I was looking for a punt which included sub services in Bournemouth and came across one girl on AW who I emailed last night and asked whether her prices where inclusive of everything on her enjoys list, she said that her prices where not, asked what services I was after, I told her, she responded last night with higher prices and I did not respond last night. This morning she emailed me saying her prices were open to "fair negotiation". I emailed back this evening saying that I don't haggle over the worth of a girl and her prices were acceptable. In reality the prices she has quoted even at the higher rate for the services I want are reasonable. I also want a girl who was going to be comfortable with what she was doing at the price she had set and not one that was thinking that I had negotiated her down to the minimum I could get her for (thereby, affecting the quality of her service).
I, therefore, said that I was happy to see her if she was going to provide a good service, comfortable with what I had requested, looked like her profile etc. and amongst other matters "you have no self harm scars and there are no other signs that you are mentally unstable/ not keen on what you do". She responded with "I'm going to be straight with you, I do have self harm scars.. As I used to self harm over 3 years ago due to family problems, but since I have had my daughter I dont do it anymore, most of the time the scars are barely visible".
1: Would anyone have done differently and negotiated;
2: Would anyone go ahead and see her knowing she has self harmed.
I am leaning away from seeing her given the self harm scars. I have not enjoyed punts in the past with girls that I have met who I have found out on turning up have self harmed as I always think that the self harming indicates that they are not doing their job for the right reasons. Point is that there are not too many other girls in that area that do what I am after and she has been straight with me. I think my next port of call if I was to turn this girl down would be to place a reverse booking for the services I am after.
Not certain I should post this as you never know whether the girl you are corresponding with reads this forum or not (if she does; sorry but I need some advice - probably to be talked out of the punt). Also not sure whether to make this two threads (one about negotiating and the other about self harm) or have done the right thing in just starting one thread. Just thought it was help I needed with one punt I am thinking about and would, therefore, post one thread.