External Link/Members OnlySo, this was somewhat disappointing but I can't really blame the girl, other than possibly for a lack of sensitivity to my deep needs and of skills to calibrate her attitude to that.
Visited her on a lazy late afternoon, she receives in a beautiful flat in a quiet side road in Bayswater. Entrance is pretty discreet and timeliness of door opening both downstairs and at the flat was adequate. Another girl works in the flat but I didn't ask who she was.
Raphaela is surely the girl in the pictures, and although obviously reality won't match the airbrushed and photoshopped pictures, that boils down mostly to light and colours: she is objectively a very beautiful girl, with lovely eyes and lips, a perfect oval, long hair (that she had collected in a bun the whole time, unfortunately), careful make up (she had some fiery red lipstick on that she soon removed lest she left stains on me): 8.5
Her body matches what you can see on the pictures: long legs, beautiful round and proportioned ass, imposing and elegant allure. Unfortunately she has almost no breasts at all: I'm not too fussed as I'm an ass guy more than a tits one but in this case this played a little bit against my enjoyment of the experience. 7.5 or 8 because of this. When she opened the door she was wearing a short red cotton tube dress that was soon off after my shower. I was offered a clean towel, multiple possible cleaning products (including Listerine) which bode well for the cleanliness of the lady.
I found her welcoming and friendly right from the beginning: she has a nice, expressive face, she smiles, she looks at you directly and with some level of curiosity, nothing bad to report here.
And yet, something didn't work for me, and I ended up leaving without coming once, which is very rare for me.
There are various factors involved. First of all, while she was objectively doing her best, I think she kind of misjudged me, and didn't really create a GFE experience of the kind I like (sensual and romantic). She was playful, and was clearly trying to make me feel at ease, but the way she was speaking playfully and kind of joking actually contributed to making me feel tenser and less aroused. She seemed concerned that I was nervous, and I wasn't really, but the constant concern made her say stuff like "relax, relax, ok ok I'm not going to touch you like this if you don't like it". There were a few of these things, and - again - while she was trying to make me feel at ease, that started to ruin the experience.
Then there was her somewhat excessive attention to wet wipes and pre-cum. I of course prefer someone who's excessively clean than the opposite, but she picked up wet wipes in moments where I needed her to focus some more on myself, and that didn't help. A couple of messages that rang without her answering, but after a few more she ended up taking a look, which also didn't help. Then there was temperature and humidity: the place was hot and damp. Again, she rushed to set up a fan, she spent time trying to understand how best I liked it, but in the meantime I was getting tenser and my erection disappeared.
I tried to relax, I lied down and she started sucking me. I hate it when I'm not fully erect, and in this case I was really getting limp. This is where the positives started: after a while seeing a simple BJ wasn't working, she offered to move into a 69. I started liking that more, and I got hard, with her licking and sucking really expertly. After a few minutes she picked up a condom and rode me for a while. Again, something was off: it's as if she was trying too hard. Not that she was doing too many noises or anything. I simply felt that we were lacking connection.
I put her on her back, and started pumping in a kind of a more convinced way. She was taking the pounding quite well, and things were looking up... but again she tried too hard, and she started dirty talking in Italian (she speaks it quite well, I believe she also speaks reasonable English but we switched to Italian pretty early into the session so I can't tell) with a slutty tone. It was just stuff like "fuck my pussy" and so on, but the slutty atmosphere didn't do it for me, it felt rehearsed and I didn't need it. I want the people I am fucking to focus on their pleasure, not on creating a fiction for myself, and if I have the feeling they are trying to make me feel as if I were in a porn movie... I get disappointed.
Obviously, YMMV: a lot of people would have enjoyed her dirty talking and the pornstar experience. The issue here is not that she wasn't good, it's that she didn't understand what I needed. After a while, I said "ok, let me try to relax": I lied on my back and wanted to cuddle and talk for a while, but again that didn't work. While she lied on my side, hugged me for a second and all, it was soon as if she felt that she needed to give me a sexual experience, so she went back to sucking me while I was only half hard (to her credit she was doing that very well, and she was gorgeous while doing it).
I tried some more, in various positions and with varying degrees of intensity, but it was clear the thing wasn't going anywhere so I called it a day. She was clearly concerned that I hadn't had a good time and it felt genuine, not just a professional concern. She offered me a massage, she pulled out some oil, she asked me if I wanted to finish with hands or mouth, but I knew nothing would have worked. We ended up chatting for a while, maybe 10, 15 minutes and I found her nice and smart, a pleasant conversationalist, at ease with her life and what she does, witty and intelligent.
So, overall, this clearly wasn't a great experience for me, but honestly I should have realised it wasn't a great day before I booked: I didn't really feel a strong urge for sex, and I mostly booked out of boredom. Her playful attitude at the beginning didn't do it for me, but will do it for a lot of other people so consider whether the positives given your preferences outweigh the negatives in my experience.
