First punt help

[syt1259]

Hi, I posted on here last week asking for recommendations for my first punt. As mentioned in that post, I'm a 25 year old virgin and suffer from partial paralysis on one side of my body. I'd like to say thanks for all of your responses, you've helped me find a few girls that I like the look of.

I'm now at the stage where there are a few girls that I'm ready to contact but I'm unsure of how I should word my initial message. Should I mention I'm a virgin? Should I mention that it will take me a little longer to get dressed and undressed? Obviously I need to include when I want to book, for how long and any requests I need to make but as you can imagine, I don't want to repel the girl with a long-winded message about my disability. Plus I hear some girls won't see virgins and younger guys.

Any help would be great.

[Gems1982]

Hey, i would just send a simple message explaining like you have here in your second sentence. Keep it simple an let them know if there's anything they would like you to elaborate on to let you know.

[STAR-LORD]

Hi, I posted on here last week asking for recommendations for my first punt. As mentioned in that post, I'm a 25 year old virgin and suffer from partial paralysis on one side of my body. I'd like to say thanks for all of your responses, you've helped me find a few girls that I like the look of.

I'm now at the stage where there are a few girls that I'm ready to contact but I'm unsure of how I should word my initial message. Should I mention I'm a virgin? Should I mention that it will take me a little longer to get dressed and undressed? Obviously I need to include when I want to book, for how long and any requests I need to make but as you can imagine, I don't want to repel the girl with a long-winded message about my disability. Plus I hear some girls won't see virgins and younger guys.

Any help would be great.

TBH, I think you should be as honest as possible in your first enquiry to who you were recommended by us. If they are as honest with their likes/enjoys list as it shows on their profile, then I'm sure they will cater to your requests and needs. 

I'd just lay it down as politely and as understandable as possible.

[mr big]

check out SJ she will break u in 

[STAR-LORD]

check out SJ she will break u in 

Don't remind me. I've waited a while for that. 

[mr big]

Don't remind me. I've waited a while for that. 

She will kill u and I should know 

[STAR-LORD]

She will kill u and I should know 

Been waiting long enough. (mostly my fault)

[EnglishRebecca121]

Honesty is the best policy here, thats all you can do , and reasearch who would be a good match for you from the reviews on this site x

[STAR-LORD]

Honesty is the best policy here, thats all you can do , and reasearch who would be a good match for you from the reviews on this site x

+1 

[mr big]

Becks come over and sort him out 

[STAR-LORD]

Becks come over and sort him out 

Good call. 

[vw]

Hi, I posted on here last week asking for recommendations for my first punt. As mentioned in that post, I'm a 25 year old virgin and suffer from partial paralysis on one side of my body. I'd like to say thanks for all of your responses, you've helped me find a few girls that I like the look of.

I'm now at the stage where there are a few girls that I'm ready to contact but I'm unsure of how I should word my initial message. Should I mention I'm a virgin? Should I mention that it will take me a little longer to get dressed and undressed? Obviously I need to include when I want to book, for how long and any requests I need to make but as you can imagine, I don't want to repel the girl with a long-winded message about my disability. Plus I hear some girls won't see virgins and younger guys.

Any help would be great.

Just make Sure it doesn't sound like you are wanking as you are typingbghe message.

Good luck 

[syt1259]

Appreciate the responses. Now to send some messages 

[Proton]

 It's certainly best to be up front as clearly as possible, so I told each lady before I met up and all was fine.
 I was on some medication at the beginning of 2017, that at first I thought I was going nuts, that messed my punting big time.
 At least you both are aware and there should be no issues with 90% of the great ladies out there.

  With "ER" being the best in the West, over the bridge. 

[fox2020]

syt1259,

I wanted to send you a message to your original first post a few weeks ago, but I didn’t have time to post a message to you. I just wanted to let you know, I am in the same boat as you, and I am thinking about seeing an escort to help me out, as I am a virgin too,

In fact you’re doing better than me, I am a mature 36-year-old virgin. I’ve never had any form of relationship or intimacy with anyone. I am very overweight I’m a nice guy, but a shy one. I just find it difficult in speaking to women myself because I lack confidence in myself and in my appearance because of my weight. I amembarrassed by it. And it’s not easy when you see everyone else you know has a girlfriend/getting married and getting on with life and you really feel left out. You do anything to have some form intimacy with a lady. It has a knock to your confidence.

I think you doing the right thing, and making a post on this forum asking for advice is good step too. I’m still trying to build more Dutch courage to see an escort. But I have made some contact to some escorts. The guys in this forum are right, be honest and open with who ever you’re thinking about seeing.

But why I’m a still a virgin and not seen an escort yet. Like you, I feel a certain degree of vulnerability and would need a girl that understands and trustworthy, I feel the same as you. I also trying to loose some more weight. I am hoping to get to my ideal weight some time in October, and make a formal booking with an escort.

I’ve been on TLC Trust website, it’s a shame that there is only one provider in Wales, and she is so far away, I am based in Cardiff. I have contacted Janey, who is lovely btw. She is friendly and understanding, but I wish she were loser to Cardiff.

You said, you like a curvy woman (not afraid of a girl with some extra weight), preferably under 40 and like I said, one that would hopefully be understanding of my situation. One lady that is highly recommend is Dollymopp of London:

adultwork.com/989349


dollymoppsboudoir.com


She specialises in seeing virgins too, and is highly rated, she is over 40, but she still looks pretty young from her photos. I have spoken to her, she is really nice and understanding too, again I wish she were closer to south Wales.

Out of curiosity who are you thing about seeing in South Wales?

I am thinking about seeing Charlotte of Cardiff:

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But its not easy writing that initial contact, but the hardest I feel is build that  confidence needed and doing the act.

Let us know how it goes or whom you are thinking about seeing. I would like to say that I would be happy to give you advice, but that seams odd, because I am virgin too! But I just wanted to let you know you’re not the only one.

Hopefully some of the guys on this forum can help us out too.

Good luck

[Genesis42777]

Evening syt1259

                             I hope this message finds you well...

                                                                                         I hope i can assist you..) I believe as a lot of fellow people have said honesty is the best policy here.And as it will be your first time.And i hope a "Wonderful experience" for you.Then i think the more information you give your chosen companion then the better.I would definetly take your time choosing your companion.And may i suggest probably a two hour booking,were you can relax maybe get a drink first and chat. and maybe somebody say maturer rather than younger. As for your disability...Just say it as it is...i Assure you she will not burst into flames over it..And the more information you give her the better you will both feel.

As for your initial "Contact message" ...Just say its your first time,and your a bit nervous.explain your reasons for being so.And you may be surprised to know...but...a lot of Working girls are actually very nice people..

Hope you have a fab time

Regards 

[syt1259]

Fox2020 - I completely relate to what you're saying. The way I look at it is that everyone has the right to experience intimacy. It has so many benefits for your mental and physical well-being. Regardless of your looks or physical ability, I'm sure many WGs will be greatful to spend time with a polite individual who will treat them with respect. Thank you for the recommendations. It most certainly is a shame that Janey is so far away. I wonder if there is a posibility of her touring in South Wales? I like the look of Charlotte of Cardiff, have you made any contact with her? As for who I'm thinking about seeing, I like the look of Jessica Banks, Lileth and Aimee Snow. For my first punt however, I think I will opt for a massage with HE. I feel like this would be a good first step before having full blown sex. I wish you the best of luck.

Genesis42777 - Thanks for the advice. I agree that being honest in my message will make the experience much better for me and for the girl. Thanks again 

[fox2020]

syt1259 – no problem.

I have not made contact with Charlotte of Cardiff, but she is highly rated. I just wish I were in better shape to see her. But I am still open to seeing anyone else.

Janey is really friendly, as she is a member of TLC Trust its worth contacting her to see if she was willing to travel down to South Wales or even just for her advice. I would love to see her ideally if she was closer to South Wales.

I’m also drawn to Lileth and Aimee Snow, but I have feeling they will not see us, as we obviously we have no feedback.

I also like this lady:

Cardiff-Kate

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 Genesis42777 advice about seeing a mature escort is good, as I feel a mature escort would be more understanding to our situation. I was feeling the same; a 2-hour date would ideal so that it would be more comfortable. Especially with a lady that has experience clients like us.

Dollymopp is also a member of TLC Trust too. I am quite drawn to her. I would rather see an escort that has her own incall premises rather than going at a hotel.

Hopefully we can both find the right lady and enjoy this experience.

[DevilD]

TBH, I think you should be as honest as possible in your first enquiry to who you were recommended by us. If they are as honest with their likes/enjoys list as it shows on their profile, then I'm sure they will cater to your requests and needs. 

I'd just lay it down as politely and as understandable as possible.

+1

[Proton]

There is no other way than be truthful and up front with the lady of your fantasy. You don't want it come crashing down on the day, do you 
 ANYWAY I WISH YOU A GREAT FIRST TIME, SO GET YOURSELF A TAXI VERY SOON.

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[Grumpy Pumpy]

Best of luck to the two of you. I hope it works out well

Am I imagining things or does Charlotte Harrington have an AW profile, with a different name, and cheaper rates?

[mr big]

Best of luck to the two of you. I hope it works out well

Am I imagining things or does Charlotte Harrington have an AW profile, with a different name, and cheaper rates?

Yeah think she is called welsh belle on AW.