I see what you mean with the self harming. It's not the fact that she has done this in the past but the sheer extent of the self harm. Sad to see really.
Would make me question how mentally stable this girl is.
That for me is enough to make me feel uneasy and put me off.
Yes, unfortunately one should really take that as a warning sign.
I forgot to mention that she's now changed her name to "MeditativeBlissX" but her links are still the same.
I probably don’t need to make this post but since my previous post doesn’t include much context/it’s unclear what I was referring to, I think I should clarify. Also, hopefully this post will provide additional insight into what she’s like/her mindset, as well as provide some light entertainment.
This is what she initially posted on SAAFE, then she edited it after I messaged her on AW, however I was unaware of her edit when I made my last post. This is an unedited, direct copy & paste of what she said (her words are in
red):
“Turned up tipsy and then became drunk (when the alcohol he had drank prior to the meeting caught up with him) on the second booking and overstayed. Left a very critical review about me despite me being nothing but generous and then when couldn't get a booking again started going in on me again.
Definitely one to avoid ladies as he will pick up on your every fault in the review, and make you feel low about yourself based on that
He's in the NW area but I know he travels around a bit
EDIT: He contacted me on AW today claiming that this review is utterly false and what I wrote is shameless.
I would just like to say I have seen him three times. The second time was on a Saturday around six and he had been for drinks beforehand with friends and was tipsy. The alcohol caught up with him (as units do with your liver when you take a break) and he became drunk during. By overstayed, I mean he stayed for over an hour over the booking time and I missed a booking because of it. But I was a newbie at the time and I should have been firmer so this was my fault. I also gave him a discount which I rarely do for anyone on the second and third bookings. He was nice during the bookings (he definitely doesn't make you feel low during the bookings), but he left me a very critical review whereby he picked up on all my faults and it made me feel low. He described my body in the review in most unflattering terms, and then tried to book a while later. Obviously, knowing he finds my body so unflattering and unattractive, I didn't know why he tried to book again. I wasn't available anyway. A client of mine who reads the review boards told me he had replied to comments that were a few weeks old with yet more unflattering comments about me. This was after he had tried to book me for a fourth time. I have told no lies, as a Buddhist, I believe it best not to, this is the version of events as I see it.”She edited her post and I think she might have changed some of it from what it initially said but possibly I just misread it. Anyway, she has based some of it in truth but much of it is just bullshit and the rest is just her coming to the wrong conclusions.
In addition, more recently, after my previous post in this thread, she posted the following (to which I’ve redacted small amounts of my personal info although not all that’s been redacted is true anyway because I’m not dumb enough to be so revealing/truthful to a WG) but is otherwise unedited:
“Very nasty, vindictive guy. Definitely one to avoid. After seeing this and despite him knowing that this is all the truth and him taking advantage of a newbie, he decides to update his review on UKpunting (he is a prolific punter and reviewer, he also states he has another Adult work profile separate to this so be careful ladies). He's [redacted personal/physical description], acts and sounds quite camp [left that in because it’s funny], claims he's a [redacted job/profession – fortunately not true but for a variety of reasons makes a good cover for me], he has a lot of free time on his hands and claims he never wanks as he punts so much, calls himself [redacted punting name], very demanding and asks you to do this, this and that. Made me massage him for a whole hour after the initial hour booking.
Now claiming on the review I'm 'bat shit crazy' despite him knowing I am telling the truth about him turning up tipsy and then becoming drunk as he has alcohol problems. (He told me gleefully several times that he is an alcoholic as a lot of [redacted profession] are). Will probably claim I'm lying about that too, definitely an immoral guy, only him and I know the truth and he's not afraid to lie to all his punting mates. Definitely one to avoid ladies, he is clearly unhinged - targets females with his nasty reviews when he doesn't get what he wants, really very very sad and pathetic
Stay safe ladies!”As you can see, she’s kind of tried to “out” me (possibly in more ways than one

), which is disgraceful behaviour. Anyway, to address her bullshit points, I’ll go through them one by one and also post screenshots which prove that I’m being honest and accurate. I've tried to avoid using "scroll capture" too much otherwise the screenshots come out too small/illegible.
Screenshots of meet 1:
Hidden Image/Members OnlyHidden Image/Members OnlyNote that the number shown is the number she used to use, not her current one. I'm sure other members here such as zonealarm can confirm that.
My review is not “very critical”, it’s entirely accurate and honest. I only mentioned her major flaws (not her “every fault”), nothing I said was minor or nit-picking. I also made it clear that overall, I personally wasn’t too fussed and I was happy. The review was not for her and if she felt low about it that’s her problem and she probably shouldn’t have read it. She has access to a mirror and her “every fault” is surely obvious to her.
The 2nd meet was on Friday 22nd June at 8pm, not a Saturday at 6pm as she claimed. I’d watched a world cup game earlier in the day with a few mates and had had a couple of drinks but nothing that made me tipsy or drunk at any point afterwards or in the punt. I had mentioned what I’d been up to (when she asked about my day) and at the end I made a joke about being an alcoholic (I did not tell her several times), however I thought I delivered it in a way that was clearly humorous, but as per her texts, it turns out she took it very literally. Since I couldn’t be bothered to explain it and I didn’t want to offend her (given that she had actually had serious alcohol problems in the past), I just played along, as per my texts. You’ll notice that my texts clearly don’t seem like the words of someone who’s drunk:
Screenshots of meet 2:
Hidden Image/Members OnlyHidden Image/Members OnlyHidden Image/Members OnlyScreenshot of meet 3:
Hidden Image/Members OnlyNote that meet was on the 4th August. You can see my last text on the 30th but I also called her and her phone was seemingly off. Since I knew she had a new number I also texted her on that. See this screenshot (I've redacted what I said to describe/identify myself):
Hidden Image/Members OnlyAs I've said, I took her at her word. I didn't reply and I just moved swiftly onto my plan C.
I did not at all overstay. While it’s true all 3 of our meets have overran, they were never my fault. Since she’s talking about the 2nd meet in particular, it’s true that we overran by an hour as per the timestamps of the texts but not over an hour as she claimed. At no point did she say or even hint at our time being up and indeed I was never asked to finish up/leave, it was me who left voluntarily. If she wanted me to leave earlier, she should have hurried the punt and the sex along and said something. I’m also not an idiot and while I don’t keep an eye on the clock (unless I have somewhere to be afterwards), I do look out for any subtle hints that they want me to finish up. I had no idea she had a subsequent booking and indeed I don’t believe her because if I was an overstaying drunk who caused her to miss a booking then why the hell did she text me thanking me for the meet AND offering to give me a £30 discount on all future hour long bookings!
While overrunning and small discounts aren’t particularly uncommon, so much texting on her part and offering such a relatively large discount (especially given her low standard price) is uncommon and while I’m sure most of it was just aimed at encouraging me to book again even sooner, it certainly doesn’t seem like the actions of someone who was in any way unhappy to see me (like they surely would with most overstaying drunks).
She claims I “started going in on her again” and made more “unflattering comments” after I couldn’t get a booking. She is presumably referring to this post I made:
That's absolutely ridiculous from her. You can easily fit all that in a 30 min booking and indeed I have. It sounds like she was just being greedy, certainly naive.
Sorry, forgot to mention that, I usually don't notice. On the first visit, I didn't notice/pay attention but on the 2nd I did notice some stains and "yellowing". It's not major but they are there.
To be fair, technically I haven’t fit all that into a 30 minutes booking (like I said) because I never booked her for 30 mins but if I had it would definitely have been easily possible, just like it is with many other WGs. Anyway, that post was only in reply to another poster (not because I wanted to have a go at her) and it is still accurate. At that point I had no idea that she’d refused to see me, I thought she was genuinely booked up as she said to me and indeed I posted over a week after that.
Anyway, I’m sure the fluffy idiot who’s been telling her what’s been posted on here is getting a laugh/kick out of this and I suppose he probably enjoys an even bigger discount than what I got. Or maybe he’s this dumb member who was recently banned:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=222980.0If I’m so “very demanding”, I have no idea why she saw me so many times or why she offered me a discount. She claims I made her give me a massage for a whole hour after the initial hour booking. Well first of all, I don’t “make” anyone do anything, I always politely ask and 2nd of all, if and when I do ask for a massage at the end (which isn’t usually very often), I always say “if we’ve got time”. As you can see from the texts, our initial hour booking only overran by no more than 15 minutes. Perhaps she was talking about the 2nd meeting but the massage was nowhere near an hour long. Note that our 3rd meet was booked for 2 hours (at £140) and I did pretty much end up having an hour long massage in that. I intended to cum twice but that didn’t happen (not her fault). On that meet she set an alarm 15 mins after the scheduled finish time but at that point I was literally already getting off the bed anyway!
If I really intentionally took advantage of her time, I wouldn’t waste it with a bloody massage (which certainly wasn’t amazing although it wasn’t bad either). And if I wanted a proper massage, I’d go to one of the many specialists out there.
I clearly don’t “target girls with nasty reviews” when I don’t get what I want. This review was a positive and was posted before I tried to see her for a 4th time. Any subsequent comments are entirely accurate and I’m very justified in turning this into a negative, since it’s her who’s been vindictive (and rather sad) by making up crap in a pathetic attempt to get some sort of “revenge”. Indeed, a negative is definitely warranted since she’s somewhat tried to out me. If I really wanted to be vindictive I’d post a fresh negative review (which I’m perfectly entitled to do) but I don’t see much point and I’ve already put way more effort into this post than necessary.
Let’s also bear in mind she already has form for outright lies, such as her post reports on here where she claimed her first review was, among other things, “not true”. See here:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=204189https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=204188Obviously, I wasn’t there when zonealarm had his punt but it definitely stacks up with my experiences and is almost certainly not in any way untrue.
She even had the cheek to complain about disclosure of her personal details, even though the reviewer did no such thing, see her post report here:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=204191That’s particularly ironic, considering she’s tried to expose my personal details on SAAFE for no good reason.
All in all, she claims she’s told no lies but that’s clearly bullshit. I do wonder though, if she’s so deluded that she actually believes her own bullshit. That might actually be the case, hence calling her “bat shit crazy” is definitely rather apt.
I was naive to think I’d be able to disguise who I was by pretending I’d only seen her twice, especially since I said stupidly revealing stuff like “I don’t wank, mainly because I punt so much”. I’ll definitely watch what I say more carefully from now on.
So, what have we learnt from this:
- This WG is mental, can't read and way too sensitive.
- I’m a massive gaylord, who’s camp and really into cocktails and fragrances! (And of course I see TS escorts, indeed I should probably get some more TS reviews up).
Edit: It's bloody hard work uploading multiple pics. I also made a big cock up at one point, to be honest it'd be funny if someone noticed but I've corrected it now.