch every Sunday for around two years until I told my old girl I fucking hated the sight of it. Too much of a good thing etc. anyhow after laying off it for a while I was back on the fucking horse. Punting is much the same - do it too often and it loses it's appeal. Park it up for a while would be my advice.  That said,Two inter-related things control my punting habits these days - money and my balljuices. When I'm full and flush I punt

Offline 385North

Couldn't agree more Frank; when there's biscuits in the barrel, where's the fun in biscuits?

Offline kowalski

After a relationship break up I was doing loads of punting but recently I've lost interest in doing it and all the time involved in organising and driving to from etc. I also am slightly fed up with the sleaze involved such as potential pre used bedsheets,   dodgy addreses and cheap hotels.My advice is take a break and use the saved money on something you like such as a posh meal or concert or track day to give happiness from another source. I will return to it later but I don't think these girls should always have it their way.

Offline Natwest

I only started just over a couple of months ago and initially enjoyed the thrill of having sex with girls in their 20's which I hadn't done since I was that age. However, it very quickly seemed to become very routine and I got tired of the hanging around waiting for postcodes and all the hassle that comes with it. I also learned that outcalls to hotels were the worst in that in both cases I got to sit around for no purpose whatsoever.

I have one punt lined up that is hopefully going to provide a few unexperienced thrills and re-visiting one WG who keeps a good level of comms going and works hard on getting repeat business. I feel she deserves my custom having made the extra effort.

I think if you have someone at home, it is really easy to stop making an effort and justify what you are doing by saying its all got very boring. I looked at my pre-punt planning, showering, shaving, and changing and realised it was a long time since I had put that much effort into going out at home. Suddenly getting dressed up on a Friday, going for a drink and a meal with the other half seemed more fun than hanging around outside a flat/house for an hour just to shoot my load with some stranger.

thewonderingdick

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Firstly i can never understand why young men would pay for sex, when their is so many clubs and places to go to pick up young women also looking for sex! when i was young i would never even think of paying women thy would buy me drinks and pull me a lot of time, because the truth is women want sex more then men, we just like to showoff .. personally i could never get fed up of sex maybe sex with the same person, the field is wide so many women to choose from how could anyone get fedup of women..i don't know where you coming from dude are you saying you might be turning gay?

Offline wristjob

Firstly i can never understand why young men would pay for sex, when their is so many clubs and places to go to pick up young women also looking for sex! when i was young i would never even think of paying women thy would buy me drinks and pull me a lot of time, because the truth is women want sex more then men, we just like to showoff .. personally i could never get fed up of sex maybe sex with the same person, the field is wide so many women to choose from how could anyone get fedup of women..i don't know where you coming from dude are you saying you might be turning gay?

You still around?