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Author Topic: Being good friends with a WG.  (Read 3713 times)

By which I mean something different from being emotionally attached to a WG, but which will probably be of little interest to those of you who are further away from the fluffy end of the spectrum than I'm ever likely to be.

As will be obvious from my previous posts, I'm in my 60s and only see English MILFs, usually for a minimum of an hour.  I'm just doing this year's Christmas cards and I'll be sending some to some [nowhere near all - not even I am THAT fluffy!], Regulars, past and present, whom I've come to think of as friends over the years I've been seeing them, but with whom I wouldn't want any closer relationship.  Nor would they with me, I'm sure!

I wondered if: 1] I'm the only one who does this; and 2] assuming I'm not, how the WGs who receive such cards feel about the practice?

Offline finn5555

They would only be happy with a card if it contained cash  :hi:

Otherwise it's in the bin, save your money

Online CoolTiger

Christmas and HNY messages sent by text only.

Offline PuntingPete

Hopefully you will know them by their real names, I can't see them wanting to put a Christmas Card on their mantlepiece saying "Merry Christmas hotanalslut69" (or whoever)

Offline rpg

I've done 1 Merry Xmas text and will probably do 1 this year. Never done presents (at any time) or cards. As has already been said they'll hit the bin sharpish when they see they don't contain cash.

Offline Jeepster

I had a regular with whom we exchanged birthday and Xmas cards/presents. Just little tokens, but nice nonetheless. When I moved away earlier this year she got me a little leaving present, something she knew I'd use a lot as a reminder. Two viewpoints there: Fluffy - Aw! That was sweet. Cynical - It's to remind you to go back and visit her on occasion. Somewhere inbetween the truth lies!!

Hopefully you will know them by their real names, I can't see them wanting to put a Christmas Card on their mantlepiece saying "Merry Christmas hotanalslut69" (or whoever)

Oh yes, Pete.  As I said in the OP, I'll only be sending cards to some of my Regulars.  To be precise, 4 in total; 2 of whom are retired.  They're the ones whose proper names and home addresses [not their working addresses] I know and, in all but one case, have visited; and who know my actual [non-punting] name.

Hopefully you will know them by their real names, I can't see them wanting to put a Christmas Card on their mantlepiece saying "Merry Christmas hotanalslut69" (or whoever)

 :lol: :lol: :lol:

Offline Jimmyredcab

They would only be happy with a card if it contained cash  :hi:

Otherwise it's in the bin, save your money

Well she can hardly put it on display when it will have her false name on it.   :hi:   

Offline finn5555

Well she can hardly put it on display when it will have her false name on it.   :hi:

That depends if it goes on her pimps mantelpiece or not  :hi:

Oh fuck! Does this mean I am going to have to meet the postman at the gate everyday to filter out cards addressed to Silver Birch. I was concocting a story in my head to explain cards arriving addressed to Silver Birch but hadn't thought about them being signed "all my love, AnalLovingSlut xxx". That might be more difficult to explain convincingly  :scare:

Offline SirPhilipXX

By which I mean something different from being emotionally attached to a WG, but which will probably be of little interest to those of you who are further away from the fluffy end of the spectrum than I'm ever likely to be.

As will be obvious from my previous posts, I'm in my 60s and only see English MILFs, usually for a minimum of an hour.  I'm just doing this year's Christmas cards and I'll be sending some to some [nowhere near all - not even I am THAT fluffy!], Regulars, past and present, whom I've come to think of as friends over the years I've been seeing them, but with whom I wouldn't want any closer relationship.  Nor would they with me, I'm sure!

I wondered if: 1] I'm the only one who does this; and 2] assuming I'm not, how the WGs who receive such cards feel about the practice?
No, you are not the only one, I'm guilty of fluffiness too. In my case a former WG (now retired) whom I have known for five years and who has become a close and trusted friend - although I am more than twice her age. I emphasise, she is simply a friend: we do not have a sexual relationship, and I think that may be the reason we have been able to become so close.
My young friend often pops in for coffee and a chat, and it is always a delight to see her pretty face.  She seemed genuinely pleased to receive her Christmas card, even though there was no money in it! But I shall be getting her a Christmas present, and she always gets one for me :angelgirl:

Offline zatoichi

Christmas and HNY messages sent by text only.
Same here,though i just consider cards in general a waste of money

galinsoga

Rochdull / Sir Philip

 I salute your approach and behaviour as Gentlemen.  There is nothing at all 'wrong' with treating certain ladies with kindness and indeed a degree of affection.  Most men who indulge in our pass time do, I expect, have a certain degree of emptiness in their lives and whether for cash or other favours the ladies meet some of our needs. I think it is inevitable that guys in that situation will develop some degree of friendship with those who best satisfy them. I know that I will give a present or three this Christmas. One will be a substantial gift eg a punts worth in value terms. Cards are more problematic as the ladies I see happen to be followers of Buddha and the messages of Christmas card may not be appropriate.

Galli



Offline Strawberry

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I have a subscription to an electronic card system which comes in handy at this time of year for those clients I know I can (and they like me to) email.

There is the odd client I do and have bought a small token for, and am careful it's someone who can take whatever it is I buy home. I also have a selection of little chocolates, in sealed packets which I offer to clients at the end of their booking. So far they've been declined but I know one or two guys who'll be saying yes!

If I receive presents that's nice, but not expected and I do keep cards from clients.

I like seeing clients at Christmas, everyone is nice and smiley and cheery.  Brings a smile to my face.

Offline akauya

By which I mean something different from being emotionally attached to a WG, but which will probably be of little interest to those of you who are further away from the fluffy end of the spectrum than I'm ever likely to be.

As will be obvious from my previous posts, I'm in my 60s and only see English MILFs, usually for a minimum of an hour.  I'm just doing this year's Christmas cards and I'll be sending some to some [nowhere near all - not even I am THAT fluffy!], Regulars, past and present, whom I've come to think of as friends over the years I've been seeing them, but with whom I wouldn't want any closer relationship.  Nor would they with me, I'm sure!

I wondered if: 1] I'm the only one who does this; and 2] assuming I'm not, how the WGs who receive such cards feel about the practice?

Nice of you RL but being a cold hearted bastard I have no regulars so I will be saving my money for the time being. But I do understand the sentiment; lucky ladies they have you as a regular.

Luckily the only Christmas card I will be sending is for my fuck buddy... which of course comes (or goes) with strings attached - I'll be expecting a shag :)

 :hi:

Rochdull / Sir Philip

 I salute your approach and behaviour as Gentlemen.  There is nothing at all 'wrong' with treating certain ladies with kindness and indeed a degree of affection.  Most older? men who indulge in our pass time do, I expect, have a certain degree of emptiness in their lives and whether for cash or other favours the ladies meet some of our needs. I think it is inevitable that guys in that situation will develop some degree of friendship with those who best satisfy them. I know that I will give a present or three this Christmas. One will be a substantial gift eg a punts worth in value terms. Cards are more problematic as the ladies I see happen to be followers of Buddha and the messages of Christmas card may not be appropriate.

Galli

I've offered the amendment above, Galli, because I suspect that from his comments above, Sir Philip must be in the same age bracket as you & me.

I used to have the same dilemma as you with a couple of [non-punting] friends of the Sikh faith until the husband said simply, 'What's wrong with a "Seasons Greetings" card for us?'  That's what we now exchange.

Offline Cactus

Around this time of year, I often take along a little Body Shop gift cube to punts. I have an account with Quidco, where I regularly get Body Shop stuff half price, plus some cash back too, meaning that I get them for effectively £3. The girls seem to like them and have responded in kind by providing a particularly vigorous session or by extending the meeting by a little, which for three notes isn't a bad investment in my view.

Tis the season and all that  :hi:

Online Trenlover

In my situation since I told my regular that I had intimate feelings for her its now impossible to be "friendly" with her.

Texts outside of meetings ,or gifts ,  are interpreted as me pursing her in a romantic fashion and not in a friendly fashion.

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I love getting xmas cards.  I have some at work that are of a vintage style setting with a lady and parasol so I leave them up all year round as they are not really Christmassy but look beautiful.

I guess it can be hard giving one to your regular but even if you don't know her real name she can put it up at work.

To me it is a pleasant thing to receive as it means the client has taken time to think of you

In my situation since I told my regular that I had intimate feelings for her its now impossible to be "friendly" with her.

Texts outside of meetings ,or gifts ,  are interpreted as me pursing her in a romantic fashion and not in a friendly fashion.

I don't have a regular, but can imagine this could happen. Might be worth playing reverse psychology and ignore her, you never know she may show more interest. The rest is up to you.

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I love getting xmas cards.  I have some at work that are of a vintage style setting with a lady and parasol so I leave them up all year round as they are not really Christmassy but look beautiful.

I guess it can be hard giving one to your regular but even if you don't know her real name she can put it up at work.

To me it is a pleasant thing to receive as it means the client has taken time to think of you

I have a beautiful card given by a regular which I've kept up all year.

dont send xmas cards, but always a thank you text

Offline G-Raw

I would probably get attached very easily, like a regular I've been seeing. At the end of the day, it's probably just the sex smoking it up really but still. If the WG was retired then maybe in a non-sexual friendship, otherwise I don't see many other outcomes except a box of tissues for a full grown bloke.  :wacko:

I would probably get attached very easily, like a regular I've been seeing. At the end of the day, it's probably just the sex smoking it up really but still. If the WG was retired then maybe in a non-sexual friendship, otherwise I don't see many other outcomes except a box of tissues for a full grown bloke.  :wacko:

On a lighter side, there's no real harm being "friends" with WGs. Can imagine it adds an extra dimension to the punt later on. I suppose it's like having your own personal harem at the ready just by picking up the phone.  :cool:


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