Can't get your cock up???

[SilverVibe]

Let me start by saying that even reading half a paragraph of erotica can make me hard, however when I visit a wg sometimes can't even get a semi even if she is very attractive. Even worse because I shouldn't have such a problem because of my age (19).

In a bit of a dilemma lads, is it performance anxiety?

Have gone for 2 punts not sure I will continue if this happens frequently.

[conway_hound]

You just have to learn to relax. The more you punt, the more natural it seems to have an unknown girl rub your cock.
That little bit of anxiety is the proverbial nail in the tyre. Stick with it. If you get hard elsewhere you will do with a WG once it feels more familiar.

[NIK]

Let me start by saying that even reading half a paragraph of erotica can make me hard, however when I visit a wg sometimes can't even get a semi even if she is very attractive. Even worse because I shouldn't have such a problem because of my age (19).

In a bit of a dilemma lads, is it performance anxiety?

Have gone for 2 punts not sure I will continue if this happens frequently.

If you can’t get it up at your age wait til you become an old bastard. I assure you it only gets worse. 

[Lambeth19]

Big game nerves, as guys say just relax!

[Simon_9000]

You just have to learn to relax. The more you punt, the more natural it seems to have an unknown girl rub your cock.
That little bit of anxiety is the proverbial nail in the tyre. Stick with it. If you get hard elsewhere you will do with a WG once it feels more familiar.

Good advice there IMO.

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[Simon_9000]

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[Jimmyredcab]

If you can’t get it up at your age wait til you become an old bastard. I assure you it only gets worse. 

No way should he be punting at 19 anyway.     

[SilverVibe]

Had my first punt at 16.

Don't worry that is still legal. But it has been a peturbing issue.

[Ce95]

Im 23 and have the same issue, been on around 10 punts and still have the neevousness and performance anxiety and don’t know how to get out of it

[misterali]

No way should he be punting at 19 anyway.     

It's depressing to think about it but I also started punting at a similar age. It is becoming more and more mainstream, a kid in my workplace visits hookers and YOA strip club, he's only 18!

[southcoastpunter]

Op, I'm confused. You say that "when I visit a wg sometimes can't even get a semi even if she is very attractive".

But you then go onto say that you have gone for 2 punts, the first at aged 16 and presumably the second was the positive review you did early this month where according to your review, it would seem you did manage more than just a "semi".

If your question is genuine, try going for a massage where sex is not offered and therefore you are under no pressure. Get comfortable with that, go somewhere that offers "extras", get used to that and work you way back up to a full punt.

[dubhcarr]

Let me start by saying that even reading half a paragraph of erotica can make me hard, however when I visit a wg sometimes can't even get a semi even if she is very attractive. Even worse because I shouldn't have such a problem because of my age (19).

In a bit of a dilemma lads, is it performance anxiety?

Have gone for 2 punts not sure I will continue if this happens frequently.

stop wanking viewing porn OP........you are not alone if I believe what lots of SP say.......lots of young men cannot get it up on demand........a months abstinance and I guess you would notice a difference but as stated nerves and diet are important together with being properly hydrated...good luck......

[SilverVibe]

I know it might sound unbelieveable however I haven't wanked in 1 and a half years.

[t0mm13]

At your age I would assume its just nerves/Excitement.

there was a post on here somewhere about having erection problems. Basically someone said to not get stressed about it. Just go to the punt with an open mind and try and relax.
You could ask them for a massage just so you get a bit chilled out. If it does not happen then just stay for your time and have a chat or something. Remember you are paying them for the time.
then hopefully when you go to the next one you will be more relaxed.

I am an older guy and I suffer with real bad anxiety. Last punt I had I made sure I had a few drinks then walked to the punt, trouble is cannot do that all the time but it has given me a bit more courage.
Got a good BJ and exploded my load. Hoping next punt can actually get some Vag action!!!!   

[Analist]

I've punted frequently enough that there's no stress involved in punting itself.
However, sometimes I do have difficulty staying hard. I'd say it's due to pre-punt stress - eg having a hard time making the booking or the travel logistics, or a busy day at work. Try to calm down and relax before the punt. 

[Formicahunt]

Without prying how does it go with civvies? If ok you should try wgs who are more gfe, loads of kissing and touching, build up to it.

[Charliehutton]

Whatever it is, it shouldn't be performance anxiety. One of the great joys of punting is that it's only your pleasure that matters, not hers. She couldn't care less about your performance, so just enjoy yourself.

[pingug]

if they are very attractive that will make it worse for nerves, same with foreign girls as nothing in common, go for a milf maybe,

[cueball]

Let me start by saying that even reading half a paragraph of erotica can make me hard, however when I visit a wg sometimes can't even get a semi even if she is very attractive. Even worse because I shouldn't have such a problem because of my age (19).

In a bit of a dilemma lads, is it performance anxiety?

Have gone for 2 punts not sure I will continue if this happens frequently.

That sounds like nerves to me.

Don't wank too often neither.

Keep at it, a lot of us older lads have podged that many we're stood to attention walking through the car park 

Don't let your dick drive your brain though, only listen to your dick when you've decided to drop your trollies 

[Luke Cage]

Get thee some blue pills my boy.There’s a placebo effect so they’re pretty effective.
You’ll probably be ok with a girl friend because your nerves will be better.One thing though, lay off the hard core porn, it’s documented to give young men problems that even blue pills won’t cure.

[Punter115]

I can get my cock up with the help of a blue pill but can never seem to cum with the bag on .....never had that problem when I was younger .....have to finish CIM / owo.
Would love to cum in her but just doesn’t happen ...any idea lads.

[BlueRock]

Sadly never had the problem whether they are attractive or turned out to be a right boot!

[Luke Cage]

I’ve always had trouble coming, blue pills or not.I find “collapsed doggy “ ( doggy but we’re lying flat) works for me.I spread my legs outside hers,as wide as I can get them.
             I also spend a lot of time giving them oral which seems to excite me, and allows me to come.
One final observation, don’t worry about it, give her a good seeing to and then have a wank.How bad can it be? She certainly won’t care.You might find that seeing the same girl regularly negates in part, your need for blue pills.

[Equaltizer]

I think the problem is that when you are with a girlfriend or a date, or just a female friend that you find attractive, when you are with them for a few hours either having a drink or having dinner or just watching TV, you have the time to build up some passion, some fantasy in you're head leading to a sustained massive hard-on. You are also more relaxed.
It is more difficult to just turn up at a working girls flat and perform straight after handing over the paperwork. Especially when you have never been with them before or even seen them.

[cueball]

It is more difficult to just turn up at a working girls flat and perform straight after handing over the paperwork. Especially when you have never been with them before or even seen them.

As Tony Blair said when he won the election....

Experience
Experience
Experience
 

At first nerves can effect you, once practised and relaxed you're fine

[m4rmite]

I had this a few times but then clocked as soon as fk starts I'm up like a flagpole.
Tried some viagra on a few punts and that makes you stiff just farting.

Last punt she was a cracker of a milf and fk and dirty smile made me solid throughout.
It's all in the mind, 

[Punter115]

I am in my sixties tha5 also might be the problem !!!

[Equaltizer]

On the other hand the complete opposite to what i said previously, Sometimes, when i go to a new flat and see a working girl that i like but have never met before, l get that nervous, fast beating heart. This results in a very good and memorable punt for me because I'm on edge and not just going through a routine.
The basis of the punt being that nervous, heavy breathing, on edge feeling that you get with a date. Makes it feel like the frill of a chase.
Maybe its just me. It sounds crazy, i know.

[InMefan]

I had this problem when I first started punting a year ago. However I was initially visiting Romanians which was a mistake of course as I didn't really know much about finding the right sort of girls etc. I do admit I do use the little blue pill, it's alternative version of viagra, with me deep french kissing usually helps me keep it up, especially of a girl is kissing me whilst playing with my cock at the same time, that generally does the trick for me, because it sort of helps me relax and then sometimes I am thinking of sexy stuff in my head. It doesn't always work of course but majority of the time it does seem to work for me.
I should try some punts without taking the pill but still a bit worried.

[myothernameis]

however when I visit a wg sometimes can't even get a semi even if she is very attractive. Even worse because I shouldn't have such a problem because of my age (19)

Lucky you, when I was 19, I couldn't help but get erections, in the swimming pool, in the shower, walking down the street, and sexy girl passes by me.  So when I walked into the massage parlour, and got undress, it would take much for my erection to pop up, and sticks out from the towel

[JamesKW]

Without prying how does it go with civvies? If ok you should try wgs who are more gfe, loads of kissing and touching, build up to it.

In my case I find it harder to get it up with the O/H (after almost 30 years) than with WGs I have to use my imagination a lot.just feeling a WG normally gets it up.

[Luke Cage]

Amen

[Plan R]

is it performance anxiety?

Could be money anxiety..so to reduce the 'risk' of wasting money affecting you concentration;

(a) Have half a blue one 1hr before the punt (even though you wouldn't normally need one at 19)
(b) Try a 60quid, 30 minute effort..there's less at stake that way.

[Punter115]

In my case I find it harder to get it up with the O/H (after almost 30 years)

You are very lucky the O/H is still game for it .... that is why I started punting when in my sixties after 10 years of waiting for my O/H to turn the taps back on and I am still waiting ...pretty sad really !

[JamesKW]

You are very lucky the O/H is still game for it .... that is why I started punting when in my sixties after 10 years of waiting for my O/H to turn the taps back on and I am still waiting ...pretty sad really !

Sort of,but it is very sporadic with the O/H and it is BB,so I need a bit of warning so I can get down GUM and get the all clear.Giving an STI to the O/H would be a nightmare situation.It can never be spontaneous,many services are not available so sometimes I would prefur it not at all.

[Luke Cage]

Funnily enough I did ten years without as well. Also why I am punting.
Trouble is I’m not sure I really want to with the missus now.

[conway_hound]

I can get my cock up with the help of a blue pill but can never seem to cum with the bag on .....never had that problem when I was younger .....have to finish CIM / owo.
Would love to cum in her but just doesn’t happen ...any idea lads.

A bag can be a bit of a wet blanket. One thing that helps me is to put some official lube (not oil) in the end of the bag, so that your bell end actually slides against a surface. Some bags are just not lubed enough so if your cock and bag dont move relative to each other, the only thing that will enjoy itself is the bag!
Not too much lube or the bag will stay in the cave when you withdraw!

[nato1979]

I met a mixed race girl about 20 years ago in Aberdeen, I could tell she was a nasty aggressive type right from the start, it was total boner kill. I couldn’t get a hardon to save myself, she got angry and I left after about 10 minutes. She had the bedside manner of a fucking executioner. My worst punt ever. Remember it vividly till this day.

About a year later I met her again after responding to an add in the sport, as soon as she opened the door I made my excuses and walked.

[Punter115]

A bag can be a bit of a wet blanket. One thing that helps me is to put some official lube (not oil) in the end of the bag, so that your bell end actually slides against a surface. Some bags are just not lubed enough so if your cock and bag dont move relative to each other, the only thing that will enjoy itself is the bag!
Not too much lube or the bag will stay in the cave when you withdraw!

Cheers I will try that on my next punt ...the problem I have when i am in her with the bag on I don’t really get any sensation , don’t really feel anything, the annoying thing is they are bouncing up and down on it and they say “ well I can feel it “ . Feel like saying well that will be £70 for enjoying yourself.
When you get older it is a funny old world ...well maybe not that funny!   

[NIK]

No way should he be punting at 19 anyway.     

Yes, when I was 19 I fully expected to get it for free.
I don't think I knew prossies existed, at least not locally.
I had a few punts in my twenties, but it wasn't until I hit my thirties and came to realise that I wasn't going to get much for free, at least not with females I fancied, that I became a fully fledged punter.

Punting, at least for me, has rather been like the cycle of life.
None in my teens when I was rampant, a handful in my twenties when I was still ramapant but lacking experience, a lot in my thirties when I was still okay and more experienced (the best time I guess) although I had loads of shit punts as I would punt ferociously, even more in my forties, although I was now recognising quality but my own performance was slipping, fewer in first half of fifties, and second half of fifities a return to the barely existent punting of my twenties, as my performance was now shite.
None thus far since I hit sixty.  It's like being a teenager again. 
Well, not really. 

[Ce95]

Might be thinking to write a post of my own seeking help in this regard, Ive hot around 15 meets for now most with one 1 wg but recently expanded and still suffer. My diet is very healthy im in decent shape and just 23. It’s becoming bery frustrating I’m considering psychosexual counseling anyone thinks it might help?

[Ce95]

Might be thinking to write a post of my own seeking help in this regard, Ive hot around 15 meets for now most with one 1 wg but recently expanded and still suffer. My diet is very healthy im in decent shape and just 23. It’s becoming bery frustrating I’m considering psychosexual counseling anyone thinks it might help?

Forgot to mention that I already visited the GP regarding the issue and they conducted all the necessary tests results came back perfect I’m in tip top shape so it’s definitely mental

[Punter115]

I ain’t an expert but I would suggest you discuss it with the doctor and go for some counselling...must be worth giving it a try at your age, all the best.   

[Logamimo]

When I was 19 the problem was always keeping it under control, I only had to look at an attractive woman and I was walking around like Jake the Peg with an extra leg. Now I'm in my sixties things are a little more under control but everyting still works fine, just needs more encouragement, I just need a woman who's a snake charmer to get the one eyed serpent rising.  Try taking up Progressive Relaxation, which is a form of Yoga, it will help to calm you down and control the nerves, its also good for premature ejaculation.

[karsaorlong]

There are a lot of variables I find, things like am I nervous?  Anxious?  Stressed?  Tired?  Depressed?  Out of shape?  Low self esteem?  etc etc

Some punts you'll perform like a king, some you'll struggle.  I've never not 'gotten the job done' but there have definitely been times where getting up and staying up has seemed like more effort than it should be, even with some seriously attractive WGs.  Under those circumstances, like has been said, you've just got to try and relax.  Worrying about it makes it worse.

[Gordon Bennett]

This will sound bleeding obvious but DON'T punt unless you are feeling very randy and horny. If you are prone to punting nerves I don't think booking for 3pm in two days time will do anything other than create additional tension and pressure to perform.
I reckon it's better to wait until you're calm, free and horny and then jump on any escort who can see you in next half-an-hour. If you still get stage-fright with this approach I'd be at a loss what to suggest......... maybe accept you're not cut out for punting?

[JayEZ2K]

No way should he be punting at 19 anyway.     

That was my thought as well. I know this isn't what the OP is looking for, but others might comment on it.

IMO, with practice, working out, and fashion, you are young enough to pull young birds for free. Granted you are an adult and have every right to punt, I just don't know if it's a good idea.... maybe you will mess something up by punting too young. Or maybe you will miss out on meeting your dream girl IRL because of lack of motivation. You might be better off getting it for free and saving your money, then if necessary you can punt when you get old. I punt because I'm old, and about out of options.

And yes, it is harder to perform with WGs. Way easier with a girl who likes you and genuinely wants to please you.

[shagmore]

Save yourself some money, go out and find a FAF MILF and fuck her, she will be happy for the attention, you can save for a deposit on a house,  have a tired and bored sexless marriage, then when you turn 50 go back to punting and you won't have an issue
But at 19, I couldn't keep my cock down, I am over 50 now and the same applies, it is so easy to get turned on by looking at a sexy WG.

[GreyDave]

  I d suggest going to swingers club do`s as when I have been to them its always the young lads ,hunglads or BBC`s that get ask if they will play

I would worriy about taking blue pills at 19 calm down lad its only a bunk up I worry myself about being dependant on the bastard things now and to top it off present Oh likes me taking them bugger is it absolutley knackers me out now for atleast 24 plus hours  funny thing when I do a WG I can do one later in day and maybe pop again but after OH session its a no goer for anything  I wonder if she has been studying Mum`s F`net 

Cost wise I was punting yonger 10 quid a pop in Soho its now 20 quid plus tip so not to pricey I think the maids have had abetter increase 1st tip was 50p now its 2 quid