Fabswingers: decent or BS?

[Chorley]

Afternoon all

I've decided to join Fabswingers, and while I'm realistic as to my chances, e.g., slim to none if my other online experiences are anything to go by  . I'd like to ask members how they've got on? Is it really full of fake profiles,  blokes pretending to be womrn, WG's, deluded fatties and general crazies and  do you have to be hung like a horse to get any action? 

Many thanks 

[hungrypunt]

Afternoon all

I've decided to join Fabswingers, and while I'm realistic as to my chances, e.g., slim to none if my other online experiences are anything to go by  . I'd like to ask members how they've got on? Is it really full of fake profiles,  blokes pretending to be womrn, WG's, deluded fatties and general crazies and  do you have to be hung like a horse to get any action? 

Many thanks 

I joined yonks ago, and got littl eto zero interest. Fat old birds are the crumbs left on the table after all the decent stuff is snapped up.  I had a little success when a girl I hooked up with on SA was already a member on Fab and we did 2 meets with different groups at houses. All fuckin weirdos as far as I and her was concerned. She got plenty offers as she was 29 big tits dirty attitude, but most guys and gals we came across (pun intended) were 50-60 + easy
too much hard work for little pickings

[datwabbit]

BS for me. Just not attractive enough and I cannot accommodate which puts women off.

[Chorley]

Well I've joined and hit a verified profile.

First thing I noticed was how utterly shite the site design us. Looks like one of those GeoCities sites from the late 90's /  early 00's   
Second was how deluded some women were. Big fat munters with a ridiculous list of demands and restrictions. Thirdly, had a peek into the forums and fuck me! It gives this place a run for its money in terms of brutal posters.

Anyway, I've fired off a few messages. Onwards and upwards chaps. 

[Bikerboy]

Afternoon all

I've decided to join Fabswingers, and while I'm realistic as to my chances, e.g., slim to none if my other online experiences are anything to go by  . I'd like to ask members how they've got on? Is it really full of fake profiles,  blokes pretending to be womrn, WG's, deluded fatties and general crazies and  do you have to be hung like a horse to get any action? 

Many thanks 

I’ve found it crap.
Only meet I got flaked.

[Desimonic]

Complete waste of time for me. Had  few contacts but god are they ugly size 16+. Average age about 50+ i say and some of the conditions they demand 

[hungrypunt]

One woman I did have an encounter with via there had me in uproar telling me no man has come close to getting her to "O" as she liked her clit bashed real proper, they always seemed never to go hard enough. Well i did and choked her at the same time, she squirted all over the James street hotel floor stood against the wall. Shame she didnt say my shagging skills were as good 

Me arm ached the day after like Id been to the gym.

[hullad]

Been a lurker for a while as many local working girls are also members of FS and I presume they use it to.get business. I get some decent info and pictures on potential punts, never contacted anyone or even liked a picture.

[Chorley]

One woman I did have an encounter with via there had me in uproar telling me no man has come close to getting her to "O" as she liked her clit bashed real proper, they always seemed never to go hard enough. Well i did and choked her at the same time, she squirted all over the James street hotel floor stood against the wall. Shame she didnt say my shagging skills were as good 

Me arm ached the day after like Id been to the gym.

Priceless 

[Dipper]

Waste of time and effort, and that’s after a sustained period of spade work.

Dick heads, fakes , flakes galore.

[Donbe]

I've done OK on there. Smashed 5 so far, not 10/10s by any means but good fucks.

[thekingreturns]

Been on and off FAB for a few years... Currently on.

Had a few meets but not since the early days..... One thing I will advise is block all single guys (unless its your thing) as the amount of messages you will get saying "can I suck you off" will shock you .



Kingy

[Chorley]

Thanks for all the replies gents.  Could I ask if any if you use face pics or not?  Might seem s silly vqeustion, but very few profiles seem to have these, but the consensus on the the FS forum was that this was one of the keys to success.  Then there's the whole issue if verification. 

[Ali Katt]

Been a lurker for a while as many local working girls are also members of FS and I presume they use it to.get business. I get some decent info and pictures on potential punts, never contacted anyone or even liked a picture.

Joined for the same reason. Only spotted two: One I think is called Kezia, she has big tits, but only sees black guys and Miss Ping who might be a post-op TS.

Agree with the above posts, unattractive women, don't get me wrong I like big girls, but they need to be attractive these wouldn't even get a fuck off Stevie Wonder. And as mentioned ridiculous demands: need to be a muscle man, need to earn so much a year, need a 12" cock - worse than Match.com.

[Chorley]

Joined for the same reason. Only spotted two: One I think is called Kezia, she has big tits, but only sees black guys and Miss Ping who might be a post-op TS.

Agree with the above posts, unattractive women, don't get me wrong I like big girls, but they need to be attractive these wouldn't even get a fuck off Stevie Wonder. And as mentioned ridiculous demands: need to be a muscle man, need to earn so much a year, need a 12" cock - worse than Match.com.

In the two days I've been a member this has been the common theme.  There was one man hating ebony fatty who, to be fair had a cracking pair of tits, but also had a list of demands like War and sodding Peace.! . Still, onwards and upwards. 

[Ali Katt]

In the two days I've been a member this has been the common theme.  There was one man hating ebony fatty who, to be fair had a cracking pair of tits, but also had a list of demands like War and sodding Peace.! . Still, onwards and upwards. 

What is easy to forget is they are pretty much the prize, if Tinder is stacked 2 to 1 in favour of women, it wouldn't surprise me if FS was 5 to 1.

I haven't uploaded a picture or been verified. I'm not going to use the site, it was just out of curiosity I joined. Easier to have a punt.

[sxround]

Was on and off for a couple of years, but gave up eventually.
Absolute bullshit this site is, unless you are a couple....and even then I guess it is still crap.

0.01% hit rate for single blokes is probably optimistic. Full of fake profiles (Blokes pretending to be women) or fat ugly pigs who make such ridiculous claims and lay down criteria for potential suitors that make them sound like a Hollywood sex symbol,  when in reality they are probably puss-ridden slags in a council flat looking for someone to buy them a free lunch and/or to potentially blackmail.
Avoid at all costs and just have a punt. Far easier and after all the leg work and effort required on FAB to get anywhere, probably no more expensive.

[datwabbit]

So does anyone have any tips?
I've got my face up but get nowhere. I've tinkered with my profile text and tried different first messages.

I'm just assuming it's my looks and lack of various styles of pictures. I don't accomodate too.

[dude86]

As I said elsewhere, I found fabswingers a wholly depressing experience. The online equivalent of standing in the corner at a group meet feeling unwanted by anyone. You need a big dick and a washboard stomach to get anywhere on that site. Not good for the old self esteem. Either that or discretely imply you are happy to set up a SD situation. Otherwise, fuck all.

[Ali Katt]

As I said elsewhere, I found fabswingers a wholly depressing experience. The online equivalent of standing in the corner at a group meet feeling unwanted by anyone. You need a big dick and a washboard stomach to get anywhere on that site. Not good for the old self esteem. Either that or discretely imply you are happy to set up a SD situation. Otherwise, fuck all.

I see a lot of low self-esteem from the women on there, not all of them, but with a list of demands like something out of the gestapo it says to me they are looking for some form of validation. It's one thing to be fussy and selective, it's another to be unrealistic.

[claretheart]

Is swinging still a thing? I registered with swingingheaven back in the late 90s and never got a tickle. It did help point me at some clubs in London which I went to and found them to be more of a naturist spa as no real action happened...

[Peterbry]

Was on fab a while back and found it an absolute waste of time. Couples generally look for other couples, or single men who are male model material.

A lot of the single women and couple profiles will also only meet verified members (i.e., have been verified by other fab members as being genuine) but that just creates a chicken and egg scenario. If you're new on fab you're struggling to meet people to prove you're genuine and can get verified, but until you're verified the vast majority won't meet you anyway.

A lot of profiles seeking single men were also only looking for BBC single men.

A lof of the single lady profiles seemed to only be interested in getting likes on their photo galleries.

In 6 months of endlessly sending off messages I got one women interested in meeting. It was all arranged to meet for a drink first and then go from there, but about an hour before meeting she flaked.

Basically, if you're a single white guy new to fab the pool of women/couples who may be even in the slightest bit interested in meeting you is extremely small. It is a needle in a hay stack.

[vw]

It is a needle in a hay stack.

Not too dissimilar to finding your reviews.   

[Dipper]

Not too dissimilar to finding your reviews.   

 

[Formicahunt]

Anyone decent on there will be picky so if you're attractive enough to pull them you could pull civvies in a bar or club. I was on there years ago, only meet I had was at the Attic in Derby and she was mahoosive.

[lister2506]

I have been on and off there for a few years and have had several meets, you just have to persevere.
And Im no oil painting, Im 61 and a few stone overweight.
I have a liking for larger mature women so the fact that a lot of the women on there are not young stunners doesnt bother me at all, although one woman I met was absolutely stunning, mid 30s and a gym toned body to die for,sadly it was a one off but Im still seeing one woman regularly for the past 3 years or so. And yes just like anywhere you will meet you fair share of nutcases, always meet for coffee first - a lesson I learned the hard way

[david25]

From my experience two years ago with a "premium" membership (big pics/who has looked at you etc) you will have very little or no success as a single male.

On the other hand, as a couple or single female, you would probably would be overwhelmed by messages.

[Scoobydoobydoo]

Swinging is something couples do. Single people don't swing despite the Internet use of the word.
That said there's a fair amount of couples look for threesomes, mostly with women but also with men.
So single guys will have some luck if they want threesomes. There's much more chance if you're bi.

As already stated by others, there's little chance of meeting single women although it can happen.
Most of them are mingers though. There arn't many good looking women looking for indiscriminate free sex like men do.
Even the dogging scene is much over hyped and misunderstood. It exists but it's small time, mainly exhibitionists
or mingers. Documentaries about dogging and the swinging scene tend to be about as inaccurate as those on prostitution.

Swinging definitely exists but it is in the main not Internet driven and tends to be exclusive groups of friends which one must
be invited into.

The so called swinging clubs charging single men £40-£60 entry are a rip off with very little chance of success. I saw a fair few of these places come and go fairly quickly presumably because they just didn't get the business.

I explored it all a few years back and was surprised at what I found. Gay sex clubs and saunas run daily because these places are making money from that market. Tranny nights in those same venues maybe once a month ie less market. Hetero/swingers nights again maybe once a month. Gay cruising areas everywhere, every night all over the country, but very few women or couples doing the 'dogging'.

Women just don't hang around wanting to be shagged by strangers for free in the way men do, despite what Internet 'swinger' sites claim when they take your money for 'Premium membership'.

 I was surprised by how many men registered on these sites as straight would make contact looking for man to man meets. I also knew two couples which ended abruptly when the men wanted to meet me without their wife's knowledge. Lastly two of the single women I did meet on Fabswingers were 'not quite right'. Nice enough people but they had something wrong with them. One was a cracking looking 50 year old as well. I was gutted when she started acting odd and I had to end it. The other was a chubby with a pretty face who would be organising her next gang bang by text while I was pumping away at her.

Yeah and you need to be able to accommodate or it just aint going to happen. That was my experience.

[donnybob]

I have been a member of fabswingers for about 8 years

I am over 60 so drop out of a lot of searches

But i think I do okay, looking purely at my verifications I have received 37, 17 single women and 20 couples, my latest was last week which was purely a social

I am on here to look for massage with HE, Fab is full sex with luck lol

I have a lot of face and body photos on my profile over 50 and if I write to anyone it is tailored to their wants or desires

But as others have said it's hard work, I must get about 1 reply for every 20 to 30 messages I send and bear in mind there a lot I can't message

What amuses me are the couples who during the day it's the husband wanting to know EXACTLY what I am going to do to his wife, yet you soon realise the wife knows nothing about the profile at all

I have had quite a few  meets arranged when suddenly they are no longer on the site ( unlos )

But would I ever leave? well I suspect as I get older and older that decision will be taken out of my hands

[Chorley]

Thanks for all the input fellas. Much appreciated. 
I have taken onboard all of your advice and tinkered with my profile, so let's see how it goes.

[bobby1973]

ive been on there for about a year
not one reply
even seen some of the ladies on aw too
dont think its worth the time if your single

[TPreston]

As a single man its largely a waste of time. 5-1 men to women is generous. Id go as far as to say 50-1 isn't an exaggeration. If you click on 'men online' section it'll never be less than 300+, click women online at 2am and its around 150 or so.

A face photo on your profile will help (I share my privately via message but only cos i don't want people local knowing im on there )but only moderately. Verifications from other users will give you a much better chance IMO.

Sending detailed messages to a profile will help, but very time consuming and you'll still get limited responses as women/couples can be so choosy.

I've had two verifications on there and both where from women I actually met off SA - one was a girl who opened a FAB account when i mentioned it via text (thought od fucked up and she'd by swayed by the other attention but luckily she only had her head turned after we met, shes quite active on fab now!) and the other webcam verified me when we had a small chat. 

With these verifications I prob get a response to one in twenty five messages sent rather than one in 50 before. But even then its got all the same pitfalls of any type of online dating, with chats going cold/flaking/catfish.

I opened an unverified female profile to see how much attention I'd get. Next to no detail written. zero photos. no verification. Over 200 messages in about an hour. I logged in for the first time in months as i started writing this post, over 30 messages in the 10 mins the account was showing online - so shows what you're up against.

You'd be just as well using other online dating sites and pebble dashing any profile that interests you with a copy and paste message (tricks to make it not seem copy and pasted) and try and get a shag from there.

[magnetico]

I opened an unverified female profile to see how much attention I'd get. Next to no detail written. zero photos. no verification. Over 200 messages in about an hour.

So what kind of messages would an account with no pic get?

[datwabbit]

So what kind of messages would an account with no pic get?

Where's your pic?

[TPreston]

So what kind of messages would an account with no pic get?

Hi how are you *50
Telling me they are/what they'd do to me
Cock photos

Was just there to see the volume rather than any catfishing. Nosied a few of the messages but didn't bother looking after seeing the swarm

[magnetico]

Cock photos

Well what else to expect... 

[nervous1]

It's been a depressing and miserable experience for me.  I'm on my second paid membership since I tend to punt or trawl sites like that when I'm hungover.  Last time I posted a face pic and got no views apart from gay guys offering me a blowjob.  In fairness, I think Fab gets the same type of arsehole trolls that pop up on this site taking the piss out of women and couples so you can understand why single guys are mostly frowned upon on there.  Like any other dating site it takes a lot of work and perseverance which most of us on here couldn't be bothered with.  It makes you appreciate escorts that little bit more.

Last time I was on there was checking out the cams.  Women drinking wine, listening to shitey music and shrugging their shoulders at all compliments/proposals they were being texted in the chat.  The cams and the forums are kind of hard to stomach, tbh.

As I've said before, I had some success at the clubs and found most of them friendly and let their Fab guard down.  They are certainly not as picky when they get into a club situation and let their nympho side free.  Probably one of the best shags I've ever had was at one of these clubs yet she wouldn't have looked at me twice on Fab.  My advice would be to try those for anyone who is curious.  Be warned though, you will be getting watched by quite a few guys at the same time.

[magnetico]

As I've said before, I had some success at the clubs and found most of them friendly and let their Fab guard down. 

Clubs like Rios in London?

[nervous1]

Clubs like Rios in London?

No idea mate, I was in Scottish establishments.  Worth doing at least once though wherever you are.  Entrance fee usually works out the same or a bit less than a half hour punt so you can decide if it's worth the gamble.  If I can get laid in a swingers club then there's hope for you all.

[Dexta]

I've been on and off FAB for 7 yrs and have done ok out of it.
Well I say ok........... thats if you dont mind over 50s that are carrying a bit of weight
Met some bunny boilers too so married guys beware ! 

[Citybased]

I have been fabbing on and off a few times over the last ten years.....as an older ugly bloke it is for sure hard work but I have had around 20 meets during this time, mainly women but also the odd couple....some good, some less so....I am hopefully meeting a cuckold couple next week and she looks in good shape so my hopes are high.

Once I started chatting at 10am whilst at work and was balls deep in my extended lunch hour 2 hours later with a horny married milf, that was best experience...I have also walked away after social meet with one or two larger less attractive ladies..so all in a bit of a lottery with loads of frustrations but the odd thumbs up.

I very rarely see anyone more than once to stop any bunny boilers and always stay under the radar with real name, location of meets and payg sim. Except with one lady who just enjoyed giving oral to facial completion whilst staying dressed, she was so good I visited her three times.

[Marmalade]

There used to be s good, genuine swinging site until it was taken over by commercial interests; however this is a punting forum. Swinging IMO belongs in off-topic at best.

[Brazilian Martian]

Not too dissimilar to finding your reviews.   

 

[JamesKW]

Clubs like Rios in London?

Rios is like anywhere else,the sought of guys who are successful are those that are successful anyway.There is a lot of competition there for very slim pickings.

[Ali Katt]

Was on fab a while back and found it an absolute waste of time. Couples generally look for other couples, or single men who are male model material.

A lot of the single women and couple profiles will also only meet verified members (i.e., have been verified by other fab members as being genuine) but that just creates a chicken and egg scenario. If you're new on fab you're struggling to meet people to prove you're genuine and can get verified, but until you're verified the vast majority won't meet you anyway.

A lot of profiles seeking single men were also only looking for BBC single men.

A lof of the single lady profiles seemed to only be interested in getting likes on their photo galleries.

In 6 months of endlessly sending off messages I got one women interested in meeting. It was all arranged to meet for a drink first and then go from there, but about an hour before meeting she flaked.

Basically, if you're a single white guy new to fab the pool of women/couples who may be even in the slightest bit interested in meeting you is extremely small. It is a needle in a hay stack.

My exact experiences.

[hungry_mak]

was on there too, had a few meets, mostly arranged GBs though and like its been said, larger women who you wouldnt look twice at on the street. hey ho, any holes a goal?

[Motorhead916]

Based in Belfast, been on it for few years. around 3 years ago it was supper fun went to FREE parties, one on one's few socal meets was really good.... But then they made it easier to make fake profiles and to join without having to go through a full verification process. Now dick heads can join and its hard to get a good genuine meet. If you join and get verified it can help with meeting people that are real.

[Karlosthejackal]

Some of the state of some of the horrid vile women demanding men with 6 packs and 9 inches etc is laughable.

Similarly however ive seen young lasses 18 and 19 on the prowl for 60 yearold cock which is odd.

Propositioned a few on there over the years with mixed success.

[Ali Katt]

Some of the state of some of the horrid vile women demanding men with 6 packs and 9 inches etc is laughable.

Similarly however ive seen young lasses 18 and 19 on the prowl for 60 yearold cock which is odd.

Propositioned a few on there over the years with mixed success.

Don't get me wrong I like the larger lady, but some of them I wouldn't even touch for free if I drunk a bottle of Bushmills.

[shagmore]

As with all of these type of sites, they are in it to jut make money, the profiles are usually all bogus, some you sigh up to say your profile won't be visible until you complete your profile. But if you leave it a month, then check you inbox and miraculously have 101 likes and met request from all manor of lasses on the site - so a load of bull shit.