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Offline Wife4rent

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there is a post regards this article - http://www.thisishampshire.net/news/8892207.Mums_made___13k_running_city_brothel - which has concentrated on if they are good mums or not

But what about the rest of the story regards the police actions, they claim

Defending Byrne, Peter Asteris told the court the police were aware of the pair, who had helped them in the past and informed them about an under age Eastern European girl working in the sex trade.

Now surely that is a good thing, however,they do go on to say

Mr Asteris said: “They are the more acceptable face of prostitution because they worked with police. They didn’t necessarily appreciate they were doing something wrong.

But it does not say they had been warned, would it not have been good practice for the police to have informed them they could be breaking the law? Will they be so forthcoming in future to warn the police of anything they know? Would it not put off other people from bringing what they do to the notice of the police by reporting something?

Does anybody agree with prostitution lowers self esteem?

If so does the same go for being a punter?

Sarah x x


Does anybody agree with prostitution lowers self esteem?

If so does the same go for being a punter?

Sarah x x

With regards to being a punter & self esteem, yes punting can lower it but raise it too.

For me at the moment seeing WG's is the only way I can get some sex.  By doing this it has raised my self esteem & confidence & I haven't been feeling bad about myself & the way things are going  :)

On the other hand, if the situation I'm in carried on for too long & the only sex I'm getting is with WG's then I imagine I'd become jaded & with that my self esteem would certainly drop  :(

Offline James999

Does anybody agree with prostitution lowers self esteem?

If so does the same go for being a punter?

It would only lower self esteem for a punter if he was paying to shag the fat / old / munters, shagging a fit / stunning 22 year old is a wonderful tonic for a punter.

There are days when I feel I should stop punting and use my time, energy and money for more noble pursuits.  I was almost born-again once, but I didn't quite make it out. Now I just tell myself my hornyness is just a biological need that requires fulfilling...does wonders for social interactions.  :)
 

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Does anybody agree with prostitution lowers self esteem?

If so does the same go for being a punter?

Sarah x x

Prostitution gives a man self-confidence when talking to a civvy woman. He knows that he doesn't have to put up with crap from her as he has the alternative of phoning up a girl for sex any time he wants. It means a man is not forced into an unsuitable relationship out of desperation or loneliness.

As for the prostitutes, they get a power kick to their self-confidence, isn't it the most wonderful feeling in the world to know that you earned in a couple of hours what other women would take a week to earn? - that you can walk down the high street with £500 or £1,000 in your handbag and walk into any shop and buy absolutely anything you want?

Offline Strawberry

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Prostitution gives a man self-confidence when talking to a civvy woman. He knows that he doesn't have to put up with crap from her as he has the alternative of phoning up a girl for sex any time he wants. It means a man is not forced into an unsuitable relationship out of desperation or loneliness.

As for the prostitutes, they get a power kick to their self-confidence, isn't it the most wonderful feeling in the world to know that you earned in a couple of hours what other women would take a week to earn? - that you can walk down the high street with £500 or £1,000 in your handbag and walk into any shop and buy absolutely anything you want?

Yes it does and for a woman who has plenty of nice, polite clients it also puts similar light on 'civvy' males. Makes me far more choosy and less likely to put up with cr@p too.
« Last Edit: March 06, 2011, 09:05:25 PM by Strawberry »

Offline Fannytastico

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I cammed initially and it enormously boosted my self-confidence.  I've never liked my body, but these guys couldn't get enough. Bless 'em, every one.

Offline Wife4rent

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It would only lower self esteem for a punter if he was paying to shag the fat / old / munters, shagging a fit / stunning 22 year old is a wonderful tonic for a punter.

Not quite sure you have got that right James, surely if he is paying, he has the choice so chooses the fat / old munters and probably enjoys it. Maybe you meant to say

It would only lower self esteem for a punter if he could only pull fat / old / munters, paying to shag a fit / stunning 22 year old is a wonderful tonic for a punter....

Offline Lady Poppy

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Not quite sure you have got that right James, surely if he is paying, he has the choice so chooses the fat / old munters and probably enjoys it. Maybe you meant to say

It would only lower self esteem for a punter if he could only pull fat / old / munters, paying to shag a fit / stunning 22 year old is a wonderful tonic for a punter....

Or did he mean shagging stunning 22 year olds for money knowing that they would not ordinarily touch them with a barge pole can lower self confidence, equally when shagging an old munter and realising they wouldn't normally touch them with a barge pole is very bad for self confidence.  Perhaps that is why he avoids them?

Offline Geetaw1

I don't find it has any effect on my self-esteem to punt, positive or negative. It's just a transaction when I want near-instant sex.

Offline Lady Poppy

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I don't find it has any effect on my self-esteem to punt, positive or negative. It's just a transaction when I want near-instant sex.

To be honest Geetaw that is the healthiest way to approach what you are doing and far more sustainable. 

I suppose from my point of view it may help sustain my confidence, as continually having compliments and being told that you are good at something, well eventually you are going to believe it, but of course it is imporant to keep a reality check and understand that it is a forced situation and not the norm, and so keeping a level head. 

Most of the people that I see I believe are in a similar place to you and the majority of the rest feel better for having seen me and realised that they can still get a positive response.  Kind of affirmation that the old boy still works and they can still press a few buttons to get a positive reaction and I for one am happy to be able to do that, because making people happy, makes me happy.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Or did he mean shagging stunning 22 year olds for money knowing that they would not ordinarily touch them with a barge pole can lower self confidence.

Old guys over 50 have to be realistic, they are not gouing to pull a 22 year old stunner, that is why I use the services of WG's ------------ if I wanted an overweight old minger I hope I could still get that for free. ;)

Offline Lady Poppy

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Old guys over 50 have to be realistic, they are not gouing to pull a 22 year old stunner, that is why I use the services of WG's ------------ if I wanted an overweight old minger I hope I could still get that for free. ;)

This is where I feel some of you do need a reality check.  I mean when you describe an overweight old minger, what you are actually thinking about is someone like me, 38, size 14 and average to good looking.  I am sorry Jimmy but I never have one night stands and I have very high standards and I am not alone in this.  I mean the confidence to be an Escort is within, and its deep rooted and strong.  I can have what I want and it's not necessarily an older man.
So what you really mean is that you or men of your type can get the poor brow beaten women who have had the self esteem beaten out of them by another man before you, who has lost her will to feel good about herself and will accept the touch of another man, just to try and feel wanted, when in fact all she gets is used.
Is that a nice place to be?  Is that really what you want?  Why belittle all women that are not your 'thing' just because they are not your fantasy?  Why not accept that for some people they are not just a poor substitute but their choice because they come with skill, confidence, inner sex appeal that oozes on the outside and they have a life of experience to share with them?

I would never knock the younger woman, I was once one of them, but I can't accept that being older or not a text book 10 some how means you are less of a person or less of a catch? conquest? desirable person.


Offline kiwi69

Prostitution gives a man self-confidence when talking to a civvy woman. He knows that he doesn't have to put up with crap from her as he has the alternative of phoning up a girl for sex any time he wants. It means a man is not forced into an unsuitable relationship out of desperation or loneliness.

You've nailed it !   ;)

Plus there's nothing nicer that a svelte size 8 Oriental girl ( who may even be in her 40's , but looks 20'ish !  :P ) to " regenerate " the wonderful feeling of being alive !   :dance:

Offline Lady Poppy

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You've nailed it !   ;)

Plus there's nothing nicer that a svelte size 8 Oriental girl ( who may even be in her 40's , but looks 20'ish !  :P ) to " regenerate " the wonderful feeling of being alive !   :dance:

Thank you for being able to state your preference with out slating others.  How refreshing!

Offline kiwi69

Thank you for being able to state your preference with out slating others.  How refreshing!

Honesty is the best policy .  :P

Offline Lady Poppy

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Honesty is the best policy .  :P

This is kind of my point.  Of course we all have our 'favourites' and 'types' and 'wishlists' but just because someone does not conform to your individual tastes, why slate all the other 'types' and be rude about them?  There is absolutely no need and no truth in the fact that they could pull someone just because they are not to there taste.  I don't fancy Brad Pitt, but I doubt he is going to be knocking on my door with pleading eyes of desperation.  I do however, understand many other people do fancy him and appreciate that.

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He knows that he doesn't have to put up with crap from her as he has the alternative of phoning up a girl for sex any time he wants. It means a man is not forced into an unsuitable relationship out of desperation or loneliness.

Unless he is trying to escape one....

I don't find it has any effect on my self-esteem to punt, positive or negative. It's just a transaction when I want near-instant sex.

Now that's my type of punter...

I personally do not cater for the longer staying punter and never have done,I have little interest in getting to know them or get involved in their life outside my bedroom. I know some girls enjoy that side of it, some even preferring that to the sex as an easy option and happy to take the guys money.

If your hungry you grab a take away, if drunk, grab a kebab. Unless the wife has dinner on the table for you, why should she mind?

Offline Fannytastico

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....some even preferring that to the sex as an easy option and happy to take the guys money.
Why is it an easy option? Some guys what sex solidly for hours at a time - who am I to refuse!  I love it.
When someone wants to spend the evening with a girl having his wicked way, rather than being on his own - good on him.

15 mins sex sessions aren't for me, cos I don't find them in any way satisfying.  You obviously do, so that's great. Each to their own.

Offline Wife4rent

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Why is it an easy option? Some guys what sex solidly for hours at a time - who am I to refuse!  I love it.
When someone wants to spend the evening with a girl having his wicked way, rather than being on his own - good on him.

15 mins sex sessions aren't for me, cos I don't find them in any way satisfying.  You obviously do, so that's great. Each to their own.

The post was referring to the type of guy that wanted to sit and chat rather than sex, there are not many guys who are able to go on for hours having sex rather than talking. Reading through the forums, this has been mentioned once or twice that an hour is suddenly up before they get the chance to get much done as 30 minutes or more was sat chatting.

No problem to anyone on their own or not wanting to spend an evening with a girl, just saying that that is not what I enjoy, others do and I can see why a single girl that worked would enjoy to spend longer with guys being taken out to dinner etc.

Not sure I said I enjoy or do 15 min sessions, so I guess my whole post is wrong if long sessions are 30 minutes to an hour as that is what I generally have. I just not interested in 2+hr appointments and only do 2 hr bookings with somebody I have seen a few times and feel happy with in their company

Sarah x x

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Not sure I said I enjoy or do 15 min sessions......
My misunderstanding.  I thought you'd said in another post you book guys in every 15 mins, and luckily they don't all turn up.  I thought that meant you could have a break/refresh, rather you could give someone a longer booking. My assumption therefore was your default offering was 15 mins.

Offline Fannytastico

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I book half hour appointments at every 15 minute interval, 4 an hour. Good job they don't all turn up.
It was that post that confused me!

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So the reference is to half hour appointments...

I do actually do 15 minute sessions but it is not the norm.

My posts were mostly "tongue in cheek" (not cheeks) remarks re double booking which is frowned upon.

Sarah  x x

Offline kiwi69

This is kind of my point.  Of course we all have our 'favourites' and 'types' and 'wishlists' but just because someone does not conform to your individual tastes, why slate all the other 'types' and be rude about them?  There is absolutely no need and no truth in the fact that they could pull someone just because they are not to there taste.  I don't fancy Brad Pitt, but I doubt he is going to be knocking on my door with pleading eyes of desperation.  I do however, understand many other people do fancy him and appreciate that.

   WTF ? ? ? ? ?   :rolleyes:

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