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Author Topic: Reasons for punting ?  (Read 13780 times)

We would all like to think that we are Cavemen, able to bang anything without a thought.
But over the years, that does become monotonous.
Maybe caring comes with age. I agree with Dj3k about caring about the one you are sharing the moment with.
It heightens the senses in a very different way.
The reason that I'm here, is that the caring part went from my marriage.
First her, then me.
We haven't discussed it, at any time in the years since I stopped trying.
She even accepted my choice of a separate bedroom without a word.
I concluded that it must have been such a chore for her all along, despite all my attempts to make it just right for her.
As things are now, she gets her nights sleep, and I get a little, me time, with the laptop.
Everyone's a winner, well almost....
So far, my laptop moments have been an adequate outlet for me, but I really do miss the human connection.
You may have guessed already, that I haven't had my first punt yet. I have only joined this forum very recently.
And what a great find it is!
I've still got the ghost phone, and my nerves to sort out, but I do hope to be posting again with a positive review.
I will take my time before taking the plunge. I'm still soaking up the wealth of information you guys have to offer.
I'm guessing that with all of your escapades, some of you may have forgotten why you actually started punting,
so I thought that I would drop in with a freshman's point of view.
A few of the recent posts are underlining why you continue to punt.
I'm taking the fact that you continue, as another positive for me to try it out.
I'm still at the research stage at the moment and almost fluent in abbreviation speak.
The on-line Urban Dictionary has been a great help.
I had hoped that CIM was, Cares In Multitudes, but I was just as happy to find out the real definition.
I just hope that I have an hours worth of Caveman still left in me!

Offline Toshiba

We would all like to think that we are Cavemen, able to bang anything without a thought.
But over the years, that does become monotonous.
Maybe caring comes with age. I agree with Dj3k about caring about the one you are sharing the moment with.
It heightens the senses in a very different way.
The reason that I'm here, is that the caring part went from my marriage.
First her, then me.
We haven't discussed it, at any time in the years since I stopped trying.
She even accepted my choice of a separate bedroom without a word.
I concluded that it must have been such a chore for her all along, despite all my attempts to make it just right for her.
As things are now, she gets her nights sleep, and I get a little, me time, with the laptop.
Everyone's a winner, well almost....
So far, my laptop moments have been an adequate outlet for me, but I really do miss the human connection.
You may have guessed already, that I haven't had my first punt yet. I have only joined this forum very recently.
And what a great find it is!
I've still got the ghost phone, and my nerves to sort out, but I do hope to be posting again with a positive review.
I will take my time before taking the plunge. I'm still soaking up the wealth of information you guys have to offer.
I'm guessing that with all of your escapades, some of you may have forgotten why you actually started punting,
so I thought that I would drop in with a freshman's point of view.
A few of the recent posts are underlining why you continue to punt.
I'm taking the fact that you continue, as another positive for me to try it out.
I'm still at the research stage at the moment and almost fluent in abbreviation speak.
The on-line Urban Dictionary has been a great help.
I had hoped that CIM was, Cares In Multitudes, but I was just as happy to find out the real definition.
I just hope that I have an hours worth of Caveman still left in me!


For youre first time id try 30mins, you need to get it out ya system and with all the anticipation it could all be over quite quickly, i dont know your age but i suggest a more mature lady too, they tend to know what they are doing and are a bit more "caring" shall we say. Its a lot of money choose well it was sad to read what some women let their marraige develop into, never mind its youre life, this game isnt pleasant at times but does fill a need , the mere fact i can fuck a fiy 19yr old stunner who deepthroats and fucks like a porn star keeps the dream alive

Good luck and be careful

Thanks for the advice Holycrosser. I always aim high and have hot listed some very stunning girls, both young and mature.
Taking the advice given on other postings, I now have a hot list containing local, positively reviewed girls.
Some are a little too stunning for me, but it is a wish list after all.
I am finding that the older girls take the time to thoroughly fill out their profiles and blogs, and I do like that.
Checking for common ground and sense of humour should go a long way to ensure a real connection is made.
I have seen a few robotic reports on here, and that really wouldn't do for a first time back in the saddle.
I am gradually narrowing it down and I am moving towards the girls nearer my age.
I do have a lot of snow on the roof, but I'm still a long way off getting a bus pass.
A 30 minute booking hadn't occurred to me, but now you've mentioned it, it does seem more realistic.
Trouble is, I cant help aiming high. Its still in my head to blow a few bob on 2 hours, and if I time it right,
I could even get to watch an episode of Countdown, in good company, while blue tablet does its work.

Offline 616

Smiley, I was a bit like you last year. I'd been single for over a year and had a few spare quid in the bank then one night (more like the whole evening up until the daybreak the next day) found Adultwork and SAAFE. At last, I thought to myself - no more walking into saunas and parlours not knowing what to expect; the Internet had sorted going to prostitutes, once and for all!

I was gobsmacked at what was available online and like yourself, did a fair bit of research looking for a woman I thought I could see, an older woman, not a skinny 20something but someone mature and hopefully not too cold and distant and bored with escorting and I did.

Because I like knobbing a lot, I knew I could handle an hours booking and I've always gone for that ever since so I can have time to enjoy the experience regardless how sordid, seedy or fabulous it is!

30 mins for a first punt is good advice, tho'. It's upto YOU, it's your money but remember, bonking uses a totally different muscle set to almost any other form of physical exertion and I was pretty unfit last year when it came to making lurve to a beautiful woman, shall we say...

Good luck and don't forget to post a review of your first punt here.

Offline darkvamp

I really to struggle to chat to women that I like when out with my mates. Nerves always get the better of me.
Paying for it just makes it easier for me, as the ladies then do most of the work then :)

Offline jonespdd

I love my wife and the sex with her is great. However, it's not as often as I'd like due to her busy job. I decided to try a punt at my house when my wife was away. I lucked out with an absolutely beautiful woman at 90 minutes for £180 and she was worth every penny. A saw her a few times. It was easy then though, where we lived had a discreet entrance away from the neighbours and I always asked that she dressed casually (jeans, top, plain underwear - I prefer my women completely naked and sexy underwear doesn't really do anything for me). Now, we've moved house to a very neighbourly area and there're a lot of curtain twitchers, so I haven't had the chance to meet anyone new and my last girl, willing to travel, seems to have disappeared from the scene. A shame really. The local ladies where I live now just aren't what I'm looking for. However, there is one who I'm very tempted to try.

Offline dj3k

Best advise I can give for a first booking with an escort, 30 mins max. Main reason if you don't click or get along then an hour is a waste of money and it get's awkward.

The Adultwork verified and feedback system is not great, but I usually look at some feedback and the private gallery to check things over and see if it looks legit.
This forum has reviews so search to see if any bad reviews etc

Avoid Romanian's.  Nothing against them, I do see one nice one. But usually they take the piss. More than other nationalities and you will leave disappointed.

Also, decide what you want from the booking.  Very important. It's a service and business translation between you both.  I can't really talk or give advice about not getting attached to an escort or emotionally involved.  But try not to.  In most cases you will simply be giving more and more money to the same women in pursuit of something that will likely never happen.

So set a limit on the number of times you see the same women. And have a few women on the go at the same time.  If one or two are really good and you get along, then she maybe a good regular.

Feelings can develop, but usually in most cases it's one sided and she will simply be happy for your money and the time you spend with her, and that your happy with the services she provides to you.

 In rare cases, you both might get attached to each other.  Really that is a mind field! You will know as you no longer pay and it's basically a relationship from thereon.  But sex work is her job so don't expect her to give it up for you. Though she will expect you to give up punting (as it's just a job to her but pleasure for you).

Also, sort out what's on offer and the services either before the visit and BEFORE you hand over the money.  Also don't fall for the £20 extras for services once the appointment starts.
Get it all agree upfront and you and her will have a good time.  If you don;t like what you see, walk away before you give money.

I have seen 100's of women but still got caught out recently, she was super good looking, really friendly even tried to get me to do an hour instead.  But stuck to 30 mins.  And once the money was give, one of the most objectionable women I have ever seen! She even had good feedback on AW and a waiting list of clients.

So not to put you off, go and try it and you might like it.  But for me, too many women, too long and recently too much drama. So I feel like I want to quit.. But it's very difficult to stop.  I have spoken to a few regulars and it's the same for some women.  They stop for a little while, but the money is too good and easy so they return.

Also stick to a budget. I spend £1000 a month.  Others on here might maybe spend a few £100 a year.

But have fun and good luck!!  Mid-life crisis time for me now :wacko:

password02

WOW dj3K - £1,000 per month thats a BIG BUDGET on WG.

So registered here on UKP July 2013 six months ago and only 2 reviews even though you are spending £1K pm?

Lets look at some numbers -

Last 6 months say £6K spent lets say an average of top end punts £150-£200 - thats on average of 5-8 WG's per month so between 30-40 girls in 6 months and only 2 reviews?

You seem like the guy who does not like to share?

Offline SirPhilipXX


Best advise I can give for a first booking with an escort, 30 mins max. Main reason if you don't click or get along then an hour is a waste of money and it get's awkward.

I have seen 100's of women but still got caught out recently, she was super good looking, really friendly even tried to get me to do an hour instead.  But stuck to 30 mins.  And once the money was give, one of the most objectionable women I have ever seen! She even had good feedback on AW and a waiting list of clients.


Do you have a link? So we know who to avoid.


Offline dj3k


Do you have a link? So we know who to avoid.

I posted before littlepetite but she closed the profile and now creating new ones. Romanian woman about 20.

Offline dj3k

WOW dj3K - £1,000 per month thats a BIG BUDGET on WG.

So registered here on UKP July 2013 six months ago and only 2 reviews even though you are spending £1K pm?

Lets look at some numbers -

Last 6 months say £6K spent lets say an average of top end punts £150-£200 - thats on average of 5-8 WG's per month so between 30-40 girls in 6 months and only 2 reviews?

You seem like the guy who does not like to share?

But yet you have nearly 1000 posts on UKP and only 4 reviews ??!!

I don't spend my time contributing to UKP to be abused so I'm not going to bother anymore. Shame a few spoil it for the rest.
And yes, that's 4 or 5 women a month and 1 regular once a week, all an hour each.

Offline carlisle78



I don't spend my time contributing to UKP to be abused so I'm not going to bother anymore. Shame a few spoil it for the rest.

Yeah I had 50 punts in 2013 - varying from 1 hour to 2 each. Yet I am credited with 2 reviews ( albeit that I have done reviews within other reviews).

I too backed off because of some of the reactions:

"Why on earth choose a girl with no face pix  :dash:?"

"No Prossie is worth £150 an hour  :dash:"

Blah blah blah.
Banning reason: Trolling another member because he posted a negative about his favourite prossie. Also known as EdiTed on other sites.

password02

But yet you have nearly 1000 posts on UKP and only 4 reviews ??!!

I don't spend my time contributing to UKP to be abused so I'm not going to bother anymore. Shame a few spoil it for the rest.
And yes, that's 4 or 5 women a month and 1 regular once a week, all an hour each.

I am sorry that you feel that I have ''abused you'' really not my intention but thanks for your honest reply dj3K - I have another 15-20 reviews that I have added to existing posts so I do share my punts with the rest of the UKP forum - If you want to share the fact thay you have seen 100's of girls why would you not want to contribute? even a few lines to say yes really good FCK, great DTBJ, stunning figure, great DFK - it only takes 5 mins.

Really cannot understand your attitude, this is a forum where members try and share information. Your 100's of girls that you have seen and punted would have greatly contributed to the well being of this forum and may have saved us punters lots of their hard earned income if you had bothered to do a quick write up.

Does not need to be a War and Peace  review -

Really gets me angry where we have UKP members here that say -

''Yes seen her and Yes FCKed her etc etc etc etc but she was a crap punt and a waste of time OR Great girl best punt I had'' But when you ask - have you done a review or cannot find the review , they then say No sorry did not have time!!!

« Last Edit: January 13, 2014, 09:51:02 PM by password02 »

Offline dj3k

I am sorry that you feel that I have ''abused you'' really not my intention but thanks for your honest reply dj3K - I have another 15-20 reviews that I have added to existing posts so I do share my punts with the rest of the UKP forum - If you want to share the fact thay you have seen 100's of girls why would you not want to contribute? even a few lines to say yes really good FCK, great DTBJ, stunning figure, great DFK - it only takes 5 mins.

Really cannot understand your attitude, this is a forum where members try and share information. Your 100's of girls that you have seen and punted would have greatly contributed to the well being of this forum and may have saved us punters lots of their hard earned income if you had bothered to do a quick write up.

Does not need to be a War and Peace  review -

Really gets me angry where we have UKP members here that say -

''Yes seen her and Yes FCKed her etc etc etc etc but she was a crap punt and a waste of time OR Great girl best punt I had'' But when you ask - have you done a review or cannot find the review , they then say No sorry did not have time!!!
I'm PM you!


Offline SirPhilipXX

When you two have finished hurling your handbags at each other, may I remind you that this thread is meant to be about reasons for punting?  :sarcastic:

Offline overhead

It's funny reading all the convoluted reasoning.

It all boils down to the fact that men are more driven by sex than women. Most of them need it and most women don't. And those that feel the urge can usually get it without having to convince someone to do it with them by paying them. The vast majority of men don't have that choice.

Simple really.

Best advise I can give for a first booking with an escort, 30 mins max. Main reason if you don't click or get along then an hour is a waste of money and it get's awkward.


I usually see a WG for 1 hour minimum and last year, when I was auditioning replacements for a WG I'd become emotionally too close to, I booked to see another WG, who only lived about 1 - 2 miles away from the one I was looking to replace [and who has now disappeared from AW].

I asked her for an hour and she replied that a first appointment with her was 30 mins because of the reasons given by dj above.

I'd never thought about it before [I try to get on with everyone I meet] but I suppose it can be a bloody long hour if you don't "gel" with the WG.

Interesting thread, mainly because so many of us have variations of the same story.

Mine, long time married-I have much higher sex drive - she only really likes vanilla (4 BJ's in 10 years), when we have sex about 3/4 of the time she'll not be hugely involved in foreplay but will take it (I sometimes comment that I may as well by a blow up doll as the sex would be the same but at least I could have it more often = domestic!)

I agree it's about lust, but for me it's both ways. As a lot have said I want to be 'wanted' and to have someone come onto me, to use a fluffy phrase 'be seduced' but my wife have come onto me probably 5 times in 10 years (there's been other times I thought she was, but she wasn't = domestic!)

I'm interested in the that two adults who love each other should/could be able to discuss and that wife could/should encourage punting as an outlet 'at least it's not an affair'.

I've often wandered which would be worst from the wife's point of view

"you put all we have at risk and for what, a cheap fuck I wouldn't be so bad if you actually loved her" or "how could you cheat on me, it wouldn't be so bad if you'd paid for it at least you wouldn't love them"

I guess whichever your caught doing would seem pretty bad to her-indoors at the time  :wacko:

Totally agree with the argument that if a wife at least tried I'd be less likely to punt - if we had sex 3/4 times a month and perhaps 1 of these was more adventurous than vanilla without going mad (oddly she does like anal) then I very much doubt I'd punt - although there's a lot to be said for variety!

Offline dj3k

I usually see a WG for 1 hour minimum and last year, when I was auditioning replacements for a WG I'd become emotionally too close to, I booked to see another WG, who only lived about 1 - 2 miles away from the one I was looking to replace [and who has now disappeared from AW].

I asked her for an hour and she replied that a first appointment with her was 30 mins because of the reasons given by dj above.

I'd never thought about it before [I try to get on with everyone I meet] but I suppose it can be a bloody long hour if you don't "gel" with the WG.

I have posted before about an issue I had with a WG a few months ago.

Regular punters also see the same group of escorts / women. Usually because they are good at what they do.

Also, unknown to me, my regular told me that escorts have a support network with other escorts and regularly talk to other escorts on AW etc.  Checking all is ok, giving info about bad clients etc. And gossip.

There is also pillow talk between clients and escorts plus escort read the AW feedback of clients before visits.

My problem, one of my regulars put really nice but over the top feedback for me on AW.  Thought nothing of it.

I booked one of the really good local escorts, high price, waiting list and she's really picky who she sees.  I booked 30mins.  Really one of the worst times of my life.

Why ? Because all she went on about was that feedback that was left for me and how fucked up it was that I also see my regular outside of business as a friend. 
I had not told her this so obviously someone had. This a little off putting so could not get it up fully and she just went on saying I bet you get hard for her etc etc. Didn't even get to the sex as I walked out.  Then I had some hassle on here and AW from my regulars clients.

So yes, bookings do not go well at times. I had to close my AW account as of it as.




I booked one of the really good local escorts, high price, waiting list and she's really picky who she sees.  I booked 30mins.  Really one of the worst times of my life.

Why ? Because all she went on about was that feedback that was left for me and how fucked up it was that I also see my regular outside of business as a friend. 
I had not told her this so obviously someone had. This a little off putting so could not get it up fully and she just went on saying I bet you get hard for her etc etc. Didn't even get to the sex as I walked out.  Then I had some hassle on here and AW from my regulars clients.
.

Blimey!

Offline dj3k

Blimey!

I would name her but I am sure she reads this site and would troll me further.

Offline dj3k

This thread is very interesting.  I think if I honestly say, I've lost my way with punting.  Maybe because of some personal issues.  But I remember years ago, why I was seeing escorts. The thrill of a new women, who generally so good looking I would never be able to have for free.

But now, I don't know why.  Some of the younger escorts are not very good, limited services and rushing. And the older ones have put up the price to a level I won't pay.

I have had  2 very good regulars the last year.  Then I started a relationship but that finished quickly so back punting again.  But 2014 been disappointing so far.  I have got back in contact with my regulars after a little while of no sex with them.  Nothing wrong with the service provided, but it's just me, I feel like I need a change.  Tried a few but really not very good so far.  I like to keep to the same few women if I can as the quality of service is my priority these days.


When you two have finished hurling your handbags at each other, may I remind you that this thread is meant to be about reasons for punting?  :sarcastic:
As always , well said...

Smiley Jones..go for it !!!!..... from what you've said about your sex life you won't regret it .
Compared with some I've got very limited experience...it's a nerve racking experience the first time.You're doing the right thing,reading all the advice on the forum . Pick somebody with excellent feedback and maybe spend a reasonable amount of money.

After my first punt I drove away with the image of an 18 yr olds perfectly smooth fanny hovering above my face as my knob was
being slowly sucked...there's nothing like it !!!!

Like many of the other contributors, my primary reason for punting has been the waning, and finally vanishing, sex drive of my wife. And no, I really don't think she'd take at all kindly to my telling her about it. I get the impression that if your sex drive dies off, you have a hard job imagining how anybody else could still have one. And I speak from personal experience here: I was diagnosed with prostate cancer about five years ago. Part of the treatment involved being given female hormones. They caused my sex drive to fall through the floor. Somehow, I didn't notice its absence. Sex was an entirely academic subject. It was only when my libido started coming back, after nine months, that I began to realise what I was missing.
I used to punt from time to time in the early days if I was away on long business trips. But that was a substitute for getting it at home, rather than an outright replacement.
P.S. My cancer treatment was entirely successful. As you can see, I am still alive and punting.

Offline SirPhilipXX

This thread is very interesting.  I think if I honestly say, I've lost my way with punting.  Maybe because of some personal issues.  But I remember years ago, why I was seeing escorts. The thrill of a new women, who generally so good looking I would never be able to have for free.

But now, I don't know why.  Some of the younger escorts are not very good, limited services and rushing. And the older ones have put up the price to a level I won't pay.

I have had  2 very good regulars the last year.  Then I started a relationship but that finished quickly so back punting again.  But 2014 been disappointing so far.  I have got back in contact with my regulars after a little while of no sex with them.  Nothing wrong with the service provided, but it's just me, I feel like I need a change.  Tried a few but really not very good so far.  I like to keep to the same few women if I can as the quality of service is my priority these days.

I have been feeling the same recently - maybe we are getting more critical the more we punt!

From fond memories of  experience of great punts in the past, I know how good it CAN be, so now anything less than excellent  seems like a disappointment. Plus, it seems that after a while, regulars do not seem to make the effort they did on the first few punts.

An honourable exception is the endearing rachel-superstar, with whom I have never had anything other than an excellent punt. She is rather expensive, but God she's good.


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