Inspired by the thread on the main board which I have now closed I think some advice on communcation etiqutte is required.
The initial contact is extremely important and sometimes it isn't easy to get the balance right.
It is all very well prostitutes saying 'read my profile and don't ask questions that are answered there', but especially on AW, that profile is very often inaccurate. I have come across more than one girl who actually wasn't fully aware what was in her profile as it had been designed for them by others. In my opintion that is stupid and possibly even dangerous and the onus is on the prostitute te ensure it is totally accurate.
However I have seen some initial enquiries from potential clients that if I were a prostitute would make me cringe. Eg 'Are you ready to take my huge cock up your arse?' etc, etc.
If a woman isn't happy or comfortable with a man's initial enquiry the most sensible thing would be simply to ignore it and don't get involved in protracted communication. If a potential client sends such a message he probably isn't worth bothering with. No sensible or experienced punter would make that type of initial communication.
However if he sensibly and politely asks about services then there is no reason to be rude. For example I often ask. 'Can you confirm that you provide such and such as listed in your profile?' Simply reply, 'I can confirm that I provide all services listed.' You can always add the usual 'to my own discretion,' so if a problem arises during the appointment owing to him being unhygienic, too large or whatever there is always a get out clause.
Quite simply a bit of common sense and decorum are required and should be expected on both sides.
And there are some AW profiles that are so defensive, offputting and even aggressive ('I don't do this that or the other, don't ask me about...,' etc etc.) that I can't believe any punter would want to even make an enquiry in the first place.