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Author Topic: Does punting make you a crap lover?  (Read 3425 times)

Offline dave123

At the moment I punt for extramarital sex because there's not enough on offer at home but I like to believe that one day I might fall in love again and have hot sex with someone who is doing it because they love me back not for money. But it struck me that does sex with prostitutes actually mean I'm not going to be a good lover because I'm used to having what I want? Perhaps some might think it would make you a better lover.

Offline smiths

At the moment I punt for extramarital sex because there's not enough on offer at home but I like to believe that one day I might fall in love again and have hot sex with someone who is doing it because they love me back not for money. But it struck me that does sex with prostitutes actually mean I'm not going to be a good lover because I'm used to having what I want? Perhaps some might think it would make you a better lover.

Could go either way, if say rimming and snowballing were essentials to you at a punt you might be disappointed when a partner is not into them.

I have read punting has helped some punters build their confidence talking to women, as long as they realize talking to a WG your paying is a different scenario to talking to a civvie then that could be a definite help.




Offline dave123

Yes. I'm just imagining how it would go if you forgot she wasn't a wg.   :D

Offline Dani

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I think for most men who have already had relationships it can make them better lovers as they have tried and experienced things most civvie people don't which gives them an edge.

However I think for the younger punters of 18 or 19 who haven't had many real sexual relationships it can skew what they think it should be like as realistically most partners are not always going to be dressed to please in bed nor are they going to do everything we do on a regular basis as with an escort all the attention is on you, the booking is all about your pleasure and in rea life women are a bit more sexually selfish than that and want it to be about them as much or more than about you.
For instance after talking with prossie mates we have found the younger punters think it is ok to spit on your lady bits or to spunk on your face and hair 'by accident'  or to slap your lady bits as they have seen it in porn and in real life I cant see many women putting up with that.

Offline punk

I think for most men who have already had relationships it can make them better lovers as they have tried and experienced things most civvie people don't which gives them an edge.

However I think for the younger punters of 18 or 19 who haven't had many real sexual relationships it can skew what they think it should be like as realistically most partners are not always going to be dressed to please in bed nor are they going to do everything we do on a regular basis as with an escort all the attention is on you, the booking is all about your pleasure and in rea life women are a bit more sexually selfish than that and want it to be about them as much or more than about you.
For instance after talking with prossie mates we have found the younger punters think it is ok to spit on your lady bits or to spunk on your face and hair 'by accident'  or to slap your lady bits as they have seen it in porn and in real life I cant see many women putting up with that.

dont think that applies to all, but i think younger woman seem to be more broad minded now a days, is that because porno has warped minds and peoples limits have expanded? :unknown:

Offline smiths

Yes. I'm just imagining how it would go if you forgot she wasn't a wg.   :D

That could result in a kick in the nuts. :scare: ;)

Offline punk

That could result in a kick in the nuts. :scare: ;)

or open up possibilities  :unknown:

I have never been a crap lover, crap belongs down the toilet.

Offline smiths

or open up possibilities  :unknown:

Indeed, you never know. ;) I always ask first though.

Offline beef4u

In a post-relationship review with my ex she told me in as many words that she liked the kink but that I switched position too much. Porn and punting.

Offline dave123

Well my wife gets annoyed if I expect her to suck me off and I havent given her any foreplay. I m wondering if I'm becoming a lazy lover and incapable of enjoying sex in a normal civvie relationship. I dont really want to think I'll always be a punter.

Offline mr man

I reckon it can turn a inexperienced lover into an ok lover. But It could turn a good lover into a lazy one.  :hi:

Offline punk

Well my wife gets annoyed if I expect her to suck me off and I havent given her any foreplay. I m wondering if I'm becoming a lazy lover and incapable of enjoying sex in a normal civvie relationship. I dont really want to think I'll always be a punter.

i think your wife is being fair.

Offline punk

Indeed, you never know. ;) I always ask first though.

of course i have had one one of the best deep throat from a non wg, she went very slow but wow, i thought to myself she could be making £££££££.

Offline Dani

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dont think that applies to all, but i think younger woman seem to be more broad minded now a days, is that because porno has warped minds and peoples limits have expanded? :unknown:

I think most people are more broad minded now than say 40 or 50 years ago regarding sex.  Porn does have a lot to do with it as we are becoming a desensitized nation as we see sex everywhere (desensitized to not just sex but violence and death as well).

I don't think that many girls watch porn compared to young lads as we tend to be more emotional than visually stimulated. 

Only my opinion but Of course it doesn't apply to all that is why I said the younger ones who have not had proper sexual relationships before it also relates to the younger women who join this industry as they get a skewed view of men and relationships and then find it hard to trust men as most of their clients will b married and cheating as the have no experience of proper relationships to compare it to.. 

Offline 616

Depends on the punter :D

If you want a partner who likes anal, swallowing your cum, watching porn with you and is up for things like double penetration with your dick and a vibrator in her front bottom at the same time, get yourself a much younger partner instead of paying a complete stranger for it.

Punting probably does give some guys the confidence to seek out totally up for it hornbags but you CANNOT become a worse lover if you punt - you have to be of a very horny disposition in the first place AND open to the idea of being willing to try anything to make a new partner come like a freight train.

In my experience, anyway.   :cool:


Offline punk

I think most people are more broad minded now than say 40 or 50 years ago regarding sex.  Porn does have a lot to do with it as we are becoming a desensitized nation as we see sex everywhere (desensitized to not just sex but violence and death as well).

I don't think that many girls watch porn compared to young lads as we tend to be more emotional than visually stimulated. 

Only my opinion but Of course it doesn't apply to all that is why I said the younger ones who have not had proper sexual relationships before it also relates to the younger women who join this industry as they get a skewed view of men and relationships and then find it hard to trust men as most of their clients will b married and cheating as the have no experience of proper relationships to compare it to..

you know i agree with you there on all points, thou i have known women who like porn, i know one girl who really loves the hard stuff may be cause she is dutch. :unknown:
yeah most of the wg's i have seen think A. your married or B. have a girlfriend

but i dont personally see the point if you are, your made your choice and made your bed so lay in it.

and made your bed so lay in it.
I have not made my bed in years, whether at home or away, I let her make it! I prefer to cook.

Offline wristjob

I think I can make the distinction. In a proper relationship there's the whole different emotional level. The upshot of that is that in my punting life I'm a lot more physically picky than in real life. I guess extra physical attractiveness makes up for less emotional attraction. What probably goes with that is how you treat the other person. With WGs I'm not a generous sharing lover really - it is pretty much all about what I want. Within a relationship giving becomes a thrill.

Offline Daffodil

I think I can make the distinction. In a proper relationship there's the whole different emotional level. The upshot of that is that in my punting life I'm a lot more physically picky than in real life. I guess extra physical attractiveness makes up for less emotional attraction. What probably goes with that is how you treat the other person. With WGs I'm not a generous sharing lover really - it is pretty much all about what I want. Within a relationship giving becomes a thrill.

Quite right too. I recently had a prossie cancel on me because something had happened (if I even believe that) that would mean she wouldn't enjoy our meeting.

News flash: I'm paying (often) £100+ per hour for me to enjoy our meeting. If she does too then that's great, but it is pretty low down my list of priorities.

Offline wristjob

I'd love to hear my bosses reply if I phoned in and said I couldn't go to work because I wouldn't enjoy it.

Quite right too. I recently had a prossie cancel on me because something had happened (if I even believe that) that would mean she wouldn't enjoy our meeting.

News flash: I'm paying (often) £100+ per hour for me to enjoy our meeting. If she does too then that's great, but it is pretty low down my list of priorities.

Fair point, but if something happened that meant she couldn't even pretend to enjoy our meeting, I would prefer her to cancel.

Offline Daffodil

Fair point, but if something happened that meant she couldn't even pretend to enjoy our meeting, I would prefer her to cancel.

I agree, but I can only go on the wording on her text.

But I also agree, that knowing prossies like we do, what you suggest is likely what she meant.

Online NIK

No it doesn't. I am a brilliant lover.  :D

If only I had someone to show how good I am.  :cry:

Wiltsboy01

Fair point, but if something happened that meant she couldn't even pretend to enjoy our meeting, I would prefer her to cancel.

I click through profiles where it's.....yadda yadda...and for me to have a good time too

I don't give a shit about you baby, sorry.



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